Thoughts, Advice, etc... New here

[justanotherguy]

Hello...  I'm new to this forum.  I was reading another but the posting was pretty low, and this seems like a much better place to get info. 

Me:  I'm tired of the same cycle repeating itself dating women locally.  I'm open to all options to fix this, one of which being marrying someone abroad.  I've been looking around at various agencies and such, and it is pretty difficult to figure out the safest way to go about this whole thing given the huge amount of people who are falsely portraying themselves for one reason or another.  I have some questions though:
 
www.juliyaweb.com .. any experience with them?

I'm 27... and I look quite young at that (supposedly I shouldn't say this? lol). Seems only younger girls take interest in me. I have a hard time believing <20 could possibly work out, but it doesn't seem any women older than ~24 will even give me a glance... Am I too young for this yet, or will an early to mid twenties FSU female compare to a late 20's US female in terms of readiness and ability to settle down?

I'd like to think I'm an attractive guy.  At anyrate, I have no problem attracting very attractive women here though it seems doing so online for an FSU lady puts me on a course likely to have dealings with someone with false pretenses.  I have seen alot of posts on other forums basically alluding that all the highly attractive women are scams or lack sincerity.  Is there truth to this? 

I've got tons more questions but I'll hold off on them just yet.  Thanks in advance!

[BillyB]

I'm not impressed with yuliyaweb.com. After poking around there I get a ton of pop ups of this site non stop. Warning: Nude women ahead.

http://www.topdate.net/top/page1_Top%20of%20the%20day.html

yuliaweb is doing the sincere women injustice since they're mixing marriage minded people with sex tourists.

Sometimes RW will ignore you younger men because most of you aren't serious and make false promises to visit. How are you protraying yourself in letters.

And welcome to the forum.

[justanotherguy]

I'm not impressed with yuliyaweb.com. After poking around there I get a ton of pop ups of this site non stop. Warning: Nude women ahead.

http://www.topdate.net/top/page1_Top%20of%20the%20day.html

yuliaweb is doing the sincere women injustice since they're mixing marriage minded people with sex tourists.

Sometimes RW will ignore you younger men because most of you aren't serious and make false promises to visit. How are you protraying yourself in letters.

And welcome to the forum.

Odd.. I haven't gotten a popup yet.  What browser do you use?
I suppose I portray myself as serious in my letters. I'm assuming its 'safer' to pursue a 20something if I'm 27 vice 40 something.. is it safe assumption?

[KenC]

Odd.. I haven't gotten a popup yet.  What browser do you use?
I suppose I portray myself as serious in my letters. I'm assuming its 'safer' to pursue a 20something if I'm 27 vice 40 something.. is it safe assumption?

Just,
Well, not really.  Here's the deal as I see it.  At 27 many RW will think you are not established enough career wise and financially to support a "family."  (Note: RW refer to even a couple as a "family" it does not necessarily mean kids too)  So, in a way your 27 yrs is less attractive than a 40 something.  However, once you get past the initial questions regarding your financial abilities, I would think that a mid 20's RW would prefer a 27 yo man.  As far as the maturity level of RW, let me just say that it has been said that if a RW is not married by 25 she is entering into old maid territory.  They usually marry young and also start having children earlier than most Americans now a days.  Also keep in mind that RM also mature faster than most AM too.

BTW, welcome to RWD.  Read the FAQS section in the upper left hand corner of the sign in screen for many important details involving this pursuit.
KenC

[BillyB]

Odd.. I haven't gotten a popup yet.  What browser do you use?

Microsoft internet explorer on windows 2000 professional and windows ME. Both computers in my home don't have pop up blockers and both get pop ups of nude dating sites when I look around yuliaweb.com

I have seen alot of posts on other forums basically alluding that all the highly attractive women are scams or lack sincerity.  Is there truth to this? 

If that's true, then most of the guys here are married or engaged to scammers because our women are highly attractive at this forum.  Although scammers do like to use pics of beautiful ladies for their scam, you can't be scammed if you don't participate and use your big head. Don't fall in love with photos and call the lady/s often before you visit. A scammer probably won't give you her/his phone number.

[jb]

Yep,,, ditto what Billy and KenC said.

[jb]

Ya know what,,, I really like it that we have such a large cadre of experienced guys here. I no longer feel the need to post reams of virtual ink for each newbie question.  It's really nice to have the backup with valid experience.

One of these days a few of us are going to have get our heads together and review the FAQ section, and possibly up date that area.  Personally I think it contains a huge amount of the collective wisdom garnered here, but I'm also smart enough to know it can be improved.

[justanotherguy]

Microsoft internet explorer on windows 2000 professional and windows ME. Both computers in my home don't have pop up blockers and both get pop ups of nude dating sites when I look around yuliaweb.com

If that's true, then most of the guys here are married or engaged to scammers because our women are highly attractive at this forum.  Although scammers do like to use pics of beautiful ladies for their scam, you can't be scammed if you don't participate and use your big head. Don't fall in love with photos and call the lady/s often before you visit. A scammer probably won't give you her/his phone number.

I'm using firefox on linux... but i don't even get the "popup suppressed" warning.... odd