hello to all

[dilbert]

Hi All,

So i may as well start out with why i joined.

has anyone talked to this woman?

299944 on HRB.
ladysurf

many thanks.

and yes i did do a forum search.
and i am not a newbie.and i know the deal with HRB.
BUT...
i would hopefully just get some honest opinions on her, if anyone knows her.







if this is posted in the wrong place.oops..

[dilbert]

so no imediate,screams of horror ))

of no! shes a scam))

that could be good.

[Faux Pas]

Welcome to RWD dilbert.

If you are worried she is a scammer, you must have some reason?

[ECOCKS]

Welcome Dilbert.

[dilbert]

there is more. but i cant bring myself to talk about it  in public

[facetrock]

 Pretty hard for anyone here to give advice if you wont talk about it in public. What vexes you cant really be that God awful bad can it? I mean you already identified the lady to thousands of people here with the ID number and screen name. Spill it dude.

[dilbert]

i identified a public profile on a dating site, thats all.

[Faux Pas]

there is more. but i cant bring myself to talk about it  in public

Often where there is smoke, there is fire. Sometimes not. There is no way you'll get a consensus of what is going on or useable advice without some description of your concerns. It's highly likely that nobody here knows anything about her or has communicated with her.

[dilbert]

yup there was fire,

next.
onwards and upwards.

thanks all. i know it was very vague question

[facetrock]

 So basically your here to see if anyone has any dirt on her before you proceed any farther with this gal. Would you like someone to start writing her to see what she has to say?

[dilbert]

nope. it was just a general enquiry. stuupid i guess. no worries

[JR]

there is more. but i cant bring myself to talk about it  in public

How much money did you send her?

[Jumper]

and i am not a newbie.and i know the deal with HRB.
BUT...
i would hopefully just get some honest opinions on her, if anyone knows her.

you know the deal..

BUT..

you want some real opinions from someone that knows her?


since  you arn't a newbie , you know that the  odds are slim to none that :

1.anyone personally knows her
2. that she is sincerely seeking a foriegn man at a website named * hot russian brides*


so it did seem a kind of odd question..


she could be any one of thousands of profiles that arn't legit..

or she could be legitlmately listed in a local agency and not even know she's on HRB..


it's just  too vague even for a general inquiry..




odds  ? well she's online now, so probably  works chat for a local feeder agency in sevastopol..
probably has profiles on several chat oriented  sites
certainly on russianlovematch

doesnt mean she isnt single..
and you might catch her interest if you are into diving, windsurfing, and snowboarding,,
and in "good physical form" ?

[dilbert]

How much money did you send her?

 
Hhmmm..don`t.

like i said stuuuupid question.
delete brain.

wont do it again.

[Jumper]

Hhmmm..don`t.

like i said stuuuupid question.
delete brain.

wont do it again.

well you wanted opinions ? 

shes online for vid chat two nights in a row at 3am or later..
not sure why whatever info you had was secret ,,
but the  "job " shes very likely working now  really isn't..
 

[Ladysurf]

wow:))) am I someone who is talked abt:)))) whatever, not very much flattered, I am single... and answering your questions... I am on the video chat for two night... you know why?? because it is my weekend and spend it in the way i want to spend it... who cares? well, if you are bothering i don't sleep much... it is not your business... right???!!! Here am I as i am... maybe not perfect... but you all have disadvantages... right??? Good luck everyone, this site works, I met my man there... but it is all broken now... because too much was against us..... life goes on! good luck again to everyone

[Vaughn]

Welcome to RWD, Ladysurf...

I'm hoping you'll stay around - and contribute. Would you kindly tell us more about yourself ?

[Ladysurf]

well, yes... staying around with great pleasure... just need a small break! what do you wanna know????

[Vaughn]

Thanks, Ladysurf, for your reply.

To start, Hot Russian Brides (also known as HRB) has received much bad press here and elsewhere. Accusations
of ladies not being real (that is, men writing but using "borrowed" photos), and ladies receiving compensation for
writing letters (the more correspondence, the more income). Truthfully, I've never written to any lady on HRB,
and so I would like to hear your opinions on these accusations.

This is a chance for you to shake off the HRB "stigma" and present yourself as a living, breathing Ukrainian woman
whose intentions are sincere and honest. Your input here is much appreciated, believe me.

[Ladysurf]

My opinion is that we find what we are looking for... you know... it happens to anyone and I can't say for all women here....but definatelly if you are 50 and write to 19 y o girls, you can't be sincerely sure she is a serious one... right??? so the logical conclusion is that she is writing to you for some kind of different reasons:) but if that site was that bad as everyone thinks, would they create so many happy couples??? I know from my experience two couples that met here and happy and they inspired me to place my ad here... so really can't say for all... but it works!!!!!

[Vaughn]

....but definatelly if you are 50 and write to 19 y o girls, you can't be sincerely sure she is a serious one... right???

I speak only for myself (as you have) and agree with you completely. The age gap issue is one that surfaces often here. I
was exactly 50 when I met my future wife (she was 38). The 12 year difference posed no problems for us, but before we
met personally in Moscow, it was a major concern for both of us. Now, years later, we share the pleasure of raising three
daughters, ages 20, 21 and 23 - and I can assure you none of them (or their friends, both here in the USA or in Russia)
would ever consider a man of 40. It's quite laughable to them. So when I see or hear about a 21 year old FSU girl's profile
accepting a 20+ year age gap, I cannot think she's serious in the romantic sense. Perhaps she is desperate, or perhaps
she's being paid by the letter. Similarly, I see 40-ish men seeking such a young lady as - well, lunacy - for lack of a better
word. But that's just me. 

[Ladysurf]

nice to hear you are a happy father:))))) my congrats... sincerely!!!! i hope we meet on this site after let's say...... 5 years and i tell you I have two amazing kids from a man i love:))) deal???!!!!
back to the subject.... if you are reasonable and know what you want - you get it...... women from my country are able to give the most sincere feelings and neverending trust to someone special... so to everyone who is reading it - use your chance!!! but use it with brain on:)))))

[Vaughn]

Thanks, Ladysurf.  Yeah - it's a deal. The best of luck and success to you.

[Ludmila]

Ladysurf,

It's been a while since I popped in here on the RWD, just went through this thread...... and cannot keep a smile back. Why ? Well, YOU know why, all these gents on the list don't, because .......let's not be ahead of the locomotive and draw conclusions.....

Ladysurf, your English is so damn good ....ESPECIALLY SOME OF ITS ASPECTS ( I choose not to expand upon it here), that any professor of English in a Russian University would pale in comparison with you. In fact they will, most likely, envy you. Because, what they have command of passively, you use it ACTIVELY! It won't be an exaggeration to say... you are expressing yourself as a  native English speaker........

Are you aware of the fact that your English surpasses that of many Russian ( let alone Ukrainian) University professors of English? Kudos,  what fantastic command of the language !

Will you give me some tips HOW  and WHERE you learned the language, what is your Alma Mater ? I am always eager and ready to learn more and better. I will gladly listen to ( and, may be, follow) your advice.

[Daveman]

Well now, what would be the odds...

Welcome dilbert, ladysurf, and my new lotto ticket... man this is a hootie hooter of a hootier hooting hootily hoot