ex wife jealousy? animosity?

[Blues Fairy]

Kuna, you make me sick.  You are now on my "ignore" list.

[OlgaH]

hahahaha... i wouldn't call it an investigation.  There was a photo album in a bookcase I hadn't been through.

So, she just took your photo album while you were not home and destroyed the photos and after casually mentioned about it. Sorry, but...    I have never done such things in my life.

Regarding to your comment to Blues Fairy, you have made very cheap shot.

[KenC]

Kuna,
You are off base with your comments to Blues Fairy.  "Rude and uncivilized" are rather mild choice of words IMO.  I would have used "immature" and "petty".

Lena has viewed 25 years of photos and video tapes of my life with my ex and accepts that those are mementoes of my past life.  They were not flaunted to her, nor were they hidden away and she certainly never contemplated destroying them either.
KenC

[Muj]

Typical Kuna :ohbrother:

[Jumper]

no unusual jealousy here..

my wife, has met ex g'fs..

She was very polite, but a bit quiet..
later her sincere comments to me..
*shes very nice ,and quite beautiful !!  why din't you marry her?*
she was more puzzled , than jealouse.
I explianed things simply dint work out ,the whys, and that we broke up amicably and remained good friends (although us both relocating and great distance , lessened the friendship over a bit of time)
 
no photos have ever been thrown away..
by me or by her.

She isn't ever really interested in my past relationships..
I dont put a lot of value in the past either,,but if i valued a photo enough to keep it..she fully respects that.
I respect hers as well..

My wife is very understanding of such things in general..
and knowing me well, would expect that i remained friends with people i was once very close to,so tossing thier photos would be odd.

If it was someone in the very distant past, or that i no longer was in touch with or cared,..
i would be the one tossing the photos..


YMMV

[2tallbill]

Good grief!

I think abortion is wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong
wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong !!!!!!!!!!!
evil evil evil evil evil evil evil evil !!!!!

This thread is about ex's and how to deal with them with an RW

Beat up Blues Fairy (using reason and argument) in the abortion thread but don't follow her to other
threads that are completely on a different topic and discount her because of a different thread.
She has made enough cogent, insightful posts in many various topics to be treated with respect.
Hell, she made more sense in the global warming thread than everyone else combined.
(you might disagree but it was a different thread which is my point)

Just my two kopecks,

Bill

[Blues Fairy]

Beat up Blues Fairy (using reason and argument)

We'll see who beats up who. 

[2tallbill]

We'll see who beats up who. 

LOL 

[OlgaH]

Don't speed, man 

[carlt99]

No outward jealousy as such. Just excessive suspicion wrapped up as 'concern'.

An ex girlfriend commented to a mutual friend that she thought it was a 'bit strange' that I was engaged to my wife and my ex-wife wrote me a weird letter saying how I was 'braver' than she was for taking the plunge again.

My wife is perfectly fine with me having photos of exes around, which is good as I agree, they're part of what makes us who we are today.