I smell a rat ... (be careful about posting detailed TRs)

[Muzh]

 
Guys, your wives and girlfriends have slept with other men and they gossiped this information to their friends. Girls, many of your men have slept with women in the commercial sex industry and they've gossiped this information to their buddies.

Funny.

I told my wife before we got married that I was not a virgin. She said: "No Problem, neither am I."

Well, I guess that makes us normal and well adjusted adult people.

Talking about well adjusted people, is that why you married a "virgin?"

Can't handle that, eh?

To improve relations may I suggest offering those penis enlargement pills at wholesale prices to your critics.

LMFAO

Said the man holding a huge phallic symbol in his picture.

Insecurities? On both counts?

LMFAO

[IAmZon]

Riv, I haven't kept up with your story but you didn't have a strong enough bond with the gal to get through this. I also notice some people are upset with what you wrote in the past and are happy you're in pain. To improve relations may I suggest offering those penis enlargement pills at wholesale prices to your critics. You may not want to help those who don't like you but think of it as helping FSU women who will directly benefit from the results.

Well, I have missed you. I could have used another man's voice here a couple months ago:)  But, you are right, my bond was not strong enough.  BUT, I would have had to have gotten off to a VERY good start to overcome the doubt that was placed in her mind by my own musings on the internet - and someone's active involvement.

The episode had a strong affect on me; there is no doubt.  But, this idea that I was somehow creating a 100% deception is completely false.   There is a little angle and devil in all of us (if we allow ourselves to be perfectly honest).   The events of the last several months, and their cumulative affect, has encouraged me to repossess my past and current involvements in a more assertive way.   Many people, and especially women, LIKE who I am and what I have done.   EVEN IN THE USA ... I am surprised to say that I can find, and be happy with, a boat load of women - young and sexy if I choose, sin limataciones, just like EE / Ukraine / Colombia.  Turns out the USA is not the desert that I made it out to be.  I had a bad attitude, and was into playing "away games".   Beauty, especially for older women, 28 - 36, is more rare here than in South America, or EE, but there is enough to find a little ZIPP if one looks. 

Part of successfully attracting the people we want in our lives is REPELLING the people we do not want in our lives.

Did I lose my chance with "I"?  Did she lose her chance with me?

It seems obvious to me now that I was - FOR SOME REASON - trying to put a square peg in a round hole.  I like women who are happy and passionate and almost childish with affection. (not exactly a famous Russian / Ukrainian characteristic)  I value good morals in a woman (the ability to be loyal), but I prefer my women to be rather open minded, curious about life, and flexible.  Besides!  I do not prefer blonds.

[Daveman]

Well I never saw him post a photo of his romantic interests,
so yes that makes more sense that someone could easily find her then.


I knew you were Irina, its why I had the wink icon in there about the name being known to you
 
As for others motivation, 
I'll take your word for it..
but mostly would hope that posters  assume grown  adults can  figure things out on their own.

Yeah, that's what we think... Doll, however, is spot on.  RW have a genetic predisposition for this kind of thing..      Water.. blood.. sharks... frenzy...

Of course an exaggeration... or... is it?  heh 

[Daveman]

 
I dunno FP.... But the Pimp sounds strangely familiar to another one I know. 
 
GOB

Hey now, for the record, I only slept with 8... the other two were all-nighters...

[Jumper]

Yeah, that's what we think... Doll, however, is spot on.  RW have a genetic predisposition for this kind of thing..      Water.. blood.. sharks... frenzy...

Of course an exaggeration... or... is it?  heh 

my bad. lol


I thought that genetic trait only surfaced after 50 years old , and even then ,only with enough ingestion of sunflower seeds?

[Daveman]

If two men know everybody will know soon...

The behavior of running off to tell a woman about a posts on a website is simply not the behavior of a man.  I could easily see a woman pulling it.. after all.. they cling together like velcro until it's time to hate each other..  heh..


I just don't quite get this one...

my bad. lol


I thought that genetic trait only surfaced after 50 years old , and even then ,only with enough ingestion of sunflower seeds?

LOL!  Funny, that 'seed' cultural difference..  here they'd just play baseball..

[BillyB]

this idea that I was somehow creating a 100% deception is completely false.   There is a little angle and devil in all of us (if we allow ourselves to be perfectly honest).   

If any man says he's 100% honest, he's lying starting with himself. I doubt anyone, man or woman would tell all the ugly, past and present, to a mate. It's not being dishonest, it's being normal.

[IAmZon]

The behavior of running off to tell a woman about a posts on a website is simply not the behavior of a man.  I could easily see a woman pulling it..

Of course it is NOT manly!  But, it is common among modern American boys - especially those using avatars as their only identity

just keeping it real