I am 40 years old...but...

[SANDRO43]

Quote from: Adrian on Yesterday at 18:13:45
You know what, you guys that get pissed off about this are just a bunch of jealous haters. I will leave the haters to writhe in jealousy!

I had missed this one. I'd say that so far you've shown very little to be jealous of. Unless you have further, as-yet-undisclosed pearls of wisdom in store for us ? We await with writhing breath .

[KenC]

Adrian,
You come on here and tell us how hot you are and yet you do not post a photo to support your viewpoint.  No one is jealous, we just don't believe a strangers unsupported opinion.  What do you hope to accomplish with such an opening statement?  If you are looking for a gay website to gain some envy from men that might appreciate your studliness, I am sure Google can help you.

Next you try and "advise" us on just exactly how worldly you are with fsu women, and yet you have never been there.  Preaching such crap to men that have been there done that and needless to say many of whom have been in long term relationships with fsu women, is well, stupid and immature at best.

What next?  You gonna tell us all that you have a 20 inch penis?  Yeah, me too!  But some of the guys here are even bigger, just ask em.  Take a hike you blowhard.
KenC

[BC]

Probably someone from another board with nuthin better to do on saturday night.

[Makkin]

Hello Adrian,

  Most members here would be glad to help you understand what it feels like to understand a bit of what it's like in the FSU and what the women are like.

  I'm stepping out on a limb here and guessing that you have a sincere interest and want to know things but also you feel as if the flavor of the discussions has assaulted your senses for some reason or reasons?

  Putting your age aside and what you look like may I ask what it is you would like to feel like in regards to the wonderful women of the FSU?

Makkin

[wxman]

A 40 year old man who looks 28. So what, and really, who cares? Someday his maturity level will reach that of a 28 year old man. Right now he has 20 years to go. Good luck, FSUW women just love arrogant men, and better yet, ones who think they are God's gift to creation.

[Shadow]

Does having a contrary opinion mean that one is contributing in an "unproductive" manner?

It depends. You have the opinion that you are a young-looking god's gift to women.
We have the opinion that you are trolling.

If all manage to change their opinion, the outcome will have been productive.

[Turboguy]

Adrian, the cold, hard reality of it is you came in leading with your chin and should not complain if people fell like connecting with it.   

I have read a few of your posts in other sections that make you seem fairly level headed but your intro was one of the worst I have seen.   You are either (a) a troll, (b) a pompous idiot or (c) a good guy who made a poor choice in the manner of introducing himself.  Frankly if it is (a) or (b) most of us would just as soon you would pack your bags and catch the next stagecoach out of town.   If it is (c) then you need to do some serious damage control and you are not going about it in the right way. 

I have to agree with KenC that about the only worse intro you could have created would be to make the first post saying Hi, I am Adrian.   I have this huge tool and think that should help me have a choice of the most beautiful young chicks.

Adrian,  People here are very tolerant of diverse views and opinions, particularly if you can back them up with facts.    Yes, you may get some heat but most respect your right to an opinion.   Arrogance, pompousness and stupidity don't get very far here and I am not accusing you of any of that.  I am just accusing you of starting off on the wrong foot.   

As far as looking younger than your age if you really do lots of people are lucky in the same way.  Who cares.  Any man here of any age can go to the FSU and date 19 year olds if he chooses.  Most are smart enough to know that few in that age are ready to settle down. 

Like many things that happen to us in life, you have created your own problems here.  They can be fixed but only you can fix them.   I have caught some flack when I voiced my opinions that differed from others and I have caught some flack for defending underdogs.  People who came in and stuck their foot in their mouth and set sail for disaster.  I have not seen anything yet that would want to make me defend you.   I will say this though Adrian.  If (c) is the situation and you really are a good guy who did a stupid intro and you show that you have some more common sense than what you have shown so far and you want to fix things I would probably be one of the first to jump to your defense.  You sure would have to show me more than you have for that to happen.

[William3rd]

So, shall we all start kissing a little troll heinie now? I can picture a troll lovefest on the way. First,  grunt-grunt appears and now Yo Adrian. Sounds a little like Pike, don't he? Shore has a purty mouth on im, tew. IN SHAPE, looks 28!!!!! Betcha some of us gender challenged members are just salivating at the thought.

KenC- his problem is a 9cm penis, not 19 inches.


ONE POST- and only one, is level headed, if it is taken out of context with his other posts.

The answer to Dan is telling. . . . . he is not here to learn. . . . he is going to espouse a different viewpoint- never been to FSU, mind you. 'Course, wimmen are wimmen back where he comes from. Lots of experience with his sister. . . . .

Coming to pontificate about a different view of things- of which he has no first hand experience. Do I see a burning bush around here somewhere? I smell smoke- somebody on honeydew detail this morning?

Yo Adrian- I dont give a rats alimentary canal about being acknowledged by you. I do suggest that you see a neurosurgeon about removing your head from your own alimentary canal.

My vote is for ignore. . . . .

 

[jb]

After seeing 2 references to; "Don't forget to date girls at home", me thinks we have a lady troll dressed in a mansuit.

[BC]

The biggest question in my noggin is why RWD when there are a couple other boards likely to be more receptive to such tripe?

[Jet]

Does having a contrary opinion mean that one is contributing in an "unproductive" manner?

Of course not, but acting like an arrogant @sshole does.

If you actually take the time to go back and read what's been written you find that it has been advised OFTEN, that if you date younger women in the US, you'll have no problem doing the same abroad.

As for me, I'm 42 and probably look older then turbo  BFD

[Turboguy]

Perhaps Jet but you are better looking and have more brains.

[Adrian]

After seeing 2 references to; "Don't forget to date girls at home", me thinks we have a lady troll dressed in a mansuit.

The more you post, the bigger of a fool you make yourself out to be. So, based on my recommendation that you date women in your home country, I must be a woman? What do you recommend guys do while writing to FSU women, waiting for replies, waiting to travel? Just sit there and wait for the plane to the FSU? And the moment the plane hits the ground, run out on to the tarmac into the arms of his waiting beloved like a man who has spent the last few years on a desert island?

Here is time for a lesson, since you don't seem to have learnt much about women in your 60 years on this earth.

- The more women he dates, the more experience he has dealing with different types of women.
- If he is dating women in the US, he has more OPTIONS.
- If he more OPTIONS, he is going to be MORE SELECTIVE
- i.e He is not going to fall for the first 21 year old in a short skirt
- And this will prevent a lot of the problems we see here

Do you get it now? THIS is the REAL WORLD. You have to be able to deal with women in the REAL WORLD.. BEFORE you go the FSU.

"Dating" women in the FSU is this artificial world. And has no bearing on dating in the real world.

A man who can meet women in the REAL WORLD will be 10 TIMES more succesful meeting women in the FSU.

This is better than 20 trips anyone can make to the FSU. Women are women everywhere. Just the arena is different.

You obviously only seem to have experience picking women off a shelf and taking them home. You appear to know NOTHING about women outside of your little "FSU Bubble" that you have created for yourself. And that is why you spend hours on here like a demented, old fool, fantasizing about people's mothers.

I hope my lesson taught you something. Somebody said that you were a "first rate troll basher". I find it hard to believe, the intellectual midget that you are, that you are "first rate" anything. I have managed to dispatch of you in only a few posts here. I almost feel sorry for the way I have humiliated you. But, it was fun wiping the floor with you. Thanks for the entertainment.

[Adrian]

Adrian: Please indulge me a moment to explain in the simplest terms I can. There is a bunch a pretty decent and successful guys here. Not only successful with FSU women. Most likely they became that way by bucking the system at times and also following logic at other times. We all have and do at times.  BUT the reason many here advocate caution to the extent of clue batting the blind masochists is that we happen to know what being on the inside of a cross cultural age gap relationship is all about and we happen to know some of the pitfalls first hand. None of us give two rats tails what anyone does, but WE ALL hate seeing people get hurt and wasting time, money and emotions chasing rainbows.

Further we HAVE ALL seen the hype that young FSU hotties are drooling after old western farts.  We have learned that this is not the case and are about to help a few others by calling the warning. If you look 28, (Well done you..!! All respect a guy who takes care of himself including the FSU women) I can assure you that it won't make one iota if difference to a goodly number of FSU women in the final washup.  They are much more discerning than that.  Familiarise yourself with an old Russian womens saying.  I want a "WORTHY" man and a little better looking than a monkey is good enough.  (Thank God.....that let me in)

You will find the guys who really know their stuff have come to respect JB (And a few others) very highly.  The more I know (From my own experience) the more I gravitate to JB's posts, because one thing I can assure you, he has his own methods and opinions, but he knows his shcit and he wont bullschit you.  Just the sort of guy you need in your trench when you are under fire. Believe me, if you ever make it into Russia on a dating spree, the first thing you will feel is as if you are in a trench under fire. Think about it.

Your comments as I have quoted them above, are hardly productive.  Discent? For what reason? Discent or change for the better? Think about this also.

I/O   

While I understand that you have the best intentions, I would beg to differ on a few points.

While some of these men that you mention seem to have succesfully gone to the FSU and brought a woman home, they appear to know very little about dealing with women outside of this little "FSU Bubble". They know the process. And that is what it is.. a process. I would contend that the person who you mention in your post was an abject failure in his relationship with women which caused him to go running to the FSU. The FSU is not the solution for men like this. The answer lie within. One can conquer FSU women only after one conquers himself. It DOES NOT require a hundred trips to the FSU to do this.

[groovlstk]

I have managed to dispatch of you in only a few posts here. I almost feel sorry for the way I have humiliated you. But, it was fun wiping the floor with you. Thanks for the entertainment.

When did this happen? Did I miss something? 

[Adrian]

So, shall we all start kissing a little troll heinie now? I can picture a troll lovefest on the way. First,  grunt-grunt appears and now Yo Adrian. Sounds a little like Pike, don't he? Shore has a purty mouth on im, tew. IN SHAPE, looks 28!!!!! Betcha some of us gender challenged members are just salivating at the thought.

KenC- his problem is a 9cm penis, not 19 inches.


ONE POST- and only one, is level headed, if it is taken out of context with his other posts.

The answer to Dan is telling. . . . . he is not here to learn. . . . he is going to espouse a different viewpoint- never been to FSU, mind you. 'Course, wimmen are wimmen back where he comes from. Lots of experience with his sister. . . . .

Coming to pontificate about a different view of things- of which he has no first hand experience. Do I see a burning bush around here somewhere? I smell smoke- somebody on honeydew detail this morning?

Yo Adrian- I dont give a rats alimentary canal about being acknowledged by you. I do suggest that you see a neurosurgeon about removing your head from your own alimentary canal.

My vote is for ignore. . . . .

 

Ummm.... nahhh.. you just don't have what it takes.. boring.. I would give your feeble attempt a 5/10 at the most.

[Vaughn]

Adrian, for a 28-ish appearing 40 year old, you've entered the RWD
board with splash of a 16 year old. It's considered by RWD to be
showboating to announce an impending "ignore" - but I'm gonna
disregard accepted rules and do just that.

Best wishes.

[Adrian]

Adrian,
You come on here and tell us how hot you are and yet you do not post a photo to support your viewpoint.  No one is jealous, we just don't believe a strangers unsupported opinion.  What do you hope to accomplish with such an opening statement?  If you are looking for a gay website to gain some envy from men that might appreciate your studliness, I am sure Google can help you.

Next you try and "advise" us on just exactly how worldly you are with fsu women, and yet you have never been there.  Preaching such crap to men that have been there done that and needless to say many of whom have been in long term relationships with fsu women, is well, stupid and immature at best.

What next?  You gonna tell us all that you have a 20 inch penis?  Yeah, me too!  But some of the guys here are even bigger, just ask em.  Take a hike you blowhard.
KenC

Ken, while your speculation on the size of my manhood and your interest in gay porn is somewhat disturbing, you are one of the few posters on here whose postings I follow and respect. So, I do not wish to pursue this any further.

[Adrian]

Of course not, but acting like an arrogant @sshole does.

There seem to be quite a few guys on here who appear to get away with this type of behaviour. Not only do they get away with it, but they are celebrated and championed for it.

[I/O]

Adrian: You may contend, but put bluntly you are quite wrong in a number of your assumtions. You WILL realise this if ever you get seriously into the real Russia or FSU. But that is for you to learn for yourself at a later stage.

I agree, it is a process, with varying methods of achieving an outcome. Some of those methods have a high percentage failure rate.  IIRC, JB, in a slightly similar way to me, first went to Russia for entirely other reasons than women. Sort of came into this process via the side door as it were.

I can tell you from first hand, cold hard experience that dealing with people and in this instance, women, is very very different when on the ground in Russia. A goodly number of the guys who go thinking they know a little about women end up canon fodder for the hookers. Like it or not, 'tis as 'tis.

You have gotten close to the mark with a couple of comments, in so far as if one is dating challenged at home, the FSU ain't the place to go. Russia is not entry level dating. I can assure you that mine is not so untypical, she is so far ahead of me in some aspects of her intellect that it is a joke. I can only count myself blessed she has been open enough to see a few qualities in me she liked and overlook my many shortcomings. I suspect others married or seriously involved with Russian women would say something similar. And..........she is one tough cookie. Hopefully that will serve her well in the future.

I/O   

[wxman]

What was the purpose of creating this topic? To brag about your looks or to brag about your conquest of women? Good for you for taking care of yourself. I think that is important, but the way you presented yourself with the post comes off quite arrogant. Telling us how worldly you are with women makes it sound like you treat women as a conquest. If you are 40, and have been so successful with women, then why are you still single?

You would get the same response if you created a topic stating that you are a billionaire and can get any woman you wanted. It means nothing, other than a sign of arrogance.

It's not about whether you look 28 and being 40, but that you come off as one who thinks that since you are able to date tons of women, that it somehows makes you better than the rest of us, or somehow an expert on women. When one has to brag about all the women they have dated, it actually sounds like you are unable to commit to anyone.

[jb]

It's the empty barrel that makes the loudest noise when thumped.  I'm still waiting for this moron to post a photo of himself so we can get the girls to judge for us.

[HiTech]

The more I read of this ladies posting, the more I am seeing someone posting like a woman.

Do you get it now? THIS is the REAL WORLD. You have to be able to deal with women in the REAL WORLD.. BEFORE you go the FSU.

"Dating" women in the FSU is this artificial world. And has no bearing on dating in the real world.

A man who can meet women in the REAL WORLD will be 10 TIMES more succesful meeting women in the FSU.

Only a WW would be arrogant enough to conclude that the FSU is not the real world and where she lives is .

[Jumper]

adrain said

- The more women he dates, the more experience he has dealing with different types of women.
- If he is dating women in the US, he has more OPTIONS.
- If he more OPTIONS, he is going to be MORE SELECTIVE
- i.e He is not going to fall for the first 21 year old in a short skirt
- And this will prevent a lot of the problems we see here

honestly you come across like you have some huge chip on your shoulder for absolutely no reason?
 VERY very few people here would disagree at all with your above post  ??
the jest of it is:
 The more experience in general you have, with life ,
or with women , the better odds you'll have in any country,
 including the FSU.

pretty fundamental?
noone here i know of would disagree..?
especially the ones you are trading insults with!!  like ken C or jb..

it's also been said a million times here,,
that if  you are realistic and date in the FSU the same age /looks /level
that you date here ,
it helps your odds..
 whatever that age/looks/social educational level may be for you personally ?
again pretty fundamental stuff?

if you think you are going to enlighten a bunch of guys that do have
experience in thier home countries ,and ALSO abroad,.
with some basic fundamentals..

all the while telling us how young for your age you look..
and have never been to the FSU ..
(no they arnt some alien life form, and at thier core are women, i would hope youd realize most of us are already *hip* to that *fundamental* information as well?)

seriously it just comes across as strange..

you attacking  jb about being a *mob FSU bubble*.. is hystercal LOL ,
listen ,you might want to get some real honest to gawd information..
first....
 before assuming such foolishness.

ok- just some friendly *fundamental* advice...
if you want to be confrontational and make enemies,, at lest "know thine enemy"
 jb is as much further  away from the *MOB FSU bubble* you speak of,
 than you are, being yourself alledgedly a *young looking ,single 40yo * posting on a RW board

after reading your post,
i really dont understand your point..
can you put it more directly?

i get that you are young looking for your age, and you plan to enjoy it.
cool.
so is that just a "for your information" type of post?

i get that you think dating experience here , equals better odds of success there..

most would certainly 100% agree..!!!!!!

but would add the *qualifier*
that without having first hand experience there,
 it only betters your odds,over a completely  INexperienced guy..
  it certainly doesnt put someone in a position to be confindent in anyway about their knowledge of FSU ladies ...or this venture..
 
Hey, I look younger than my age to..(dont we all?  )
always active for sure, but never really took care of myself at all.. had a blast!
ate what i wanted ,drank what i wanted..  lived every second of my life like it was the last ... my wife thinks i still do..busted myself up a bit.. partied too hard..
but just have good genes i guess.....
  so don't expect a whole lot of jealousy  
I never felt some urge to start a thread with that info though.. :selfharm:

just not sure where you are coming from,,here to share info? learn? or pick fights?


  

[William3rd]

Is this guy/girl/TS for real? Spouts crap and declares victory? He/she/it doesnt have a clue. . . . .

Yo-Adrian, there is a big world away from your sister. Hope you learn about it. It took you to age "40" to learn some basic truths but I think you book larned it. When you get up to having wimmen for girlfriends with only two legs and no tail, I know that Bessie will be a mite disappointed, but you will be a better man/woman/TS as a result.