I am sick of writing letters.....

[Bored1]

You are getting close to shattering a lot of guys delusions here...

Does not stop the AM living here 

[Bored1]

Agree 100%.   Because they are not mysterious RW anymore - "beautiful and full of family values" at the same, they are just women of Russian origin and not much different from "girls next door".   

Where do AM do get these "values" from?  Domostroy is very old book. 

[Aloe]

Most America men have no interest in RW, here or there. 

That's a weird statement. I'll generalize and assume that most american men have an interest in women. No matter russian, american, mexican, whatever. When they are in the country and available for dating that is.
I registered on yahoo personals, just to compare what kind of men would write to me, compared to russian women dating sites, and got tons of letters from much better looking/higher earning(if what they state in profile is true) guys. Lol. I did state in my profile that i'm russian. But i felt bad about putting some american city as location in my profile, so i just deleted my profile without talking to anyone.

[Aloe]

Where do AM do get these "values" from?  Domostroy is very old book. 

yes, that is an EXTREMELY interesting question. I just don't get it, if most of american women, as american men claim, have no family values, then who the hell gave the men those qualities? Weren't they born and raised by american women?

[Aloe]

I am using instant messenger, it's the same as writing. Come to think of it so is posting

so do something useful while you do that. Like learn 10 finger blind speed typing
I'm the master of blind 2 finger 200 character/minute typing! Everyone who sees me type is very amused lol.

[Ooooops]

Where do AM do get these "values" from?  Domostroy is very old book. 

If you are dreaming about an intelligent, educated, kind, caring, feminine, and sexy woman who has high moral and strong family values, we will help you.

This isn't Domostroy, this is Internet   

[Gator]

I have good job and own apartment.  I have no interest in living in USA. 

Congratualtions.  You seem like an interesting, intelligent RW.  If not too personal to ask, do you date Russian men?  European men?  Have you dated American men?

What are your general opinions about each of the three groups of men?

[SANDRO43]

so do something useful while you do that. Like learn 10 finger blind speed typing I'm the master of blind 2 finger 200 character/minute typing! Everyone who sees me type is very amused lol.

Aloe, why don't you expand that into piano playing, and give concert performances ?

[Aloe]

Aloe, why don't you expand that into piano playing, and give concert performances ?

can't do 2 finger on piano haha. but i do wanna learn to play it, well i learned when i was little, but haven't practiced in many many years, need to start over.
same with violin, but i don't wanna pick that up again. piano is way cooler!

[SANDRO43]

can't do 2 finger on piano haha. but i do wanna learn to play it, well i learned when i was little, but haven't practiced in many many years, need to start over.

IIRC, you wrote your apartment is small. If so, I'd suggest you to start again with an electronic keyboard initially, it takes much less space than a piano and has the advantage that you can plug in headphones and be the only one who hears your playing at any hour of the day/night, saving your neighbours from the excruciating agony .

[Gator]

yes, that is an EXTREMELY interesting question. I just don't get it, if most of american women, as american men claim, have no family values, then who the hell gave the men those qualities? Weren't they born and raised by american women?

AW have excellent family values IMO.

To say otherwise probably derives from one of three situations:

1.    Many unmarried, educated AW concentrate on their career and do not seek Mr. Right.   For sure they date AM,  and will marry Mr. Right Perfect if he comes around.  Yet these AW are independent plus they have the attitude:  "Why would I ever need a man!"  This makes them highly intolerant of man's imperfections, certainly his mistakes even if not ill-intended.

2.  Unlike RM, AM have an equal responsibility/right in rearing children from a broken marriage.  The child rearing interaction can create conflicts between two divorced parents.  Yet, this does not mean that the AW has no family values.  her values simply differ.

3.  Some men need to improve their social skills, particularly the concept of partnering with a woman.

[Gator]

Returning to JollyRats original comment, when I first started writing RW over 7 years ago I was floored by one RW's response.

In regard to my long introductory letter, she wrote a short letter with the following statement:

"I do not like writing letters.  I prefer intercourse."

[SANDRO43]

Returning to JollyRats original comment, when I first started writing RW over 7 years ago I was floored by one RW's response.

In regard to my long introductory letter, she wrote a short letter with the following statement:

"I do not like writing letters.  I prefer intercourse."

Direct and to the point .

[Aloe]

IIRC, you wrote your apartment is small. If so, I'd suggest you to start again with an electronic keyboard initially, it takes much less space than a piano and has the advantage that you can plug in headphones and be the only one who hears your playing at any hour of the day/night, saving your neighbours from the excruciating agony .

we don't own a piano or i would have started long time ago! What i have to start with is saving for the piano, which is gonna be very very difficult, since i'm moving to belgium to be with my fiance, and we can barely afford to survive right now, let alone a piano . lol. And they speak some crazy language only 28 mil ppl in the world speak that i have to learn to be able to find a job, altho MANY jobs there require speaking BOTH official languages of the country (dutch/french)

[SANDRO43]

What i have to start with is saving for the piano, which is gonna be very very difficult, since i'm moving to belgium to be with my fiance, and we can barely afford to survive right now, let alone a piano . lol.

A keyboard is MUCH cheaper than a piano, I bought mine many years ago so I'm not abreast of current prices, but I think that for about €300 you could get yourself a decent 5-octave unit and start practicing in your spare time .

[Aloe]

A keyboard is MUCH cheaper than a piano, I bought mine many years ago so I'm not abreast of current prices, but I think that for about €300 you could get yourself a decent 5-octave unit and start practicing in your spare time .

yea, of course i wouldn't want a real piano, too impractical now who do i scam for $300??? J/k . that's our entire budget left for a month after paying bills

[SANDRO43]

yea, of course i wouldn't want a real piano, too impractical now who do i scam for $300??? J/k . that's our entire budget left for a month after paying bills

You can probably buy it with small monthly payments . Anyway, it was just a suggestion, it saddens me when people hunger for music and have to forego it.

[Bored1]

Congratualtions.  You seem like an interesting, intelligent RW.  If not too personal to ask, do you date Russian men?  European men?  Have you dated American men?

What are your general opinions about each of the three groups of men?

I date man I like and not matter from where he is.  I date more RM than AM or EU men in my life because there are more RM here.  

I date 1 AM man but he keep saying things better in USA than here all times.  There is thing wrong with my country but there is things wrong with USA too.  He expect me to want to live in the USA.  Why?  Everything I have is here.  My family my friends my job and my apartment.  I know EU men who married RW and stayed here.  Why is it not even thought by AM to stay here?

I know 2 EU men who both would stay in RF but were not for me.  They were nice men but more we know of each more I saw something not enough to last.  1 will soon marry friend of me.

RM - some good some bad but that is people anywhere. Many like AM and what I stay home cook clean make food and make babies and do what they say no question.  This I not need to do because I have good job and own apartment.  It does not sense to me to do this.  I want man in life not master.

[Bored1]

Returning to JollyRats original comment, when I first started writing RW over 7 years ago I was floored by one RW's response.

In regard to my long introductory letter, she wrote a short letter with the following statement:

"I do not like writing letters.  I prefer intercourse."

No translation errors - you not go see her  :D

[Aloe]

You can probably buy it with small monthly payments . Anyway, it was just a suggestion, it saddens me when people hunger for music and have to forego it.

out of question, cuz my fiance is against having debts of any kind (except mortgage). It's ok, i guess... I keep seeing dreams where i'm playing some fantastic concerts, who knows, maybe i could have been a great composer if i hadn't forgotten music lol. Who was it, who dreamed their music?
But then again, it could be flashbacks from the stuff i played before, but i don't remember playing anything like that.

[Gator]

Bored,

Thanks for telling more about yourself.  It sounds as if you have a full, happy life.

I date 1 AM man but he keep saying things better in USA than here all times.  

Better for him.

There is thing wrong with my country but there is things wrong with USA too.

True.  Neither is perfect, and Russia is indeed better than the US in some regards.  In others it is too lacking for me to live there.

Why is it not even thought by AM to stay here?

Some RWD members have lived in Russia and Ukraine with their wife/woman.   Ecocks, ScottinCrimea, Krimster, Phil d, Riverwind, etc.

I thought about moving to Russia; however, I decided that I could never be as happy in Russia as in the US or even some other countries that I enjoy.  That is why I admire the inner strength of a RW who decides to leave her friends, family, country, culture, language, etc.

I want man in life not master.

 

I have yet to meet a woman, whether AW or RW or XW, who wants a master.  You are independent and can wait for Mr. Right.  Just don't look for Mr. Perfect.  He will never come.

[Aloe]

Just don't look for Mr. Perfect.  He will never come.

that's right, cuz he's marrying me!!

[GoodOlBoy]

RM - some good some bad.............

No comment!  :evil:


GOB

[Ooooops]

In regard to my long introductory letter, she wrote a short letter with the following statement:

"I do not like writing letters.  I prefer intercourse."

Wrong answer.   "I hope your **** is as long as your letter" would be better.   

[Bored1]

You are independent and can wait for Mr. Right.  Just don't look for Mr. Perfect.  He will never come.

I will wait.  No rush for me.