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Author Topic: What are Russian women thinking? Perhaps I am stupid in my thinking!!  (Read 35035 times)

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Offline SANDRO43

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Re: What are Russian women thinking? Perhaps I am stupid in my thinking!!
« Reply #125 on: April 25, 2011, 06:02:24 PM »
Here is my rough translation using Google, let me know if I am close: I don't understand the *snip* you are writing and it is a [add your favorite expletive] trying to translate *snip* with Google.
Close enough, to nitpick it's: "...a *snip* of what they are writing..." ;).
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Re: What are Russian women thinking? Perhaps I am stupid in my thinking!!
« Reply #126 on: April 26, 2011, 06:11:22 AM »
Close enough, to nitpick it's: "...a *snip* of what they are writing..." ;).

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Re: What are Russian women thinking? Perhaps I am stupid in my thinking!!
« Reply #127 on: May 22, 2011, 09:37:22 AM »
There are so many countless possibilities as to why this is happening with this exact woman, a few off the top of my head:
1. She isnt interested enough to reply to you promptly,
2. Communicating in english is tough for her, so every letter is like going to work (what did you feel like when they made you write essays in a foreign language at school? Now imagine, how often can you make yourself do it without somebody making you?)
3. Somebody else helps her translate/write
4. She is working 2 jobs and studying, or something else to that extent of not having any time
5. She gets 100 letters a day, so it takes time to answer to all

The possibilities are really countless, as to why this is happening. But it does seem very silly to me to stop talking to someone only cuz they take a couple days to answer your letters. Just say to her, if it bothers you this much, that you would like to hear more often from her, cuz your wondering how she is doing and whats going on in her life.


#2 on this list is the biggest problem between my girlfriend and I - It's harder for her to talk over Skype, Phone, or E-mail than it is in person. I feel bad that she has to feel like this to be in a relationship with me, and I wish I could be completely fluent in Russian. I am trying to learn that while also going to work and school full time!!!!

 

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