Hi from Denmark :)

[Sméagol]

 

Hi, I´m new to the site and I´m not sure if I really want to get acquinted with a woman
from Russia or the neighboring countries, but I thought it would be a good idea to
learn a bit about the do´s and dont´s beforehand.

So I´m going to surf your board a bit and hopefully be all the wiser afterwards.

Cheers to all
Henrik

[Kuna]

Welcome to RWD Henrik,

if you're looking to research and understand you'll probably find RWD to be the best resource on the web.

Feel free to ask questions and read as much as you can from the archives...

There's lots of guys with "buckets" of experience here and I'm sure they'll be happy to help you like they helped me when i started out.

Cheers,

Kuna

[SANDRO43]

Welcome to RWD, and thank you for not using this as an avatar .

[Daveman]

Welcome Henrik... lots of good information here.  I think you should steal that photo from Sandro and use it as your avatar..  i hear Russian girls love that look, and especially so as a large tattoo plainly visible at all times!

Dave

[Sméagol]

Actually Sandros picture would be an upgrade on my real look

Thank you for the warm welcome and I will most certainly ask a load
of questions, should I decide to go for it.

I have already had 2 scammers try to get acquinted (they were much
to obvious so not really a challenge to see it)

But I need help in determing if future contacts might be scammers and
this site looks to be the right place to learn the basics and beyond.

Cheers
Henrik

[Lily]

Hi Henrik, on what site or sites are you actually looking? how long since your start did it take to you to get two obvious scammers already?

[SANDRO43]

But I need help in determing if future contacts might be scammers and this site looks to be the right place to learn the basics and beyond.

Henrik, in this case our ScamCard (in the "Scam Avoidance" section of the menu at left) may be of some help .

[Makkin]

Hello and welcome,

  There is a lot of great information here. Hope you find what you need and good luck.

Makkin

[Sméagol]

Hi Henrik, on what site or sites are you actually looking? how long since your start did it take to you to get two obvious scammers already?

Actually I haven´t had any scammers from any east-sites as yet. Simply because I only started contacting through sites earlier today.

The 2 russian scammers and a few nigerian as well, have contacted me through some local dating sites and they were to obvious, so I was in no danger of falling for them.

But at least the scams inspired me to look to the east and I have joined Anastacia Web, R Brides and Site2Date but only free membership. The hundreds of letters in my mailbox on AnastaciaWeb from beauties from the age of 18 and upwards, really didn´t incline me to spend money, instead I got suspecious and looked around for a site like this to educate me before I actually start spending money.

Thank you for the welcome again and for sharing "know how" with the new guys.

[Rvrwind]

You want good honest agencies with no fear of being ripped off here is some places you should look:
First the reveiws section in the left hand column of this very site.
The Topsite section in the same place.
and here:
http://www.certifiedmarriageagencies.org/index.php?pid=15
Read & judge for yourself.

[MaxxumUSA]

Hi, I´m new to the site and I´m not sure if I really want to get acquinted with a woman
from Russia or the neighboring countries, but I thought it would be a good idea to
learn a bit about the do´s and dont´s beforehand.

So I´m going to surf your board a bit and hopefully be all the wiser afterwards.

Cheers to all
Henrik

OK...  Now I have a great idea for upgrades of the board.

DAN!!  Please make it an option to block certain members avatars!

Hehe.

[catzenmouse]

OK...  Now I have a great idea for upgrades of the board.

DAN!!  Please make it an option to block certain members avatars!

Hehe.

Just in case your serious if you go into your Personal CP you can turn off other's avatars. If not, nevermind...

Ken

[MaxxumUSA]

Just in case your serious if you go into your Personal CP you can turn off other's avatars. If not, nevermind...

Ken

thanks Ken.  I know about that option.  I don't want to block all avatars, just the ones I find offensive to the eye.

[Sméagol]

You want good honest agencies with no fear of being ripped off here is some places you should look:
First the reveiws section in the left hand column of this very site.
The Topsite section in the same place.
and here:
http://www.certifiedmarriageagencies.org/index.php?pid=15
Read & judge for yourself.

Thanks, I´ll have a look.

And I have changed my avatar to sothe the fragile eyes of some members on the board

I did warn you however, that the real look isn´t an upgrade from my dear friend Gollum, also looking for
his precious..

[DKMM]

Henrik,
If you are just wanting to email girls, I suggest finding sites that let you buy their real addresses instead of ones that give you a "fake" inbox.  I had success with ikarinter.

[MaxxumUSA]

Thanks, I´ll have a look.

And I have changed my avatar to sothe the fragile eyes of some members on the board

I did warn you however, that the real look isn´t an upgrade from my dear friend Gollum, also looking for
his precious..

Henrik,

If you want an excellent site I highly recommend www.elenasmodels.com

I met my fiance on that site.  Very low percentage of fakes.

[Sméagol]

Henrik,

If you want an excellent site I highly recommend www.elenasmodels.com

I met my fiance on that site.  Very low percentage of fakes.

Thanks, I am not impressed with some of the sites, I have tried (not paid)

On one site you are bombed with requests to chat live (at a price) and you are
also flooded with letters, that you cannot read unless you pay..

So sites with a minimum of fakes (both girls and management) are appreciated.

I have also read my fellow scandinavian Thors TR´s and am already getting a much
clearer picture of the endeavour ahead

Thanks

[Kuna]

Thanks, I am not impressed with some of the sites, I have tried (not paid)

On one site you are bombed with requests to chat live (at a price) and you are
also flooded with letters, that you cannot read unless you pay..

So sites with a minimum of fakes (both girls and management) are appreciated.

I have also read my fellow scandinavian Thors TR´s and am already getting a much
clearer picture of the endeavour ahead

Thanks

Henrik,l

I think the key to this pursuit is to remove the middleman as much as possible.  There are plenty of alternatives that let you have direct contact witht he women wui9ckly.

Thor's friend is one of those options (and a good one as long as you understand the process) and there are several sites like elenasmodels.com, bride.ru, freepersonals.ru, etc where you can buy addresses.  With these free sites it's just important to write to many and filter down until you have one (or a few) you'd like to meet - AND TO never SEND MONEY!

The other option is an agency like Richards in Tver where you can meet many ladies from his site in a few days and see if you "click" with any of them.

I think paying for letters or chat is just a waste most of the time.

Good luck,

Kuna

[Thor]

Actually I haven´t had any scammers from any east-sites as yet. Simply because I only started contacting through sites earlier today.

The 2 russian scammers and a few nigerian as well, have contacted me through some local dating sites and they were to obvious, so I was in no danger of falling for them.

But at least the scams inspired me to look to the east and I have joined Anastacia Web, R Brides and Site2Date but only free membership. The hundreds of letters in my mailbox on AnastaciaWeb from beauties from the age of 18 and upwards, really didn´t incline me to spend money, instead I got suspecious and looked around for a site like this to educate me before I actually start spending money.

Thank you for the welcome again and for sharing "know how" with the new guys.

Henrik, STAY AWAY from Anastasia Web. I had a profil there and recived 100`s of letter from so many hot girls for about 5-6 weeks...YEAH rigth that so many girl would like to know me. This is a scam!!!!! But I see that you are starting to learn this "business"

[Sméagol]

Well I have cancelled my trial memberships of Anastacia and HRB.. (480 letters and counting )

 

I thank you again for sound advice and the middleman is eliminated for sure.. I am not going to pay
per letter sent or to read letters from "admirers"..

But I will listen to advice and it is not unlikely, that a trip to Kharkov is in the cards

If I use an agency or not, time will tell, but I will take some time to think out my strategy, I´m in the early
phase still and I will not rush it. In the fall I will probably visit some new friends in St Pete to have a feel
of the eastern atmosphere and probably go to Ukraine in the winter I think.

Again thanks for your input