Why not Colombian women instead? Why Russian?

[SilverBUllet]

Interesting question!  And, I find myself uniquely able to comment.  I have lived in Colombia for many months.  I will spend at least 3 - 4 months in 2009.  Lots of adventure.  Lots of fun.  AND TONS OF BEAUTIFUL WOMEN. 

Before any insane comments about Colombian women being more, or less attractive - STOP the nonsense.  This place is famous for beautiful women.  MOST are voluptuous, full figured.  I strongly prefer petite women. There are far fewer of those here.  But, such women get virtually no attention - no matter how attractive.  Big Silicon Breasts Rule The Day.  Silicon buttocks too.

The truth is that almost any AM can enjoy a huge increase in his eligibility in Colombia.  And I do not see many Americanos in Cali - THANK GOD!  I assume some would be better served in Colombia than in Russia or Ukraine; others not.

Colombia is NOT a place to come to alone.  It is both more safe and more dangerous than most Americans presume.  You have to have a guide.  PM me, I could help make some introductions to those that are interested.

I have dated toooooooooo many pretty girls in Colombia.  I could NEVER be content with my natural dating pool in the USA. There is not a great amount of intelligence here ... to be brutally honest.  I miss that.  Which brings me back to RWD for a visit. 

I know there are so many beautiful women in Colombia but Cali is rated the most dangerous city in the world! There were 500 homicides in a city with about 4 million people. I think you need to know Spanish and not stand out to make it in Cali. That said most of the murders are drug or gang related. It can be dangerous in East LA or East Oakland too. The latter had 100 homicides last year, again most drug and gang related.

[SilverBUllet]

When you guys mention Colombia I think of Shakira,  then I remember she is half Lebanese and has an Arab name, so she really isn't typical of a Colombian woman still, very pretty and talented. This brings me to the next question, people ask me often, why Russia,why not a woman from Lebanon?

Easy to answer. Religion and culture. The Middle-East is not my cup of tea. I prefer Russian Orhodox or Catholics. 

[kievstar]

Some differences I see between Ukraine and Colombia women is that Colombia women tend to be more muscular and heavier and shorter. Also, bigger up stairs. They also tend to be less educated.  But Colombia is home to some of the cheapest plastic surgery in the world and most girls I met when I worked there had plastic surgery.  Most guys I know in the USA prefer women built more like a Colombia girl than Ukraine. 

[IAmZon]

agreed!

However, we should caution that these are generalizations. I have met MANY Colombian women who are petite and BEAUTIFUL - similar to Russian / Ukraine.  They ARE less brainy.  They are more gentle and soft.

PS.  All women are crazy ... I think Colombianas may be a little more so

[mark2353]

Well I was born in Argentina, have relatives in Brazil and Venezuela. I can speak the language of 2 of those countries. This is what I learned about the women in Argentina they are mostly of Italian/ spanish backgrounds.
-they are beautiful when young (short period!). then they fall to pieces.
-Extremely jealous.
-To friendly with the "neighbors husband". Very common even when they move here.
-if she comes here (US) be careful of Green card scam.(most likely!)
-Not very educated, if she is read line above!
-If she works she will finance all projects for the relatives back home.
-get a American Airlines Card you will need it for all the trips. To the place she hates!.
-You will more than likely bring and support all her family.
-If she still interested in you after all this you might still be married.
Well Brazilian women are fantastic, but they are the perfection of a gold digger, they make the best AM look like amateurs.
Venezuelan, I was married to one for 14 yrs well must I say more!

Did someone mentioned MORALS!!!
All these have occurred in from of me, or to friends and relatives, do I want to go back to South America to look for a bride? No thanks, I will stick to my beautiful highly educated RW in France.

[SilverBUllet]

Mark2353, It was interesting to read about your experience with South American women, but some of the statements could also apply to Eastern European women as well.  Thinking of the ones her financing all projects back home with her pay,  jealousy, green card scam, bring and support the entire family. I can see all this happening with certain Russian ladies too. I think every lady can be different and not necessarily based on nationality. I don't have your experience and comparison in this matter so interesting to get your assessment. Still South America has a lot of beautiful ladies too, but in a different way than Eastern European women.  SB     

[IAmZon]

I have given much thought to some of the points 2353 makes.

Regarding Colombian women, I have gone back and forth in my orientation:  from blank page, trust but verify; to, strongly doubt every word said.  I must admit I am still deliberating.

For me, a couple things are becoming certain.
-To take a woman seriously, she has to have choices, either in her own country or others.  Zero tolerance for desperation no matter how disguised.
- To take a woman seriously, she can NOT come from a background of serious poverty (probably, even if she has risen above it). 

Beyond that, my mind is starting to accept the traditional role of the man from a South American perspective as provider and guarding - first, foremost, and sometimes ONLY.  This is the world I see in front of me.  Physical appearance, and the complexion / depth of a man's inner world does not seem to matter much to Colombian women.  Sure there is passion - lots of it.  But that is like a spark, not the flame.

To accept that also means to throw away many idealistic visions of romance.
To accept this one can more easily understand the problems with jealousy and infidelity.

But again, this all suggest my strongest observation - and I stated it up thread - there is less intelligence and education here.  The women are very simple.  That is what you get.

[ambach123]

AFA claims that Colombia has one of the lowest divorce rates in the world; primarily because of their Catholic upbringing.

Is that correct?

[Shadow]

AFA claims that Colombia has one of the lowest divorce rates in the world; primarily because of their Catholic upbringing.

Is that correct?

Could be because many husbands are killed in drug wars. 

[BillyB]

Why so much focus on Russian women when there are so many beautiful women in Venezuela, Colombia and Brazil??? Why do you prefer a Russian woman instead?

I'd never recommend a person to marry another person that they are not mentally or "physically" attracted to. There's a reason the men here are at this forum rather than over at a Latin women's forum and a reason men are at Latin and Asian women's forums rather than over here.

Ambach, don't believe the agencies who's trying to sell you something. Google the facts for yourself.

[HiTech]

AFA claims that Colombia has one of the lowest divorce rates in the world; primarily because of their Catholic upbringing.

Is that correct?

I am now rolling on the floor laughing.

HiTech

[tfcrew]

All and all..  it can be decided that it doesn't matter where someone is 'from'.
My wife just happened to be from Ukraine.
I chose her...not her country.
The girls on that Latin site are pretty.
They do look like photo models though.
Cheers

[mark2353]

I am now rolling on the floor laughing.

HiTech

totally agree to the statement! all Latin america claims to be catholic and anti divorce but the truth is different. I have 33 cousins in Argentina one side of family better than 1/2 divorced. Perhaps Shadow is correct drug wars reduces the divorce rate. Since mexico is having a nasty drug war right now perhaps their divorce rate will also drop soon??? 

[Diplomacy]

I am pigmently challenged! 

[SilverBUllet]

Could be because many husbands are killed in drug wars. 

Oh come on...... no men in Russia ending up the same way ?

[Simoni]

Since this thread has been running, I have been noticing the Columbian women around me.  The ones here are cute, bright, and attractive.  I'm talking about girls in their 20s and 30s...

I would recommend that guys in the hunt should look in central and south america, and well as the fsu.  Why not?

[kievstar]

Colombia women are beautiful but there different looking.  Lot of Africa women available too but different looking.  Most guys put emphasis on physical attractiveness as being important and personally I am not physically attracted to Asian, Black, Latinos, women shorter than 174cm and over 60kg.  But I agree many beautiful Colombia women but not my taste.  But 90% of the men I know would date a Colombia girl over a RW or UW any day. 

[Sculpto]

totally agree to the statement! all Latin america claims to be catholic and anti divorce but the truth is different. I have 33 cousins in Argentina one side of family better than 1/2 divorced. Perhaps Shadow is correct drug wars reduces the divorce rate. Since mexico is having a nasty drug war right now perhaps their divorce rate will also drop soon??? 

It is so difficult to get a divorce in Mexico that many people never get married and live in what is known as "Union Libre".  Basically a legally recognized domestic partnership that does not have all the Catholic rules that prevent divorce.  I know TONS of Mexican couples that have been together for decades in Union Libre.. who celebrated weddings and so on but who never had their marriage "stamped" by the Catholic Church.  Most of them are also "devout" Catholics with Virgin shrines in their houses.

[Andreas]

At the risk of inciting a flame war I would also like to add the following:

Does the U.S. really need any more Latinas?  

Just sayin....

Yeah, I got some bad feedback when I wrote (in Mannys forum) that I wanted a white wife.
There are of course many white women in South America too, but I prefer women with a northern european look. Also, I think Norway might be a bit too far away, and the climate too much to adapt to for a woman from South America (although there are quite a lot of latinas here).

[SilverBUllet]

Since this thread has been running, I have been noticing the Columbian women around me.  The ones here are cute, bright, and attractive.  I'm talking about girls in their 20s and 30s...

I would recommend that guys in the hunt should look in central and south America, and well as the fsu.  Why not?

Take a trip to Miami and South Beach first. They are all there already. No need to go to South America. They are already here. 

[SilverBUllet]

Colombia women are beautiful but there different looking.  Lot of Africa women available too but different looking.  Most guys put emphasis on physical attractiveness as being important and personally I am not physically attracted to Asian, Black, Latinos, women shorter than 174cm and over 60kg.  But I agree many beautiful Colombia women but not my taste.  But 90% of the men I know would date a Colombia girl over a RW or UW any day. 

Don't forget Venezuelian, Brazilian and Dominican Republican ladies. They are amazing too. Many are attracted to different looks, I prefer RW, UM or Moldovian women. But as soon as I say so, I might see some women from South Amercia, and I ask myself why not have an open mind? It is about the person and not about nationality after all.

[Julia G]

 If I were american man I would marry a ukranian women. I`m convinced they make the best wives for americans due to mentality compatibility. Belarus is more compatible with UK.

[ECOCKS]

Interesting thought on the American-Ukriane and Belarus-UK compatability Julia.

Any thoughts on why that might be?

[Taz]

This one hits pretty close to home for me. I was married to both a Latina and Russian woman. I will NEVER look for another Latina!

In general they are the epitome of bait and switch advertising. They look amazing when young. I could almost tolerate her temper. Then mid 20's and after the ninos, my sultry, sexy wife took on the proportions of MAMA MIA! No longer even remotely svelte, she continued her metamorphosis into some other creature with her butt expanding to at least twice the size it was when I met her. I still loved her but when her temper increased by a factor of 2, it was time to bail.

I decided to punch out (eject) and my life went from living in a hurricane of emotions to something a wee bit calmer. I can't live with the Latin temper. Latinas are fun to date (if you can tolerate their jealousy and temper) until they are in their mid 20's and after that...let's just say I'd rather date a Russian woman.

Not all Latinas have these issues but enough of them do that I'll pass on looking for the needle in the haystack. The only nationality I'd consider after RW/UW is possibly Turkish women. I didn't meet enough to get a good sampling of them but the ones I met were very beautiful but my limited Turkish impeded my ability to interact with them. On top of it I didn't want to totally tick off the RW I was with even though I wanted to chew my arm off and run away from her while I was in Turkey... That is a story for another day and likely will never be told here anyway.

[Andreas]

The only nationality I'd consider after RW/UW is possibly Turkish women. I didn't meet enough to get a good sampling of them but the ones I met were very beautiful but my limited Turkish impeded my ability to interact with them. On top of it I didn't want to totally tick off the RW I was with even though I wanted to chew my arm off and run away from her while I was in Turkey... That is a story for another day and likely will never be told here anyway.

Seriously!? All the Turks I've seen in Norway look like something that came flying out of a horses ass!