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Did you?

Used a full-service agency - trips, translators, gifts, etc.?
3 (14.3%)
Use an agency as a dating service or a social networking site?
13 (61.9%)
Did it myself - just went to meet them on the street or in bars?
5 (23.8%)

Total Members Voted: 20

Voting closed: May 21, 2009, 11:43:25 PM

Author Topic: How did you do it?  (Read 2915 times)

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Offline ECOCKS

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How did you do it?
« on: May 14, 2009, 11:43:25 PM »
So how did you enter the pool? Shallow end on the steps? Jump into that cold water from the side or the heck with it, straight into the deep end?
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Re: How did you do it?
« Reply #1 on: May 16, 2009, 09:36:09 PM »
Met a girl at work who had been temporarily assigned to help me get accustomed to living and navigating about Moscow. When it was clear that she didn't like nor trust Americans, I asked a female associate (RW) if she could help me. It was just over 17.5 months later that I was fortunate enough to marry the person who had gradually become my best friend.
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Re: How did you do it?
« Reply #2 on: May 17, 2009, 06:00:33 AM »
Stubbed my toe near the edge and fell in.

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Re: How did you do it?
« Reply #3 on: May 17, 2009, 06:21:59 AM »
Gleefully jumped in the deep end, and then treaded water for 6 years.

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Re: How did you do it?
« Reply #4 on: May 17, 2009, 08:19:22 AM »
A swan dive into the shallow end.  After my less than visible abrasions healed.  I dove again but this time understood the depth.

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Re: How did you do it?
« Reply #5 on: May 17, 2009, 09:24:40 AM »
Did some curiosity toe-dipping, found the water a bit cold to my liking and walked away. I never forgot where the pool was and went back to the more familiar waters only to soon figure out it didn't please me. Back to the cold water pool and dove right in. Quickly then deciding this is my kind of pool.

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Re: How did you do it?
« Reply #6 on: May 17, 2009, 01:11:57 PM »
I would say that I basically cannon-balled into the middle zone. It was total immersion though.

Used EM to setup about a dozen dates over the first 4-5 weeks in the country, then selected the best 2 for another week and got down to one to concentrate on. Then just dated steadily for nearly 7 months.
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Re: How did you do it?
« Reply #7 on: May 17, 2009, 06:28:08 PM »
Went on vacation to an eastern european country and got sucked into the rip tide.
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Re: How did you do it?
« Reply #8 on: May 18, 2009, 06:02:09 PM »
Started out in the early ninties wanting some pen-pals....
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Re: How did you do it?
« Reply #9 on: May 18, 2009, 07:21:35 PM »
Woke up one day and noticed there was a tear in the water bed.

 

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