How do you describe the beauty of FSUW?

[Kuna]

In another thread El Rock said something that make me think...  Here's his quote:

He can't over start this enough ,   it's mind blowing .
It's paradise  !
Here's how I describe it to my friends .

It's like walking onto a   set where they are filming a rock &  roll video  and all the women are dressed  in hi heals , tight jeans  and tops that  are made for a models , which they are .

It got me thinking... How do you describe the beauty you found in FSU to your friends?

(Mine is coming next)

[Kuna]

I ask my friends to imagine taking the most beautiful girl from "this bar/restaurant/cafe/gym" and put her in a room with 100 other girls equally as beautiful or more beautiful than her... Then I ask them to imagine the difference this would make to the Australian girls' personality.

Just like in Australia beautiful women still know they are beautiful.  They also know they can pick and choose their men BUT unlike in Australia, when you break down that initial barrier the women I met wanted to know about me, my country, my friends and my family.  Australian girls often ask about my job, my income, my past relationships and my assets.

To me Ukrainian girls just had "more" than the beautiful girls at home.  A more refined sense of style, a more logical character, a more seductive disposition and a greater appreciation of life. 

When I talk to my friends they realise why I have fallen madly in love with My Girl!

(Of course not all Ukrainian girls are as wonderful as My Girl - or other members wives - but there is a distinct difference that any bloke can see)

[SANDRO43]

the women I met wanted to know about me, my country, my friends and my family.

Isn't that sort of natural, and could be asked by women from almost any other country, since you are a foreigner from a far-away (and unusual ) country ?

[Voyageur]

The beauty, style and grace (and graciousness) of most (i.e. nearly all, in my experience) women from the FSU is drilled home to me every day - especially when I compare the actions of FSU women (especially from my wonderful Russian wife  ) and AW I see and observe each day.

I used to defend AW on these boards, but my opinion of them has really become much worse.

A simple illustration. Yesterday, I was at the gym and after my exercise bike routine was completed, I started to walk towards the water fountain. About two steps from the fountain, a 20's something woman with black hair rushed in front of me and took a long drink. She was in the aerobics class and had run out in the middle of an exercise and to the drinking fountain. I was sort of shocked and then angry - the way that I was raised, if she would have approached me in any sort of reasonable way I would have gladly given her my place.  I would do this for any woman. But she took what she wanted without even acknowledging me.  I assume because she was a relatively good looking woman, she has this sense of entitlement - because of her "beauty".

I immediately thought of what I have seen in my travels to the FSU and I seriously doubt that any woman from these countries would have done this. I am sure that women have boorish behavior in every country, but it is sure allot easier to see it in the USA. It is sad to say it, but now when I see a woman who is fashionably dressed, well-mannered and takes obvious care of herself in a crowd, I think that this woman is European or not from the USA .

[Daveman]

To me Ukrainian girls just had "more" than the beautiful girls at home.  A more refined sense of style, a more logical character, a more seductive disposition and a greater appreciation of life. 

Agreed to all of these.  Your brief description of Aussie women matches American women too. 


I will add this... one large difference I easily see is that when a woman in America likes you, she assumes many things about what YOU will do for HER.  Of course, an FSU woman expects certain things from  us as "the man", and we often don't realize what is was she expected until after she expected it, and we didn't do it.... but once she likes you, watch out... she's going to be very active in her approach to you, in every way... active love, active romance, active debate, active approach to her appearance (always, not just in relations), active approach to YOUR appearance, doting doting doting.. I guess the best way to say it is that she is very *involved* with *everything*.  I can see it, as I am sure we all can, but it's difficult to really put into words... but, I think *this* "thing I can't describe" is what makes them the most beautiful creatures God ever created.

Passion maybe... a passion for life and love radiating from the core of her being.  A aura of passion.

Dave

[ScottinCrimea]

I try to imagine what an impression my wife will make when I get her to the US.  There is no question she will be noticed.  Not only because of her natural beauty, but because she will be the only one who always wears makeup when she goes out, the only one wearing high heels instead of flip flops, and the only one dressed femininely.  There's also this aura about her that I can only describe as extremely sexy, and I think you find this with many FSU women.  It has nothing to do with their looks and it's not something they try to create purposely, but there's just an aura about them.

[Kuna]

Isn't that sort of natural, and could be asked by women from almost any other country, since you are a foreigner from a far-away (and unusual ) country ?

You'd think so Sandro... but it's not always the case.

Maybe a part of the allure of a FSU woman is that they actually ask questions of men and want to develop an understanding.

I've dated in the US and Canada and not communicated on the same level as I did with girls I met in Ukraine.  I did date a German girl a few years ago that was similar in her desire to understand me.  Dutch girls I've dated here.. nup!  French girls... nup!  Norwegian...  hmmm.. to be fair yeah, she was different...  English/Scottish/Irish girls... ARE YOU KIDDING?

It'd be fair to say a woman who was seeking a permanent relationship would be asking in-depth questions but I also had very interesting conversations with women in Airports, bars and shopping centres.  There was just a difference in how the conversations evolved... and I liked that!

[Mamma D]

The natural beauty shines from her loving heart, outward to a face and demeanor that lets you know she is truly a special person....

She is a wonderful lady...a loving wife and mother.

Mamma D

[Gator]

A beautiful woman is a beautiful woman, whether from America, Italy or Russia.  Although a higher percentage of RW and UW are beautiful, and the ones I have dated are on average better looking than my AW dates, this is not what keeps me coming back.  Somehow I get along with these women better than I do with AW.

So why is that?  Here are my 10 reasons, in no particular order, for the RW who attracted me the most.  There are some AW who have these qualities.  And there are some RW who do not have these qualities.  Yet, as with the higher percentage of physical beauty, RW are more likely to have these qualities that appeal to me.

-   RW are honest.  For sure they are direct and forthright, yet I feel they are more honest in what they tell you.
-   They open up quickly.  Part of this could be the compressed schedule of getting to know each other, yet they have the confidence to express themselves. 
-   They are very social, although unlike AW they can be reserved if not shy around strangers.
-   They are elegant and classy (at least the ones that I fell for).
-   They do not dwell on the past.  They do not use me as a therapist (it seems every AW has had psychotherapy sessions and these somehow branch into an analysis of me, their past, etc.).   In Russia there are few psychiatrists.
-   They are adventurous and eager to learn.
-   They want to look great, especially for you, and they value what you bring as a man to the relationship other than money.
-           They are intelligent.
-   They are relaxed and can have a good time without overdrinking. 
-   During a spirited disagreement, they will not withdraw but stand eye-to-eye with you (although RW can take this to the extreme).

There are other reasons, but I feel these paint my image of RW.  To be fair to AW, my AW dates came immediately after my divorce, and perhaps I was in a rebound stage and a little goofy (to quote one AW). 

[ScottinCrimea]

kuna, it has to do with many AW's "me first" attitude.

[MaxxumUSA]

A simple illustration. Yesterday, I was at the gym and after my exercise bike routine was completed, I started to walk towards the water fountain. About two steps from the fountain, a 20's something woman with black hair rushed in front of me and took a long drink. She was in the aerobics class and had run out in the middle of an exercise and to the drinking fountain. I was sort of shocked and then angry - the way that I was raised, if she would have approached me in any sort of reasonable way I would have gladly given her my place.  I would do this for any woman. But she took what she wanted without even acknowledging me.  I assume because she was a relatively good looking woman, she has this sense of entitlement - because of her "beauty".

I immediately thought of what I have seen in my travels to the FSU and I seriously doubt that any woman from these countries would have done this. I am sure that women have boorish behavior in every country, but it is sure allot easier to see it in the USA. It is sad to say it, but now when I see a woman who is fashionably dressed, well-mannered and takes obvious care of herself in a crowd, I think that this woman is European or not from the USA .

 
Hmm...  from what little I have seen of my RW and other people here in russia, I am surprised the girl who cut in front of you did not have a deep russian accent!  Hehe...  my girl is not shy and will cut to the front of a line in a heartbeat!  Of course this is here in Russia and I have seen many people do this.  The first to a window or door gets to the front.  It is OK if you pushed 3 others out of the way.  Has nothing to do with beauty here.

This is based on my personal obervation at many things here during my visit.  From a line at McDonalds, to entering a swimming pool, to entering a night club, and especially driving a car!  There is on average 1 vehicle accident per block in the busy city streets because of this.  The one who pushes to the front of the line pays first and enters.  Perfectly normal and acceptable here from what I have seen.

A bit odd in my opinion.