Thoughts on Meeting Multiple Women

[macman]

Folks,

While I am communicating with a couple of RW, I find it difficult to make arrangements to meet them all.  One dear lady stands out in most areas and I feel it would be disrespectful to her to carry on with several women simultaniously.  Otherwise the logistics are very difficult as well as it would take a week to traverse Russia to meet the ladies in their respesctive cities.

Any thoughts?

Thanks!

[William3rd]

There is no right way or wrong way to engage in a SERIOUS search for a spouse in FSU. If you see her head and shoulders above the rest and you want to take a chance, then go meet her and her alone.

If things do not work out, then you could utilize some agencies for personal introductions as a back up plan. This type of backup plan doesnt take any planning other than to determine which agency you want to visit.

You havent revealed the city that you are thinking of going to so it is difficult to give you any local agencies.

[Momus]

Hi Macman,

The risk you run by visiting one woman is that it becomes clear within five minutes of meeting her that there isn't any chemistry. And make no mistake -- you've got nothing but a dream and a penpal until you actually meet in person. As William suggested, your best course is to have a backup plan in case things go south.

That said, I found myself in pretty much the same situation you're in. You pays your money and you takes your chances.

[macman]

Hey back guys,

Good points - back up plan will be in place, although, the city Ozersk is quite small and quite a distance from other cities.  I will pick one other major city and research the agencies.  I'm sure I'll get some good help from the board here and I don't expect to travel until August.  By then I should be well educated or at least prepared the best I can be.