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Re: Writing verses Visiting
« Reply #25 on: April 29, 2009, 08:02:56 PM »
i dont know yet...i guess im gonna have to do the flower-photo deal.

trying to locate a service that will deliver to a small town in maldova.



CR, while not a Sponsor here, these guys are the best in my opinion. There is a little menu where you can choose the country and city for delivery. If it isn't there you can live chat or email them. They'll get back to you quickly.

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Re: Writing verses Visiting
« Reply #26 on: April 29, 2009, 08:07:49 PM »
JR, what she explained to you about writing vs taking the next step to meet is 100% true.
As far as emails go..... Even though Sveta and I talk on our JOIP phones and Text each other daily, we still email one another a few times a day too. She feels that writing is romantic and that letters can be looked at over and over again while having a stressful day at work.
While my emails have been getting shorter and shorter, hers are getting longer and longer! :) It defies the norm, but I Love it!!
Good luck in Moscow and those of us who have been, are open for advice!

Thanks, I am sure that once I get past my own ego I could use all the advice I can get:)

I used to email my ex everyonce in awhile when we were sitting next to each other at the computers. It was usually recieved warmly...
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Re: Writing verses Visiting
« Reply #27 on: April 29, 2009, 08:13:43 PM »
CR, while not a Sponsor here, these guys are the best in my opinion. There is a little menu where you can choose the country and city for delivery. If it isn't there you can live chat or email them. They'll get back to you quickly.

http://www.russianservice.com/2core.asp?nav=main

^great, thanks man. 

Do you happen to know if they allow a message to go with the flowers ...thats the only way I can figure out how to get other contact info to her (email mostly).  The RW site will choke the shit out of your petty cash..quick. lol.

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Re: Writing verses Visiting
« Reply #28 on: April 29, 2009, 08:18:22 PM »
^great, thanks man. 

Do you happen to know if they allow a message to go with the flowers ...thats the only way I can figure out how to get other contact info to her (email mostly).  The RW site will choke the *snip* out of your petty cash..quick. lol.

Absolutely you can. BTW, if you click on the Live Help button  http://www.russianservice.com/2core.asp?nav=help  they are there right now to answer your questions :)

Why don't you ask her for her personal email address?
« Last Edit: April 29, 2009, 08:20:11 PM by Utrobina »



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Re: Writing verses Visiting
« Reply #29 on: April 29, 2009, 08:22:15 PM »
i dont know yet...i guess im gonna have to do the flower-photo deal.

trying to locate a service that will deliver to a small town in maldova.



The flower photo deal really isn't necessary to determine if she is a scammer. Flowers are always appreciated and a nice gesture but not need at this point. Have you gotten her phone number and called her yet? Scammers many times won't give you a phone number and make some lame excuse for it. I have known of a scammer that did give a phone number and the person answering had no idea. One of your first moves is to get the number and call regularly. If she doesn't speak english and you don't speak russian, there are a few commercial members here that will be happy to help you with that.

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Re: Writing verses Visiting
« Reply #30 on: April 29, 2009, 08:24:57 PM »

Why don't you ask her for her personal email address?

^RWGlobe dosnt allow it.

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Re: Writing verses Visiting
« Reply #31 on: April 29, 2009, 08:27:00 PM »
.  The RW site will choke the *snip* out of your petty cash..quick. lol.

Doesn't take long does it?  >:(

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Re: Writing verses Visiting
« Reply #32 on: April 29, 2009, 08:28:18 PM »
^RWGlobe dosnt allow it.

Do it in code. Break it up into three emails like this :

yourname

the 'at' symbol then hot

mail dot

com

And viola!
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Re: Writing verses Visiting
« Reply #33 on: April 29, 2009, 08:28:32 PM »
The flower photo deal really isn't necessary to determine if she is a scammer.

^i think im my case its the only option.  She is only allowed to give her postal address & phone # from what i read.  

She deserves flowers anyway I guess, so its win-win...

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Re: Writing verses Visiting
« Reply #34 on: April 29, 2009, 08:30:44 PM »
Doesn't take long does it?  >:(

not at all.  they got me for $350 just since friday.  :( 

hell, thats one third of a plane ticket!

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Re: Writing verses Visiting
« Reply #35 on: April 29, 2009, 08:33:05 PM »
usually, even if you space characters appart it will work

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Careful with the flowers, it does add up :(
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Re: Writing verses Visiting
« Reply #36 on: April 29, 2009, 08:37:14 PM »
not at all.  they got me for $350 just since friday.  :( 

hell, thats one third of a plane ticket!

1/3? have you checked cheap ticket lately? Two weeks ago you could flown to Moscow for $333.

MOVE ON DUDE! ! ! You're being ripped off! Get on EM NOW! Are you there yet?

And BTW, I am in touch with this SMOKING HOT 23 yo from Kiev whom I think will decide (with my prompting) that I am too old for her. You may be in her age range so perhaps I could hook you up with her and you could stop wasting her time :)
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Re: Writing verses Visiting
« Reply #37 on: April 29, 2009, 08:38:05 PM »

^RWGlobe dosnt allow it.

 :cluebat:


Obviously I am missing something here.

Get her phone.

Call her.

Say, "Hi, what is your email address and other contact info?"

Then cut the agency out of the loop in your subsequent contacts.

Proceed down the relationship trail.

What am I missing here?
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Re: Writing verses Visiting
« Reply #38 on: April 29, 2009, 08:38:23 PM »
not at all.  they got me for $350 just since friday.  :( 

hell, thats one third of a plane ticket!

Honestly, no ladies contact info is worth $350. You my lil'friend are on hook and they like you just where you are. I hope it is indeed the lady you are communicating with. My advice is to get off RWG and call her now. You'll likely find yourself another $350 in and still haven't spoken to her. So many things can and likely will go wrong from what you are imagining and conjured up in your head. You seem to be falling in love with a pretty picture. :-\



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Re: Writing verses Visiting
« Reply #39 on: April 29, 2009, 08:40:35 PM »
Do it in code. Break it up into three emails like this :

yourname

the 'at' symbol then hot

mail dot

com

And viola!

^im glad you bring this up, I have been considering the attempt yet wasnt sure if SHE would benifit from having my personal email as well.  Im not sure exactly how her agency operates and if it just makes me come off like a cheap ass then id rather pay.  Truth is though im kinda frugle though.  oh, let me refraise that..im "fiscally conservative"

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Re: Writing verses Visiting
« Reply #40 on: April 29, 2009, 08:40:47 PM »
usually, even if you space characters appart it will work

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Careful with the flowers, it does add up :(
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Yeah, that's the ticket! Anything that get past the auto-reader thingymagigger :)

Are you back form EM yet? Why not? Just exactly what are you waiting for? Another wasted 350 bucks? Why don't you come to Moscow with me? You wanna sit on that couch all day instead? :)
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Re: Writing verses Visiting
« Reply #41 on: April 29, 2009, 08:42:24 PM »
:cluebat:


Obviously I am missing something here.

Get her phone.

Call her.

Say, "Hi, what is your email address and other contact info?"

Then cut the agency out of the loop in your subsequent contacts.

Proceed down the relationship trail.

What am I missing here?


no, your right.  I just dont want to appear too eager is all.  Thats the only reason I havnt requested her number yet. 

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Re: Writing verses Visiting
« Reply #42 on: April 29, 2009, 08:45:47 PM »
Yeah, that's the ticket! Anything that get past the auto-reader thingymagigger :)

Are you back form EM yet? Why not? Just exactly what are you waiting for? Another wasted 350 bucks? Why don't you come to Moscow with me? You wanna sit on that couch all day instead? :)

yeah im on EM now but the one i want isnt. 

Moscow has more city slickers though right?  I live in a smaller town so Ive been targeting the same demographic.  ;)

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Re: Writing verses Visiting
« Reply #43 on: April 29, 2009, 08:46:56 PM »

no, your right.  I just dont want to appear too eager is all.  Thats the only reason I havnt requested her number yet. 

Eager would have been getting the number somewhere between 15-20 bucks. Grasshopper, you are asleep at the wheel :rolleyes2:

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Re: Writing verses Visiting
« Reply #44 on: April 29, 2009, 08:47:23 PM »
Man, I didn't do more than three emails to any one gal before getting personal contact info. Eliminate scammers, find serious women and keep things rolling at an appropriate speed.

Would you keep meeting an AW at Chili's 5-6-7-8 times or exchange numbers?

You only need one call to ask her personal email and info.

If you cannot get in personal contact you are in a scam or money-making gimmick.

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Re: Writing verses Visiting
« Reply #45 on: April 29, 2009, 08:47:36 PM »

no, your right.  I just dont want to appear too eager is all.  Thats the only reason I havnt requested her number yet. 

Too eager? Man last night I googled a woman's email addy and it came up on a job site with her phone number. I called her right away! I had just one email from her but she was IMPRESSED that I found her and that I thought enough about her to call!

GET ON THE PHONE! The sooner you do the sooner you're gonna find out if she's real or not. And that is what you are afraid of isn't it? That she'll turn out to be fake and then your bubble will be burst. Well there are plenty of real, VERY hot women just waiting for some attention from you so git off the pot or piss!
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Re: Writing verses Visiting
« Reply #46 on: April 29, 2009, 08:49:21 PM »
OH Wait ! ! !  Better yet, give me her phone number and I'll call her :)
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Re: Writing verses Visiting
« Reply #47 on: April 29, 2009, 08:50:43 PM »
Too eager? Man last night I googled a woman's email addy and it came up on a job site with her phone number. I called her right away! I had just one email from her but she was IMPRESSED that I found her and that I thought enough about her to call!

GET ON THE PHONE! The sooner you do the sooner you're gonna find out if she's real or not. And that is what you are afraid of isn't it? That she'll turn out to be fake and then your bubble will be burst. Well there are plenty of real, VERY hot women just waiting for some attention from you so git off the pot or piss!

Fish or cut bait my dear ole granddaddy use to say.

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Re: Writing verses Visiting
« Reply #48 on: April 29, 2009, 08:50:55 PM »
Too eager? Man last night I googled a woman's email addy and it came up on a job site with her phone number. I called her right away! I had just one email from her but she was IMPRESSED that I found her and that I thought enough about her to call!

GET ON THE PHONE! The sooner you do the sooner you're gonna find out if she's real or not. And that is what you are afraid of isn't it? That she'll turn out to be fake and then your bubble will be burst. Well there are plenty of real, VERY hot women just waiting for some attention from you so git off the pot or piss!


awesome!  the honesty on this forum is quite impressive i must say.

im down for a puddle jump, sure.  Just got back from the dominican republic 2 weeks ago-  lots of RW women there, loved it!

do groups of two get more accomplished than just a lone wolf?
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Re: Writing verses Visiting
« Reply #49 on: April 29, 2009, 08:56:39 PM »

awesome!  the honesty on this forum is quite impressive i must say.

im down for a puddle jump, sure.  Just got back from the dominican republic 2 weeks ago-  lots of RW women there, loved it!

do groups of two get more accomplished than just a lone wolf?

Well I'm booked for May 26 thru June 1 in Moscow at the Tourist Hotel. Moscow has what? Ten million women? I think we can find you one :) Or you can invite your little heart breaker to meet you there :)
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