Need help in Odessa!!

[BillyB]

You see, IMHO there exists a perpetual Catch 22.  If you do not divulge some critical information early and they discover it later, it is equally as bad or worse in the mind of the Slavic women that I have known. I just do not understand why there is this obsessive interest in all and every woman I have ever known, written to, or even looked at!!

A lot of FSU women I've talked to say there's an abundance of women in the FSU and many of them are good looking. Men have it easy and will play multiple women. They think this behavior is ingrained in men.

You were not prepared to answer questions from an FSU woman. If there is a next time and she asks you about all the past women you wrote to when you visit, tell her "I don't care about past women, I'm here with you everyday, every hour, and every minute if you want."

By you talking about the past women, it's telling her you still have them on your mind instead of her. Stay focused, on track, with the woman in front of you no matter how much she tries to see if you'll derail.

[Muddy]

Not that it matters now but it came up in terms of "how I found her on the Singles.ru site". 
Seriously, in spite of my jet lag mind, I tell you that I have doubts about returning.  I've made two trips. I have spent all of my "discretionary money" for a long while now. Forgive me for saying this but I can find a controlling, angry, obsessive and argumentative woman in my country for a lot less money!  I admit she will not be as attractive but a hell of a lot cheaper!  Maybe things will look differently in a month or two.

tHERE ARE ua and ru girls on singles.ru who live in the US

[GQBlues]

 Maybe things will look differently in a month or two.

They often are, Mike. Wonderful closing post.

I have an early tee time today, so allow me to make a golf analogy. Like golf, we never get mulligans in life but we do in fact get to walk over the next whole and get another chance for a birdie. If and when you find yourself ready to do this again and are convinced RWs/UWs are the type of women for you, then I agree with Muddy's post, there are thousands of them already living in the US. The pool is relatively smaller, but the chapters after the chase will be immensely easier.

Do note however, by culture, RWs/UWs are prone to be both demanding and controlling. A small and simple fact most men happily ignore while shopping in FSU. That's not insulting RWs/UWs as most of them take pride in that notion. So don't try to rationalize your last experience.

Good luck and hope you at least had an opportunity to enjoy the sights and country of Ukraine.