Wife split!

[vwrw]

I would be interested in seeing what you read. The attorney that advised me I thought was exaggerating and was doing so to scare me into using him, I did not.
Maxx

I spent two hours trying to find the info promised  but I was not able to find it again. Since I have nothing to substantiate my words I cannot confirm the earlier-mentioned numbers are correct.
However, my search reveals several women who preferred to prove they married in good faith rather than file domestic abuse charges .   Although these several women are not enough to claim that many women will not  file DV charges, it does show that NOT100% of women would take the terrible way in given situation.   

[Maxx2]

I spent two hours trying to find the info promised  but I was not able to find it again. Since I have nothing to substantiate my words I cannot confirm the earlier-mentioned numbers are correct.
However, my search reveals several women who preferred to prove they married in good faith rather than file domestic abuse charges .   Although these several women are not enough to claim that many women will not  file DV charges, it does show that NOT100% of women would take the terrible way in given situation.   

I believe you VWRW. I was hoping to get it for my website. I try to make the case with the guys who have been hurt that there are many decent Russian women. That they just chose a wrong one. The "100% probability" is disproved if only one women refused to go this route and I know many that haven't. Thank you for the search.

Maxx

[Maxx2]

Off topic

[Doll]

  I advised you in e-mail to come back and work it out legally (I have it in my old files).

What could I do illegally? Everything is legal. If I did each and every thing according to law he would be screwed. This DVC machine needs to just be started then it won't stop.

[Doll]

These tricks some of these guys use like getting their wife out of the country and then stealing their wive's passport and visa are something I think is idiotic and wrong 

It was impossible to get passports from us and he wouldn't do it.
But what he did was canceling the credit card. So what I always recommend to women is to get their own credit cards as soon as possible. Also the tickets could be canceled. Since then I've never had credit cards on both names and charged my card to buy tickets. A lot of preventive measures  .
Speaking of locks- his choice was to give me the keys or meet the cop at the door step. This is what Wayne's wife did. He also wanted to keep the car away but same common sense said NO 
Needless to say all the accounts, the credit card AND the new car are  on my name solely now.
And this is less than a half of all I did and am doing.

[William3rd]

And so now this thread has become singing the praises of DV?!?!?!? Veiled threats against terminating failed relationships?

I pity some of you folks, I really do.

[Misha]

Needless to say all the accounts, the credit card AND the new car are  on my name solely now.
And this is less than a half of all I did and am doing.

So, do you pay for the credit cards AND the new car? 

[Doll]

So, do you pay for the credit cards AND the new car? 

Never know what people mean -"pay for credit cards"
Yes , I do.

[Misha]

Never know what people mean -"pay for credit cards"
Yes , I do.

Quite simple: when you get the bill at the end of the month, do you pay the bill out of your account, with money that you earned and put into the account? Quite a simple concept 

[OlgaH]

Doll,

you husband wanted the divorce and even in such case you decided to stay with him... For the sake of what ?

This DVC machine needs to just be started then it won't stop.

Did you tell your husband exactly the same thing?

[Doll]

Quite simple: when you get the bill at the end of the month, do you pay the bill out of your account, with money that you earned and put into the account? Quite a simple concept 

Hon, I know how it works very well- I never say "pay for card", I say "pay the bill"

[Doll]

Did you tell your husband exactly the same thing?

No.

[Misha]

No.

Всё понятно!

[Doll]

Doll,

you husband wanted the divorce and even in such case you decided to stay with him... For the sake of what ?

I had my own reasons which I am not going to talk about.
And, guys, back to poor Wayne. What I mostly mean is that I know what a woman can do and how.
So forget your dreams about canceling her GC or deporting her unless you have 5-7 thousand that you don't need.

[Doll]

Did you tell your husband exactly the same thing?

Girls, AM fear anything that has something to do with laws . So it is enough to just mention attorneys and laws.
Don't beat me, boys!

[Gator]

So forget your dreams about canceling her GC or deporting her unless you have 5-7 thousand that you don't need.

That would be a bargain compared to the costs of all other options.  I would think a messy divorce would cost $50-70K as a minimum. 

Exposure under the Affidavit of Support if she stays is far more than 5-7k, although I doubt a RW would ever become a ward of the state considering the immense pride of RW.

[Doll]

That would be a bargain compared to the costs of all other options.  I would think a messy divorce would cost $50-70K as a minimum. 

Exposure under the Affidavit of Support if she stays is far more than 5-7k, although I doubt a RW would ever become a ward of the state considering the immense pride of RW.

Gator, this 5-7 thousand will be a waste but not a bargain.
$50-70 as minimum? With a wife after 6 months of marriage? What are you talking of?
 Pride? RW are survivors  and often with kids. It is not the matter of pride, they often go for it for the sake of kids (and themselves)

[OlgaH]

I had my own reasons which I am not going to talk about.

I understand... and think there is even no need you to talk about your reasons.

[Maxx2]

I understand... and think there is even no need you to talk about your reasons.

It's about keeping one's support verses the difficulty of being on one's own. It is the reason stated up thread why it is unlikely a Russian women would resort to a false DV charges. Better to just cut a deal. I disagree with this. There are plenty of RW who leave their support (husbands) and have confidence they can make it without them.


Maxx

[OlgaH]

It's about keeping one's support verses the difficulty of being on one's own. It is the reason stated up thread why it is unlikely a Russian women would resort to a false DV charges. Better to just cut a deal.

sale, bargain, blackmail...

AM fear anything that has something to do with laws . So it is enough to just mention attorneys and laws.

This DVC machine needs to just be started then it won't stop.

[William3rd]

Never negotiate with terrorists. . . .

[ScottinCrimea]

It was impossible to get passports from us and he wouldn't do it.
But what he did was canceling the credit card. So what I always recommend to women is to get their own credit cards as soon as possible. Also the tickets could be canceled. Since then I've never had credit cards on both names and charged my card to buy tickets. A lot of preventive measures  .
Speaking of locks- his choice was to give me the keys or meet the cop at the door step. This is what Wayne's wife did. He also wanted to keep the car away but same common sense said NO 
Needless to say all the accounts, the credit card AND the new car are  on my name solely now.
And this is less than a half of all I did and am doing.

Wow, such a loving, trusting relationship!  She makes the threats, he pays the bills.

[William3rd]

he should come on here- his name could be "DOORMAT" or "FLOORMAT"

equally as disturbed as his mate, I am sure.

[felix8787]

It was impossible to get passports from us and he wouldn't do it.
But what he did was canceling the credit card. So what I always recommend to women is to get their own credit cards as soon as possible. Also the tickets could be canceled. Since then I've never had credit cards on both names and charged my card to buy tickets. A lot of preventive measures  .
Speaking of locks- his choice was to give me the keys or meet the cop at the door step. This is what Wayne's wife did. He also wanted to keep the car away but same common sense said NO 
Needless to say all the accounts, the credit card AND the new car are  on my name solely now.
And this is less than a half of all I did and am doing.

Threaten him with DV Charges or give you keys. Sounds more like blackmail then talking.
You have been married to this AM for 7 years after you worked things out and you can't trust him to have joint accounts?

Wow, such a loving, trusting relationship!  She makes the threats, he pays the bills.

How long has he been walking on eggshells?

[Misha]

Wow, such a loving, trusting relationship!  She makes the threats, he pays the bills.

Well, Doll does always highlight the need for the husband to be earning a lot of money. From what I gathered on another thread, what is an average wage in the United States would be considered by her living in poverty