Questions from a Russian lady...Looking for some feedback....

[Daknack]

Gray has had several additional books.  A good one is "Mars and Venus in the bedroom" about how to get each partner satisfied in the bedroom.

[Christopher]

I would say that if she feels the need to test you this way she is uncomfortable asking direclty how you feel and will have problems doing this with you in the future.  Ask to rephrase the the questions in a direct anser to you.  When you answer do not try to guess what she wants tell her what you really feel and let her know  that you are willing to discuss your answers and feelings openly with her.  These are sort of questionaires are games and may mean that she is not ready for a relationship. 

Also guys remember women want te same things as me it is just our approach to achieving that goal that differs.

[mischief]

Don't mean to offend anybody but that's just stupid!  If you want to find out who your partner is, just talk to the person... in a simple conversation you can learn much more than in any so called "psychological" test ...

There are lots of good intelligent tests ( no comparison with the example above) which still won't give you all the answers...

[acrzybear]

I read through the test and the replies, there is one MAJOR factor no one mentioned.  It was mentioned that psychology tests are subject to interpretation, but not one person mentioned different cultures. 

If I arrive at a ladies house and a family member answered the door, that family member should inform the lady I am waiting.  It is rude to just invite yourself into another's home and help yourself (if that happened at my residence that person would be "escorted" out the nearest door).  But a different culture it could be a sign of weakness for a man to have another do his bidding and interpreted that he doesn't have the cojonas to take what he wants.

 So the tests in of themselves are bad enough but when you throw in cultural factors things can get even worse.  The thing I've learned in my short 36 years on the planet is to be honest and be yourself, if the person can't accept or deal with who you are-time to move on.  It goes the other way also, Don't ask your partner to do something your not willing to do (ie maintain her perfect figure while you get the Buddha belly).   

And now for the legal disclaimer-the afore-mention is the opinion of an honest, single, hard headed, knuckle dragging, gun carrying, 6'5" transplanted Californian living in Texas, and does not reflect the views or opinions of this board, it's owners,or board of directors (I think that would be Dan, Dan and Dan). 

There you go Dan that should help you from getting sued (for now)

Well off to Supervise some crime-ciao

  

 

[Jooky]

1. What's the weather like? Is it raining hard? Am I late?  (if so, I take the long road).

2. I guess I took the long road. No rose bushes on the dull quick road. I'm not going to pick roses out of someone else's garden.

3. Sorry, buy my girlfriend was expecting me. She answers the door.

4. Where the hell is my girlfriend? That's it I'm going home.

5. My girlfriend and I sleep in separate rooms. You're kidding right? Anyways, not a chance that she'd be awake, not a chance.

6. Again, what's the weather like?

Man, these tests are dumb. Your penpal has been reading too much Vogue or Bizarre or Seventeen. ;-) You'll be there in a few weeks though so enjoy!

[BeenThereDoneThat]

I like this forum topic....All very interesting answers..... BUT, the real question here still is.....Why did the girl give this guy the test? Is it all just for good fun and curiosity? Is she actually using this test as a deciding factor in picking her future mate? I've seen a lot of crazy letters from guys and gals over the years, and have received many interesting letters myself, many real and some fake, but I must admit, I have never received a Psych test from a girlfriend before, at least not one that was actually serious.....Good stuff......

[r0gera]

lol..  everybody might be making a bit too much of this one... I don't know about the womens magazines in russia but I know the ones in the US have all kinds of rate your mate type things like that in them....     and just for the record...  I don't subscribe to womens magazines.... I have daughters .   (and those feminine hygiene products I bought at the store were not for me either!)  

They would get together with their girlfriends now and then and rate their boyfriends with them...  They never took it seriously and I would hope nobody else would either for the reasons others have mentioned.  Normally what would happen was if the results agreed with the way they felt they thought it was a good test... if the results disagreed they thought it was a stupid test...

[Muj]

I think there are no wrong answers on this test except a construed or dishonest one.  She is trying to find her best possible choice through correspondence then meeting.  He should answer all questions based on his own intellect and be ready for an interesting discussion.  Maybe even offer some explanation in advance.  

[dragonfly]

I have never received a Psych test from a girlfriend before, at least not one that was actually serious.....Good stuff......

 

 Everything can happen for the first time in your life...

[dragonfly]

I have never received a Psych test from a girlfriend before, at least not one that was actually serious.....Good stuff......

 

 Everything can happen for the first time in your life...

[BC]

Dragon,

can happen even twice the first time

[Turboguy]

Yes, BC, but you can't have the first time twice although I have heard of people trying.

[Elen]

I remember that elen. The question did not say the lady was from the FSU. Here even numbers are fine.

I though that the title of thid thread was "Questions from a Russian lady...Looking for some feedback...." and had something to do with supposed answeres
But never mind I don't belive in all that stuff with tests at all.

[Turboguy]

Darn, you are right Elen.  It does say that way up at the top.  Of course  Elen is not often wrong.

I guess it is sort of like trying to have a conversation with a woman who has a large chest.  You spend less time staring into her eyes.   I guess I needed to look up a little higher.