A question of weight

[Shadow]

Seems that the men here are attracted to women mainly because of their sweet character and in no way because of their physical appearance.

[TheBlackCat]

The good news is you would have so much MORE to love than you were probably looking for... 

But who are we to judge anyway? She's probably a nice person. Large women needs love too you know. You know not that there's anything wrong with your choice of ladies too.

[phantom]

Well, if it was a conversion mistake here it is in CM 161 and 80 kg. I was curious on this.  She seems nice, I'll arrange a video with her, if I get interested.

[UTRO]

Seems that the men here are attracted to women mainly because of their sweet character and in no way because of their physical appearance.

Lol! Good point Shadow.
Are the Women any less judgemental?
But seriously, we are all different. No one shoe size fits all feet.
Most Humans, both Man and Woman, do look at the wrapper first.... then we hope that what's inside matches the outside.
If it doesn't, it's on to the next.... no matter how nice the exterior is   

[Andrew]

5'3, 179....hmmm.....ever tried playing tennis with a bowling ball?

[I/O]

I'll arrange a video with her

Sick bastard. BTW, make sure you post the video.

[facetrock]

Oh man... If that poor woman reads this thread she will starve herself to death... I think we need some compassion here. Are we so shallow that we judge a woman by her cellulite? Maybe she has a medical condition and cant stop herself from eating pelmini all day.

A little understanding from the men here would be a good thing. I call for no more fat jokes. Pretty soon everyone here will be bashing fat RWs. Then a huge arguement will ensue and no one will win. Feelings will be hurt.
Very crude and insensitive,  lets be a little more understanding. Thankyou

[phantom]

I/O, I'll post it right after.    Utro, I'm 5' 9" and weigh 385

[Ravens9273]

I/O, I'll post it right after.    Utro, I'm 5' 9" and weigh 385

With all due respect, you started a thread about a Woman weighting 179 lbs when you weight 385 lbs?

You better hold onto that Woman with all you can. You would be a fool to let her go.

[GQBlues]

Seems that the men here are attracted to women mainly because of their sweet character and in no way because of their physical appearance.

Ahhh heck, why not...if not just to extend Phantom's weight thread.

Call me shallow, but I know most of the guys recently admitted that it's more important to seek for inner beauty in a woman however unattractive she may be as if to imply attractive women are a waste of time to deal with. They seem to be saying relationships stand a better chance to succeed with a woman who is less in exterior beauty but gifted with a nice personality.   I just dunno 'bout that.

There are men here who keep saying that the only reason they go to Russia is because the women left for them to date at home are the fat ones. Heck, the majority of the women in the US are still slim and beautiful so I keep wondering why they keep dating only the fat ones (Maybe that's for another thread. Even worst are those who actually admit that the slim and beautiful ones are either married or are in relationships and those that are not seem to be dating hundreds of other men but them. That's got to really sux).

Anyway, on to Phantom's present situation...

Look at the attached photo as an example. Now unlike most of the men here, I'll be damned if I hit on the woman to the right instead of the woman on the left and I could care less if the woman on the right may in fact be a nice gal. I'm still taking my chances with the woman on the left. Now let's pretend you and I hit on these two one night. I split with the woman on the left and you took your chances on the woman to her right. In about a month's time we hook up for a beer to catch up with our respective relationships and I told you I might break up with Ms. Sexy McNasty because all we really have in common was hot sex and nothing more. Then you tell me your woman turned out to be such a nice, sweet & funny gal and you feel as though you need to stay with her a little while longer because of it. That would be cool with me, bro....But you know... somehow...I know I'll be more in hurry to get home than you. You know what I mean?

Now can you imagine what if the woman you're talking about actually looked like this one and you met her in person and Ms Uchen Bolshoyova turned out to be nice, blah, blah, blah. The boys on the board congratulates you, gives you advice how to file the K-1, what to do, the attaboys and pats on the back, and all that good stuff, etc....what are you going to do? Would you really file a K-1 for her? How will you ever get a job that pays you enough money to feed someone like her? Everyday. That's a family of 6 on two legs, man. A walking climate change. You'll likely have to roll the mattress over everyday too just to keep it in balanced shape.
(I often wondered what fat people's TempurPedic matteress look like first thing in the morning if you bolted them out of bed in a hurry)

It all comes down to making choices Phantom. Everything demands careful evaluation because numbers never lie....

[Shadow]

GQBlues, if you look at your picture I would do the same. Yet I know of many women who have the weight distribution of the woman on the right but show lots more class and style.
If you wish to go for the slutty look, no way you will hit on a woman with a high BMI. 

[Gator]

GQBlues,

 

Actually, all of us have seen worse. 

Did you notice that she is carrying her high-heeled shoes in her hand?  Why? 

a.  The shoes do not have the structural strength to support her weight without collapsing, or 

b.  The small heel in combination with her weight creates 12,000 psi of pressure upon the supporting surface - enough to penetrate concrete.


My greatest fear would be suffocating in an air lock while in bed.  Perish the image.

[RussianWind]

With all due respect, you started a thread about a Woman weighting 179 lbs when you weight 385 lbs?

You better hold onto that Woman with all you can. You would be a fool to let her go.

That's a good advice to date someone of his league.

Just imagine how easily you can get into troubles:

Woman Kills Boyfriend By Sitting on Him
January 22, 2010

Mia Landingham pleaded guilty to involuntary manslaughter on Wednesday and was sentenced to three years probation and 100 hours of community service.

Landingham, who was believed to weigh over 300 pounds at the time of the Aug. 2009 incident, sat on Mikal Middleton-Bey (weighed 126 pounds) as he was face first on the couch.

 

[JR]

Phantom if you weigh close to 400 lbs. you should be concentrating on losing some weight. It's very unhealthy. An aquaintance of mine started using the lap band and she dropping weight very quickly without much effort.

On another note. If you are willing to entertain WOW (women of weight, just made that up))) why are you spending all this time, effort and money going to the FSU? You are living in the most fertile huntings grounds in the world!!!

I have this inkling that the majority of men in this endeavor lack the skills and courage required to sucessfully date in their own back yard. The rest of us, and them too go so we can have a young body lay next to us.

[phantom]

Ravens, true I should hold onto her, but I have lost weight 5 lbs!  As for the picture, the one on the left is kind of sexy though.    Actually, I'm not looking in FSU, becuase of lack of confidence, women here often give me their numbers, flirt with me, etc.  I just don't like AW.

[Misha]

I just don't like AW.

Why? I have to say that I am always a bit perplexed when I hear such statements. Don't you have a mother? Sisters? Cousins? What if you were to have a daughter? How can you not like AW?

[Phil dAmore]

5'3" and 179?  I have a vision of a fire hydrant.  Short and squat.

I'd say that's a whole lotta woman you have there friend.

Depending on how it's distributed it may not be as bad as it sounds.

Pics generally don't lie, but there are many miracles that can be done with Photoshop these days.

Go for a video conference if you can.

[phantom]

Misha, of course I have a mother  and also have to work with AW, I'll rephrase that.  I won't marry an AW and will never have another relationship with one.  I feel this for several reasons.  I have no daughter or children in general. But, to be nice, when AW offer and give me their number, I take them and toss or lose after.

A video chat will be good to do, I'll make arrangements for that.

[Gator]

Landingham, who was believed to weigh over 300 pounds at the time of the Aug. 2009 incident, sat on Mikal Middleton-Bey (weighed 126 pounds) as he was face first on the couch.

Russianwind, do you read the National Enquirer?  Where do you find such stories? 

I understand that the charges against Mia were later dropped because the coroner determined that Mikal committed suicide.   Mikal could have saved his life simply by facing up as Mia lowered herself to sit on his face.  Instead he preferred to die, and he rolled over face down.

After facetrock's thread, I don't know what to believe. 

[RussianWind]

Russianwind, do you read the National Enquirer?  Where do you find such stories? 

No, I don't read tabloids. It was shortly said somewhere in the news and not difficult to find in the net http://current.com/items/91970361_obese-woman-kills-boyfriend-by-sitting-on-him.htm

Do you think it's not a true story?

[sunandsail]

If Phantom sits on anybody he should get at least 5 years.

[phantom]

5?  Should be 10. 

[Ravens9273]

Phantom.

I would say forget about this Womans weight. The question is if you really like her. Is she a good Woman who would treat you right.
Weight can always be lost but do not let her weight block your judgement or keep you away from a good Woman.
You are also at an unhealthy weight. Both of you could work together to lose the weight. I am writting this more to you as a health concern. I would hate to see anything happen to anyone due to weight issues.

You could have a great Woman infront of you. Do not let yourself lose that. Both of you can set out together to get yourselves to healthy weights. Then not only did you have a good Women by your side but later one with a sexy body as well who also helpped you get to a healthy weight as well.
Life is only good then.
Best of luck to you.

[Jumper]

sorry,
is there a reason to this thread?
is there a question or advise asked ?

I just don't buy that as an adult, phantom doesn't know that someone 5'3" and 180 pounds is carrying more than a bit of extra weight. or what approximate size they are.


it's just being informative?
I don't find it typical for either men or women to post that they got an email from someone they are not attracted to..
they just move on.

it seems simply geared to ridicule someone no one knows?
and to what purpose?
 
if a 24 yo RW came here and posted that some random  dedushka emailed her..

it would make no more, or less sense..

This isn't about being PC.. or the persons height to weight ratio.. or their age
 or appearance?

if you prefer ypur partner to be  height/ weight proportionate , that isn't unusual??
Most men (and women) do?

but most don't actually  put a "no fat chicks " bumper sticker on their car..
that's how this thread appears to me..

[Gator]

Do you think it's not a true story?

Coming from you I trust it to be true. 

However, I verified it.  I found the story in True Crime Report, next to a prominent crime story that took place near where I live.  The police, operating on a tip, discovered a body buried five feet deep.  Identification is awaiting DNA analysis, yet all evidence suggests it is the body of a missing $31 million lottery winner named Abraham Shakespeare. 

The specific weights posted here are possible yet don't seem plausible.