Anyone else had experience with a man she - Part two

[BC]

Kvinna,

Actually if her ducks are in a row she wouldn't even need the Embassy.  Any good lawyer will do. Probably would not even request payment up front.

[Moscvichka]

Ну уж, ты про рыбацкие истории слышала? вот тут тоже самое! Я где-то слышала, рожденный трепаться, трахать не может. Так что пусть трепится

думаешь, врет?
А я верю всему, что пишут. Вот, дуреха то 

[Kvinna]

Kvinna,

Actually if her ducks are in a row she wouldn't even need the Embassy.  Any good lawyer will do. Probably would not even request payment up front.

oh, there is a such story on our forum. Girl have a kid with one USA citizen, but Ebassy doesn't want even to hear about this, lawer ask for about 7 000$

[Gator]

American paternity laws do not apply in Russia.  A paternity lawsuit would apply only if the Russian woman was in America.  If so, the father would be responsible for child support for 18 years (and no guarantee of partial custody or visitation).  A simple DNA test is the only evidence needed. 

What are the Russian paternity laws?  The Russian divorce and alimony laws do not seem very protective of women, so I doubt if law provides much protection.

[BC]

oh, there is a such story on our forum. Girl have a kid with one USA citizen, but Ebassy doesn't want even to hear about this, lawer ask for about 7 000$

From http://legalmomentum.org/legalmomentum/inthecourts/2006/03/nguyen_v_ins_533_us_53_2001.php

8 U.S.C. § 1409, the federal statute governing the citizenship of out-of-wedlock children born outside the U.S. to only one U.S. citizen parent, sets forth different requirements based on the sex of the U.S. citizen parent. The citizen mother's child is automatically a U.S. citizen if the mother lived in the U.S. for at least one year at any time in her life. By contrast, the out-of-wedlock child of a U.S. citizen father must meet several additional requirements. Before the child's eighteenth birthday, the child must either be legitimated under the law of his residence, the father must acknowledge paternity under oath, or paternity must be established by a court. In addition, the father must agree to provide financial support for the child until he or she is eighteen.

hmm.. guess I learned something today.. maybe an interesting topic for another thread.

[Moscvichka]

oh, there is a such story on our forum. Girl have a kid with one USA citizen, but Ebassy doesn't want even to hear about this, lawer ask for about 7 000$

 некоторым здешним "ходокам"  лучше оставаться в неведении о безнаказанности похождений

[Kvinna]

некоторым здешним "ходокам"  лучше оставаться в неведении о безнаказанности похождений

Ну зачем же? Мы можем их просветить, что нынче тут появилась экстремисткаяорганизация кастраторов - всех секс-туристов под нож

[wiz]

may be somebody can translate my post? Thank you.

Уважаемый Альберт.
Наверное, ты чувствуешь себя героем, когда столько женщин готовы переспать с тобой и угождать тебе в постели, чтобы иметь шанс иммигрировать.
То, что этим "леди" наплевать даже на элементарные средства предохранения от вен. заболеваний, говорит о качестве выбираемых тобой партнерш.
Сомневаюсь, что твой поиск может иметь достойный результат.
Но, возможно, ты просто летаешь в Россию, чтобы развлечься и повысить свою самооценку. Что ж, каждый решает свои проблемы, как может. Удачи.

Dear Albert.

Probably, it boosts your ego, when so many women are ready to sleep with you and to please you in bed, so they have the chance to immigrate.

These "ladies" to ignore even elementary means of protection from sexually transmitted Diseases, speaks a lot about the quality of your chosen partners by you.

I doubt, that your search can have worthy result.

But, probably, you simply fly to Russia to have a good time and raise your self-estim.

Well, everyone solves their problems as best they can.

[Albert]

Albert, my words are my opinions drawn from reading your posts. You introduce topics as if they have some educational value about Russian women when it seems that you are using threads to boast about your private sexual adventures and personal promiscuity.   For example, I do not see the relevance of asking if anyone has encountered an over-sexed woman in FSU.  Yes, such women exist, but that has as much value in understanding FSU women as a thread saying you met a woman who likes football. 

Please undersatnd that I am not condemning you.  My "twisted" comment was mostly in humor.  Sexuality among consenting adults is a personal choice, and while I would never write about my private sexual encounters (which pale in comparison with yours), you have the freedom to post what you wish. The sex part attracted our attention, and admittedly mine, moreso than football would ever have done. Even the women posters read it.

I do question one aspect of your story.  I assert that a man with a large number of sexual partners and not using a condom is endangering the full joy of his future married life (plus being solipsistic).

Gator, thanks for your reasoned and calm response.  Sorry if I jumped on you a little hard.

To address some of your comments.

First, I disagree about your comments re the relevance of my topic(s).  They are no more far afield than many (most) others posted here.

Second, you have posted here about your sexual adventures.  Do you want me to find and quote some of your passages?

Third, I said that FSU women often ask that I not use condoms.  However, I never grant that request.  This has led to the end of some of my relationships as the women get highly peed.

[Albert]

On the contrary... if they know the American laws for child support they might be very smart 

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None of the FSU women I have been intimate with have the least bit of interest in having a child, in fact they very much do not want it.  They are all over 35 with existing children (except for a few).  Those asking that I not use a condom are all on some form of birth control.  That is why they get peed when I insist on condom because they think I am implying they have some STD.  They are seemingly blind to the fact that I might have STD (which I don't).

[Moscvichka]

wiz ,wow, do you understand Russian?
My respect.
Thanks for translation

[Albert]

Dear Albert.

Probably, it boosts your ego, when so many women are ready to sleep with you and to please you in bed, so they have the chance to immigrate.

These "ladies" to ignore even elementary means of protection from sexually transmitted Diseases, speaks a lot about the quality of your chosen partners by you.

I doubt, that your search can have worthy result.

But, probably, you simply fly to Russia to have a good time and raise your self-esteem.

Well, everyone solves their problems as best they can.

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Wiz, I am quite surprised at your post.  It implies that you have not read or comprehended anything I have written in the past.  If you even read the first part of this thread you will see that I have spoken to the contrary about most of what you say.  Other posts of mine go even further.

To briefly recap:

This woman and most others I have been with have no interest in coming to USA or going anywhere.

The women I am with are of the highest quality.  Highly educated, good paying jobs, good families, etc.

You apparently have comprehended nothing I said re the 'search and result.'
You have apparently  not been able to comprehend the words I have repeated often: 'I am going to FSU for business.'

You have apparently failed to grasp what I have said many times.  My numbers re women are minuscule.  There are hundreds of thousands, perhaps millions of men worldwide who have been with many more women than I have been with.  They would laugh heartily at you, I, or anyone else who would seek to claim that I have any significant numbers at all.

Finally, I have no problems at all.

[Zmejka]

Albert, wiz kindly translated the post of Moscvichka written above. And i agree with her opinion completely.
And i still can't understand women not demanding condoms. only if they're so rich to treat themselves after from possible diseases

[Albert]

Albert, wiz kindly translated the post of Moscvichka written above. And i agree with her opinion completely.
And i still can't understand women not demanding condoms. only if they're so rich to treat themselves after from possible diseases

How can you agree with an opinion that I have noted is based on a faulty reading of the facts??  First understand the facts, then make comments on those facts.

Yes, everyone can have opinions, but they must start with same facts.

Your comments and those of the previous poster are something like this:

Person 1.  I don't like meat and potatoes.

Person 2.  In my opinion, something is wrong with you because you don't like shrimp and salad.

[Moscvichka]

Albert, you knew that Russians read this forum when you wrote a lot offensive and cynical statements about Russian women. It is not nice. You have been in Russia like a visitor , rememder about norms of decency

[Bruno]

Albert, i have only one question... Do you seek a wife ?

Your are from enough long time on these forum, you have meet several hundred of FSU women, you have sleep with a lot of them... until now, no problem... several men follow the same way for select the right girls...

But one report from one RW to the other is almost always related to sex... sex is a part of relationship but in your case, it seem to be the only one part...

Of course, it is my opinion... but i am sure that several share it... and maybe some who attack you are simply jealous for not be able to make the same that you... but me, i am not jealous... yes, you have great time in FSU but i don't feel that your final goal is find a wife ( and if i good remember, in some topic, you say yourself that you don't seek a wife )...

Do i condem you? certainly not... between my sexual maturity ( around 15 year old ) until my late 20's... i was like you, maybe more that you... but like every men, with time, the need to find a serious partner and not only sex relation have appear... If i was not knowing your age, by reading your post, i can think that you are a young men post pubert who experiment about sexual life... but your are more near the halft century that the pubert time !!! Yes, sex is fun but when you grow up, you realize that relationship is really more that sex... sex is a part of relationship but not the only or main part...

[Kvinna]

Albert, i have only one question... Do you seek a wife ?

nope, Bruno, he seek for advetures for his жопа

[Kvinna]

Oh, have forund somethig

http://www.endohealth.net/img/news/ccc7230c7204b11acade114f37102c87.jpg
http://images.ifun.ru/y/yeGYOTswy5.jpg

[Bruno]

Oh, have forund somethig

Kvinna, i apreciate your work on the russian side... but posting so photo's who lead to a bad reaction from the western side... Ok, myself i feel that Albert is almost like a sex tourist ( my opinion and nobody is obligate to share it with me )... but yourself, you go to much far... by making so, you will find almost all western communauty against you... not really the best way for help "your girls"...

Control your emotion and moderate your post... i know that it is not a easy job but you have choice to be the owner/webmaster of a forum... something that i will never be able to make due to my emotional character but in your case, it was your choice... one of my dream is more collaboration between RWD and Antidate... making so post don't help... problem need to be resolved on both side... one side work lead to no result... simply post your opinion in a moderated way... some will agree with you and some not... but don't push it to much far in a way that it hurt...

[Gator]

A LITTLE DECORUM PLEEEEASE!  

I do not think it is appropriate to show photos of some unfortunate, ignorant victims of tertiary syphilis and molluscum contagiosum(???).  Many STDs such as these are caused by bacteria and readily detected, treated, and cured.  Yet, some are not.  While bacterial infections are worrisome, it is all of the STDs that should make us be careful and seek monogamy:

Sexually active people should attempt quizzes such as these, and if you do not score 100%, spend more time learning about the risks:


http://teenadvice.about.com/library/teenquiz/6/blstdquiz.htm

http://www.dhep.astate.edu/patho/module6/STD.htm

http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/stds/QZ00037

http://www.coolnurse.com/std_active_quiz.htm

I am not a defendant of Albert, and certainly not in his camp; however, he did say he uses a condom.  Albert, even if you wore a condom as you claim, that protects you and her only during coitus (if the condom does not fail), and I doubt that you limit your sexual activity to just coitus.

[Kvinna]

Control your emotion and moderate your post...

Bruno, you are too emothinal. It is only syphilis and this can happen with some people who prefer to have sex without condom
Better bother about prevenception

[Gator]

Kvinna,
I agree with Bruno.  Please read the first paragraph in my 3:06:40 post above.  Women are more susceptible than men to STDs, and syphilis is far down the list of what you should worry about.  Please do not use out-of-context, shocking photos.

By the way, I like everything else you have written in this thread.

[Gator]

Albert wrote,

you [gator] have posted here about your sexual adventures

Albert, what you do in the FSU with a consenting adult is your personal choice.  And what you write about is your choice.  But please do not place me in your category.  You are deluding yourself when you say, “My numbers re women are minuscule”.   You are not Wilt Chamberlain, but can you identify one man on any RW board who writes more about sex.  And compare your number of writings with the man who is in second place behind you.

Albert, I have been going to the FSU for four years.  For three of those years, I was exclusive to one woman, my ex-fiancée.  I was with a second woman for an additional 7 months, again a monogamous relationship.   I am a one-woman man.   I seek monogamy and am happiest when in such relationships.  I respect those two women and out of my respect would not describe what we did. 

To set the record straight, on only two trips (out of about 20-25 separate trips) have I slept with more than one woman.  This is substantiated merely by considering my age.   Even those were not sexual adventures (your choice of words).

[viking]

Gator

I am in your camp. I have always been a 'one woman' man myself. Even in my youth, and I had a GREAT time in my youth, it was always one girl friend at a time, never more. And honestly, I would prefer to only speak with one woman, have only one woman, be married to only one woman. Unfortunately, this has been my downfall in meeting RW. Not enough eggs in the basket.

I have heard this from you and others both on this thread and others that sex is important, no doubt, but there needs to be an underlying foundation to make a relationship work. After you have gone through every position in the Kama Sutra 10 times what is next?
Would I like to have sex with almost every RW I meet? Duh!! I'm a guy. But it is not necessary. And it would be nobodys business if I did. The most I would ever say is 'we had a great time behind closed doors.' Then leave it up to your imagination.

[Albert]

Albert, you knew that Russians read this forum when you wrote a lot offensive and cynical statements about Russian women. It is not nice. You have been in Russia like a visitor , rememder about norms of decency

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You are absolutely wrong.  I have never written offensive and cynical statements about Russian women.  I like and respect FSU women very much.

You, on the other hand, have continually written offinsive and cynical statements about American men.

I tried to be your friend here and even helped you get started in your postings.  But your thanks to me is to continually attack me in a personal manner.