My little story with a happy end!

[wiz]

As you all know by now, since August 2006, I had a stormy relationship with Sofia (Mirror). Back in March 2007б I had made up my mind that our relationship was not going to work, so when I left Sterlitamak, at that time, all I wanted to do was to keep quiet for sometime and try to forget Sofia and our relationship.

Sofia of course had other ideas and relentlessly pursuit me and you all know what happened on RWD. She publicly declared her undying love for me and continued her games. Of course she never stopped looking for the “Best and better deal” and has been communicating with other men all the time, since we met and started our relationship. Finally at the end of May she convinced me to visit her one more time to try again, which I did on the 22 May. While there and to alley any suspicions and insecurities she had about my commitment and honest intentions, I asked her to marry me…. and she accepted.

On the night of celebrating our engagement Sofia was back to her usual jealousy and control tactics, by accusing me that I wanted to have sex with her best friend “SLIM” Tatiana and also with her young daughter of 14 years old. Of course I went ballistic and gave her an ultimatum that if she doesn’t profusely apologize to me and if she does not visit her psychologist friend to sort out herself, in 3 days, I will break our engagement and relationship and will go back home for ever.

I am still waiting for that apology and in one of her posts she made it clear that I will have to wait until I die…….. But I told her, in one of our conversations, that my love for her has died much earlier….. then myself.

At the end of April I started communicating with a few other women and one of them came across as the right candidate for me and decided to pursuit her. On my way back home on the 30 May, after breaking my engagement with Sofia, I called this woman and we arranged to meet the same day.

I had seen her studio photos before but when I met her in real life she was much more attractive and prettier then in her photos. She is very slim and with an excellent body. Her personality started showing very quickly to me and it was a fresh air in my stale life. At that time we spent over 5 hours together chatting away and none of us wanted to go home, as we were engrossed enjoying each other’s company very much.

Unfortunately due to Aeroflot been full in the next few days I could not change my flight and stay longer….. but when I was back in the UK we continued our communication.

Later in the end of June and at the beginning of July I visited her twice. With high insight I can see now, that we had two false starts, because of me been hasty and jumpy, BUT my new woman has shown to have a very different character from Sofia and she did apologized for the mistakes, I accused her at the time, which made me to sit up and think very carefully. Of course I did very quickly apologized too and in my 3rd visit in July finally we got it right and we have had a wonderful time together.

At the time, Sofia guessed, that I was with another woman and decided to play her non stop SMS games to destroy my new relationship. I told my new woman everything about me and Sofia and she was quite happy about my openness and honesty and she did not care much about the huge amount of SMS, I was receiving daily. I also explained to her that I was not prepared to allow Sofia to terrorize me and destroy our relationship and I will do everything possible to protect our relationship.

When I returned back to England my Ukrainian friend Natalie came to visit the UK and I took the opportunity to spread around a lot of disinformation (for the benefit of Sofia) and my woman was fully aware of my actions. I posted on the boards some nice photos of me and Natalie (“My new woman”…LOL) and also that I was going to take her on a holiday to Greece. I will not bore you with more details (need pages and pages to do that) but Sofia continued unabated her pursuit and she has been doing it, non stop, even now!

Meanwhile I continued my daily communication with my new woman and she was proving to be what I was looking for. At the end of August I came back to visit her for a month and now I am here having a wonderful time.

My new woman apart from her been young, very attractive, slim, sexy and a nice character she is also serious about our relationship, confident, very well educated and well established in her profession. Of course she is stubborn, like most of the Russian women, holds her ground in any conversation we have, but when she understands and realize her mistakes (if she is wrong), she always apologizes and I do the same. She has bought a brand new apartment and has it equipped with the latest and very modern appliances.

What is more important for me is the fact that she likes me and accepted me for what I am and who I am and she is not afraid to show her strong feelings and affection, in private and in public. That has taken me by surprise after my previous experiences with RW and especially Sofia. To be honest I keep pinching myself that I don’t live in a dream and of course I know she is genuine. She has a very comfortable life over here and I know her decision to move to UK to be with me will be only because she loves me and nothing else. She has already made up her mind that UK is the place where we are going to live, after we decide to get married.

She has also introduced me to all her family and friends and I am very happy that all of them have been very warm towards me and made me feel very welcome and they told her that they like me very much. What is more important is that her sister likes me a lot and she has taken into herself to smooth some small difficulties with Babouska, who now shows me that she likes me too and has no objections to our relationship. Oh I must tell you that I do get many kisses from everybody including Babouska……. and of course that makes us very happy.

The more I live with her, our normal life, the more stronger my feelings growing for her. Every day I discover more good things about her character and I have to say that I am not the easiest person to live with. I still have my hot Mediterranean temper but with her calm approach and patience she has managed to make our relationship a wonderful experience. She told me that she thinks about us all the time and she finds it difficult to concentrate in her job! Of course, while she is working, I have plenty of time to re-examine my previous actions and correct what is necessary to make her feel happy.

I will be here for a month and plan to comeback again in November, meanwhile when her Visa arrives, in the next few days, we are planning for her to visit me in UK for a month during Christmas.

So as they say there is a silver line at the end of the rainbow (if I am right) and I am sure that finally, after searching for 2 years, I have found the right woman in Russia. I have dived in the Black sea a few times but finally I have found my little pearl.

Please accept my apologies for the deception game I have played but it was necessary, in my view, to protect my new relationship.

PS: I have her permission to post our photos for 1 day!

[Mir]

Well good for you.

The last photo looks a lot like being on a boat in Kiev

[Turboguy]

Wiz, congratulations the happy ending of a long ordeal.  She is very pretty and you make a great looking couple.   When I saw the title, "little story", I thought Wiz and a LITTLE story?   Actually you did a great job of condensing a story you could probably write a book about without losing any key points.  Your little story will bring joy to the many who have grown to know you and hoped for your happiness.  Congratulations from VWRW and myself.

[Rvrwind]

Well done Wiz. Very attractive lady.
I wish you both much happiness in your future!
 

[Muj]

Wiz,

A stronger situation as the dilemma didnt kill you.
Good going!

[wiz]

Thanks everybody and yes I am very happy with my new woman.

Totally new experience from the one before....

Best regards from Russia

[baby]

Wiz, or Yannis, I know you very well. I am very glad you have found a woman at least. I still remember your voyage to me and how you wanted every woman you saw

[baby]

Yannis, I know you. You came to me to the Ukraine.

[BillyB]

Wiz, you wanted every woman you saw

Well, that proves it, Wiz is not a homosexual. But Wiz does not date very young women. Or does he? How old are you baby?

[acrzybear]

Sounds like "Baby" is a "Mirror" from Wiz's past.

[wiz]

Well, that proves it, Wiz is not a homosexual. But Wiz does not date very young women. Or does he? How old are you baby?

BillyB

No I don't date young women .....

I wish I had the money or the pooling power to date some nice young Ukrainian flowers... but on the other hand my ticker wouldn't last that long...and Viagra is expensive....LOL.......

Baby

You seem to know me well and probably in my old age, after meeting many women, I maybe forgot that I dated such a young woman like you.

Com'on Baby... give me some clues or write me a PM to remind me of the lovely time I had together with you.


Oh boys... my life is not that easy, Is it?

I am in Ufa at the moment and having a great time with my new woman. I am very happy for the way our relationship is progressing between us.

Mirror is here too (her visit was planned back in March so it is an accidental timing) and I will try later to write an update of what is going on.......but I must think carefully as I don't want to upset or bore you again. I have been warned as you can see for my bad behaviour!

Just a quick info....

I am very "unlucky man" and I was "discovered" between 1.5 Milion people sitting at MacDonald's, waiting for a friend, in the centre of Ufa. My position was well hidden from the main road and passing traffic.....but .... the meeting was civilised and very brief as I was saved by the arriving presence of my American friend!

I am sure you can guess what has been going on, for long time now!

[baby]

I would not like to shame myself by reminding you who I am. Your habbit to post photos of your women is very well known.

[baby]

Well, that proves it, Wiz is not a homosexual. But Wiz does not date very young women. Or does he? How old are you baby?

I can prove that he is not indifferent towards them (men)

[jb]

I can prove that he is not indifferent towards them (men)

Well,,, that's a new twist, Yannis is not indifferent to men.  Well,,, he is a Greek.

[Admin]

I can prove that he is not indifferent towards them (men)

Based upon your lack of substantive response to my PM's, I have serious doubt about whether you can "prove" anything.

- Dan

[baby]

Based upon your lack of substantive response to my PM's, I have serious doubt about whether you can "prove" anything.

- Dan

I do not see why I should prove anything. I did not hurt Wiz anyhow. All I wrote was that I know him. Should I prove any man I know?
I read all your PM-s, protecting Wiz. So that is the prove that Wiz is not indifferent for men too. lol

[Admin]

I do not see why I should prove anything. I did not hurt Wiz anyhow. All I wrote was that I know him. Should I prove any man I know?
I read all your PM-s, protecting Wiz. So that is the prove that Wiz is not indifferent for men too. lol

No, I am not "protecting Wiz". I am merely asking that you substantiate your claims and allegations. If you cannot provide substantiation, your posts are nothing more than character assassination - and will not be allowed.

I have asked for that substantiation - and you can either provide it (publicly or privately) - or be deemed a troll and dealt with accordingly.

Your choice.

- Dan

[ScottinCrimea]

It seems wiz trails good will wherever he goes.  :angel:

[jb]

A real Wiz-Bang.

[jb]

A story that has been told and retold for years about a friend of mine. 

We were visiting Boy's Town across the border for a night of fun... One young man with us, (big, handsome, strapping guy) was recently married and was abstaining from the delights of the house.  The Madam of the House was concerned that he wasn't having enough fun and made the wrong assumption, she leaned over and asked him; "do you want a queer?",,, in the loud noise and juke box environment he thought she said; "do you want a beer?"  He said "yeah",,, when she brought out that young boy,,, we had the "mother of all bar brawls".

I wonder what this misunderstanding will really look like in the morning after.

[William3rd]

Gives new meaning to "happy end." Too bad he only has a "little" story." Or is he talking about the size of the boy?

[BillyB]

I would not like to shame myself by reminding you who I am. Your habbit to post photos of your women is very well known.

I already know you said you're 20. Now to refresh everyone's mind who we're dealing with here.

Baby, do you remember posting these two gems?

I need your advice. I studied in the USA for a year. I got acquainted with an American man, who is 60 now. My age is 20. He offered me to marry him. I had to come back home to graduate from University. As soon as I do that, we shall marry. The matter is I am not going to stay with him, as I have a young boy friend overthere too. I know you will understand me. What is in common between old age and youth?
How long should I stay with that old man to become legal overthere? Shall I have any rights if my old “husband” proves my betrayals? You may ask why I need to marry that old man? He is the only way how I could escape to America to my boy friend, who is a student too, that is why he can not pay for my tickets and our marriage.


I do not see anything wrong in my actions. I have seen a lot of photos of couples, in which young women are married to old men, on this site. I am aware their reason was like mine- escape from Russia to a better life.
Perhaps you are right, my young boy friend has g/f-s. I am for free love. Besides he knows that I'll live with that old man for some time. Everything is honest in our relationships.


Well Baby, your credibility is out the window. You are for free love and screwing other men behind your fiance's back and see nothing wrong with that, yet you criticize Wiz for wanting every woman. Hypocrite.

[wiz]

Hello from Ufa

Lack of internet connection and preoccupied with other cultural fun activities….I missed the fun, when everybody was on line….LOL

I am guilty and admit, that now that I am very happy with my new woman, finally I started having some fun and enjoy everything that is going on around me and of course on the boards, despite my warning for bad behaviour.

Talking about my bad behaviour, I would like  to say that my 3 lines reference to the other member’s wife, in another post, were not meant or were intentional to be offensive to her and for that reason I apologize unreservedly to his wife, if it came across as such.

Well JB, I am a Greek and of course I enjoy the interaction with other men….. but NOT in the way you let us to believe……. It is a well known fact that my preference is for the fair and not the furry sex…..but if  “Baby” knows any different then she can always post the info here. I doubt it that she has ever met me, has anything bad against me and everything she is writing here and in other boards is “here say” rumors spread around from my previous Russian encounter and as “Dan” said an attempt to make character assassination of “wiz”, me.

Actually Dan you could easily solve the mystery of the “Baby” ID by checking the area where she is posting from and I am sure you will probably find out that she is posting from Volgograd or Samara in Russia.

The timing of “Baby’s” registration on RWD is just 5 days later from my last departure from Sterlitamak, where I was visiting “Mirror” for fun only. At that time, my pockets were searched and my well hidden Flash USB drive was examined by Mirror and a lot of important information about my NEW woman in UFA, was stolen. BTW all the above were admitted in writing by Mirror and I have that SMS with her admission and where she is asking me for forgiveness.

Very soon and after my departure, I started receiving a concentrated attacks in other boards by an Antidate young woman, supported by Mirror, under the name “Only_me or Julie” culminating with telephone calls at 3 AM to my new Woman’s mobile calling her various names.

Dan, the same woman has been trying to ridicule me and has been copying various posts from RWD and posting them on Antitade, together with my photo given to her by Mirror. I have told Kvinna about the copyright infringement but she has ignored my comments, which shows the quality and integrity of the owner of her site.

Scottin

You have lost me….obviously you have been drinking celebrating the arrival o your wife, so I don't understand what you are talking about!

William

The background story is too long and you will be bored to hear all the details……..but the main fact is that Mirror is behind everything and she is in Ufa and I avoid visiting the centre anymore after my “Discovery” and despite my Radio Silence measures.

May I ask which boy do you mean?

Billy

I doubt that this story is true one and in my view, is only a cover up or a provocative post to get reactions on RWD so she can go writing against any men who replied on Antidate.

Of course as Dan said to prove that she is genuine, she can always post any bad information she has about me on RWD.

Go on Girl…. Make my day of fame and shame!

[baby]

I already know you said you're 20. Now to refresh everyone's mind who we're dealing with here.

Baby, do you remember posting these two gems?

I need your advice. I studied in the USA for a year. I got acquainted with an American man, who is 60 now. My age is 20. He offered me to marry him. I had to come back home to graduate from University. As soon as I do that, we shall marry. The matter is I am not going to stay with him, as I have a young boy friend overthere too. I know you will understand me. What is in common between old age and youth?
How long should I stay with that old man to become legal overthere? Shall I have any rights if my old “husband” proves my betrayals? You may ask why I need to marry that old man? He is the only way how I could escape to America to my boy friend, who is a student too, that is why he can not pay for my tickets and our marriage.


I do not see anything wrong in my actions. I have seen a lot of photos of couples, in which young women are married to old men, on this site. I am aware their reason was like mine- escape from Russia to a better life.
Perhaps you are right, my young boy friend has g/f-s. I am for free love. Besides he knows that I'll live with that old man for some time. Everything is honest in our relationships.


Well Baby, your credibility is out the window. You are for free love and screwing other men behind your fiance's back and see nothing wrong with that, yet you criticize Wiz for wanting every woman. Hypocrite.

Hypocrite? funny... Did I say I find it bad that Wiz is so full of love and desire? I would love to meet him again.

[wiz]

Hypocrite? funny... Did I say I find it bad that Wiz is so full of love and desire? I would love to meet him again.

Well Well Well

You have only banned the Sterlitamak IP provider Dan.... but from Ufa.......no problem.

Baby

I have free time to meet you again but before I do that I need to know who you are.....so give me a clue, not to suspect other people!

Sent me a PM or an e-mail, if you know me that well!