About Alleged Scammer - Tatyana Haustova

[vincenta]

Can anyone throw some light about this lady named Tatyana Haustova. There has been some incidences of men complaining about her scamming.

I have met her a few times, and it appears the pattern is repeating. Her photo is on the internet if you type her name. I do not know where to attach her photos here.

[vincenta]

If you have dated this lady and have tried to, please tell me about her.
She denies that she is a scammer. Other men have complained about her.

I want the truth about her to be fair to her.

Is she a scammer or it is because the men got rejected by her.

Thanks

[ScottinCrimea]

I did a google search on her and from what I found she also uses the name Tatyana Khaustova.  the one report on her I found was the following, posted on another forum:

 "Then the infamous Tatyana Khaustova from Melitopol (who is on Fiance.com and many other sites) who I met 3 times, paid for her free trip each time, told me she loved me and wanted to marry me, but never wanted me to meet her family, never wanted me to go to her town, asked for money all of the time, wanted me to buy her everything when we saw each other, didn't want to leave her country to be with me, but wanted me to continue meeting her in her country paying for her free vacations and everything else."

It could easily be the case that this man was rejected and complained, but his post does give some good insights into how to find out if she is sincere or not.  First, don't pay for any free trips for her to anywhere.  Insist on meeting her in her hometown.  We have pretty well established here that this is the common sense thing to do.  If she refuses to do this, you have your answer.  If you do go to meet her, keep your wallet in your pocket and see how she responds.

[ScottinCrimea]

vicenta,
     I responded in your other post but now you are saying that you have met her a few times.  So were these meetings at neutral vacation sites?  It may be that the pattern is repeating because you are making the same mistakes as the other guy who posted about her.  What do you guys expect?

[BillyB]

Show us where you find men complaining of the woman. some men report a woman as a scammer just because she rejected them, others have valid reasons.

[SANDRO43]

Here's another report from Scam Alert (issued: July 2004; last updated: April 2005):
http://www.scamalert.freeservers.com/Profiles/StoZ/T/tatyana-khaustova.html

[BillyB]

I have met her a few times, and it appears the pattern is repeating.

What's the pattern?  I seen Sandro's post in another thread of yours and after googling, this isn't the first time Sandro's found this woman. She use to be listed on Hot Russian Brides and was taken down after Sandro, in his double dealers thread, [pointed out to the Admin of HRB that she was listed as a scammer elsewhere.

[ScottinCrimea]

I think the pattern is that she finds a foreign man who is willing to pay for her to go on exotic vacations and buy her nice gifts, then when she refuses to commit he starts to wonder if she is sincere.

[timothe]

Threads like these amaze me.  There are millions, literally millions of available women in the various FSU countries.  Why would a guy choose anyone who is even the slightest bit questionable when there are so many women who have no questions about them on the internet?

[Shadow]

There is a very simple ratio. If you divide 'affection' by 'money spent' and it roughly compares to the price of a prostitute, that is what you might have dated...

[vincenta]

I did a google search on her and from what I found she also uses the name Tatyana Khaustova.  the one report on her I found was the following, posted on another forum:

 "Then the infamous Tatyana Khaustova from Melitopol (who is on Fiance.com and many other sites) who I met 3 times, paid for her free trip each time, told me she loved me and wanted to marry me, but never wanted me to meet her family, never wanted me to go to her town, asked for money all of the time, wanted me to buy her everything when we saw each other, didn't want to leave her country to be with me, but wanted me to continue meeting her in her country paying for her free vacations and everything else."

It could easily be the case that this man was rejected and complained, but his post does give some good insights into how to find out if she is sincere or not.  First, don't pay for any free trips for her to anywhere.  Insist on meeting her in her hometown.  We have pretty well established here that this is the common sense thing to do.  If she refuses to do this, you have your answer.  If you do go to meet her, keep your wallet in your pocket and see how she responds.

[Lit_1nce]

Here's another report from Scam Alert (issued: July 2004; last updated: April 2005):
http://www.scamalert.freeservers.com/Profiles/StoZ/T/tatyana-khaustova.html

And she only had another month to go before her scam alert expired... 

[Eduard]

Threads like these amaze me.  There are millions, literally millions of available women in the various FSU countries.  Why would a guy choose anyone who is even the slightest bit questionable when there are so many women who have no questions about them on the internet?

I double that! I think a man must be really naive to fall for a scammer. I've seen many scammer letters and they are all the same, so easy to figure out. They don't sound like a normal woman wouldOne thing you should know - a normal RW will never ask for money or gifts or even if you would  help her pay for a ticket to get somewhere to meet you. If she doesn't have enough money she will just say something like "Sorry I won't be able to make it" Only after you pull the real reason why she can't make it out of her with a pair of plyers she will admit that she doesn't have enough money for a ticket to Moscow for example. You will have to really insist on her accepting your help with paying for anything, she will never ask for it first. Now remember I'm talking about real, marriage material RWs not professional daters, etc. Those are a different story...

[SANDRO43]

I happened to receive a letter through YEVA4U from her (?) today, most likely as a result of this site's usual mass mailing for new members. I opened it inadvertently, it's rather typical, so I thought it might be instructive for some to read it :

Subject: Dear, Sandro, when you’ll see this letter, read it to the end, and I believe you won’t be sorry.

Dearest, Sandro!
When you’ll see this letter, read it to the end, and I believe you won’t be sorry. My name is Tanya. And I would like to get acquainted with you. But first I should tell you a little about me, of course. In my life I'm looking for a man I can share all the best with, man without "bad" habits. He should respect me and love me. I want to be like in a temple behind his back. No, I don't look for ideal, but.... I want our interests and wishes to be the same. I don’t like mendacious people and betrayers, I think most of people hate the same. I am very romantic and sincere. I would like to meet someone similar. I live in not-so-large city Melitopol (it's just only near 160.000) with my grandmother and grandfather. My parents live not so far from Melitopol (40 minutes by car). At this moment I have no any job. It's difficult to find good job in my city. I was married for about 4 years. My ex-husband suffered because of alcohol and didn't want to work. It was awful and we divorced. I would like to know more about you. Please tell me about your life. Are you romantic? What is the most important in your life? What are your interests? Tell me about your family. What countries have you visited? I am looking for a man that is very loving and affectionate. Someone very sensual and sexual. I want him to be intelligent and interesting. I like to hear a man’s views and opinions and think marriage is an equal partnership. My character one can describe as merry and friendly, humorous and romantic, emotional and energetic. I adore action, and hate boredom; I love kidding and communication with my friends. Would you like to be my friend? (Firstly; and than… We’ll see..!) My hobbies are computer, listening to a good music, dancing, reading and cooking. (Oh, I’ll cook something unusual for you sometime!) Also I like nature and picnics in the fresh air, traveling and going sightseeing. Why did I decide to write to a foreigner? I’ve heard that foreign men are friendly, well-bread and respect women. I don’t want you to be ideal, but I need you to be attentive, kind, caring, gentle and communicative. I need a friend and a lover.
Ok, that's all as for now. If you have any questions, so ask without hesitation.
I'll wait for your letter. With best wishes. Tanya.

I'm wondering about the 'temple' reference .

She has also updated her photos (www.yeva4u.net/index.php?show=profile&id=13003315).

[Kuna]

Sandro,

Fantastic example of a high quality scam letter...  but you can tell a lot about a man that falls for that.

I am looking for a man that is very loving and affectionate. Someone very sensual and sexual

I need a friend and a lover.

How many GOOD RW would introduce themselves this way?

NONE!

[Gator]

How many GOOD RW would introduce themselves this way?

NONE!

Exactly Kuna!  From my experience, sensuality and sex is not something that sincere and proper RW advertise.

The most sexual woman in my long life happens to be Russian.  I had no idea she was this way based on 3 months of letters, telephone calls, and the first hours of our meeting.  Then it happened much to my surprise!  I had little to do with it - it was her nature.   Afterwards when dining at a restaurant, seeing the sights, etc. she had an air of ethereal elegance.  She wore classy, unrevealing clothing .  One could never tell from looking at her.  She had strong family values, and I earnestly believe that she was not a player but sincere about marriage to the right man.

My suggestion to newbies is to avoid women who show provocative photos in their profiles and who have sexual undertones in their correspondence and profile.

[myrddin]

My suggestion to newbies is to avoid women who show provocative photos in their profiles and who have sexual undertones in their correspondence and profile.

My own suggestion for newbies: Listen to Gator!

[Kevin]

I found this lady on my site from our Agent in Melitopol. Profile # 13015. When I asked her about her listing the responce I got was. "Tatiana is on the scam list for a rather long time - there was a story when one Italian man came to meet her in Melitopol, and one the first night wanted her to sleep with him. She rejected, and he told her that he will do his best to spoil her life - well, he did a good job, on those scam sites they never ask what a woman thinks. All other complaints roll around this story. Men find her on this list, and put to another one, and so on so forth. As for those men who say - I met her several times but it didn't work out - well, it happens. Or, to be an honest woman, she has to get married with the first she meets? Going to another country is a very serious decision. Men stay in their own house - they just bring a wife there, but a woman will abandon all she knows. "

This is what I refer to as a He said/She said complaint.

Has anyone posting about this lady meet her in person?  I need to be sure if this is a case of a scammer or a scorned men who is seeking revenge.  For those who meet her in person please email me at kevin@khersongirls.com so I can follow up on this.

thanks
kevin Hayes

[Shadow]

Kevin I agree that there are many he said/she said stories. But did you ask your agent to check the implied behavior of meeting candidates in exotic locations ?

[Kevin]

I am waiting to hear from the person who got the letter so I can verify it first.   Most of the posting I am reading are third person and I would like to speak to the people who actually meet her and though which agency.

Kevin

[Blade]

Heh Kevin,
Whats the verdict on this girl?

Blade

[Kevin]

Blade
Not a single person provided me first hand evidence on this lady. Just copies of links to sites that had copies of others sites.  The agent believes she is sincere and without any real evidence otherwise then a single complaint from a men who relationship didn't work out. I won't remove her. but I will advice any client who meet any lady.

1. No money
2. No shopping

Until Married.

Kevin