Anyone else had experience with a man she

[Albert]

I just returned from a six week visit in FSU.  I was on a WOVO visit even though I quite a few other women that I knew from previous visits that I could have contacted if necessary.  I spent the time with a woman whom I had met on a previous WMVM visit and we had already spent 9 days (not all consecutive) together. 

Warning:  Closet homos, guys who put FSU women on pedestals, guys who have very low levels of testosterone, etc., should not read any further.

As I have previously posted I have been to FSU over 20 times, mostly on business trips, and have had first dates with over 150 FSU women and intimacy with over 40 of them.  I am not looking for a wife in the same sense as someone looks for a refrigerator because it is a necessity or because I have a wife vacancy position that needs filled.  But I am not against marriage.  I was previously married for nearly 30 years to a quite wonderful AW and have two great adult children.

I freely admit that I have a abnormally high interest in sex.  It is actually somewhat of a curse.  Now, I have finally met a woman whose interest in sex matches mine.  It actually may surpass mine.  This is what I am meaning in the subject title.  This woman actually thinks like a man with regard to sex.  That is to say, she thinks about it most of the time.  And she has desire to have sex at any time of day or night and has capacity to have unlimited multiple orgasms which start within about 20 seconds of stimulation.  I, of course, cannot keep up with her successes, but I can provide the various tools necessary to keep them coming for her.  I actually get a big kick out of her continuing multiples and had a great time on this visit. 

She is also quite interested in any new types of sex and sexual encounters.  e.g. I was telling her about the movie with Al Pachino and Eleen Barkin where they go shopping with Eleen wearing nothing under her rain coat.  She immediately wanted to do the same . . . . so we went shopping.  Only we went beyond Al and Eleen because we also rode a crowded subway wherein she had orgasm (she stiffled her normal vocal sounds) from my manual stimulation.  There were many other such events.

My question.  Anyone else had experience with very, very, very highly sexed gals such as this?  Right now I am loving it.  But, I am 15 years or so older than her.  Will I get tired of giving her multiple daily sessions of satisfaction, especially when I can no longer get erections so often and have to use hands, tongue, etc., to please her with no pleasure to myself (other than enjoying giving pleasure to her).

Aside from sex, this gal is a real keeper in many ways.  She has a very high IQ (almost scarry at times), is getting quite proficient at English in just a few short months, has a very high paying job (by FSU standards), owns two apartments with no debts (one valued at over $150,000), has loving parents and children, loves to cook for me, wants to wait on me hand and foot, has no psychotic tendencies, etc, etc.  She states that she wants nothing from me other than for me to come live with her in her apartment year round.

 

[andrewfi]

It is fun isn't it.

It wears after a while though because it becomes essentially one-sided and whilst I am not the most selfish guy in the world, I do want to take part in the pleasure as well as just aiding and abetting someone else's satisfaction. One seems to become an observer and pornography is esentially boring, no matter how realistic and clsoe up one might be.

But the memories are great and I do think that all men should have at least one relationship of this type in their lives.

My guess is that this woman has either been very understimulated for many years (perhaps coming off a stultifying marriage) or she gets through lovers on a prodigious basis, not one night stands because she needs her partners to be attuned to her needs, but perhaps 3-6 months.

 

[Bruno]

My question.  Anyone else had experience with very, very, very highly sexed gals such as this?  Right now I am loving it.  But, I am 15 years or so older than her.  Will I get tired of giving her multiple daily sessions of satisfaction, especially when I can no longer get erections so often and have to use hands, tongue, etc., to please her with no pleasure to myself (other than enjoying giving pleasure to her).

Funny... your lady remember me my own russian ex-wife... sex several time day... in several unusual place ( at the back of a jail, in the park of the King, ... )

She was loving have sex with me before marriage, during marriage and after marriage... but she was not in lofe... she call this a physical need...

When a relation is only based over sex, with time, it become boring and you loose your interest...

So relation can last more that 3-6 month like say Andrew but in anycase, so relation have a limit in the time... sex is the reward ( result ) of a good relationship... sex only is a instant pleasure...

PS : What to you mean by "abnormally interest in sex"... for me, abnormally sex is by example, sex with children... but when it is between two adult who both agree, i don't see any problem... it is something private between you and your partner...

 

[groovlstk]

I just returned from a six week visit in FSU.  I was on a WOVO visit ...

Albert, I almost dropped my glass of wine when I read your first sentence! It's like hearing Hugh Hefner announce that he's entering the priesthood

[Albert]

Andrewfin says:  "My guess is that this woman has either been very understimulated for many years (perhaps coming off a stultifying marriage) or she gets through lovers on a prodigious basis, not one night stands because she needs her partners to be attuned to her needs, but perhaps 3-6 months."

Andrew these are very good comments.  Could you please expand on your analysis in this regard.  I understand the part about not having one night stands because she needs her partners to be attuned to her needs.

But what sort of analysis leads you to think she was understimulated for many years and/or she goes through lovers on a prodigious basis every 3-6 months.  I am really interested if there is any basis or case study history etc., for your comments. 

First, I am thinking there are many women who are understimulated, but yet they cannot then turn into a woman who is capable of so many pleasureable (virtually unending during each session) sex acts during each day, every day.  I think it is a rare woman who has this capability, regardless of previous stimulation in marriage or elsewhere. 

Second, why would such a woman go through many lovers?  You mean that it would take many to find one who could keep up?  Or perhaps they can keep up but burn out.

So do you have any type of scientific data here, or just a logical analysis?

[Albert]

Bruno says: "When a relation is only based over sex, with time, it become boring and you loose your interest..."

Yes, I fully understand this.  I didn't state earlier, but she and I have much much fun doing a variety of things besides sex.  We seem to be highly compatible in all respects and can both talk about many subjects of interest.  And I did mention that she wants to do everything for me.  She also tells me many times a day:  "I love you."  "I love you more and more," etc.  I even came close to saying it myself.

Also, I didn't mention but she constantly stated that she wanted me to have as much pleasure as she and that she would do anything I wanted.  But, of course, it is simply not possible for any man to achieve as she did in this regard.  Said she enjoyed my orgasms more than she enjoyed her own, etc.

 

Bruno says:  PS : What to you mean by "abnormally interest in sex"... for me, abnormally sex is by example, sex with children... but when it is between two adult who both agree, i don't see any problem... it is something private between you and your partner..."

Read again.  I said abnormally high interest.

[Albert]

Groove wrote:  "Albert, I almost dropped my glass of wine when I read your first sentence! It's like hearing Hugh Hefner announce that he's entering the priesthood":)

I did qualify by saying that I had previously spent 9 days with her and that I had backups if necessary.  Not just a backup plan, but actual women in the same city that I had already spent time with.

I would still never do the WOVO thing for first time meetings with any woman . . . . so you won't be hearing any Hugh Hefner priesthood stuff, with respect to me!!!!:)

[ConnerVT]

To quote from another (non-RW) forum I frequent:

This thread is worthless without pictures.

[Preston]

LMAO! groov!! My wife was the same way and still is! She was 23 when I met her and I was 25 and its still going on after our first little one! LOL! Thats funny! My wife and I used to have 5 times a day sometimes not even leave the flat! LOL! But now we are down to 2 times a day for 3 years and have not decline a bit!

[Maxx]

Preston, I got your new avatar prepared for you.



Maxx

[andrewfi]

Albert, personal experience.

As I noted, if you have a woman like yours, after a time, the relationship, at least in terms of sex, becomes a dead end and so one or other of the partners moves on. It has happened to me and in both cases the woman was getting through partners at a high rate. We suffer burnout!

As to the understimulation issue, again, yes it does happen. I have long suggested that most men have never had good sex, it applies also to women. IME orgasm is addictive, much more so for women than men. For women, orgasm is more mental than it is for men, for full enjoyment she needs more than simple physical stimulation. Introduce a mature woman to decent sex and her need/desire/capacity for enjoyment can be huge - it is great fun.

[Albert]

Preston, OK I read your 5 to 2 times a day.  But how about 5 sessions a day with a woman who has 10-20 orgasms during each session.  This takes a lot of energy and effort for the man.

[Son of Clyde]

albert I wish you would refrain from these posts.

I seem to remember the same type of post last time you made a trip somewhere.

Apparently your sex life is something you are very proud of and want everyone else to be aware of.

Why do males have to brag so damn much about their sexual conquests?

[Son of Clyde]

I am taking away your mana.

Maybe you are a sex tourist, and I think your high interest in sex detracts from the guys who really want a lasting relationship that contains more than just sex. This is only one part of the relationship. Yes, great sex is important but I dont see dedicating a thread to it.

Seriously, I know someone very much like you only he has limited his scope to one woman who will have sex with him 9 times a day. He never plans to marry her or if he changes his mind he will not marry her here, he will move to her counrtry. 

He is about 60 years old, wears an ugly toupee and his diet primary consists of vitamins.

I should have stopped reading from your warning because I tend to place women on a pedistal. Maybe it is wrong to be this way.
 

[Photo Guy]

We always placed Mom on a pedestal, so that Dad couldn't reach her.

But seriously, Albert is just the result of American culture in the 60's and 70's when people began to view sex as the meaning of life, ...except there were contradictions, like 'objectifying women' became taboo, although the advertising media always has encouraged the value of superficial sex/beauty.  At this point in time, it's almost humourous to see some guys touting multiple orgasms as the ultimate attainment. It's easy to understand the machismo posturing, but that mindset could replace the importance of values like forgiveness, kindness, joy, empathy, spirituality, and many other less physical and less 'concrete' aspects of relationships.
Clyde, I'd recommend not reading his posts, but I completely understand your point of view.

[Bruno]

[user=130]Son of Clyde[/user] wrote:

Why do males have to brag so damn much about their sexual conquests?

Clyde, do you think that women are very different ? At my work, we are only two men for around 80 women... since the time, they don't feel me like a treat and don't stop anymore speaking when i am in the cafetaria... and about what speak women together ? About sex...

Some speak over the last conquest from Saturday night, a guy who was with some much little intime material that she have not know pleasure... the next one ( around 40 yo ) speak about his love adventure with the son ( 18 yo ) of a friend...

Really, when women are speaking with other woman, they are not very different that us... sex is a great subject between women... they don't believe anymore the story with the flower and the bee...

 

[Son of Clyde]

I remember this woman at work, must have been about 70, and a friend overhearing a conversation. This lady was talking with another woman (both widow's) about the size of her deceased husband, and his being like a "telephone pole." I thought it was very funny when I was 21.

Yes, Bruno I know that woman like to talk about sex also.

[Albert]

Yes fellas, I know how pissie you must feel when you read about someone having sex with a woman and all you have is sex with your hand.  And it must really make you feel pissie when you are married to one of these gals and still are not getting any or much.  But jeez, why do you feel the need to come on these boards and advertise these facts!!

[Bruno]

Yes fellas, I know how pissie you must feel when you read about someone having sex with a woman and all you have is sex with your hand.  And it must really make you feel pissie when you are married to one of these gals and still are not getting any or much.  But jeez, why do you feel the need to come on these boards and advertise these facts!!

Pissie  maybe in your dream albert...

I have no problem to find a woman and have sex with her... my only problem is build a long term relationship and find a wife...

And it seem that you have the same problem... or maybe more bad, you don't realise that you have the same problem...

You think only about sex now, it is the easy thing... if one day, you wish build a real relation, you will see that it is the difficult thing.

Some can be shocked by your openess over sex but it don't mean that these shocked people have no sex with woman... and really, it is not a sign of superiority that have sex with several women.... these who is superior is the man able to keep his woman for a very very long time.

 

[Son of Clyde]

Jeez, Albert it is only my opinion. Others may be very supportive. I have not heard bragging like yours since high school. I do not have hairy palms.

[Leslie]

Clyde,

Your comments seem extremely hypocritical coming from a guy you previously posted as Barney17 on RWG.

People here have memories.  You can't just reinvent yourself and your attitudes.  Mark from Texas tried that and he is a laughing stock....

 

[Son of Clyde]

This is unkind of you for someone who has never met me.

[Son of Clyde]

I keep forgetting that this is virtual reality and it gives you the liberty of dredging up someone elses past and your lifes is completely unblemished. As far as Mark in Texas, I wish him success even if I don't like his posts. Why did I make the post you are referring to? Because many people are offended by albert's posts not only those in his warning category. 

[Bruno]

[user=130]Son of Clyde[/user] wrote:

Why did I make the post you are referring to? Because many people are offended by albert's posts not only those in his warning category. 

Dear American's,

You will always surprise me... one of the great value in USA is the freedom of meaning but i can see that these value is used in the bad way.

People seem egoistic and think only about own freedom of meaning and reject or are shocked by other meaning.

I don't say that i agree or accept all the post of Albert but i respect his meaning, he have the freedom to say what he think and we have the freedom to accept what we will... If you don't agree a post, ignore it... this is your right and freedom... of course, you have right to post your own meaning but not to attack these of other...

What happen between Albert and his lady is something between two adult individual who agree together... Are you shocked !!! Right, nobody ask you to make like Albert and his lady... Make your own choice but don't reject these of other...

What have make Albert by starting this topic is use his "freedom of thought"... a fundamental base of a democratie... try to remove him these right is a totalitarian act... You can not negate his thought but you are not obligate to accept it for yourself.

Freedom of thought (also called freedom of conscience) is the freedom of an individual to hold a viewpoint, or thought, regardless of anyone else's view. The suppression of freedom of thought is a prominent characteristic of totalitarian and authoritarian regimes, while freedom of thought is one of the fundamental principles of most democracies. Freedom of thought can be limited in several ways -- through censorship, arrests, book burning, or, more subtly, through propaganda. Examples of effective campaigns against freedom of thought are the Soviet suppression of genetics research known as Lysenkoism, the book burning campaigns of Nazi Germany, and the radical anti-intellectualism enforced in Cambodia under Pol Pot.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Freedom_of_thought

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[jb]

Clyde,

While I'll admit I'm not thrilled to read about Albert's sexploits, (if I wanted to view or read porn, there are better venues), he still has the right to write as he sees fit.  Maybe he has an audience out there somewhere, I don't know.  It doesn't bother me one way or the other.

What I do find interesting is your castigating Leslie for mentioning your own sordid past.  You have probably aired more dirty linen on this, and other boards, than anyone else posting here, and most of us have a pretty good memory.  It seems to me that you are the one who believes this is virtual reality, you like to make up reality as you go along, while the rest of us try to stick pretty much to the facts.