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[tany18]

Hi everybody!
I'm looking for a 27-40 y.o. serious guy from Los Angeles for my sister who is 19 y.o. She is open, sincere, positive, considerate, caring, warm, honest, faithful, and devoted.
I have an American husband and son and I wish she marry somebody near to us.
I'll send you her pictures if I have your email.

[DKMM]

A 40 year old guy for your 19 year old sister, are you serious?

[tany18]

Well, it depends. Sometimes sb. in his forty is much better than sb.in twenty five.
It's my point of view.

[BillyB]

Well, it depends. Sometimes sb. in his forty is much better than sb.in twenty five.
It's my point of view.

What is your sister's point of view? Is she to marry for love or only to come to Los Angeles as you wish?  What if a decent guy who is interested lives in another State, could he contact you? It should be more important for you to help your sister find a decent guy over where he lives. If your sister has internet, tell her to come here and associate with the men, she may find one she's interested in no matter where he lives.

[Mir]

A 40 year old guy for your 19 year old sister, are you serious?

There are many successful couples on this forum with that age difference.

[Admin]

Hi everybody!
I'm looking for a 27-40 y.o. serious guy from Los Angeles for my sister who is 19 y.o. She is open, sincere, positive, considerate, caring, warm, honest, faithful, and devoted.
I have an American husband and son and I wish she marry somebody near to us.
I'll send you her pictures if I have your email.

Welcome tany18!

And my compliments on your efforts to find a suitor for your sister. I think you will find most of the members here are very concerned about sincerity and about building strong families - and that may lead them to a few questions for you. Please don't take the questions too personally - they are really intended to be sure that people are making good choices for the 'right' reasons.

A couple of things which occurs to me are:

* 19 is very young for someone to consider marriage. Is your sister really certain she is ready for a commitment which, hopefully, will last her entire lifetime ?

* As BillyB mentioned, is your sister's (and your) primary objective to find a suitable guy in the LA area - or would she consider someone from a different state, if that person were more suitable ? Of course, the concern is that she may select someone who is from the LA area principally because of location - not because she loves him and wants to create a strong family with him. That would be a sad choice - for everyone.

Anyway - you are welcome here at RWD (and your sister too), and I hope you will tell us more about yourself - and participate in the discussions here.

Cheers!

- Dan

[tany18]

What is your sister's point of view? Is she to marry for love or only to come to Los Angeles as you wish?  What if a decent guy who is interested lives in another State, could he contact you? It should be more important for you to help your sister find a decent guy over where he lives. If your sister has internet, tell her to come here and associate with the men, she may find one she's interested in no matter where he lives.

Actually my sister doesn't care about age. And I thought for her age appropriate partner age is 33-37. The age difference between my husband and me is 14 years. And I do't think it's so bad. Minimum age difference among my Russian friends who married Americans is 10 years.
She wants to build real family and have happy life. Not only to come to LA and live here.
Also she doesn't care where to live. She doesn't mind to live in Russia. Since mostly Russian men are unreliable, cheaters, alcoholics, etc., I advice her to marry a foreign guy.
To find her husband in LA is only my idea. I think it is possible to find one single man among huge population of different people in LA.
I don't ( she also)mind if it's another city also.
She has internet in Russia but it is so slow and she doesn't know English very good to associate with the men here. But who knows, maybe she will soon.

Welcome tany18!

A couple of things which occurs to me are:

* 19 is very young for someone to consider marriage. Is your sister really certain she is ready for a commitment which, hopefully, will last her entire lifetime ?

19 years is very young age to consider marriage for whom?For American girls? But not for Russian. Do you know that average age girls who get married is 18 in Russia? Some get married in 14-16 also. And girls who didn't get married by 20 considers like old horses and almost like trash. Yet thingsthings are different in Moscow ans some big cities.
My sister wants to build a real family, hopefullywhich will last her entire lifetime. Otherwise I would write from the beginning Hey guys,who want to get married with young chick for few years ...bla-bla-bla.Moreove,my parents and my American husband would never let this happen.

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As BillyB mentioned, is your sister's (and your) primary objective to find a suitable guy in the LA area - or would she consider someone from a different state, if that person were more suitable ? Of course, the concern is that she may select someone who is from the LA area principally because of location - not because she loves him and wants to create a strong family with him. That would be a sad choice - for everyone.

Yes, she would consider any suitable guy.

Anyway - you are welcome here at RWD (and your sister too), and I hope you will tell us more about yourself - and participate in the discussions here.

Thanks for your welcome.