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Offline JR

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Terms of endearment...
« on: July 30, 2009, 07:22:46 PM »
Recently someone (a man) posted that you should not tell a FSUW that you love her too often. I am not sure I agree with this. However the last time I checked I was still a man so what do I know about it?

I would like to hear from the ladies how often do you find yourself wanting to hear those "three little words" from you significant other?
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Re: Terms of endearment...
« Reply #1 on: July 31, 2009, 01:56:11 AM »
when we were in long distance relationship, i couldnt get enough of those words, now we say them maybe once a day, i can see that he loves me from the way he acts around me (when hes not hungry haha)

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Re: Terms of endearment...
« Reply #2 on: July 31, 2009, 10:58:10 AM »
Agree with Aloe. Sometimes just kissing a hand can be more effective than a fast kiss. And better to say it once a day in a very sincere way looking into her eyes....than 10 times jokingly or hastily. We know you love us, we just want to be reminded and nurtured every day, the way you want that too.  ;)

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Re: Terms of endearment...
« Reply #3 on: July 31, 2009, 11:12:16 AM »
Thanks for the tips ladies. I'll give you some tips in return.

When you're sitting with your man, rub his chest and run your fingers throught his hair...if he's got any. Feed him some grapes. Spoil him a little and if he's a good man, he'll give you more in return if you make him feel like a king.

Don't forget to suprise your man occassionally by walking into the bedroom in your best lingerie and high heels and tell him "I'm all yours."
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Re: Terms of endearment...
« Reply #4 on: July 31, 2009, 11:19:37 AM »
Every woman likes to hear these words. But yes, i agree with Anastassia, it must be sincere and it must come from men's heart, it is the most important. And, all the women like attention and nice attitude. We have to know that we are loved :) And i agree that to make the relationship better and better, we have to surprise each other sometimes, to bring something new.  ;)

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Re: Terms of endearment...
« Reply #5 on: July 31, 2009, 11:24:17 AM »
In the early days of our relationship, my wife told me I shouldn't say the magic words too often or they can lose their meaning, but she came full circle on this and we exchange several per day.

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Re: Terms of endearment...
« Reply #6 on: July 31, 2009, 01:16:24 PM »
I agree, everything must be in balance! So, one time a day is enough :) :) :) Actually, it can be more if it is sincere, but if a person is not sure about the feelings, it is better not to say at all.

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Re: Terms of endearment...
« Reply #7 on: August 16, 2009, 09:07:48 PM »
I just came upon this topic, so please forgive for bringing it up again.  ::) I believe that the most important in any relationship is to be sincere and to always stay true to yourself.  Some of us love to express our emotions through words, whether it is saying I love you, using other terms of endearment or leaving a little note on the refrigerator with these wonderful words. Don't think of whether to use them or not.  If you feel like it, say it. ;)
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Re: Terms of endearment...
« Reply #8 on: August 16, 2009, 09:45:16 PM »
For some reason my wife really hates our common terms like Honey, Dear, Sweetheart. I would never try Lady on her - I value my health too much.

Wants me to call her by name.

Oh and she takes all the ILY's I can dish out.
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Re: Terms of endearment...
« Reply #9 on: August 17, 2009, 06:43:43 AM »
For some reason my wife really hates our common terms like Honey, Dear, Sweetheart. I would never try Lady on her - I value my health too much.

Wants me to call her by name.

Oh and she takes all the ILY's I can dish out.

Me too  :)

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Re: Terms of endearment...
« Reply #10 on: August 17, 2009, 12:28:30 PM »
For some reason my wife really hates our common terms like Honey, Dear, Sweetheart. I would never try Lady on her - I value my health too much.

My wife told me she loves the fact I refer to her as Babe now and then.
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