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Offline Spoon

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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #75 on: March 29, 2012, 10:25:16 PM »
OK, gone throug all this and I think someone is having a bit of fun  ;)

Not yet, apparently ;)
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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #76 on: March 29, 2012, 10:35:02 PM »

Please forgive us as we have had fun pulling your leg.  Now some serious advice:  You need to ask her your questions.  You know far more than us, so how can we speculate any better than you.
To help, practice your questions and commit them to memory.  Be diplomatic when asking.
 
If this woman likes you, and you like her, your questions will not bother her.  The questions could easily become starting points for meaningful conversation.  Once spontaneous conversations start,  anything can happen.  Anything!  If she is as innocent as you, it could be precious.   Above all else, be yourself.  Good luck.

I can forgive you guys and will have to admit about sexual experience did go off topic though. But in reality I think I would prefer to go for a Asian woman or maybe American woman than someone from the FSU. The reason I said that is I have been told that many are looking for husbands and I'm not ready for no marriage and having children. Don't get me wrong though, I can see why men go over to Russia, Ukraine and other counties because the women are gorgeous over there.  Even my friend wants date a Russian, this African American guy I know who is really cool.

When I feel like I want a family then I might consider the FSU for a stable relationship. As of right now I'm looking for a simple boyfriend, girlfriend type of relationship.

« Last Edit: March 29, 2012, 10:37:35 PM by lakecreek »

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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #77 on: March 30, 2012, 05:53:47 AM »
"Eduard's Vietnamese client."

Someone told me that Russians in Netherlands greet each other in the following manner:
- hoi
- and two hoi's for you

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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #78 on: March 31, 2012, 05:17:16 PM »
OP, it is your duty as a man to try to turn this woman away from the dark side of lesbian behavior.




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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #79 on: April 01, 2012, 05:13:54 AM »
My friend says she like me and I say no she does not but then sometimes I think she do. However, I don't think she does. Now the question you guys are wondering about is what I think of her. If it turns out that she does have something for me, then I wouldn't mind giving her a chance to see where this could head.
1. Definitely, she likes you (if she is still a russian in mindset).
2. If you want to know her better through a bed  don't push. Just be a friend, then a close friend.
3. What the russian women appreciate are: signs of attention, signs of care, feeling of comfort while you are around. Hints: remarks about her wonderful appearance (her eyes, her smile), questions about her daily life, interest in her background and relatives, small presents (flowers and chocolate sweets).
4. You'll have more chances than a brutal macho. Just take it easy, enjoy to learn women soul, and do not think about sex. I've got hints for a sex involvement but they are less important than to keep the girl attention.

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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #80 on: April 01, 2012, 05:40:29 AM »

4. You'll have more chances than a brutal macho. Just take it easy, enjoy to learn women soul, and do not think about sex. I've got hints for a sex involvement but they are less important than to keep the girl attention.


nahhhhhh, nothing beats ye ole tried and true method of the club/sack combo!  Excepting perhaps my new and improved modern rendition consisting of tranquilizer dart/black SUV.   >:D
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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #81 on: April 01, 2012, 08:09:19 AM »

nahhhhhh, nothing beats ye ole tried and true method of the club/sack combo!  Excepting perhaps my new and improved modern rendition consisting of tranquilizer dart/black SUV.   >:D

If you have the SUV, then you merely need to turn on the pussy magnet.
Even Borat knew about that.
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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #82 on: April 03, 2012, 11:25:06 PM »
I don't think Russian women are into sex very much. Maybe I'm wrong.

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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #83 on: April 03, 2012, 11:47:41 PM »
I dare to believe that RW are interested in peeking into a man's mind, first of all.
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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #84 on: April 04, 2012, 12:35:07 AM »
I don't think Russian women are into sex very much. Maybe I'm wrong.

How'd you come to this conclusion Lakecreek? Did you try some of those moves the guys have been advocating ;)
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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #85 on: April 04, 2012, 08:01:48 AM »
He's a virgin remember?  No sex, no experience...except the self inflicted kind.
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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #86 on: April 06, 2012, 12:27:46 AM »
He's a virgin remember?  No sex, no experience...except the self inflicted kind.

Maybe this will help the lad.

 

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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #87 on: April 06, 2012, 12:56:23 PM »
Who knows I maybe be the first human ever on the planet to be a virgin for life.

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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #88 on: April 06, 2012, 03:43:41 PM »
Who knows I maybe be the first human ever on the planet to be a virgin for life.
I'm afraid a few hundred thousand monks have already preceded you on the Guinness Book of Records over these past 1,500 years ;).

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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #89 on: April 06, 2012, 07:12:44 PM »
Who knows I maybe be the first human ever on the planet to be a virgin for life.

You won't know that until you are dead!  And when you're dead it will no longer matter  :cluebat:
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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #90 on: April 07, 2012, 12:40:41 AM »
After reading all these posts on this thread i could only come to 2 conclusions... Either lakecreek is just trying to get attention from everyone here or he missed the sex education classes in school and now needs everyone's help to fill in the gaps.

My 10 year old nephew has a girlfriend.... Lakecreek you might ask how??? Common sense!

Heres what i sugguest... Goto the library, kids section (lets not make this to difficult for you) and pick up a book about making friends. Once you have mastered that then you can move onto the pre teen books where it talks about relationships. slowly we will get you to the point where you can actually understand what women want. OR if you dont like reading, i hear there are many educational videos on the internet.. But they might damage your virgin ears. You can always ask your sister or mother to come with you next time you go out in public and ask them if they understand the Russian lady's body language...

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Re: Could this friend have a crush on me
« Reply #91 on: April 07, 2012, 08:19:04 AM »
After reading all these posts on this thread i could only come to 2 conclusions... Either lakecreek is just trying to get attention from everyone here or he missed the sex education classes in school and now needs everyone's help to fill in the gaps.

My 10 year old nephew has a girlfriend.... Lakecreek you might ask how??? Common sense!

Heres what i sugguest... Goto the library, kids section (lets not make this to difficult for you) and pick up a book about making friends. Once you have mastered that then you can move onto the pre teen books where it talks about relationships. slowly we will get you to the point where you can actually understand what women want. OR if you dont like reading, i hear there are many educational videos on the internet.. But they might damage your virgin ears. You can always ask your sister or mother to come with you next time you go out in public and ask them if they understand the Russian lady's body language...

Some post on here made fun of my virginity. Trust me I have heard men older than me still a virgin and well into their 30's. If I  really want to get sex its not that hard: all I have to do is get a hotel room, higher a escort and have a generous wallet.

I'm sure many of us when we were in school we had little crushes and so called girlfriends. At his age its easy, but when he gets to be my age, he will run into difficulty. Hard to compare a 10 year experience to a 25 year old. I do have several friends both male and female, so I'm very sociable person. I'm just not very good sociable at the level for dating/relationships. I'm just really nervous to express myself at that level is where it screws me up.

As for my friend, I kind of rather keep her as a friend since she the first Russian friend I had. Moving further can cause a destruction in a friendship. Secondly, I'm unsure about her relationship status. So that is why I probably choose the friend zone for us. All I wanted to know is what your guys opinion of this lady actions.



 

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