Hello. I'm ukrainian woman, does anybody wants to ask something? :))

[Assamena]

I'm trying to understand if it's that Dima. If that - it's fun ))

he own apartments, mostly in center I think, night owl person, speaks English and  German, if I'm right

Tall, with short look like blond hair

[GregfromGa]

Well I understood that woman, as russian understand russians people.

If she woud say me that in face, believe me, it woud not be nice joke.

She is joking about me being sarcastic, it's unpolite and unnormal.

And I know one person Dima, who works with agecy, but do not know name that agency.
Does his age like 32-35 and he is crazy driver of beauty cars?

[GregfromGa]

I guess there is a chance that it might be him and he is about that age but I dont know about driving beauty cars. Dont get too caught up in defending yourself here. I dont think BF meant too much about what she said but I'm not Russian so I dont know how to interpret such things. I do know that the unmarried guys here appreciate the fact that you posted a picture. So what agency does this Dima work if you dont mind telling me?

[Assamena]

 GregfromGa, I really do not know which one.
Because I spoke with him not about agencys I just know him, as friend of my trainer of fencing.
Sometimes I meet with him, when he is picking up foreigners from airport or from railwaystations.
I like him, because he's very positive guy and his way of driving car makes me feel scary ))
But i can ask him, if you want with what agency he works, but not sure how fast he will reply me But I will try.

[vwrw]

Wrong. Once again, a native speaker would NOT pronounce that word that way. 

How about some of you not being so mean-sprited here?   She was attacked for no reason by BF, and I don't blame her for responding.

This forum does not consist of only native speakers, and it was kind of BF to enlighten the girl about how nonnative speakers can read her nickname.
BF had NO intention to attack Assamena, she just was curious, and in response to her curiosity she got insults.

Simoni, it is a well-known fact that quoting only a half of sentence can distort perception of the sentence’s meaning, so, would you, please, insert ellipses to indicate the omission next time you quote my post. :-)))

[Doll]

Did I miss the picture or what?

[Doll]

 

[GregfromGa]

GregfromGa, I really do not know which one.
Because I spoke with him not about agencys I just know him, as friend of my trainer of fencing.
Sometimes I meet with him, when he is picking up foreigners from airport or from railwaystations.
I like him, because he's very positive guy and his way of driving car makes me feel scary ))
But i can ask him, if you want with what agency he works, but not sure how fast he will reply me But I will try.

Thanks..I really appreciate it. 7 years ago today I was in Kharkov in his apartment near Rosa Luxumberg square. It had snowed so much. I remember walking from there to Paremskya Street near metro station Holodnaya Gora...Those were the days. Working out all day at a health spa, drinking tea, swimming,sauna and waiting on my now wife to get from work. I have walked from one end of Sumskaya to the other more than once. LOL...

[myrddin]

 I do know that the unmarried guys here appreciate the fact that you posted a picture.

I think I hear JollyRats and BillyB dueling off in the distance....  

[Assamena]

Assamena, It's always good to have a nice girl from the Kharkov region posting here. I'm rather fond of that area. I have to ask if you know a guy named Dmitry? He used to run the agency Kharkovgirls. Nice guy. He actually helped me line up our wedding and he's in some of our pictures. We lost contact a few years ago and I'd like to make contact with him again so he can see that his efforts are still paying off.LOL

If you will show or send me some pictures with him, I will recognize him quickly

[GregfromGa]

I think I hear JollyRats and BillyB dueling off in the distance....  

..LOL, you are correct sir...Those guys would probably already have a stalking warrant issued to them if this were the real world...Not that there is anything wrong with that. In this process you work every angle possible because you just never know. This place is lucky to have it's fair share of beautiful women that post.

[Doll]

If you are interested in my ass, so probably yours look a bit worse.
Do not be so sad, dear, with time it will became more bad looking.

sorry guys, that I thought you were interested in that.

As I understod it's nice Russian women , nice to meet you Blues Fairy.

Maybe you have not enough attention to your ass now, but things will change, soon you will not have that attention at all.

Sorry for honesty darling, you deserve it.

[GregfromGa]

If you will show or send me some pictures with him, I will recognize him quickly

..I will send you a pm...Let me see if I have one available to send. Thanks again.

[Assamena]

You are welcome of course

[Gator]

You think someone should be treated with kinder, gentler words because she is a young 21 and attractive? 

Why should RWD differ from the way the rest of the world responds to young, attractive and well endowed women?

And I really don't care what BF intended.  Does it make a difference if BF was jesting or insulting? 

If an insult, it is very minor, as minor as one could deliver. 

As humor, it is not up to the intellectual standards I have grown to expect from BF (the cross she bears from writing 99% of the time with clarity and insightfulness). 

Maybe BF purposefully threw us a curveball, having fun not just with Assamena but with all of us.  Being highly intelligent and staying home with a toddler all day, day after day......well....

I don't care one way or the other.

By the way, Assamena, welcome!  You never did answer my question:   WHY ARE YOU CONSIDERING FOREIGN MEN?

Being a Ukranian citizen, the concept of meeting foreign men  is one directed at marriage.  You are young with the whole world in front of you.  Why marry so young?  I suggest that you try your hand at some interesting profession, have fun dating respectable men, travel some,  kiss a couple of frogs, and see what happens.  Believe me, you will be much wiser 3-5 years from now, and still very young.

[Assamena]

 WHY ARE YOU CONSIDERING FOREIGN MEN?

That is really difficult question.

First beause they sound more olite then Russians, and then I'm just boring from Ukraine

also I was dating with American almost year, I think it's the most reason why I decided to find foreigner after I broke up with him

[GregfromGa]

If in fact Miss Assamena is looking for a Mr Right then she has came to the right place. There is a more than qualified field of well seasoned  veteran posters here that can help her weed through the mess that is sometimes international dating. You guys do realize that I have met some real nut jobs over there that are trying to marry up with girls half their age for no other reason than that. Hang around girl. I would think that you would learn more here than with some agency manager coaching you. Not that you need coaching or anything but again, I have met some real nut cases over there.

[Assamena]

GregfromGa, you did not send pic of Dima, but I already speak with him, he said Kharkivgirls was his agency, but he sold it few years ago

[GregfromGa]

WHY ARE YOU CONSIDERING FOREIGN MEN?

That is really difficult question.

First beause they sound more olite then Russians, and then I'm just boring from Ukraine

also I was dating with American almost year, I think it's the most reason why I decided to find foreigner after I broke up with him

Just to clarify for some of us and dont be afraid to tell us that it's none of our business if the questions are not to your liking. When you say you dated, what did that entail? Did the guy make several trips to see you or was he an American living here? You certainly are a beautiful girl and one day you'll make some lucky man a good wife but there are certainly more important factors than just beauty of course. Do you have a job? I know there are many of RW/UW that come here and they do not work for various reasons. Maybe their husbands do not want them to work or maybe they are lazy and feel entitled to sit at home on the computer or attend college classes for 7 years. I think some of the very single and very available guys here would like to know what attributes you would be bringing to the table. Maybe your borsht is fantastic and if so then thats certainly a positive...LOL

[Faux Pas]

Why should RWD differ from the way the rest of the world responds to young, attractive and well endowed women?

Obviously some members are not responding any differently. I am not either. While I often get mesmerized by such wonderful attributes in the real world, this isn't the real world and for the most part we are left to intellect and wit, or the lack of it.  

And I really don't care what BF intended.  Does it make a difference if BF was jesting or insulting? 

If an insult, it is very minor, as minor as one could deliver. 

Agreed

As humor, it is not up to the intellectual standards I have grown to expect from BF (the cross she bears from writing 99% of the time with clarity and insightfulness). 

Maybe BF purposefully threw us a curveball, having fun not just with Assamena but with all of us.  Being highly intelligent and staying home with a toddler all day, day after day......well....

I don't care one way or the other.

Maybe you are just much more insightful than I . I just saw it as simple as "hey, do you know your nick carries the concoction of look at my ass to many here?"  

[GregfromGa]

GregfromGa, you did not send pic of Dima, but I already speak with him, he said Kharkivgirls was his agency, but he sold it few years ago

..Thats him..LOL.....I'll pm you my email address and you can give it to him for me..Thanks..He was such a great guy..Tell him Greg and Katy(from Valky) from Georgia says a big hello and we'll get in touch with him...Its such a small world

[Assamena]

Just to clarify for some of us and dont be afraid to tell us that it's none of our business if the questions are not to your liking. When you say you dated, what did that entail? Did the guy make several trips to see you or was he an American living here? You certainly are a beautiful girl and one day you'll make some lucky man a good wife but there are certainly more important factors than just beauty of course. Do you have a job? I know there are many of RW/UW that come here and they do not work for various reasons. Maybe their husbands do not want them to work or maybe they are lazy and feel entitled to sit at home on the computer or attend college classes for 7 years. I think some of the very single and very available guys here would like to know what attributes you would be bringing to the table. Maybe your borsht is fantastic and if so then thats certainly a positive...LOL

I have a job. I have everything I need. Except love.
American lived here, I saw him 1-2 times in week, we broke up for many reasons, but main - he did not want a family.
My borsh is great But I'm vegeterian, not completely, sometimes eat chicken.

[GregfromGa]

My wife was 21 when we married and she's more well grounded than any single 30-35 year old American girl that I ever met. Gator, you've met my wife and you know I married way way out of my league..Now with that being said, there were some times when I asked myself WTH was I thinking but it had more to do with culture stuff...My wife now laughs at the stuff she used to get on my ass about so there is a light at the end of the tunnel in some cases. You cant blame Assamena for wanting a family. She can absolutely meet her a nice man that also shares her wants for a family. I think this girl will be a good catch. She already said she makes good borsht. LOL..She has a job, she's not afraid to work, she is a very beautiful girl, not that that should be the deciding factor by any means. If I was a single man and Miss Assamena gave me the time of day for about 3 weeks then I would be on a plane to Kharkov. I'm just saying....Now she may turn out to be crazy as hell like my mother-in-law that is here by the way until March..We have friend coming over tonight to see our new baby boy. My father-in-law will be making his famous galupsy(spelling wrong I know)...I shouldnt say my mother-in-law is so crazy..She raised a wonderful 2 girls and she's a great babushka.

[Blues Fairy]

Oh my. 

[Gator]

My wife was 21 when we married and she's more well grounded than any single 30-35 year old American girl that I ever met. Gator, you've met my wife and you know I married way way out of my league..

Yes, and your young wife seems very happy as are you.  Perhaps I am  tainted by my failing marriage with someone who had kids too young.  Her first baby was her last doll.  I am also someone who has lived a full life three times over, accomplished so much and experienced even more, and just now slowing down.

Then again, maybe Assamena is a traditional woman in the purest sense of the word.

I have a job. I have everything I need. Except love.

Love can wait.  Love does indeed make one complete, yet my guess is that you, like everyone your age, are not yet "complete" with regard to some key aspects of your life.  No insult intended, but just my observations over my long life.  Simply stated, God is not yet finished making who you will be.

American lived here, I saw him 1-2 times in week, we broke up for many reasons, but main - he did not want a family.

By "family," do you mean just husband and wife, or babies too?  I think almost every woman will advise you to delay having children for a few years.  And if you are not having children, why get married?  

Enjoy your youth and freedom.  Explore!  Discover!  Learn!  Feel!  

You wrote elsewhere that you enjoy older men.  I would say that is your inner voice speaking that you appreciate what an experienced and wise man can show you and teach you.

My borsh is great But I'm vegeterian, not completely, sometimes eat chicken.

Philosophically, you need to taste all of "life's cuisines."  Maybe after doing that you will say your borsh is the best.  Or maybe you will learn a new dish, something you could never imagine from living in Ukraine at age 21.