Trip to Kharkov

[Muzh]

schizophrenia is indeed a b!tch it is not....


 

Now who said that?

[Muzh]

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-and call me crazy, but i wanted to be zodiac compatible (sorry, i heard that my grandmother was very happy with her choice of husband, and told me the best zodiac that understands the zodiacsign cancer was scorpio)

Dude, that works great for the old in and out between Cancer and Scorpio. (Oh yeah) 


But a Cancer is the best spiritual match for a Cancer because they are the same. You hurting right now, yes? You're taking it very hard, yes? That's more typical of Cancer.

Don't worry, it will go away. And search for a Cancer if you have to rely on Astrological compatibility.

[bruttus]

well, if you read mine zodiac, then you know how i feel right now

[Faux Pas]

schizophrenia is indeed a b!tch it is not....


 

No it isn't. Yes it is

[Muzh]

well, if you read mine zodiac, then you know how i feel right now

Bud, I'm a Cancer. My wife's a Cancer. My ex wife was a Scorpio.

I swear. Not making this up.

[Daveman]

Bud, I'm a Cancer. My wife's a Cancer. My ex wife was a Scorpio.

I swear. Not making this up.

Too funny.. my wife is a Scorpio, ex wife is a Cancer...  both are supposed to be matches to my Schitzo Fish.


He's the one who screwed up the first one though. Yer mama... maybe you should think about that last one a little more.. never mind...

[Vasilisa]

A very good observation, Jon. I also noticed that FSU women respond much better in springtime (starting end of February) and then again in the fall. December-January are the toughest months to get many responces and summer is also a bit slow usually since many women I focusing on vacation and spending time with local friends/family. The best time to start your search and line up some women would be in spring, then go visit them in the summer months. Or if you don't mind frosty weather you can line up a few good prospects during the fall months and visit them for New Year's holidays which last 10 days in Russia.

My dating in the US is getting better now. In summer time I got more messages about "having fun", now more serious men are writing.

[Eduard]

My dating in the US is getting better now. In summer time I got more messages about "having fun", now more serious men are writing.

Vasilisa, would you say that dating is 180 degrees different here in the US compared to Russia? It was for me when I was single.

[Vasilisa]

Vasilisa, would you say that dating is 180 degrees different here in the US compared to Russia? It was for me when I was single.

Dating  Americans or Russians?!

I don't have very big experience of dating Americans in Russia, but from what I've heard from other RW dating Americans there I can say that's A LOT different.

As for  dating Russians in Russia and dating Americans in the US is about the same, another thing is that the Russians I've  met (mainly men 20-30 yo) are less obsessed with material posessions, debts'paying and girls' jobs than the American men I've  met. I've even being asked about my salary on the first date by an AM, that's not what you see often with the Russian men. Russian men also spend more money on the girls and financial support of girl friends even of the same age is not something unusual.

Also if an older RM decides to have a much younger girl friend he realizes clearly it's pretty much a contract and he is supposed to pay for having a young girl friend, spoiling her, at the same time many AM (this forum included) expect having financially and responsibly equal relationship with much younger girl friends and whine about true love and believe in fairy tales.

Gerontophilia as well as infantophilia and pedophilia, etc, which is a base of sincere love feelings and sincere  attitude is , weanwhile, considered to be   a sexual disorder and is not met in every day life that often, I personally have never met young Russian girls that would prefer having an old boy friend vs a young boy friend. Most RM understand  that, most older AM I've met so far don't and keep looking  for true gerontophils.

[Vasilisa]

The interesting thing was that this summer and even September I was "attacked" by a much older guy, old enough to be my father, a medical doctor, a good friend of my employer, quite good looking and , the interesting thing was, that we had A LOT, i mean , A LOT in common. We even dressed in a matching way without discussing it in advance.

I don't understand why but he looked much older than he is  and had a very dissapointing way of showing his emotions, my friends told me he is an old bachelor and a very shy guy, but what he was doing didn't look shy to me: he used my being polite and friendly "good bye" or "hello" hugs for quick kissing my neck or when a dog was sitting next to me he was petting a dog and then started petting my legs, or invited me to to Australia with him, or was sitting staring at me without saying a word and paying attention to the other people when we all were having a conversation so, I had a burning desire to turn and ask him if he was all right or if something is wrong with my face, but all that he was doing only when our friends were there,  it looked simply mentally unhealthy and weird, and if at first I liked him  and conversations with him at the end i was avoiding his presence and was afraid I would have to call the police on him.
Finally one week ago, when we happened to be together he came out in the backyard where I was reading and was standing looking at me without saying anything, I felt uncomfortable and asked him if I could help him, he smiled and then veeeeeeery slowly asked me to go have dinner with him, I had to explain  him directly that I wasn't interested in him other than being friends, as I didn't have any physical attraction, he thanked me twice: one time right after my answer and another time 5 minutes later when he came out in the backyard again, I hope he finally got it and I got rid of his harrassing me.

So far I've never met regular older AM interested in much younger women, all of them had some "issues".

[Daveman]

Also if an older RM decides to have a much younger girl friend he realizes clearly it's pretty much a contract and he is supposed to pay for having a young girl friend, spoiling her, at the same time many AM (this forum included) expect having financially and responsibly equal relationship with much younger girl friends and whine about true love and believe in fairy tales.

I certainly don't believe the financial aspect should be equal.  RW should pay for the privilege of having a man as wonderful as myself.    [size=78%] [/size]

[Chelseaboy]

Hmmm,just read your comment Vasilisa,
 
          " If an older RM decides to have a much younger girlfriend he realizes clearly it's pretty much a contract and he is supposed to pay for having a young girl friend,spoiling her "
 
Here in the UK we'd call that girl a "Mistress",and she's basically prostituting her affection and body for money and gifts.
 
Probably not the kind of woman AM on here and other forums are looking for as a wife i'd say.

[jone]

Vasilisa,

What do you consider 'dating a younger woman' to be?  My typical age spread with the women I date is 10-12 years.   (Yes, I am the older one.) They have never even mentioned age.  Neither have I.  I have dated both AW and RW and it is a moot point.  I doubt I would have much in common with women younger than that.  I am at a point in my life where I don't want to play any games.  I think great age spreads are just that - games.

But I consider dating to be going out as friends unless there is a direct chemistry and desire go further.  The idea of kissing someone, uninvited, is fairly stupid to me.  If the only thing present is friendship, then unwanted advances ruin the friendship. 

I am much happier with friendship than all of the complications that come with dating to 'put the moves' on a girl.  If a relationship is meant to be, then it will become apparent to both of us.  That doesn't mean that I don't spend money on women.  But that is because I am fortunate with money and I am happy to spend money to make people happy.  But I spend nothing compared to what I would spend on a woman who would become my wife.

Does this 'friendship' attitude work?  Of course it does.  It makes everyone happy.  I have even had a woman that I entertained through friendship introduce me to one of her girlfriends with the intent of 'setting me up' because she thought we would be 'perfect' together.

But I would be very interested in hearing a woman's perspective on what she thinks (both from an AW and RW point of view) is a respectable age spread.

-j

[Eduard]

[size=78%]But I would be very interested in hearing a woman's perspective on what she thinks (both from an AW and RW point of view) is a respectable age spread.[/size]

-j

One should keep in mind that the opinion of just a few women on this forum doesn't represent the opinion of all FSU women. I find that opinions vary greatly when you go outside of these fora and you get the full spectrum... and also keep in mind that a girl's got a right to change her mind so you may here a different opinion a few days after you asked 

[Vasilisa]

Vasilisa,

What do you consider 'dating a younger woman' to be?

I'd explain it in a different way, like  "normal" age gap for more or less healthy and less stressful relationship as I see it.
It depends on the age of a woman. For very young and comparatively  old women the age difference with the partner should be minimal, for the age 30-55 could be more, up to 7-10 years'difference both ways.(your age +/- several years). There are always exception of course, but they are rare.

[newjason]

hey Vasilisa
Sorry to hear about your creep troubles.
I think you may have to be more forecfull to get him to leave you alone completely. 
You left him an open invitation to the "freind zone".
I know you will handle it.
but best to nip it in the bud sooner rather than later.




 

[Eduard]

Too funny.. my wife is a Scorpio, ex wife is a Cancer...  both are supposed to be matches to my Schitzo Fish.


He's the one who screwed up the first one though. Yer mama... maybe you should think about that last one a little more.. never mind...

this is funny, Dave, I too am a Piscean and my wife a Scorpio )

[SANDRO43]

Too funny.. my wife is a Scorpio, ex wife is a Cancer...both are supposed to be matches to my Schitzo Fish.

this is funny, Dave, I too am a Piscean and my wife a Scorpio )

Not surprising: they are all Water signs, therefore sharing some basic common ground .

[Anotherkiwi]

I'd explain it in a different way, like  "normal" age gap for more or less healthy and less stressful relationship as I see it.
It depends on the age of a woman. For very young and comparatively  old women the age difference with the partner should be minimal, for the age 30-55 could be more, up to 7-10 years'difference both ways.(your age +/- several years). There are always exception of course, but they are rare.

But, Vasilisa, we need someone to keep earning money to pay the bills after we retire!  7-10 years difference is just not enough! 

[GoodOlBoy]

.... for the age 30-55 could be more, up to 7-10 years' difference both ways.(your age  /- several years). There are always exception of course, but they are rare.

There you go again disturbing "the fantasy" Vasilisa. 
 
GOB
 
BTW.... Welcome back! 

[GoodOlBoy]

One should keep in mind that the opinion of just a few women on this forum doesn't represent the opinion of all FSU women.

Sadly, I have to agree with you Eduard (just a few Russian women).
 
GOB.

[bruttus]

thanks for the lies Mila, just found out that your genuine lady never been in Russia, like you told me in skype, found a photo from them that was being put in august, thought she went after here visit from from family straight away to Mexico

wel, if you wanna be scammed, with Mila you have to go
here genuine lady's do everything so you don't notice that she is scamming some money out of it

so everything what others told me about Mila, are correct, o well, to bad i can't proove a thing about it, thats here luck

[facetrock]

  I've been gone for awhile and just catching up on some reading. This thread was interesting. If it did anything for me it made me decide to use Mila when I go to Ukraine May 5 for two weeks.
   Bruttus, c'mon man, your first post was July 11 2012 and your last was Jan. 12 2013. Six months and your still ticked because some 21 year old kid didn't choose you? I mean anyone who reads this can see that's the real reason why your whining. Not because Mila didn't do this or Mila didn't tell you that blah blah blah.
  Dude your 31 years old and in the prime of your life. You live in Belgium close to the cupcake capitals of the world Ukraine, Russia etc. You chased a 21 year old girl. You lost. Who cares. Your only 31. Get back over there and try again. Take your heart off your sleeve and go party like a big dog. You will catch one.

[Muzh]

In one ear, out the other.