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Re: skimpy/risque outfits
« Reply #25 on: March 04, 2009, 07:25:55 PM »

What I am talking about is young ladies (20-25) posting risque photographs on their profile. 

I would highly recommend avoiding RW under 25 even for the younger
guys out there, regardless of her clothing or lack of. RW are much more
serious after 25. They are just as hot and they will have some life
experiences, heart breaks etc to prepare them for life ahead.


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Re: skimpy/risque outfits
« Reply #26 on: March 04, 2009, 07:34:33 PM »
Same goes for men who post bare-torso photos.  Either genuine stupidity, or tragically low self-esteem (which is also a brand of stupidity).

Soooooo...........?  :evil:


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Re: skimpy/risque outfits
« Reply #27 on: March 04, 2009, 07:39:27 PM »
I would highly recommend avoiding RW under 25 even for the younger
guys out there, regardless of her clothing or lack of.
 


I'm not going to BS anyone. I'm looking at girls ideally who are in college or recent graduates. That range is really 20 to 25 or 26 and thats it.
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Re: skimpy/risque outfits
« Reply #28 on: March 04, 2009, 07:56:20 PM »
I'm not going to BS anyone. I'm looking at girls ideally who are in college or recent graduates. That range is really 20 to 25 or 26 and thats it.

IMHO RW ages 25 and 26 are ten times better than 20 for a long term commitment.

I am an older guy (how the H3LL did that happen so fast) I am chasing someone
who is older than you are chasing.

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Re: skimpy/risque outfits
« Reply #29 on: March 04, 2009, 08:35:16 PM »
If it had no wrinkles you could mistake it for something else. :D

Wrinkles?  I thought that was cellulite. 


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Re: skimpy/risque outfits
« Reply #30 on: March 04, 2009, 09:00:57 PM »
Wild Weasels and Mammarsaurs ... not a bad combination for my wanktified geeezeresque mind...

Some of those loosened my corneas... or at least heated them until the internal glue failed   8)
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Re: skimpy/risque outfits
« Reply #31 on: March 04, 2009, 09:04:29 PM »
OK - now y'all have done it.
You have only yourselves to blame for the following. I disavow any responsibility
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Ditto!  :evil:


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Re: skimpy/risque outfits
« Reply #32 on: March 04, 2009, 09:10:47 PM »
Ditto!  :evil:

Now I will be forced to leave the forum due to blindness from a hot poker.. ;alksjfioewafjeoaidls  however, nothing will rid the emblazoned mental anguish... I'd just go ahead and end it all if I had a large enough toilet to dive into...
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Re: skimpy/risque outfits
« Reply #33 on: March 04, 2009, 09:11:30 PM »
GOB,

The Admin gets everyone excited and then you throw a bucket of water on us. Probably a good idea. Damn I think I'll be remembering that website.
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Re: skimpy/risque outfits
« Reply #34 on: March 05, 2009, 03:36:58 AM »
Now I will be forced to leave the forum due to blindness from a hot poker..

Here, Daveman.  This will help.
(Well... maybe.)


(PS - Dan.  You're amazing.  TU)   ;D

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Re: skimpy/risque outfits
« Reply #35 on: March 05, 2009, 04:42:30 PM »
Ditto!  :evil:


GOB

I really want to know who are the 10 "sickos" that have viewed GOB's photo :wallbash:

Dan,

is this possible to expose these sick individuals? ;)

Gator,

please tell me that is not what you meant when you said "fat-skinny"?
« Last Edit: March 05, 2009, 04:45:42 PM by Chillidog »

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Re: skimpy/risque outfits
« Reply #36 on: March 05, 2009, 04:55:14 PM »
I'm just curious how many men on this board are ready to post the photos of their wives or girlfriends in such bikinis  ;)

http://wickedweasel.com/en-us/contributor_galleries/1622-anna

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Re: skimpy/risque outfits
« Reply #37 on: March 05, 2009, 04:56:41 PM »
Dan,

Is Natalya from Moscow in one of your photos really a dude? No boobs whatsoever  :o
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Re: skimpy/risque outfits
« Reply #38 on: March 05, 2009, 05:07:31 PM »
I'm just curious how many men on this board are ready to post the photos of their wives or girlfriends in such bikinis  ;)

http://wickedweasel.com/en-us/contributor_galleries/1622-anna

Not me! any such photos are for "my eyes only!"

if others wish to show, I'd be willing to look  :D

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Re: skimpy/risque outfits
« Reply #39 on: March 05, 2009, 05:42:47 PM »
Dan,

Is Natalya from Moscow in one of your photos really a dude? No boobs whatsoever  :o


A guy would have some kind of package
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Re: skimpy/risque outfits
« Reply #40 on: March 05, 2009, 06:52:36 PM »
Dan,

Is Natalya from Moscow in one of your photos really a dude? No boobs whatsoever  :o


pitbull,

In terms of attraction, some men are attracted to women with large breasts, and other features are far less important. Some men are attracted to a nicely formed derriere or long legs. Some men are principally interested in intelligence and wit. Some men are entranced by the color and depth of a ladies eyes and peering into their soul. Some men look for 'the whole package' and are not focused on any one aspect, but consider the entire person - physical, mental, spiritual and more.

For me, large breasts have never been important. Other features were far more important. I can see beauty in women of various sorts - and in the small sampling of women shown above, I think each is very attractive in their own way on a physical level.

Having said that, I did notice Natalya is a small-breasted woman - but it wasn't something that jumped off the page at me when I first saw her photo.

And no - I don't think she is a dude ;)

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Re: skimpy/risque outfits
« Reply #41 on: March 05, 2009, 07:00:59 PM »
I'm just curious how many men on this board are ready to post the photos of their wives or girlfriends in such bikinis  ;)

http://wickedweasel.com/en-us/contributor_galleries/1622-anna

I am not sure the answer would be meaningful, as it would not be representative of RWD's membership as a whole.

The only thing I suspect we can state with some certainty is that probably none (or very VERY few) of our members have posted photos at the WW site.

I specifically looked for the "Bikini Competition" section of the Wicked Weasel site because they are 'real people' and not professional models. Some of the women shown on that site are quite UNattractive to me - and so I selected a few I found from the FSU. Some of those were attractive, and some not - to my eye. There are quite a few profiles with topless photos. I did not think much of it - except to be sure I did not link to those specific photos.

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Re: skimpy/risque outfits
« Reply #42 on: March 05, 2009, 07:59:50 PM »
Gator,

please tell me that is not what you meant when you said "fat-skinny"?

With these three, just the face would have sufficed.

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Re: skimpy/risque outfits
« Reply #43 on: March 05, 2009, 08:06:36 PM »
Dan,

Is Natalya from Moscow in one of your photos really a dude? No boobs whatsoever  :o


Give her time to mature, she is still a teenager.

Many years ago I dated one UW with similar breasts, and she was so confident about her body that everything seemed proportionate.

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Re: skimpy/risque outfits
« Reply #44 on: March 06, 2009, 05:20:54 AM »
Forgive me for giving you the reality check that you really need - BUT:

My only final comment is just that I'm trying obviously avoid those time wasting scammers and for that matter girls that are set on being models.
No you're not...  if you were trying to avoid scammers you wouldn't even be fantasizing about being with a 20 yr old bikini "model".

I'm not going to BS anyone. I'm looking at girls ideally who are in college or recent graduates. That range is really 20 to 25 or 26 and thats it.
It's not about BSing us...  you need to make sure you're not BSing yourself!


Personally, I'm not judging or doing much reading into the pictures other than to chalk it up to cultural differences.
I love it when you guys reach for "the cultural differences" straw to try to calm your own discomfort. 

Top, I've detected a common theme amongst the many men that fail in this search - they almost always make excuses for their bad choices.  Another member who just (bravely) posted the demise of his "fantasy relationship" went to great length to explain his decisions.

Be a man and don't make excuses - or be a man and start telling yourself the truth!


In closing,  I've read many of your posts and don't think you're a bad guy or anything.  I think you've made some "soft choices" and you seem nervous about some pretty plain decisions you have to make and that makes me wonder if you're even ready for a serious relationship.

I can't remember your age but maybe you need to do a bit of an audit on the time in life you're at... Yes, the fantasy of a sexy RW by your side might be exciting but this search is difficult, costly (both in time and finances) and a very serious step to take.

Good luck in whatever you choose - but please choose wisely!


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Re: skimpy/risque outfits
« Reply #45 on: March 06, 2009, 06:14:02 AM »
I'm just curious how many men on this board are ready to post the photos of their wives or girlfriends in such bikinis  ;)

http://wickedweasel.com/en-us/contributor_galleries/1622-anna

I only know that if I wasn't happily married to my wife......well....I would love to be that monkey (see pic #12_g1)!  :P  :evil:

http://wickedweasel.com/en-us/contributor_galleries/1622-anna

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Re: skimpy/risque outfits
« Reply #46 on: March 06, 2009, 06:30:52 AM »
Forgive me for giving you the reality check that you really need - BUT:

No you're not...  if you were trying to avoid scammers you wouldn't even be fantasizing about being with a 20 yr old bikini "model".

It's not about BSing us...  you need to make sure you're not BSing yourself!


Top, I've detected a common theme amongst the many men that fail in this search - they almost always make excuses for their bad choices.  

Be a man and don't make excuses - or be a man and start telling yourself the truth!


Words of wisdom.  Kuna, you do not post as much as in the past (understandable with a new baby), yet you remain as astute as ever.

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Re: skimpy/risque outfits
« Reply #47 on: March 07, 2009, 08:13:55 PM »

No you're not...  if you were trying to avoid scammers you wouldn't even be fantasizing about being with a 20 yr old bikini "model".

I love it when you guys reach for "the cultural differences" straw to try to calm your own discomfort. 


In closing,  I've read many of your posts and don't think you're a bad guy or anything.  I think you've made some "soft choices" and you seem nervous about some pretty plain decisions you have to make and that makes me wonder if you're even ready for a serious relationship.


First I've basically avoided writing anyone dressed in what I would term risque to date. The reason I asked is because I'm just plain seeing them in my age group. To be fair I suppose many american girls have similar photos on their myspace pages.

Its true I have been moving slowly. However before going to Estonia I have traveled to other parts of the world which first got me interested in the idea. First the concept of meeting foreign women has to get in your head.

Am I ready for a serious relationship? I'd say yes. But truth be told I do recognize the importance of the decision and certainly won't make it in haste. If you pick the wrong women life can be hell. I have too many unhappily married young friends that will confirm that. Then again I know a few that are very happy too.

I don't view my trip to Tallinn as a failure btw. It was a great experience. However narrowing them all down is something I really didn't make any progress on.
« Last Edit: March 07, 2009, 10:13:34 PM by topofthekey »
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Re: skimpy/risque outfits
« Reply #48 on: March 07, 2009, 08:30:56 PM »
Ok just to illustrate I'm going to provide an example. I'm going to use free personals.ru to do it and just post some profiles. The ones I'm posting are just examples and not anyone I'm in contact with. So no need to read into the ages or what their profile says. I just wanted to give you an example of the amateur photos I'm talking about.

http://www.freepersonals.ru/profile?id=308918;pid=467994;

The above link is what I'd call amateur pictures with very apporiate attire. Nothing risque or anything. Actually she doesn't list her education or anything in her profile. So that is an attractive girl with cute pictures. If she had an interesting profile and I knew more about her education who knows I might have written her.

http://www.freepersonals.ru/profile?id=306755;pid=460599;

The next is a profile with one bikini picture. She actually has a wrap around her waist as well. Again just for illustration purposes only. I'm still fine with those photos, but at someone point the line does get blurred. Some profiles have multiple bikini shots. And of course some bikinis are much more skimpy then others.

http://www.freepersonals.ru/profile?id=308427;pid=466365;

This next profile is the risque example. Sometimes she's well clothed and sometimes the girl doesn't even have a top on. Now yea I know about the age. But you could find those photos with someone aged 22, 23, 24, and 25 as well. When I see photos like that with a nice profile (including a nice education) with someone who is say 24 I'm left wondering what the deal is.

Just again to note... I'm not in contact with any of those women and was just using the pictures to illustrate a point that women from 18-25 have a lot of amateur pictures posted on their profiles that I would term risque.

To close when I was thinking it might just be a cultural thing... I had this profile in mind (and many like them )  ;D

http://www.freepersonals.ru/profile?id=308981;


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Charles Barkley: My only regret was that the bar didn't have a second floor.

The Round Mound of Rebound was later acquitted on all criminal charges.

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Re: skimpy/risque outfits
« Reply #49 on: March 07, 2009, 08:58:18 PM »
TOP,

What were the comments on that last link. Thats one gawd awful ugly RW  :D

 

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