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Re: I might be getting a divorce as well.
« Reply #25 on: January 22, 2010, 04:52:37 PM »
And this "humorous" guy went ballistic about my silly ASSamena joke. :-\
I wouldnt say I went ballistic...I along with many others here felt your comment was uncalled for and unwarranted. I know you have a child and I cant see where you have the time to be here getting so wrapped up in all of this..I know my wife doesnt have the time and even if she did it wouldnt be here doling out free opinions on everything that hits the board.

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« Reply #26 on: January 22, 2010, 04:55:44 PM »
And this "humorous" guy went ballistic about my silly ASSamena joke. :-\

Personally I am/was uncomfortable with both 'jokes'.
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« Reply #27 on: January 22, 2010, 04:55:59 PM »
I know you have a child and I cant see where you have the time to be here getting so wrapped up in all of this..I know my wife doesnt have the time and even if she did it wouldnt be here doling out free opinions on everything that hits the board.

Another thinly veiled attack.  Yes I have a child and I work part-time from home 20 hours per week, and it's none of your business how I find the time to comment on other people's silly jokes, just like it's not my business how THEY find the time away from work and a newborn to post them.  

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« Reply #28 on: January 22, 2010, 05:21:05 PM »
 :ROFL:  :ROFL: :ROFL:

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« Reply #29 on: January 22, 2010, 05:52:45 PM »
I might just be. Just how big an ole boy are ya?

        Need to give you fair warning.   I know of 2 instances from a biker site I have frequented since 02, where someone was called out for a brawl at a Waffle House. One of these was in GA the other in PA. In both cases the potential combatants actually met and after breakfast together,became (sort of) friends.
            If you ain't lookin for a new ( sorta) friend,don't be calling me out to no Waffle House.    

             You are fixated on that size thing aren't ya.



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              PS.   Something that is missing from this site is get-togethers.  On the bike site things have evolved to the point of having get-togethers/rallies in different parts of the country at different parts of the year.    I've been to 8 rallies since 2002 ,all in NC .  6 in Asheville and 2 in Maggie Valley.  My wife has been to one in Asheville and one in Maggie Valley.She met with about 60 of my "friends" and had a good time and logged about 3400 miles on her first (2 week)bike trip.
               Through these rallies I've met about 250 members of the site from all over North America as well as Ireland ,Wales ,Germany,Iceland.   It is good fun ,but,it also helps with dealing with posts on the site as you can put an actual face and even a personality to the post.  Misunderstandings are less frequent when you actually know someone personally. And the arguments ,even when they get heated ,resolve on better terms ,sooner.  
                  With the bikes we just need an area of interesting roads to ride.  With a group such as this ,attractions to visit would probably serve better. In both cases an area has to be available  at the end of the day for a large group to gather to have a couple (or so)beers,smoke and yak-yak till (sometimes) the sun comes up.
                 I'm more of a "let me know when and where and I'll try to be there" kind of person.  Any "planners" amongst us?  Plan it and they will come.

                     Any interest??
                  
          

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Re: I might be getting a divorce as well.
« Reply #30 on: January 22, 2010, 06:03:12 PM »
       Need to give you fair warning.   I know of 2 instances from a biker site I have frequented since 02, where someone was called out for a brawl at a Waffle House. One of these was in GA the other in PA. In both cases the potential combatants actually met and after breakfast together,became (sort of) friends.
            If you ain't lookin for a new ( sorta) friend,don't be calling me out to no Waffle House.    

             You are fixated on that size thing aren't ya.



                                                                    ...Larry

              PS.   Something that is missing from this site is get-togethers.  On the bike site things have evolved to the point of having get-togethers/rallies in different parts of the country at different parts of the year.    I've been to 8 rallies since 2002 ,all in NC .  6 in Asheville and 2 in Maggie Valley.  My wife has been to one in Asheville and one in Maggie Valley.She met with about 60 of my "friends" and had a good time and logged about 3400 miles on her first (2 week)bike trip.
               Through these rallies I've met about 250 members of the site from all over North America as well as Ireland ,Wales ,Germany,Iceland.   It is good fun ,but,it also helps with dealing with posts on the site as you can put an actual face and even a personality to the post.  Misunderstandings are less frequent when you actually know someone personally. And the arguments ,even when they get heated ,resolve on better terms ,sooner.  
                  With the bikes we just need an area of interesting roads to ride.  With a group such as this ,attractions to visit would probably serve better. In both cases an area has to be available  at the end of the day for a large group to gather to have a couple (or so)beers,smoke and yak-yak till (sometimes) the sun comes up.
                 I'm more of a "let me know when and where and I'll try to be there" kind of person.  Any "planners" amongst us?  Plan it and they will come.

                     Any interest??
                  
          

Wow... Very cool idea/post.
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Re: I might be getting a divorce as well.
« Reply #31 on: January 22, 2010, 06:05:49 PM »
Apple & Seeker Olga and I have tried several times to have get together cruises here and only one other member and his wife showed, we had a very good time.  Olga and I have a very good friend who does bike rides like you are talking about.
 
I think people would behave differently and just maybe have more civil discourse!

« Last Edit: January 22, 2010, 06:14:19 PM by LEGAL »

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« Reply #32 on: January 22, 2010, 06:13:54 PM »
Apple, set it up!

I've held a few get togethers back home and in Moscow and have met quite a few people who've been members here at some point. There's a guy in San Francisco who used to set up yearly events and I know there are many others here who've met in person.

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« Reply #33 on: January 22, 2010, 06:20:08 PM »
Apple & Seeker Olga and I have tried several times to have get together cruises here and only one other member and his wife showed, we had a very good time.  Olga and I have a very good friend who does bike rides like you are talking about.
 
I think people would behave differently and just maybe have more civil discourse!



             I've seen your invites for these cruises.  Just not my type of thing to do.  I'm a bit more basic. 
              I agree behavior can be different.


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Re: I might be getting a divorce as well.
« Reply #34 on: January 22, 2010, 06:23:00 PM »
Apple & Seeker Olga and I have tried several times to have get together cruises here and only one other member and his wife showed, we had a very good time.  Olga and I have a very good friend who does bike rides like you are talking about.
 
I think people would behave differently and just maybe have more civil discourse!



A cruise would be wonderful... but it is a "big thing" in the sense of time and money.  Maybe something smaller and simpler.  But I agree with the goal (bolded part).
"I am free, no matter what rules surround me. If I find them tolerable, I tolerate them; if I find them too obnoxious, I break them. I am free because I know that I alone am morally responsible for everything I do." - Robert A. Heinlein

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Re: I might be getting a divorce as well.
« Reply #35 on: January 22, 2010, 06:27:32 PM »
things have evolved to the point of having get-togethers/rallies in different parts of the country at different parts of the year.    I've been to 8 rallies since 2002 ,all in NC .  6 in Asheville and 2 in Maggie Valley.
Great...!! So we have a "Russian Woman" rally, lessay in Eastern Tennessee (Dunno why I'd think of there) and we trot 'em all out for inspection. "Geez Apple yours looks alright, can I have a ride?".  :ROFL:
« Last Edit: January 22, 2010, 06:29:28 PM by I/O »

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« Reply #36 on: January 22, 2010, 06:58:12 PM »
Great...!! So we have a "Russian Woman" rally, lessay in Eastern Tennessee (Dunno why I'd think of there) and we trot 'em all out for inspection. "Geez Apple yours looks alright, can I have a ride?".  :ROFL:

          Is this what you think?  A dog and pony show?  That is a very low blow.  Is this just your assessment of me or do you feel others here are also so low class??
       
    Eastern Tennessee though is actually a very good place for something like this.Pigeon Forge with DollyWood.  Wife enjoyed it this past summer.  Plenty to do in Gatlinburg,wife enjoyed the Aquarium in summer of '08.  Then you have Hwy 441 running thru the Smokey Mountain Nat'l Park  ,very scenic ride.Cades Cove can be gotten to from  441 as well.  At the end of 441 you arrive in Cherokee NC.   Attractions here as well including a casino for those that enjoy them.   More scenery can be found here as the Blue Ridge Parkway has it's southern end here.


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« Reply #37 on: January 22, 2010, 07:06:51 PM »
          Is this what you think?  A dog and pony show?  That is a very low blow.  Is this just your assessment of me or do you feel others here are also so low class??
       
    Eastern Tennessee though is actually a very good place for something like this.Pigeon Forge with DollyWood.  Wife enjoyed it this past summer.  Plenty to do in Gatlinburg,wife enjoyed the Aquarium in summer of '08.  Then you have Hwy 441 running thru the Smokey Mountain Nat'l Park  ,very scenic ride.Cades Cove can be gotten to from  441 as well.  At the end of 441 you arrive in Cherokee NC.   Attractions here as well including a casino for those that enjoy them.   More scenery can be found here as the Blue Ridge Parkway has it's southern end here.


                                                       ...Larry
I agree with apple on both points.  As for the second part, seeing something new (for most of us) would be fun.


And the first part... well, I understand it was a joke.  But hey, haven't we learned anything recently?
"I am free, no matter what rules surround me. If I find them tolerable, I tolerate them; if I find them too obnoxious, I break them. I am free because I know that I alone am morally responsible for everything I do." - Robert A. Heinlein

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Re: I might be getting a divorce as well.
« Reply #38 on: January 22, 2010, 07:08:34 PM »
Lighten up a bit. It ain't Sunday school.
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Re: I might be getting a divorce as well.
« Reply #39 on: January 22, 2010, 07:14:16 PM »
Lighten up a bit. I ain't Sunday school.

Sorry, I forgot this was a 'joke' thread.  Apple, you might want to start this one as a fresh thread.  I think it is an idea that we should all discuss.
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« Reply #40 on: January 22, 2010, 07:27:56 PM »
What color is the baby?
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« Reply #41 on: January 22, 2010, 07:49:50 PM »
 Apple, you might want to start this one as a fresh thread.  I think it is an idea that we should all discuss.


Apple & Seeker I also agree please start a thread and lets see where it goes.  I have lived in Valle Crucis NC, just outside of Boone for a summer & winter back in the early eighties. The area is very beautiful especially on a bike.
I know Olga would love tooling through this very historical part of America
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« Reply #42 on: January 22, 2010, 07:51:07 PM »
       
Eastern Tennessee though is actually a very good place for something like this.Pigeon Forge with DollyWood.  Wife enjoyed it this past summer.  Plenty to do in Gatlinburg,wife enjoyed the Aquarium in summer of '08.  Then you have Hwy 441 running thru the Smokey Mountain Nat'l Park  ,very scenic ride.Cades Cove can be gotten to from  441 as well.  At the end of 441 you arrive in Cherokee NC.   Attractions here as well including a casino for those that enjoy them.   

And between the plastic world of Cherokee and Pigeon Forge are some magnificent hiking trails. 

When 32-yo I did the 15-mile Mt. LeConte  trail along Grotto Falls and Rainbow Falls (elevation change of 2000 ft to 6593 ft) in less than a day.  That year I also entered the marathon around Cades Cove but soon dropped out when passed by an older female 'walker.'

In 2008 I introduced the Ruskies to the mountains and this time we drove in our SUV around Cades Cove.  Got out to take a close photo of a bear who immediately charged me.  The kids liked that part. :D

Go soon.  An exotic insect from Europe is killing magnificent old growth hemlocks and firs.  Sad. 

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« Reply #43 on: January 22, 2010, 08:13:34 PM »
I've held a few get togethers back home and in Moscow

Count me in, Jooky is known on Anti-Date for having orgies at his apartment! ))))
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« Reply #44 on: January 22, 2010, 08:17:49 PM »
I don't think you'd get past the Feis Kontrol.  :P

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« Reply #45 on: January 22, 2010, 09:53:16 PM »
I don't think you'd get past the Feis Kontrol.  :P

Ah Darn!!!
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« Reply #46 on: January 22, 2010, 10:00:25 PM »
Greg, I am just picking up this thread now. So sorry about this recent turn of events. Sounds like the dad may be a yankee. Have any male visitors from up north some time ago?
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« Reply #47 on: January 22, 2010, 10:12:14 PM »
Another thinly veiled attack.  Yes I have a child and I work part-time from home 20 hours per week, and it's none of your business how I find the time to comment on other people's silly jokes, just like it's not my business how THEY find the time away from work and a newborn to post them.  

My dear I'm going to let you have the last word on this matter but before I go let me ask you to feel more than welcome to just not comment on any thread I might start. You come here last week and in some attempt to be the queen, your comments turn this place into a blood bath. You took several shots at a new poster and I wasn't the one that initially called you out. Your comments were asinine enough that the owner of this site felt compelled enough to write a formal apology to the new poster because he and everyone else here knew it would never come from you although it should have. It's called having a little class. You should spend more time with the little crumb snatcher and a little less time debating the perils of WOVO & WMVM, agencies,scams and whatever else might come the way of this process. Now that's not to say that I dont enjoy and appreciate the opinions expressed by most of our valued female here because I do. I just think you had a golden opportunity to do the right thing and you blew it.

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Re: I might be getting a divorce as well.
« Reply #48 on: January 22, 2010, 10:15:08 PM »
Greg, I am just picking up this thread now. So sorry about this recent turn of events. Sounds like the dad may be a yankee. Have any male visitors from up north some time ago?

LOLOLOL...Not that I know of and he doesnt look a thing like our Thai exchange student we housed for 5 months. Like I said the kid does look like me but there are some exceptions.

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« Reply #49 on: January 22, 2010, 10:26:25 PM »
My dear I'm going to let you have the last word on this matter but before I go let me ask you to feel more than welcome to just not comment on any thread I might start. You come here last week and in some attempt to be the queen, your comments turn this place into a blood bath. You took several shots at a new poster and I wasn't the one that initially called you out. Your comments were asinine enough that the owner of this site felt compelled enough to write a formal apology to the new poster because he and everyone else here knew it would never come from you although it should have. It's called having a little class. You should spend more time with the little crumb snatcher and a little less time debating the perils of WOVO & WMVM, agencies,scams and whatever else might come the way of this process. Now that's not to say that I dont enjoy and appreciate the opinions expressed by most of our valued female here because I do. I just think you had a golden opportunity to do the right thing and you blew it.

Whoa.... slow down there.

I made the point in that topic that I thought BF's comments were NOT nearly so incendiary as others were making them out to be.

The apology - while warranted, had little or nothing to do with the comments by BF.

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