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Fifteen year old girls are not exactly known to be rational or to listen to their parents.

I don't care how people dress, as long as they are clean.
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   I don't know but I've seen a lot of well dressed American women who would knock your sox off in a very proper manner. American women are feminine but it seems the norm is not so but in many parts of the USA the beauty shines bright for our American sisters.
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A question to the gents now :

WITH EVERYTHING ELSE COMPARABLE--LOOKS, INTELLECT, EDUCATION LEVEL, ETC what ladies would  you  be more attracted to ( in your search),  and be among ( after you got married and are at a party of friends)--  those ones dressed in style  (with complementing outfits, eg tight fitting pants, high heels, etc) or, dressed plainly( eg sports pants and a hoodie)?



Please, opine and try to explain "why".



Thanks.


For me, that's an easy one to answer, since I don't own one hoodie myself and almost never go out in public in sweats or sports pants. I do wear sweatshirts a lot around the house though.

I feel that ones style of dress tends to match their personality. Which is all well and good, because I figure, if both our personalities are compatible then the way we dress should be equally compatible. And naturally as a couple, it's incumbent upon ourselves to dress in a manner that's going to complement one another.   

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...those ones dressed in style  (with complementing outfits, eg tight fitting pants, high heels, etc) or, dressed plainly( eg sports pants and a hoodie)?

Ludmila, maybe you can show us the way, and post a few pics of you and your hubby. 
Maybe the before Phillie, and after Phillie looks?

Some look fine in sports pants and hoodies.  Here are a few photos of the hostesses and
cart girls on our golf tour:
http://www.thegolfershome.com/index.php/component/option,com_gallery2/Itemid,55/?g2_itemId=305
http://www.thegolfershome.com/index.php/component/option,com_gallery2/Itemid,55/?g2_itemId=911
http://www.thegolfershome.com/index.php/component/option,com_gallery2/Itemid,55/?g2_itemId=1147
http://www.thegolfershome.com/index.php/component/option,com_gallery2/Itemid,55/?g2_itemId=1175

I don't know but I've seen a lot of well dressed American women who would knock your sox off in a very proper manner. American women are feminine but it seems the norm is not so but in many parts of the USA the beauty shines bright for our American sisters.

The ladies vary greatly from one city to another.  In some cities I've lived in it was almost a waste of time trying to find an attractive lady, there were so few.  But in my single days in Big D in the 80's the c/w clubs were packed full of ladies like in the video below.  There was no reason to leave town, because this is what we were chasing:
[youtube=425,350]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7iYpboTjtoQ&feature=related[/youtube]

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JDG,
thanks for the great videos and pics.

JDG, I don't have problems with  confidence  and self esteem to exhibit my and my husband's sexy pics on a public forum.

The lady in blue jeans is very attractive and is closer to my idea of  being dressed sexy. Sorry, I haven't seen many American ladies with  similar derrieres ( exclusive of students).

The ladies in the golf course are pretty attractive, but, in my opinion, are dressed appropriately for the occasion, and I cannot judge about their elegance and taste in clothes, though.

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WITH EVERYTHING ELSE COMPARABLE--LOOKS, INTELLECT, EDUCATION LEVEL, ETC what ladies would  you  be more attracted to ...
Please, opine and try to explain "why".

It's funny but I missed this "sister thread" until just today.

Others (I believe Mischa) have pointed out your leading question:
 Who would you be more attracted to; those ones dressed in style, or, dressed plainly
where you define style as:
"complementing outfits, eg tight fitting pants, high heels, etc)"
and define dressed plainly as "( eg sports pants and a hoodie)"

So as you worded your question, it's difficult to answer.
One first must agree with your definitions of 'style' and 'plain' in order to answer.

But what if someone's definition of style is quite different than "tight fitting pants, high heels"?

Until that's all clarified I will simply state my position on how I feel about a woman's clothing.
If I am attracted to her physically, I place little importance on what she chooses to wear.

I am more concerned that she is dressed appropriately for the occasion than how she appeals to my eye; so as not to stick out like a sore thumb.

This is an extension really of how I treat the whole 'dressing up' question myself, personally.












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What a great video! I remember I have heard the song someday in the past. Btw, is it okay to say in English 'she don't say nothing'?

The lady in blue jeans is very attractive and is closer to my idea of  being dressed sexy. Sorry, I haven't seen many American ladies with  similar derrieres ( exclusive of students).
 

I'd say that the lady in blue behaves sexy rather than being sexy. Her walk, posture and demeanor plus camerawork do all the show here, and therefore make her jeans talk in male imagination. As we can see, she is very simply dressed. Her face features would, IMHO, rather not be described as cute, and I figure that she probably is not going to age well. I might be wrong, of course. Great body constitution but still a lot of workout needed. This derriere just screams for multiple squads every second day.
« Last Edit: April 05, 2010, 09:29:12 PM by Lily »
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...Btw, is it okay to say in English 'she don't say nothing'?

No, it's very poor English!
If you say that in public most people will look at you strangely.
It has two grammatical errors in just four words!


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... This derriere just screams for multiple squads every second day.

 I believe you are thinking about quads?
Or maybe you were thinking about firing squads, to put her out of her misery?  ;)

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Sorry I probably chose a wrong word. I meant that the woman needs to work out :) The correct word would be lunges :)
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WITH EVERYTHING ELSE COMPARABLE--LOOKS, INTELLECT, EDUCATION LEVEL, ETC what ladies would  you  be more attracted to ( in your search),  and be among ( after you got married and are at a party of friends)--  those ones dressed in style  (with complementing outfits, eg tight fitting pants, high heels, etc) or, dressed plainly( eg sports pants and a hoodie)?

The one with the personality I'm attracted to most. 
There is a difference between initial glance, and continued interest. 
I'm with the others who mention 'dressed appropriately,' though.  This applied both during searches, as well as when together/after.  Having the ability and skill to dress nicely is a nice bonus, but I wouldn't want her to be uncomfortable inside the house and be walking around in heels over something comfortable for her.

@lily - I think the word you wanted (exercise) was "squats" :)

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@lily - I think the word you wanted (exercise) was "squats" :)

[youtube=425,350]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qRnGI3c5Jjs[/youtube]
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[youtube=425,350]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qRnGI3c5Jjs[/youtube]
;)

Couldn't you have come up with a more ummmmmm.... how do I say this.... appealing video?

 :P
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Couldn't you have come up with a more ummmmmm.... how do I say this.... appealing video? :P
Do I have to do all the work around here  :wallbash: ;D?
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Do I have to do all the work around here  :wallbash: ;D?

 :ROFL:

Thank you for the laugh... that smiley kicking his legs is genuine. 

And thank you for not doing the work...  I am sure you could have found things to shock 36.26926% of the members.  :)

I found those stats on-line!   ;D
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I like I/O's response and Sandro speaks with videos.

My answer is yes I do. But, there's no doubt that ladies from the FSU put U.S. women to shame with respect to dressing ladylike. FSU ladies dress very classy even when they don't have the money that equals the rich ladies here in America. If we take the process further, lets check out the difference between the popular Democratic women versus the Republican women in America.

See http://www.thehopeforamerica.com/play.php?id=3392

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Shosty here to save the day with some work at last. 

[youtube=425,350]http://www.youtube.com/watch#!v=1k6w1yP5-XY&feature=fvw[/youtube]

Now there's a gal who knows all about how to do a sqaud! 

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Shosty here to save the day with some work at last. 

[youtube=425,350]http://www.youtube.com/watch#!v=1k6w1yP5-XY&feature=fvw[/youtube]

Now there's a gal who knows all about how to do a sqaud! 

You are evil.  And funny.

Thank you.    :P
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SomeGuy, thank you, you are absolutely right! that's what I meant.

Sandro, do you want a more appealing video of squats?  :-\ This is one of exercises that don't look very appealing, as many other workout exercises are. It does not look sexy at all.  :-X Think of sweaty, red-faced, half deadly tired human creature in the middle of her workout program. But if one poses for a camera, this would be quite another picture ;)
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...Now there's a gal who knows all about how to do a sqaud! 

 Errr... you mean a squad?  :)

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Shosty here to save the day with some work at last. 

[youtube=425,350]http://www.youtube.com/watch#!v=1k6w1yP5-XY&feature=fvw[/youtube]

Now there's a gal who knows all about how to do a sqaud! 

am i the only one thinking her stomach and arms/shoulders look kinda ugly with THAT much muscles?

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am i the only one thinking her stomach and arms/shoulders look kinda ugly with THAT much muscles?

Not so much ugly as very masculine. But hey, some guys swing both ways. ;) Personally I like the look of a toned body but she is way too extreme for me.

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am i the only one thinking her stomach and arms/shoulders look kinda ugly with THAT much muscles?

Nope you are not.  :D
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am i the only one thinking her stomach and arms/shoulders look kinda ugly with THAT much muscles?

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