Confessions of a Sex Tourist / Scammers addict

[SexTourist]

Posting to a forum...
I am a newbie to this forum, but I have been doing it for many years. I used to post regularly on www.rwguide.com. That site changed hands, the lucky guy who started it - apparently - sold it to a bunch of rich Russian investors (oligards?). I am going to guess he got paid handsomely for it. Ever since, it's become very commercial (rather than informative), selling the usual Russian junk: sex trips, email addresses, translation services etc...

Posting to a forum...
Conjures in my head the image of a gathering of Alcoholics Anonymous... let's call this gathering "Addicted to Russian women Anonymous".

Hello... my name is SexTourist.
I am 50 years old, divorced last year from a Russian Lady (from Omsk), been to Kiev 5 times and to Russia one time (visited Moscow, St. Petersburg, Volgograd and Omsk). Addicted to sex with Russian women and to corresponding with Russian scammers.

Katy (Ekaterina Vitvinova) has been writing to me for several weeks now:
"Hi  my  favourite!  I  am  glad  to speak again with you! How you
today? I would send you the information that  you  could  contact to agency travel!
Blah, blah, blah...
But with you I  feel,  that all differently. I would like to be obedient and gentle  to  to you.
Blah, blah, blah...
I asked the agent in what way  it is possible to transfer from you money for payment of them. he has told, that will learn about it and to inform me. My gentle kisses!"

I answered Katy today:
"Blah, blah, blah...
But you must understand why I hesitate. I want you to know that I feel NO sympathy for men who are stupid enough to fall for scams on the Internet. They deserve what they get.
I know that what is betweem us (me and you) is much deeper and more romantic. That's why we need to build confidence between us. I want to know that the girl who called me a few times on the phone is the same one who appears in the pictures you send to me. That's why I asked you to send me naked pictures of you. Only then will I know that it is really you who is writing to me, and not a man (Yuri the Scammer).
What I will propose to you may sound offensive, but it is the only way I can start to trust you. I have fallen in love with the woman in the pictures. It is true although weird. I have printed your pcitures and I take them to the bed with me. I lay down on my bed completely naked and I start to stroke my penis looking at your pictures. Is my telling the truth offensive to you? I hope not maya Daragaya, because I want to send you money that will make you happy, but only if you do something to earn my trust and confidence. I want to see naked pictures of you, I want to have phone sex with you and I want to meet you in real life - in person - to have sex with you, a lot of sex that we will both enjoy. You will make some good money because I am not a poor person, so I will make you happy."

You can see pictures of Katy here:
http://agencyscams.com/Girls/IraidaRyabova.html

Wait... wait... Many of you are already offended by now... But that's exactly the purpose of this post: to offend the easily offended and all the Russian-dating-politically-correct-decent-human-beings out there.

So if you are offended, please continue reading, and if you are not, I know you will anyway.

In 2001, I was an involuntary sex tourist. I traveled to Kiev to visit a beautiful woman I had been writing to for several months. Long story short, I had the best sex I had had at that point in my life and - as things turned out at the end - the girl had no serious intentions whatsoever, all she wanted was just some good time and some money. She used my body for her physical enjoyment (she used to orgasm before me) and took some money from me and then stopped writing to me.

I was pleasantly exploited by a Russian nympho... Sbassiba Yana.

Oops... it's getting late now. I stop here and continue my confessions another time :-)

[groovlstk]

Hello... my name is SexTourist.
I am 50 years old, divorced last year from a Russian Lady (from Omsk), been to Kiev 5 times and to Russia one time (visited Moscow, St. Petersburg, Volgograd and Omsk). Addicted to sex with Russian women and to corresponding with Russian scammers.

I can understand the desire for sex with women who are otherwise out of your league, but how did you manage to become addicted to corresponding with Russian scammers?

Someone out there in RWDland, please promise me something: If God forbid I ever get divorced from my lovely wife, and resort to spending my free time trying to coax naked pictures from scammers, will you please drag me out back and beat me to death with a tire iron?

[Sculpto]

I can understand the desire for sex with women who are otherwise out of your league, but how did you manage to become addicted to corresponding with Russian scammers?

Someone out there in RWDland, please promise me something: If God forbid I ever get divorced from my lovely wife, and resort to spending my free time trying to coax naked pictures from scammers, will you please drag me out back and beat me to death with a tire iron?

He is trying to scam the scammer.. seems to me he is more addicted to the internet and is avoiding living in real life.

[Mishenka]

Sex Tourist, you are confessing to the wrong people in the wrong venue. I suggest you seek professional help from a qualified therapist who specializes in people like yourself who chose to live in fantasy rather than reality. In truth, none of us here want to hear your confessions. You are wasting our time and yours. You do not offend anyone here, we only feel sorry for you. I hope you find the help you need and stop using women for your own gratification. You are wasting your life away and in the end you hurt people and yourself. Personally I don't take your post seriously. You are full of yourself, in a word-  "bullshiiit"

Best wishes,
mishenka

[Faux Pas]

I can understand the desire for sex with women who are otherwise out of your league, but how did you manage to become addicted to corresponding with Russian scammers?

Someone out there in RWDland, please promise me something: If God forbid I ever get divorced from my lovely wife, and resort to spending my free time trying to coax naked pictures from scammers, will you please drag me out back and beat me to death with a tire iron?

Yes groov...I will.....I promise

[OlgaH]

Someone out there in RWDland, please promise me something: If God forbid I ever get divorced from my lovely wife, and resort to spending my free time trying to coax naked pictures from scammers, will you please drag me out back and beat me to death with a tire iron?

what about a whip   

[Sculpto]

feeling a bit feisty today Olga??? 

[GoodOlBoy]

OLGAH, I like the "new" look!   

[OlgaH]

feeling a bit feisty today Olga??? 

   No, Sculpto, It was just a question.  I can not promise as Faux Pas has promised, probably he doesn't know that...

 



  

[GoodOlBoy]

Posting to a forum...
"Addicted to Russian women Anonymous"....Hello... my name is SexTourist....

OK Porno Pike a.k.a."Albert" or Ambach123, stop fooling around on the forum.  

[LEGAL]

Olga Stop toying with those guys on the board and come back to bed and play!

[Kuna]

What next??? D1ck pix???

Go get some help Pike... you need it!

[OlgaH]

Olga Stop toying with those guys on the board and come back to bed and play!

Take a deep breath, darrrrrling  :crackthewhip:

[OlgaH]

What next??? D1ck pix???

IN US "indecent exposure", "sexual misconduct", "public lewdness" is a criminal offense in all fifty states and is punishable by fines and/or imprisonment, and in some states a conviction results in having to register as a sex offender. 

[GoodOlBoy]

What next??? D1ck pix???

Please Kuna, don't give him any more crazy ideas! 

[OlgaH]

Please Kuna, don't give him any more crazy ideas! 

BTW the pictures from a Medical Encyclopedia under the chapter "Syphilis" say more than thousands words I remember an expression of my son when I had a talk with him about the grave consequences of sexual dissoluteness  

[SexTourist]

Hunh? My original post is still here, un-edited and un-deleted by an overzealous moderator/admin?
Only the expected flame from the self-appointed morality squad.
I am doing real GOOD!
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Disclaimer: Following post contains adult-themed material. If you are easily offended by such material, please continue reading.
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So there I was one night, sitting by myself at the bar in a strip club. It is the largest club in this city in South-East USA where I used to live a few years ago. Tens of strippers on stage. Just a few feet away from me, a young couple was enjoying the show. They had maybe had a few drinks. The woman started to dance for her man. She was fully clothed and I got the impression she was just getting horny herself watching all the naked women around and was going to treat her man to a special performance. Problem is: she was starting to attract attention. Many of the patrons started to watch her instaed of watching the strippers on stage. It was not long before the club's goons approached the woman and asked her to stop. Probably feeling insulted and humiliated, the couple soon left the place. Her dancing was not good for business, so the club acted quickly by flaming her and encouraging her to leave. It worked.

Ever been to a strip club? It's fascinating what goes on there.I just sit and watch... not only the sexy naked strippers (which I tremendously enjoy by the way), but also the men and the expressions on their faces. A patron signals one of the performers, she comes to his table, dances only for him, shoves her genitals one inch away from his face, rubs her buttocks against his crotch, sits on his lap. The man is in heaven, pays a few dollars for the privilege of being aroused. In some daring clubs, there are "private" rooms where a patron (for $100 or so) gets a private performance where he is alone with the stripper. A club goon is standing at the private room's door making sure of two things: the patron in the room does not do something foolish, and, no un-wanted visitors come to the room or peek into it. Sometimes, if it  is a regular (known) patron of the club, and the club has a more permissive policy, he is allowed to take out his penis and masturbate; but that's rather the exception, not the rule and I say this based on hearsay, not something that I've seen or done myself.
The interaction between the men and the strippers is very interesting, to me at least. Any victims here? who is exploiting who? Is there any exploitation at all? The Ten Dollars the patron pays for a table dance is only small change to him. He feels lucky to be looking at such a sexy woman completely naked. He is seen by many as an exploitative SOB who is using his money to encourage the lewd behavior of these women.
The stripper is selling her body to a sucker (thinks she). She is thinking: so what if I strip for a total stranger? he is not allowed to touch me and I am making good money. She is exploiting this gullible man's hunger to look at a woman's naked body.
Who's exploiting who? I think it is a mutually exploitative relationship.
The real exploiters are actually the club owners. Most of these strippers are alcoholics or drug addicts. They desperately need the easy money. Most of the patrons are porn-starved middle-aged men. They'll take the memory of the naked pussy back home with them and masturbate tonight.

The Russian dating business is absolutely HUGE business. Those who benefit from it have every reason to paint a rosy picture. You know... the picture of a well-meaning, hard-working western man, turned off by the feminist, assertive attitude of western women, going off to Russia land seeking a beautiful, more feminine, faithful Russian woman who has the much-coveted "traditional family values". He finds her - of course - on his first trip, marries her after spending a week in her city and lives happily ever after.

Then comes along a pervert like myself - who needs professional help - and shows the other side of the coin, tells things the way they are and paints the real picturen (or... let's just say... a DIFFERENT picture). And all flaming sirens and bullhorns go off. Of course.

Speaking of Strip clubs... ever been to one in Russia? I was in St. Petersburg, meeting a lady I had been corrresponding with for several months. She took me one night to a strip club. I guess she was curious herself to find-out what goes on there. She certainly could NEVER afford stepping into this place (certainly not un-accomapnied).
Thinking back at that night, I would not be surprised if our arrival at the club's door would have caused quite a stir. I can see - in my mind - the clucb workers quickly spreading the news throughout the club: a foreigner has just arrived. Everyone, get ready to sucker him out of his money...
We sat at a table and ordered a couple of drinks. For the next 30 minutes, every girl working at that place (stripper or not), came to our table to offer her services. My girl seemed to enjoy every minute of this and looked like she was actually turned-on by the sight of naked women girating on the stage. I could easily have taken any of the strippers back to our aparatment and had a wild threesome. I am under the certain impression my girl would not have objected, even enjoyed it. But, on that one particular trip, that night, I did not have enough money on me or in my bank account to allow for this kind of extravagance.
The pressure to keep ordering drinks and/or deal with the army of girls who were coming to our table finally turned me off, I paid the bill and left - over my girl's objections. Hmmm... maybe my girl was getting some kind of kickback from the club?? But no... impossible... she was from Volgograd and we were only visiting in St. Petersburg.
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Back to Ekaterina Vitvinova (Just "Katy" for close friends). She included in her last email her street address. Here it is, in case someone googles it:
Country: Russia . Index : 422520
City: Kirov
Street: Scolnaya 15-77
I remember also seeing it somewhere else.
More interestingly, she wrote the street address of the travel agency where I will be sending the $1450 she wants to get her travel documents to "come to me" in "my country" and be "obedient" to me:
Agency of travels "Vlada" , Russia, Kirovo,
First Name: Aleksandr  Last Name: Anisimov
Country: Russia .
City: Vologda Area ;Kirovo
Street: Krasnoflotskay . D-24 Apartment 78
E-mail : Agensi_Vlada@bk.ru
Tel: 89877019112
I googled "Aleksandr Anisimov", found nothing. So maybe he's the new pimp Katy hired after she fired the old one who failed her somehow. I am quite impressed with Aleksandr, he opeartes a far-reaching successful travel agency from apartment 78 on Krasnoflotskay Street.
An image just went through my head... I am having hot sex with Katy in the bedroom. Aleksandr is hiding behind the balcony curtains, he is filming us silently. He will use the video to blackmail me... "Pay me a Gazillion Roubles or I will send this video to Obama and ruin your political aspirations"... says Aleksandr.

Luckily for me... I have no such aspirations... yet.

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Back to Yana. My 1st experience with a Russian woman. She was from the Ukraine, but let's just say she was Russian, since they're all the same... Russian... Ukrainian...
Side-note: have you seen the movie Transporter 3? The Super hot actress gets angry when such a remark is made and explains very emotionally that Ukrainians are DIFFERENT. Yep... sure they are.
So there I was... in my forties having a super hot love/sex story with a 25-year-old beautiful blonde with light blue eyes. A 6'1" Goddess (I am only 5'10" with balding hair) so hot in bed that she etched the picture of her face expression while orgasming in my mind for the rest of my life.
I became hooked on Russian women.
Soon after she took my money and dumped me I was quickly back on the Russian dating sites and started corresponding with Vika from Kiev. Equally hot in bed, Vika was more demanding sexually.
Lesson one: a much younger woman will run circles around you in bed if you are not perfectly physically fit.
I spent a ton of money on Vika, our relationship lasting over a year. I invited her - along with her mother - to a trip to Egypt, all expenses paid. I proposed to her at the base of the Great Pyramid of Keops and she said yes, her mother nodding with approval.
Two weeks after she returned to Kiev - I guess sensing I was such a sucker - she asked for an expensive dowry, which I declined, feeling it was now too much exploitation.
Side-note: In Russia, the custom is actually for the bride to pay a dowry to the groom. Festivities last a week to 10 days and it is the bride's family that pay for almost everything. Anyone with more accurate information? Please correct me.
For various reasons that I will not get into here (too much details), I think it was her mother who had that idea of making such ridiculous demands (for a dowry). Vika was an only child BTW.
Fast forward seven years, I contacted Vika just recently to say "Hi from an old friend" and she told me she is now separated from her Russian husband, has one daughter from him.
Lesson two:
- Your girl is an only child of the family.
- Your girl is very close to her mother, they share all secrets and talk about everything (that's actualy a sign of a good & healthy family relationship, isn't it? what are you complaining about?)
- Your girl is too young (weak) to oppose her mother's will even if she's madly in love with you.
- Work on winning her mother on your side. Do whatever it takes. Paint a rosy picture of life in "your country" for her and for her daughter. Include the mother in the plans and show her you are the perfect husband for her daughter.
- Rumor: A Russian man will dump his wife if she gives him a daughter, not a son. Hmmm... here I go spreading malicious rumors!
I learned that lesson not only from Vika, but also from another girl from Yekaterinburg that I met in 2006, where practically the same scenario repeated itself (less the extravagant expenses).

Lesson 3: If you shower your girl with expensive gifts and expenditure, she (or her family) might start having greedy thoughts about "what else can we get from him?"

I have some more thoughts about dating a much younger woman... but that'll be for the next Confessions installment... provided - of course - this thread is not deleted!

[Mishenka]

dude, FYI, any age RW will run circles around you in bed, Get yourself in shape!

[SexTourist]

dude, FYI, any age RW will run circles around you in bed, Get yourself in shape!

Exactly my point!
I have many thoughts on how Russian women are sexually liberated and how they use sex to control a man, but more on that later!

For now, let me tell you about the Super Sexy Anna!

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I corresponded with Anna for several weeks. She is probably the sexiest scammer I have ever corresponded with and she knew how to press my weak buttons

On November 25th, I wrote to her:
"Anna, Daragaya,
Kak Dela?? I want to start by saying that I have gotten so used to receiving nice pictures of you that I feel very spoiled and very happy. I am now using your picture in bikini as a background image on my computer's screen Do you have any more pictures like this one?
Anna my Love, you must know that nothing will keep us apart, so to say that 990 euros is all that separates us is a no-brainer. Do not worry because I will be more than happy to help you with this amount. Anna, I told you before I work in the $%^&*&^%$ field and I make good money, so this is not a problem! "

To which, she replied:
"I would like to arrive to you for New year. Also would like to spend New year near to you.
I am not going to deceive you. If I had money that I did not ask you the help. I have paid my documents and arrived to you.
If you can help me with money that I could make my documents and could arrive to you. That I could arrive to you in December.
It is required to Turestichesky agency from two about three weeks to make to me all it. As soon as all will I am ready should I will get tickets so through this travel agency (it will be included into treaty provisions which to me it necessary to sign) and they to me will find air tickets under the reasonable prices.
On all my travel it to be necessary for me $990.
The tourist agent has told to me that $990 are the cheapest variant in your country.
I miss and will wait your letter very soon!"

I loved that "I am not going to deceive you" sentence in her email... NICE touch!



Here's Anna's info:
email address she used while corresponding with me: annachka75@yahoo.fr
Name - Anna
The second name - Yablokova
The street name - lenina 12-29
City - Cheboksary
The country - Russia

Anna has never sent me the naked pictures I asked her for
So I would like at this time to start a collection from all the "Addicted to Russian Women Anonymous" group, everyone sends me $100 and when we have collected $990, I will send her the money in exchange for a set of her naked pictures, to which the group will have exclusive publishing rights.

[topofthekey]

 

i'd suspect you could get porn cheaper than a grand. sure you want to see what yuri has under his skirt? just go to some russian adult site and plop down 20 or 30 bucks a month and quit bothering guys seeking FSU women for a serious relationship.

[Gator]

ST,

Your confession is good therapy for recovering from your problem with sexual addiction.  Hopefully, you will continue to progress, and someday enjoy a healthy life with fulfilling relationships.  Are you on any medication?

[Vaughn]

Name - Anna
The second name - Yablokova

Annie APPLES !!   I love it.

Best one I've heard since Susha Swimsuit a year ago....

[catzenmouse]

Do we have a section for 13 year old boys to post? If so, shouldn't this be moved there? 

If there is any truth to the OP's position/thoughts I think it is best that he/she/it take it to a professional. Maybe even shock therapy...

[GoodOlBoy]

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Disclaimer: Following post contains adult-themed material. If you are easily offended by such material, please continue reading.
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NOTE TO NEWBIES:

This is NOT the typical postings of a "normal" RWD member.

GOB

[SexTourist]

dude, FYI, any age RW will run circles around you in bed, Get yourself in
shape!

For a RW - who does not know me personally - to attack me viciously on such a personal level, I must have touched some nerve and ruffled some feathers!

Do we have a section for 13 year old boys to post? If so, shouldn't this be
moved there? 

Hmmm... don't see a healthy exchange of opposing opinions here! only personal attacks!

Hey!! I am still doing *real* GOOD!
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So, anyway... here's - first of all - the usual disclaimer:
The following post contains adult-oriented material. I am writing the following after taking my daily dose of prescribed medicine:
3,4-methylenedioxy-N-methylamphetamine and Lysergic Acid Diethylamide (to
answer Gator's question), so I just feel a bit drowsy, with a desire to tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. If you are easily offended by open discussion of sexual matters, by attack on religion, or attack on greedy and manipulative Russian women, then please continue reading.

And just for this new post, here's one more disclaimer: NOTE to NEWBIES: The information contained in this thread - written by yours truly - may shock your belief in the rosy picture you may have about Russian Women and the whole process of pursuing a Russian wife. It has been established that the author of the thread is a pervert, middle-aged, abnormal, bitter man... not your "normal" (whatever normal is) RWD member.
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dude, FYI, any age RW will run circles around you in bed

The first time Vika stood-up on the bed and started to strip-dance for me, I was so turned-on that I did not need the help of a little blue bill to get it up and keep it hard-as-a-rock. Of course Vika noticed it and cut her dance short to perform oral sex on me. My future wife (Yuliya from Omsk) also strip-danced for me (wearing sexy lingerie) quite often. Ask a Western career-minded woman to do that for you. The submissiveness and willingness of a Russian woman to be treated like a sex object got me more deeply hooked and addicted. On the other hand, would a woman do that voluntarily if she did not sincerely love you and wanted to please you?
Yes, she would, if her ulterior motive was to keep you blinded and controlled by her sexual power over you.
But then again... I am just being cynical.

I embarked on the journey with only good intentions, just wanted to find
myself a faithful wife. If beautiful and younger than me, all the better.
After Yana and Vika - who were in it just for the fun and had no serious
intentions - I was still determined to keep looking.
Only this time, I had started to develop a taste for young women (15 - 20
years younger than me) who are sexually liberated, willing and wanting. I
made three more trips to Kiev, met Oksana, Lyuda and others whose names I
don't remember now. Sex-hungry women but - obviously - not marriage-material. The obvious mistake I was making was limiting my search to early-20-something girls who did not really have serious intention to settle and create a family (despite the widely-held belief that Russian women marry at an early age), or maybe they thought I was too old for them. That did not prevent them still from having an intimate relationship and talk about plans for the future. It was all play and fun for them I guess!

Lyuda worked as a translator for a couple of local marriage agencies that received the organized sex trips for western men to tour Kiev, Moscow and St. Petersburg. So she told me stories about what goes on in those "socials" and she knew a lot about the Westerners/Russian dating scene. Old news: most of the girls who come to these socials are only in it for the free drinks/food or are professional - or amateur - prostitutes. But most of you already know that... don't you?
Lyuda spoke relatively good english so we communicated with ease. My Russian was also starting to pick-up so I was able to shop for groceries and move around on my own. I even built-up contacts in Kiev and felt almost as if Kiev was a second home for me. I met another American guy who actually owns 3 or 4 aparments in Kiev and rents them only to foreigners. Talk about taking Sex Tourism to the next level level... he's my hero!
Want to know how to have lots of Russian women contact YOU, instead of you spending a small fortune on buying email addresses that get sold hundreds of times on the major web sites? Do what I did in Kiev, publish a peronals ad - in Russian - in the major newspapers or classifieds magazines. You'll be reaching all the girls who have no Internet access (a mojority, at least back in 2000/2001). Include an actual street address to receive snailmail, in addition to your email address. A phone number would be even better... You WILL get calls!
There is one ukraine-wide magazine in which I ran a couple of ads and received a lot of replies. Unfortunately, I do not remember the name of that magazine right now, but it is dedicated to only calssifieds. I bought it and - with the help of Lyuda - read the different ads that were posted by western men. Most of the ads were actually of the type: "Generous Western Businessman looking for personal secretary, salary $150/week". We know what those ads are for.
"Western man looking for a Ukrainian wife" kind of ad brought replies from more serious women. I had both types of ads running.
Quick side disclaimer: that was back in 2000/2001. I do not know if this
magazine is still being published now and if advertising in it would still generate as much response as it did for me back then. Many things have changed on the Russian dating scene, Russian women are now inundated with western men contacting them and they are becoming pickier and choosier than ever!
Perhaps the most innocent, sweet girl I met who had NO hidden agenda, greed or manipulative streak in her, was Oksana. Only 19 years old, she cried (and I really felt sincerity in her tears) when I broke-up with her. Sorry Oxana,getting involved with you was wrong in the first place, then breaking-up with you - although it was for your own good - was also cruel. I should have let her off gradually.

Some men are turned on by very young women (younger than 21, but of the
consent age). I was visiting recently an Asian country and was offered the opportunity to legally marry a - relatively attractive - 16-year old girl (with the consent of her parents) if I paid a $2000 dowry.
Yeah, yeah, yeah... sounds totally sick... that's why I declined.
Mind you... it was 100% legal in that country and IS also perfectly legal in most States right here in good'ol America.
A friend of mine, 51 years old, married an 18-year old woman last year. THAT got me thinking.
If you want to know more about "consent age" in different countries, look
at:
http://www.avert.org/aofconsent.htm
Is it really wrong to marry a very young girl (between 16 and 19 years old)? Is it REALLY all that bad? Consider this: if the girl is from a poor country and a very poor family, wouldn't you actually be doing her - and her family - a big favor? She is condemned to a life of poverty and forced labor, then here you come along, pay a handsome dowry to her family, bring her (possibly along with her family) to a rich western country where she now has access to education (provided you LET her educate herself), medical care and a more advanced society overall. The important thing - of course - is that you are not exploiting or controlling her as if she was a slave. You treat her with respect and give her the normal freedom to go out as she wishes and make friends with people her age. Hopefully, she'll love you and stay faithful to you BY CHOICE. She is actually very pre-disposed to loving you sincerely. You are the FIRST man in her life and she has no basis of comparison between you and other men.
Pros of marrying a very young woman:
- No Baggage! Her mind and soul (not to mention her genitals) are still virgin. A white board you write on with your permanent marker.
- A simple mind. she can easily pleased - and ultimately happy - with simple things: a little bit of affection, small inexpensive gifts, some jokes from time to time to keep her laughing... her mind is not complicated.
- Controllable. You are an emotionally under-developed control freak, right? So she'll probably be obedient and submissive. Especially if she was raised by an authoritarian father. Just don't abuse your control over her.
Cons:
- At her prime, full of energy and sexual drive... She wants to go out, party, dance, travel (see the world) and spend all night making love... can you keep up?
- At best, she'll wait until you die to start a second life. But she'll eventually have that second life with another man, younger than you probably. If she's not happy and in love with you, she'll leave you for another man sooner or later.
- A simple mind. She is most certainly not as educated, sophisticated or life-experienced as you. Talk to her about the historic 2008 Presidential elections and she'll stare at you with a blank look that asks "what the heck is this old man talking about?" There is no meeting of the minds here.
- No common interests obviously. Are you fascinated by MTV? Do you have an iPod (would you even know how to use one)? do you have a profile on myspace? Have you stripped in front of a webcam and published the video on you/redtube? She'll eventually catch-up with todays' teenagers' obsessions.
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Back to my story with Scammers... You see... I consider Yana and Vika to be scammers at heart. From the get go, they had no serious intentions with me. They were in it only for the fun of it. I suspect Yana already had a boyfriend she was seeing regularly when we knew each other. Vika told me - at some point - that her mother's best friend had a son who lived in California. Her mother - and her best friend - eventally wanted Vika to marry that guy. I once looked at Vika's international passport and found that she had applied for a B2 (tourist) visa for the US and was declined.

Oh WOW... those Russian women... always hiding one thing or another...

After those two failed relationships, and like a drug addict, I was soon
back on the scene, corresponding with 2 women simultaneously: Natasha from Volgograd and Yuliya from Omsk. I would later visit them both in one trip to Russia and I would end-up marrying Yuliya.

More on that in my next Confessions installment...