Romantic Russian women an oxymoron?

[Russiangirl]

Passionate kissing is reserved for the few moments every week or two when she is experiencing an intense orgasm. 

Is passionate kissing your only idea of romance? Also, are you sure about those orgasms? Just saying. 

[2tallbill]

She is beautiful, sexy, intelligent, clever, classy, educated, artistic, talented in so many ways -- is it any wonder I fell in love with her?  The only thing missing is romance.  She does not like anything romantic.  I on the other hand am very romantic.  We have been together two years, and every time I try to do something romantic for her, it is not received well.  Too sentimental.  Passionate kissing is reserved for the few moments every week or two when she is experiencing an intense orgasm.  Is this typical of Russian women??  If not, can anyone offer suggestions??  I am at a loss for what to do.  I hate to think that our future will be void of passion and romance.  I always believed that Russian women were the most passionate and romantic on earth.  Was I wrong?  Or is my Vika not a normal Russian woman?

You married a woman who is not passionate with you? Whose fault is that? You married an FSU woman who is
not very into you! WTF?

If an FSUW is into you............. You will know it. Only you know why you decided to marry this girl. You should
have dumped her as soon as you realized that she was a cold fish. You married her??? Why? Good lord why would
ANYONE do that? 

[2tallbill]

Here is a kicker:  My lady, the one I am going to visit at the end of this month, says that I am the one who needs to be more romantic.

So I suppose that it is a function of the individual.

Until you meet in person, how would she know? What would she know?

[olgac]

looks like he posted afterwards that he was wrong and she was romantic in her own way We don't know whatever happened to that because the profile became inactive

[krimster2]

look, all ya gotta do, is just "stick it in" and move it back and forth
not a complicated task

[2tallbill]

looks like he posted afterwards that he was wrong and she was romantic in her own way We don't know whatever happened to that because the profile became inactive

I don't know what romantic in her own way means. He also posted that she wasn't passionate. Looks like
he is reporting some inconsistent information. I can't imagine a world where I would marry a woman who
isn't passionate. The lesson in my mind is get to know your girl so these things shouldn't suddenly be
surprises to write about. 

You dump a non passionate FSUW by the end of the first week or you waste your trip with a girl when you
should really dump her and meet others. FSUW send signals if they are romantically interested in you, these
signals are easy to read if you are blind, deaf and dumb. If they aren't sending these signals then it's time
to find another girl.

That's my two kopecks


[Edit to add] I did this exact thing. I met with a hot/cold girl page 15 post #353
http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?topic=3432.350
Hopefully newbies reading here can learn from the mistakes of others.

[krimster2]

ONLY date FSU women who make ya something to eat....and "mother" you
if they don't make something fer ya to eat with their own hands, then as William Sez, "time to move on"
they ain't wife material, Or she's NOT really "in to you"

OTOH, you better like borscht

you have to reciprocate by taking her to a nice expensive 5 star restraunt
if she's a village girl, and ain't never been in such a fancy establishment before
show her the correct fork to use

I greatly prefer really strong,  big strapping slavic village girls, with BIG HOOTERS,  minimum 6 feet tall, with athletic body type, and who curse like a Russian sailor
ahhhh...be still, my foolish heart

[olgac]

Well I don't know about that, Krim! She can cook for You simply because she likes cooking and does this all the time but not be passionate because she is is not attracted physically so I am with Bill here.
Kind of nice if a woman can't keep her hands off You.

I know the story the other way around: I know a FSUW who really loves her husband and she always wants to touch him like for example touch his ears she says but he gets annoyed form so much touching throughout the day. Unfortunately in many marriages one spouse loves the other much more and the balance is broken with th eloving spouse having to beg for love and attention all the time! Usually the less loving spouse becomes the leader in the relationship be it a man or a woman and he/she is being catered to all the time. IMHO much better to be on a receiving end of love in such a relationship or ideally there has to be an equal love interest.

Never want to be in a situation when You constantly want someone and want to show affection and the other person is sort of letting You love them. It's very demeaning.

Of course I am talking about normal people, there are some insecure, needy people of both sexes who have an unfillable void inside them usually form bad childhood and no matter how much love and attention You give them, it's never enough. But I don't think the OP was one of them, he just wanted normal affection.

[krimster2]

I always associated dating with sex and food
cuz the women, always gave me plenty of both during this activity

if I just got food, i'd be less interested, same as if I just got sex
but FOOD AND SEX together....is a winning combination
the way to a man's heart is through his appetite

food cooked by a woman tastes much better than doin it yurself
same with sex
BeeFarmer has no idea about what he's been missing his entire life

my wife is so darned pretty, that I just like lookin at her, she's my muse