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Re: Some thoughts and discussion points
« Reply #75 on: November 16, 2008, 05:00:07 PM »
Pit I guess it depends on the woman.  I would call it helping adjust to America though instead of babysitting.

I guess we could sit in the house all day until we can not handle it any more.  I live in a community with all sorts of parks, hiking trails, and fishing ponds.  My fiance also has a boy to help adjust, IMO that really helps a lot.  She will be more worried about making sure he is adjusting and not dwelling on her own adjustment.

I say it is like the puppy though.  I have heard that one a few times.  You better realize you got 2 jobs at that point.  Normal work day and then absorb around 5,000 words when you get home.  RW are talkers, at least my friend and fiance are.  Good news is they are just telling you things most of the time and not looking for you to think out much and give an answer. 

They are just Chatty women.

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Re: Some thoughts and discussion points
« Reply #76 on: November 16, 2008, 05:10:14 PM »
Diplomacy,

Though I don't really understand 50% of what you are trying to say, you seem to be very well informed on how "RW are". Very enlightening  8)

Good luck to you and your fiance! What you say here is very important and will help you both immensely:

My fiance and I have such a similar personality and philosophy we get through all of this while having fun too.
Be the person that your dog thinks you are

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« Reply #77 on: November 16, 2008, 05:34:36 PM »
It is OK pitbull I am struggling with explaining all this.  The sad part is I got the answers I was looking for and the discussion where I was hoping it would go.  I stepped away and sleep on it.

It is hard to explain when you are surrounded by something it is normal to you.  It is not normal for others.  It is a matter of the country being a collective of Individuals, but each Individual has a different normal.

Perception is reality to many, right or wrong.  If that perception is not set into proper expectations, you have 2 people with a miserable life and blaming the other.  Nobody is even a bad person, just real bad communication.  This becomes even harder in language barrier relationships.

Now kind of funny in a thread I can not get most to understand.

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« Reply #78 on: November 16, 2008, 05:47:04 PM »
Oh, I know Ukrainian culture and mentality.  I am trying to apply it to my knowledge of women.  I am only real good friends with a few Ukrainian women, and have had a lot of discussions with Ukrainians.

I started this journey to adopt an Orphan and raise a son close to 3 years ago.  It is becoming harder and harder to adopt in Ukraine and had to have a network to help me that were Patriots. Along the way, I realized there is no reason for any of this.

Ukraine is a very resource rich country that can not get out of its own way.  So I started networking with people that are making a difference.  Started to make a difference in some peoples life there also. 

In the end I think I am the one that has been made the most different.  I found the Son I so wanted and a wonderful woman together. 


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Re: Some thoughts and discussion points
« Reply #79 on: November 16, 2008, 07:30:03 PM »
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Diplomacy,

Though I don't really understand 50% of what you are trying to say, you seem to be very well informed on how "RW are". Very enlightening 
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Re: Some thoughts and discussion points
« Reply #80 on: November 16, 2008, 07:37:04 PM »
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I found the Son I so wanted and a wonderful woman together.

I definately need an interpreter 


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« Reply #81 on: November 17, 2008, 09:46:59 AM »
I am so thinking you need more than an interpreter Doll. :-X

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Re: Some thoughts and discussion points
« Reply #82 on: November 17, 2008, 12:35:18 PM »
I am so thinking you need more than an interpreter Doll. :-X
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