The breaking of commandment #6

[MatryoshkaMan]

#6 states that though shall not fall in love with photographs...well I am struggling with that one at the moment! See I had very very few decent photographs of my #1 until now..lots of webcam shots and some distant shots, etc. etc....well well well she just got back from her vacation and has sent me about a dozen high res photos of herself and I am trying to pick up the pieces of my shattered jaw which dropped to the floor and also collect the scattered debris of my exploded eyeballs....I am so besides myself I can see myself 10 feet away. This lady is so drop dead gorgeous and stunning that its like its not real anymore. I thought I was chatting with a nice looking and sweet woman but wowzers is this woman a woman if you know what I mean. I am trying not to babble incoherently and drool on my keyboard just now...oh those 2 months till we meet are going to be LOOOOOOOOOOONG  

[Missouri-Hunter]

You should have a picture posted along with a tease like that. 

[MatryoshkaMan]

Ummmmm well no sorry cannot do that. Will have to leave it to your imagination. I am a classy guy after all!

[Kuna]

Congrats... I hope you and the photo will be very happy.

May I suggest you print it to paper that's able to transfer the image to a T Shirt or pillow case - and definitely don't printing it on glossy paper.  The glossy paper will be very harsh on your lips and if you get carried away and "go the tongue" you could cut yourself.

I love happy endings in RWD and really wish you and your photo all the best for the future.   

Kuna

[Gator]

I love happy endings in RWD and really wish you and your photo all the best for the future.   

 

Martyrman,

You have talked to this woman several times, yes?  If so, the good feelings from those talks have influenced you.  Nevertheless, you are still talking with other RW, so what you are feeling is more physical than emotional.  Otherwise you would have stopped talking with the others before you had received the new photos.

Do your feelings now compel you to visit only her and keep the others as backup?

[Simoni]

#6 states that though shall not fall in love with photographs...well I am struggling with that one at the moment! See I had very very few decent photographs of my #1 until now..lots of webcam shots and some distant shots, etc. etc....well well well she just got back from her vacation and has sent me about a dozen high res photos of herself and I am trying to pick up the pieces of my shattered jaw which dropped to the floor and also collect the scattered debris of my exploded eyeballs....I am so besides myself I can see myself 10 feet away. This lady is so drop dead gorgeous and stunning that its like its not real anymore. I thought I was chatting with a nice looking and sweet woman but wowzers is this woman a woman if you know what I mean. I am trying not to babble incoherently and drool on my keyboard just now...oh those 2 months till we meet are going to be LOOOOOOOOOOONG  

I don't know the history of your relationship with this girl, so this statement is just theoretical, and may not apply in your case....

BUT

have you considered that the vacation could have been with another man and that HE took those pictures of her she sent you?  Happens all the time...

[Kuna]

I don't know the history of your relationship with this girl, so this statement is just theoretical, and may not apply in your case....

BUT

have you considered that the vacation could have been with another man and that HE took those pictures of her she sent you?  Happens all the time...

Simoni... come on... give him a break!  It's not about her... it's about the photos. 

 

[Simoni]

or her "photographer"     LOL

[groovlstk]

I am trying to pick up the pieces of my shattered jaw which dropped to the floor and also collect the scattered debris of my exploded eyeballs....I am so besides myself I can see myself 10 feet away. This lady is so drop dead gorgeous and stunning that its like its not real anymore.

Looks like you're prepped and ready for your new role as a doormat in the event this woman has anything other than romance on her mind.

[GoodOlBoy]

....have you considered that the vacation could have been with another man and that HE took those pictures of her she sent you?  Happens all the time...

Thanks Simoni.

Same thing came to my mind.

I just didn't want to post it.  :evil:

Looks like you're prepped and ready for your new role as a doormat in the event this woman has anything other than romance on her mind.

Maybe there will be a "mule suit" fitting in his future? 



GOB

[MatryoshkaMan]

Yes you guys are correct the photos where taken by her he-man super mafia boyfriend Pasha (the one that kills for kicks) who has already told me (via a 2am phonecall) that when I visit I await waterboarding Russian style (not the sissy candy-ass CIA way) followed by dismemberment as I am pulled apart by 4 Hummers in the courtyard of his sprawling dacha, and he says if I am really lucky he might end my struggles with a burst of Kalashnikov gunfire followed by a casual tossing of a spare volka bottle made into a crude Molotov cocktail...Then come his dogs to feast on the meager remains and erase all evidence that I ever existed.

[Daveman]

Now that's funny, I just returned from vacation with a gorgeous babe!

MM, while the guys are yanking your chain a bit, your post does exemplify the mentality of putting the cart before the horse in a major way.  You were married to an RW before, you should know that advanced drooling can exacerbate to a terminal condition.  

[MatryoshkaMan]

I am going to take my chances and visit only this woman this fall. I still do chat to 2 others but they know its friendship only and that I am going to visit my #1 only. My profile is removed from Dating.ru and Elena's and my #1 removed her profile from where I met her also. We talk almost every day on the phone, ICQ chat often, sms constantly for the last month. Yes at this point she is a photograph only but very soon she will be real for me. Remember that I walked this path a long time before a lot of you smart a**es even knew that RW exsisted! Back in 1999 my wife to be was also nothing but a few photographs. 8 months later we were married and while it did not work out and we split, we spent 9 years together and are still great friends. In fact we talk on the phone 2-3 times a day and see each other at least once a week. It is time for me to start examining some of the very negative posters attitudes to see where they are coming from. My friend Kuna for example. Poor Kuna who seems to everyday wake up on the wrong side of the bed...

[MatryoshkaMan]

Don't you guys realize that I am engaging in a bit of playful exageration, flame-baiting just playing you a bit? I knew this post would get some of your hackles up.
You guys are like my sister when we were kids for which the utterance of a few select words would result in an instant volcanic explosion of anger followed by a swift kick in the b*lls and a verbal cascade of female fury. 

And for the record all the photos are just everyday street photos, no nudity or anything of the sort. She is just wearing some nice outfits that look good on her..

[kievstar]

Hi matryoshkaman,

Glad things are working out.  I was same situation on ex wife about 10 years and close contact after divorce.  But once you get engaged next I suggest you will need to have close to zero contact with ex wife. 

[myrddin]

Don't you guys realize that I am engaging in a bit of playful exageration, flame-baiting just playing you a bit? I knew this post would get some of your hackles up.

FWIW, it looked to me like people took your humorous cues.  And some serious warnings to keep eyes open, as much for other anonymous readers as for you.

[groovlstk]

Don't you guys realize that I am engaging in a bit of playful exageration, flame-baiting just playing you a bit? I knew this post would get some of your hackles up.

Don't tease us too much, MM - we've seen enough trainwrecks here that we might want to designate Trainwreck Tuesdays for guys to talk about their experiences 

[Tamara]

Don't you guys realize that I am engaging in a bit of playful exageration, flame-baiting just playing you a bit? I knew this post would get some of your hackles up.
You guys are like my sister when we were kids for which the utterance of a few select words would result in an instant volcanic explosion of anger followed by a swift kick in the b*lls and a verbal cascade of female fury. 

MatryoshkaMan, excellent posts: humorous and funny.  I love your attitude! 

[Kuna]

Remember that I walked this path a long time before a lot of you smart a**es even knew that RW exsisted! Back in 1999 my wife to be was also nothing but a few photographs. 8 months later we were married and while it did not work out and we split, we spent 9 years together and are still great friends. In fact we talk on the phone 2-3 times a day and see each other at least once a week.

1. You might find FSU dating is quite different 10 years on.  I have friends who married in the 90's and based on what they tell me it was a different world.

2.  You might like to start preparing your goodbyes to your "great friend" who you talk to 2 or 3 tims a day on the phone.  It'd take a very understanding NEW RW to appreciate your ex-wife's contact.



Question for you...  and it's a serious one.  DO you have children from your first RW marriage?  Is that the reason for the close contact?

I know you've shopped your ex-wife's photos on RWD looking for some new options for her (which I thought was very strange), but I'm curious what would require so much contact with an ex-wife?

[Sculpto]

My friend Kuna for example. Poor Kuna who seems to everyday wake up on the wrong side of the bed...

lol you noticed.

[groovlstk]

Don't you guys realize that I am engaging in a bit of playful exageration, flame-baiting just playing you a bit? I knew this post would get some of your hackles up.

MM, you seem like a nice guy, but based on your posts here you sometimes come off as a lovesick teenager with little dating experience. If this is a pose intended to get a rise out of people here, kudos - you've succeeded. But people will respond to you based on your tone, and if you choose to wind people up purely for your own amusement you'll get the responses you deserve.

You guys are like my sister when we were kids for which the utterance of a few select words would result in an instant volcanic explosion of anger followed by a swift kick in the b*lls and a verbal cascade of female fury. 

Maybe she should've kicked harder to make the lesson stick. 

[JR]

I know you've shopped your ex-wife's photos on RWD looking for some new options for her (which I thought was very strange), but I'm curious what would require so much contact with an ex-wife?

OK, where the hell are they? Maybe I want her

[JR]

MM, I beat you by a year or two maybe. I went early ninties.

I know what you mean about the photos...Today got a couple from a lady after initial contact and "Oh my!" Everytime I look 'little brain' wants to stand up and be recognized LOLOL! I understand your feelings. I think we have all been there, probably more than once if we are honest. It's funny too, I wouldn't even rate her a ten. But sex appeal is more than just photos. She relates well in her letter and it strikes a cord with me.

It sounds like you're relating well with this particular lady. Though I hope you don't meet and...nothing. Wouldn't that suck? You may not want to discard your back-ups just yet. But do what seems right to you and never forget, it's your adventure.

[Gator]

Come on guys, I think you have to give MartyrMan the benefit of the doubt about his No. 1 yet continue to kick him in the ass about continuing a relationship with his ex-wife.

With regard to his No. 1, I see no difference in his approach than with any other WFVO man.  He is just being honest about his feelings, something he expresses freely unlike some sticks in the mud here who will not (or can not) express their feelings.  Before I decided to meet only one woman, she would have to be really special as confirmed by long, frequent and open conversations, which he seems to be doing.  In addition I would have to be feeling something.

With regard to the ex-wife, kievstar and the others are correct.  This would not fly among RW that I knew.  Never talk bad about an ex-wife as that also concerns RW.  Just don't mention their name as if they mean nothing to you other than you must coordinate the sharing of child custody.

[Simoni]

OK, where the hell are they? Maybe I want her

You may well might. Take a peek :-)))

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