Anyone else had experience with a man she - Part two

[Albert]

Here is my original post and replies that were on track.  I invite further on-track posts.

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Warning: Closet homos, guys who put FSU women on pedestals, guys who have very low levels of testosterone, etc., should not read any further.

I just returned from a six week visit in FSU. I was on a WOVO visit even though I knew quite a few other women from previous visits that I could have contacted if necessary. I spent the time with a woman whom I had met on a previous WMVM visit and we had already spent 9 days (not all consecutive) together.

As I have previously posted I have been to FSU over 20 times, mostly on business trips, and have had first dates with over 150 FSU women and intimacy with over 40 of them. I am not looking for a wife in the same sense as someone looks for a refrigerator because it is a necessity or because I have a wife vacancy position that needs filled. But I am not against marriage. I was previously married for nearly 30 years to a quite wonderful AW and have two great adult children.

I freely admit that I have a abnormally high interest in sex. It is actually somewhat of a curse. Now, I have finally met a woman whose interest in sex matches mine. It actually may surpass mine. This is what I am meaning in the subject title. This woman actually thinks like a man with regard to sex. That is to say, she thinks about it most of the time. And she has desire to have sex at any time of day or night and has capacity to have unlimited multiple orgasms which start within about 20 seconds of stimulation. I, of course, cannot keep up with her successes, but I can provide the various tools necessary to keep them coming for her. I actually get a big kick out of her continuing multiples and had a great time on this visit.

She is also quite interested in any new types of sex and sexual encounters. e.g. I was telling her about the movie with Al Pachino and Eleen Barkin where they go shopping with Eleen wearing nothing under her rain coat. She immediately wanted to do the same . . . . so we went shopping. Only we went beyond Al and Eleen because we also rode a crowded subway wherein she had orgasm (she stiffled her normal vocal sounds) from my manual stimulation. There were many other such events.

Aside from sex, this gal is a real keeper in many ways. She has a very high IQ (almost scary at times), is getting quite proficient at English in just a few short months, has a very high paying job (by FSU standards), owns two apartments with no debts (one valued at over $150,000), has loving parents and children, loves to cook for me, wants to wait on me hand and foot, has no psychotic tendencies, etc, etc. She states that she wants nothing from me other than for me to come live with her in her apartment year round.

My question. Anyone else had experience with very, very, very highly sexed gals such as this? Right now I am loving it. But, I am 15 years or so older than her. Will I get tired of giving her multiple daily sessions of satisfaction, especially when I can no longer get erections so often and have to use hands, tongue, etc., to please her with no pleasure to myself (other than enjoying giving pleasure to her).

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andrewfin

It is fun isn't it.

It wears after a while though because it becomes essentially one-sided and whilst I am not the most selfish guy in the world, I do want to take part in the pleasure as well as just aiding and abetting someone else's satisfaction. One seems to become an observer and pornography is esentially boring, no matter how realistic and clsoe up one might be.

But the memories are great and I do think that all men should have at least one relationship of this type in their lives.

My guess is that this woman has either been very understimulated for many years (perhaps coming off a stultifying marriage) or she gets through lovers on a prodigious basis, not one night stands because she needs her partners to be attuned to her needs, but perhaps 3-6 months.

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Bruno

Funny... your lady remember me my own russian ex-wife... sex several time day... in several unusual place ( at the back of a jail, in the park of the King, ... )

She was loving have sex with me before marriage, during marriage and after marriage... but she was not in lofe... she call this a physical need...

When a relation is only based over sex, with time, it become boring and you loose your interest... So relation can last more that 3-6 month like say Andrew but in anycase, so relation have a limit in the time... sex is the reward ( result ) of a good relationship... sex only is a instant pleasure...

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Albert

Andrewfin says: "My guess is that this woman has either been very understimulated for many years (perhaps coming off a stultifying marriage) or she gets through lovers on a prodigious basis, not one night stands because she needs her partners to be attuned to her needs, but perhaps 3-6 months."

Andrew these are very good comments. Could you please expand on your analysis in this regard. I understand the part about not having one night stands because she needs her partners to be attuned to her needs. But what sort of analysis leads you to think she was understimulated for many years and/or she

goes through lovers on a prodigious basis every 3-6 months. I am really interested if there is any basis or case study history etc., for your comments.

First, I am thinking there are many women who are understimulated, but yet they cannot then turn into a woman who is capable of so many pleasureable (virtually unending during each session) sex acts during each day, every day. I think it is a rare woman who has this capability, regardless of previous stimulation in marriage or elsewhere.

Second, why would such a woman go through many lovers? You mean that it would take many to find one who could keep up? Or perhaps they can keep up but burn out.

So do you have any type of scientific data here, or just a logical analysis?

Bruno says:

"When a relation is only based over sex, with time, it become boring and you loose your interest..."

Yes, I fully understand this. I didn't state earlier, but she and I have much much fun doing a variety of things besides sex. We seem to be highly compatible in all respects and can both talk about many subjects of interest. And I did mention that she wants to do everything for me. She also tells me many times a day: "I love you." "I love you more and more," etc. I even came close to saying it myself.

Also, I didn't mention but she constantly stated that she wanted me to have as much pleasure as she and that she would do anything I wanted. But, of course, it is simply not possible for any man to achieve as she did in this regard. Said she enjoyed my orgasms more than she enjoyed her own, etc.

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Preston

My wife was the same way and still is! She was 23 when I met her and I was 25 and its still going on after our first little one! LOL! Thats funny! My wife and I used to have 5 times a day sometimes not even leave the flat! LOL! But now we are down to 2 times a day for 3 years and have not decline a bit!

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andrewfin

Albert, personal experience.

As I noted, if you have a woman like yours, after a time, the relationship, at least in terms of sex, becomes a dead end and so one or other of the partners moves on. It has happened to me and in both cases the woman was getting through partners at a high rate. We suffer burnout!

As to the understimulation issue, again, yes it does happen. I have long suggested that most men have never had good sex, it applies also to women. IME orgasm is addictive, much more so for women than men. For women, orgasm is more mental than it is for men, for full enjoyment she needs more than simple physical stimulation. Introduce a mature woman to decent sex and her

need/desire/capacity for enjoyment can be huge - it is great fun.

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Albert

Preston, OK I read your 5 to 2 times a day. But how about 5 sessions a day with a woman who has 10-20 orgasms during each session. This takes a lot of energy and effort for the man.

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KenC

I do not claim "intimate" experience with a multitude of RW, but I know one RW very well after 7 years and through friendships have gotten to know others too. In general, I find women from the fsu to have a more open and realsitic outlook on sex than AW (and AM for that matter). They do not seemed to be shackled by Puritanical morals like many of us Americans. This is not to say they have no morals. There is as much diversity as Americans when it comes to faithfulness, but a much more open attitude within a committed relationship. Many of the AW I have had experience with had an attitude that sex was given to a man as a favor and as such, there also was a debt incured by the man. I don't see that atitude with RW. What I do see is a sense of pride in the ability to satisfy their man. This is a quality I have rarely seen in AW.

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Dan

OK Guys BACK ON TRACK.

If you need to, please re-read Albert's initiating post.

Because this topic has taken some time to develop, I am not going to delete any past posts, no matter how offtopic they may be but to be fair to the initiator of the topic (no matter your judgment of the value, or not, of the topic), please try to remain on topic.
Dan

[Michelangelo]

After about 8 trips to the FSU, I can provide a few insights.  They are strickly my own; others may have had different experiences.

1)  In general, I found FSU girls to be better at sex and to enjoy it more that AW;

2.  I did encounter one woman like Albert describes.  I was exhausted after a few nights with her.  She could climax simply from kissing, or wrapping her legs around mine;

3.  I tend to agree with Les and others. If after 4 or 5 dates with a girl, she does not want sex with you, she is simply not interested or "into" you.  That might be ok if sex is not important to you, but for most of us, it's really important;

4.  One girl I was with was playing "hard to get."  Finally, she said, "you want sex? Ok, get in bed!  I'm a Russian woman!"  Then she banged the heck out of me!  But it didn't matter--she was not emotionally "into" me.  She was just providing sex for my sake.  She later explained that sex to a Russain woman is like # 10 on list of importance, but she understood that sex was #1 for most men.  I dropped her after our trip becasue I want a woman who enjoys having sex with me.

For me, sex is important. But I want her to want me as much as I want her. I'm looking for the total package--intelligence, looks, personality, AND a high sex drive...

[jb]

I've been to the FSU about 20 times and I can offer no words of wisdom  about sex, or FSUW's sexuality.  (although I've had sex with  several FSUW.  The worst I ever had was wonderful.)

However, in all honesty, the best sex I've ever had was with an  AW.  That one still stands out as the benchmark from which to  measure all others.  I didn't marry her because I recognized a  heartbreak in the making,,, but I still miss her. 

[BC]

...someone is looking for a gonadectomy. :D

[MandM]

However, in all honesty, the best sex I've ever had was with an AW.  That one still stands out as the benchmark from which to measure all others.  I didn't marry her because I recognized a heartbreak in the making,,, but I still miss her. 

Is Etna reading this?!!:shock:

[KenC]

M and M,

I had the same thought. Oops.

KenC

[Bruno]

Is Etna reading this?!!:shock:

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Etna was known in Roman times as Aetna, a name thought to have derived either from the Greek word aitho ("to burn")

It seem that he like game with fire :D:D

PS : No offense JB, the name "Etna" have remember me a italian vulcano... "Etna" is a wonderful name for define the character of several RW...

[jb]

I've very careful about what I discuss with Etna, she knows where all  the sharps are stored.  However, in this case she knows I was not  the innocent when we married.

[Albert]

I started this thread nearly a year ago.  At that time I had met with the gal in question 3 times for a total of about 100 days.  Since that original posting, I met with this gal 3 more times spending a total of about 50 days.  During the interim, I also spent many weeks with other gals.

I can now report that AndrewF proved to be correct.  I simply grew tired of 'servicing' this gal multiple times a day (wherein she would have multiple orgasms).

She never forced me to do any of this, but I knew she was always ready and waiting, and it really was a lot of fun for me . . . . for many, many, days.

Although she never forced me or made a big issue out of it, if I went a day without initiating sex, she was quick to ask me if we were ever going to have sex again.

I don't really know if I am going to spend additional time in the future with this gal or not.  The reason being is that I really started dreading our next session, and that is no way to go.  I knew this before our last meeting of about 8 days but I went ahead with the meeting anyway hoping it would be better.  But it wasn't.

I feel very bad about ending this relationship, because this gal really treated me well (in all respects), was totally devoted to me (perhaps more than anyone other than my parents) and would cut off her arm for me.

Although we didn't really speak about ending our relationship, this gal is a very sharp cookie and can see the handwriting on the wall.  She even went so far as to say that she wouldn't mind being my second gal on the side if I chose to spend time with another gal in her home town.  I didn't reply to this comment of hers.  She also said she would write a letter of recommendation for me to other gals.  I didn't respond to this comment either.

By the way, this is not the same gal that I mentioned in another post about a continuing relationship after the 'Dear Jane' letter.

Moral of the story:  Be really careful about what you wish for!!

[BC]

Sounds like she simply wore you out Albert..

Maybe if you hadn't expended yourself on the other 150 you might have kept up with her!

 

[Albert]

Sounds like she simply wore you out Albert..

Maybe if you hadn't expended yourself on the other 150 you might have kept up with her!

 

BC, neither you nor I, nor any man could keep up with such a woman (in terms of matching O for O).  Real question is would any man long keep giving her the pleasure.  I don't think most would do it for as long as I did.  Would you do it for the long-run?  Please be honest.

[BC]

BC, neither you nor I, nor any man could keep up with such a woman (in terms of matching O for O).  Real question is would any man long keep giving her the pleasure.  I don't think most would do it for as long as I did.  Would you do it for the long-run?  Please be honest.

 

Honest enuf?

[groovlstk]

Albert, if possible you might want to change the title of this topic, only because at first glance I thought you were asking if anyone here had experience with a ladyboy! 

[TexasBoar]

Personally, I think I've heard waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay more about some members' personal sex lives than I needed to.

Overshare, anyone?

That said, in women as with pistols, I prefer a hair trigger and high-capacity magazine, myself.  So to speak.  Otherwise you find yourself wondering if the piece will ever go "bang."  

~Boar

[jb]

We used to call this "TMI".  (too much information)

[Gator]

I went almost a year without reading boards, and look at what I missed.

BC wrote,

Maybe if you hadn't expended yourself on the other 150 you might have kept up with her!

 

Good one, but Albert is not laughing with you.  He probably thinks that could be the real reason.

Albert, I do not know your story, but you seem like one twisted dude from the little I have read.

Like Groovy, when I saw this title, I thought of “shemales” or Thai “lady boys”.  Albert, I should introduce you to one of my acquaintances.  He went to Thailand and got a BJ, remarking that he did not know if the “giver” was a man or woman, but it was so good that he did not care.  Now that sounds like something you would say.

Texas Boar, when you claim TMI, you should not contribute to the commentary.  But a good description.

[TexasBoar]

Texas Boar, when you claim TMI, you should not contribute to the commentary.  But a good description.

You are, of course, correct.  I thought perhaps I might illustrate how a little wry metaphor could better serve one's audience than an unwarranted field trip through Penthouse Forums. 

~Boar

[Moscvichka]

Do you know as Russian women call American men which  have sex with all women which they met in Russia... Sex tourists.
 They do not speak about such men with respect. To have sex or sex with love....   it is very much a greater difference. To have sex with almost unfamiliar  man ....only because he is from US and he has not time for  development of relations... it is humiliating for any normal woman.

[Kvinna]

Dear Albert
Can you send a photo of you, please
my e-mail is info@antidate.org

[Moscvichka]

Dear Albert
Can you send a photo of you, please
my e-mail is info@antidate.org

 

[wiz]

To have sex or sex with love....   it is very much a greater difference.

Everybody can have sex with women that he is not in love with but just take a fancy but as you say Making Love is a great difference. There must be love in the relationship.

[Moscvichka]

Everybody can have sex with women that he is not in love with but just take a fancy but as you say Making Love is a great difference. There must be love in the relationship.

if someone wants to have sex with ANY nice girl ... KOBEL' is name for such man in Russian language
 such tourist need to visit his doctor when he come back home  after free sex tour. Good luck in Russian Roulette 

[Bruno]

Good luck in Russian Roulette 

Do you know the African Roulette... 6 women ready for oral sex... where one is cannibal 

[Albert]

Albert, if possible you might want to change the title of this topic, only because at first glance I thought you were asking if anyone here had experience with a ladyboy! 

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Groove, in the first part of the original posting, I explain what the title means.  I repeat it here: "This woman actually thinks like a man with regard to sex.  That is to say, she thinks about it most of the time."

[Albert]

Personally, I think I've heard waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay more about some members' personal sex lives than I needed to.

Overshare, anyone?

That said, in women as with pistols, I prefer a hair trigger and high-capacity magazine, myself.  So to speak.  Otherwise you find yourself wondering if the piece will ever go "bang."  

~Boar

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Texas Boar and Gator too: Did you bother to read the first part of my post:  "Warning: Closet homos, guys who put FSU women on pedestals, guys who have very low levels of testosterone, etc., should not read any further."

Yes, we all know that people who have a low interest in sex do not like to read about others having sex . . . . regardless of the high mindedness that cloaks such complaints.