Wife split!

[OlgaH]

Gifts and obligations?

Wayne's case it is not such case where he made just simply the gifts.

How many of you, men, are ready to support a woman financially, who will say you that she  doesn't love you and she is not interested in relationship with you and more over not going to create a family with you?

Wayne supported her financially and made gifts even before marriage in the same way as you all support your beloved and loving women (fiancees and wives).

Wayne accepted O. as a family before marriage, because he was assured by O. in her love and her wish to build a family with him. If she was honest with him there would not be any posts by Wayne regarding her and his problem that he faced when she abused his love, trust and hope.

When a woman in such case as Wayne says that she doesn't have any obligations in front of a man for his financial supporting and gifts, it is a life "philosophy" of the woman who just simply uses men for her only needs.   

[Maxx2]

Time out for a funny photo.

I was searching through my photos files and I found this one of myself.



I was getting my as$ chewed by Irina ( Not my GCG wife) for something. Probably a pretty girl walked by and I didn't turn my head away fast enough.
I was a weightlifter in those days and very strong. I remember thinking at the time I could press her over my head with one hand. Maybe toss her about
5 meters into some bushes. LOL. I am not as strong now but I bet I could pick up Doll with two hands and lift her over my head and....

Maxx  

[Jack]

Speaking of wife split.  damn Maxx!  Looks when you went to throw her in the bushes you broke her in half.

[Doll]

I am not as strong now but I bet I could pick up Doll with two hands and lift her over my head and....

And?
( I am 112 pounds  )

[Doll]

Gifts and obligations?

Wayne's case it is not such case where he made just simply the gifts.

How many of you, men, are ready to support a woman financially, who will say you that she  doesn't love you and she is not interested in relationship with you and more over not going to create a family with you?

Wayne supported her financially and made gifts even before marriage in the same way as you all support your beloved and loving women (fiancees and wives).

Wayne accepted O. as a family before marriage, because he was assured by O. in her love and her wish to build a family with him. If she was honest with him there would not be any posts by Wayne regarding her and his problem that he faced when she abused his love, trust and hope.

When a woman in such case as Wayne says that she doesn't have any obligations in front of a man for his financial supporting and gifts, it is a life "philosophy" of the woman who just simply uses men for her only needs.   

You didn't get the concept.

[OlgaH]

You didn't get the concept.

because some of concepts that is normal for you are not acceptable for me.

He fixed her teeth, but her smile is for other man
He fixed her eyesight, but her look is for other man
He financially supported her and brought her in his home as a woman he loved and wanted to have a family with, being assured by her that she loved him and wanted a family with him,  but she left him after her GC announced that she has a boyfriend.

Such concept is unacceptable for me. Your mileage may vary.

[Doll]

because some of concepts that is normal for you are not acceptable for me.

He fixed her teeth, but her smile is for other man
He fixed her eyesight, but her look is for other man
He financially supported her and brought her in his home as a woman he loved and wanted to have a family with, being assured by her that she loved him and wanted a family with him,  but she left him after her GC announced that she has a boyfriend.

Such concept is unacceptable for me. Your mileage may vary.

Trying to be patient.
The   concept of "gifts vs loans" was about people doing something and expecting or not being paid back.
 So you're right- you do something and you expect your husband be gracious (doing something in return) forever.
I do because I think it is right to do.What I do is about me. Got it?

[Maxx2]

Speaking of wife split.  damn Maxx!  Looks when you went to throw her in the bushes you broke her in half.

That is funny Jack!

[OlgaH]

Trying to be patient.
The   concept of "gifts vs loans" was about people doing something and expecting or not being paid back.
 So you're right- you do something and you expect your husband be gracious (doing something in return) forever.
I do because I think it is right to do.What I do is about me. Got it?

I got it. What is right for you it is right for you. You can do something for your husband expecting his gracious. It is your and your husband's business.

My husband and I live together and do things together for each other not because of a barter, not because we expect a gracious from each other, but because of love to each other and pleasure that we are experiencing in doing all these good things for each other. And there never was any lies about our love to each other just to get some benefits from each other.  I iron his shirts, cook something tasty for him and enjoy time with him not because I expect a gracious from him or something in return, but because I love him and I want he to feel my care for him, and he does everything for me in the same way.

Wayne did all these good things for O. because he loved her and cared of her, and was assured that she loved him also because of him, what he is. But all her love was just a lie for some gracious that she expected and got from him.

[Maxx2]

And?
( I am 112 pounds  )

Just your bottom half?

[Doll]

I got it. What is right for you it is right for you. You can do something for your husband expecting his gracious. It is your and your husband's business.

Reading comprehension problems.

[Doll]

Just your bottom half?

The whole thing- I am petite.

[Maxx2]

The whole thing- I am petite.

You are then what they call, "pint size trouble".   


Maxx

[OlgaH]

Reading comprehension problems.

I'm reading how you have written it. but you are mistaken applying to me your views on expecting gracious 

So you're right- you do something and you expect your husband be gracious (doing something in return) forever.
I do because I think it is right to do.What I do is about me. Got it?

I got it. What is right for you it is right for you. You can do something for your husband expecting his gracious. It is your and your husband's business.

My husband and I live together and do things together for each other not because of a barter, not because we expect a gracious from each other, but because of love to each other and pleasure that we are experiencing in doing all these good things for each other. And there never was any lies about our love to each other just to get some benefits from each other.
I iron his shirts, cook something tasty for him and enjoy time with him not because I expect a gracious from him or something in return, but because I love him and I want he to feel my care for him, and he does everything for me in the same way.

[Doll]

because some of concepts that is normal for you are not acceptable for me.

He fixed her teeth, but her smile is for other man
He fixed her eyesight, but her look is for other man
He financially supported her and brought her in his home as a woman he loved and wanted to have a family with, being assured by her that she loved him and wanted a family with him,  but she left him after her GC announced that she has a boyfriend.

Such concept is unacceptable for me. Your mileage may vary.

Can you see this? Your posting BTW. It says that O has to "pay back".
Sort of. He did something BUT she... He did BUT she. Her smile is for somebody else, her something is for something else. Why all these BUTs?
So you cook and iron for your husband because you love him but if tomorrow he leaves you, will you remember all your "I cooked and I ironed"?
If no then why are you talking of "Wayne did this and that but she..."?
This what we mean when talk of "gifts and loans"

[Doll]

He fixed her teeth, but her smile is for other man
He fixed her eyesight, but her look is for other man
He financially supported her and brought her in his home as a woman he loved and wanted to have a family with, being assured by her that she loved him and wanted a family with him,  but she left him after her GC announced that she has a boyfriend.

Such concept is unacceptable for me.

Ok, let's fix it- he paid for my teeth fixed so I am staying with him, he paid for my contacts so I am staying with him, he has been supporting me for years so I am staying with him even though I don't love him any more, I am sick of living in his house as  he hurt me.
 Or what?

[OlgaH]

Can you see this? Your posting BTW. It says that O has to "pay back".
Sort of. He did something BUT she... He did BUT she. Her smile is for somebody else, her something is for something else. Why all these BUTs?
So you cook and iron for your husband because you love him but if tomorrow he leaves you, will you remember all your "I cooked and I ironed"?
If no then why are you talking of "Wayne did this and that but she..."?
This what we mean when talk of "gifts and loans"

Doll you are a very imaginative woman    Where exactly I said O has pay back. I said she used Wayne using his feelins towards her? So, what she have done to Wayne?  Left him after her GC 

I will not remember all "I cooked and I ironed" especially as a reproach, I will remeber a wonderful time that we spent together 

[OlgaH]

Ok, let's fix it- he paid for my teeth fixed so I am staying with him, he paid for my contacts so I am staying with him, he has been supporting me for years so I am staying with him even though I don't love him any more, I am sick of living in his house as  he hurt me.
 Or what?

She should never accept his support and marry him as she doesn't love him. But I think it is not your view on the relations, love and family.

Now write your guesses and imaginations, more correct to say continue to write, about how Wayne hurt her 

[Doll]

I will not remember all "I cooked and I ironed" especially as a reproach, I will remeber a wonderful time that we spent together  Wink

So let Wayne remember their wonderful time.

[OlgaH]

So let Wayne remember their wonderful time.

Only if she gave him such time 

[Doll]

She should never accept his support and marry him as she doesn't love him.

I think she did.

[Misha]

even though I don't love him any more

Well, at least you loved him at some point.

[Doll]

Well, at least you loved him at some point.

Misha, my post was NOT about me, dear 

[OlgaH]

I think she did.

Oh, yes, in her own way  and especially brightly she showed her "love" right after her GC 

Next day, came home from work, found wife and step-daughter gone, everything packed up and gone. 

Wife took new car that is in my name; computer, cable modem, etc. 

Wife admits she has a boyfriend and moved in with him.  I wondered how she was getting all the expensive new clothes.

Wife? moved into seperate bedroom. 

She doesn't clean, cook or do laundry for me.  House was never so dirty before.  Lets her dog mess all over the house and does not clean it up. 

 Many debts ran up because wife likes to buy things and has expensive tastes.

Wife spent several hours each day talking on the phone to her Russian friends, but she did not even try to talk to me. 

Sometime shortly after we got the new car, my key disapeared.  Wife did not let me drive the car unless we were going somewhere together. 

Wife put a lock on the room where the computer is located. 

 

[Misha]

Misha, my post was NOT about me, dear 

That is true, I still have to ascertain whether you love your husband (Sorry, couldn't resist the jibe in good fun). Point taken nonetheless