Any listing of black lists?

[5150]

I need to report someone to a blacklist as a scam. Does anyone have an extensive list of different blacklist URL's?

[Fiorella]

http://www.antidate.org/forum  - Western men's black list.

Be carefull if you don't have in your hands LEGAL proof that it is a scam. Otherwise you become to be criminal yourself and can be brought to the court for slander.

[5150]

No chance of that. I have MANY WITNESSES.

[Fiorella]

Your word - her word. You have toy have LEGAL proof. Words are not proof. I can bring hundreds of witnesses that you sexual maniac and even worse.

[Erwin]

http://www.stop-scammers.com

[5150]

Florella I think you seriously need help. You don't know what you are talking about. Better you shut up before you look REALLY stupid on here.

[Kvinna]

[user=26]5150[/user] wrote:

Florella I think you seriously need help. You don't know what you are talking about. Better you shut up before you look REALLY stupid on here.

 sounds like you want to insult her

[tim 360]

Hey Kvinna,  Relax.  I know of his sad case.  He married a real Ukrainian viper.  He was well-warned about her,  but did not heed the advice of more experienced people.   Afterall,  he was in love,  now he's on the flip-side.

[Leslie]

Hello 5150,

Do you post as Frank_O on Planet Love board??

 

[Fiorella]

[user=62]tim 360[/user] wrote:

Hey Kvinna,  Relax.  I know of his sad case.  He married a real Ukrainian viper.  He was well-warned about her,  but did not heed the advice of more experienced people.   Afterall,  he was in love,  now he's on the flip-side.

It was his choice to marry! By the way you all like to complain to your previous american wives as they was real predators and sharks! Why no one from you post your ex-wives to black lists?

[Bruno]

It was his choice to marry! By the way you all like to complain to your previous american wives as they was real predators and sharks! Why no one from you post your ex-wives to black lists?

A marriage is always between two people and the choice of two people... of course, when one break the "contract", it hurt always the other...

About ex-wife, i am sorry, i have only a russian one... and why post her in black list... she have not love me... is she bad for this? ... i don't think, she can maybe be a good wife for someone other...

These black list are for people who use the process for make money without real intention to marry... visa whore are a problem too but they make only one victim... unfortunaly, i was one of these victim... but i think that the next man she will marry, will be more happy because she will choice him by love...

The real guilty is the russian society with all this problem... if every woman can have a decent life in Russia, these who marry a foreign man will make this only by love...

And usualy, when a couple divorce, the mistake are on the two side...

[Fiorella]

Lot marriages happen without love and last long years. Many women marry because they want to have status of married woman. What kind of whore they are? Status whore?

[Bruno]

Lot marriages happen without love and last long years. Many women marry because they want to have status of married woman. What kind of whore they are? Status whore?

Status ??? So marriage without love can only lead to a divorce late or early... she she will have the status of potential divorced woman...

And really, it is not the type of marriage that several men here wish...

[5150]

Yes, I'm Frank O from the Planet-love board.

[Fiorella]

Posting your own wife around internet you only make people laugh on yourself, go ahead.

[5150]

Thanks, & I will.

[Fiorella]

Don't forget to give us links to your reports!

[Leslie]

Frank,

You would do well to ignore the women from "antidate".  They have their own agenda which has nothing whatsoever to do with your welfare.  No point in arguing with them - it is a complete waste of time.  This board will not give you the "cheer leader" support you will find on P/L.  You might however get some more sensible advice here

I would not post anything to the scam listing sites yet.  Let some time pass.  Let some of the pain drain away.  You will gain a better perspective on what happened.  Also you must remember that your divorce is not finalized yet.  Once you post to a scam listing the evidence you present becomes public property - it could conceivably be used against you...

In my opinion your adoption of the "victim" role is far from appropriate. You married an 18-19 year old girl.  How old are you??  Everyone warned you NOT to go forward with this relationship but you ignored it all.  You need to take a long hard look at yourself and what you did rather than transfer all the blame and label your wife a scammer.   If you post the whole story you are not going to come out of this smelling of roses are you?

Your wife won't be scamming anyone seriously in the next few weeks.  There is no rush.  Scam listing your wife just 2 days after she flew home reeks of all the wrong motivations.  Sure you can write down your side of the story right now.  Often this is good therapy.  Just don't post it yet.  Come back to it in a couple of months or so and then update it.  If you still feel it would be a public service to post the story to the scam listing services, do it then. 

I have an almost certain feeling that you will ignore this advice as you have ignored all contrary advice in the past......

 

 

[5150]

Leslie I appreciate your input. Not sure what you were referring about "antidate". I undestand I WAS largely responsible simply for NOT heeding advice such as you are currently giving me. It's one thing to have suspicions as I did it's another when you find out they are true & FAR WORSE EXCEED what you suspected. It's like I almost can't believe it's the same girl I married. I DID play the fool in a VERY big way man. Yes, I'ts embarrassing, it's humiliating. I just don't want anyone else falling for her. She already told me "I need a month to think". SHe also mentioned changing her hair to brown & getting it wavy (She has jet black straight hair). She also said "I was married to you for over a year so NO ONE will BELIEVE I scammed you."?!
Spoken like a TRUE scam.
Anyways YES I am certainly hurting. But honestly at THIS point I AM trying to think straight & do the right thing. My intentions are NOT to ruin her life. I DO want her to be happy but I want her to be honest & sincere. I realize she was NOT happy with me. I want her to be happy & move on as I will but simply not repeat this scenario with anyone else.
Malicious intent is NOT what I'm trying to do. I won't slant the story to MY side because once again I DID play the ignorant fool. I saw red flags but SINCE I WAS married I felt I have to work it out. I can't run because we are married & it's a covenant. Of course for her it didn't matter. Right down to the last DAY I tried to work it out but there was NO reciprocation on her part. To put it bluntly she does NOT love me. It was a one sided love affair.
Yes, I'm largely responsible BECAUSE I did NOT heed advice. The sick part is I've read MANY stories of men getting scammed & I STILL got scammed so perhaps out there there are still many suckers like me.
I WILL do this again & will NEVER EVER do a K3 again. NOW I understand the "protection" of a K1. I thought K3 since were MARRIED would serve to strengthen our bond as it showed my committment. What a gross mistake.
Sorry if I'm coming off like sour grapes I'm REALLY trying not to.

[Fiorella]

Until dating field of internet are full of old fat Leslies who surf multiply marriage agencies looking for hot chicks from poor contries who don't know laws of their country and who supposed to be submissive "traditional" wives without any knowledge of their rights, antidate will be on the side of these women.

[Elen]

Лесли теперь об'икается:D

[Kvinna]

Надо ввести новую категорию Иудушек old fat Leslie

[Fiorella]

Надо ввести новую категорию Иудушек old fat Leslie

Ага, для абъюзеров и любителей аннулировать браки.

[Bruno]

This show the respect of some of our ladies... Dan have ask for limit personal attack... it is true for text in Russian too...

If you find Leslie offending, don't need to offend him back... this lead to nothing good... only to a new war...


Is it not a national day in Russia today ?

[Fiorella]

Bruno, we agreed that if Leslie call russian scammers "fat Yury" then we call american men-scammers "Leslies" . What is wrong with that?

By the way, when we get attacks and insults all members prefer to look show in silence.