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Re: You Deserve Rape
« Reply #1 on: April 26, 2013, 12:00:28 PM »
What is your point exactly in posting these links? The guy is an idiot and nobody deserves to be raped.
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Re: You Deserve Rape
« Reply #2 on: April 26, 2013, 12:01:50 PM »
The same reasoning Muslims use to call Western women whores...
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Re: You Deserve Rape
« Reply #3 on: April 26, 2013, 01:32:10 PM »
I assume LT wanted to engender a discussion on the issue.  Am I correct James?

The attitude may be more extreme than most, but women in many parts of North America are far more prone to harassment on the streets based on how they are dressed than women in Ukraine. 

A Toronto police officer once commented that if women wanted to avoid being raped, they "should stop dressing like sluts".  This guy just takes it one step further.
 
 
 
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Re: You Deserve Rape
« Reply #4 on: April 26, 2013, 02:52:02 PM »
If LT wanted to initiate a discussion, perhaps he should have told us what his thoughts are on the matter. Tell us LT, do you agree with Dean?

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Re: You Deserve Rape
« Reply #5 on: April 26, 2013, 04:10:38 PM »
The same reasoning Muslims use to call Western women whores...

And sometimes act upon it.

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Re: You Deserve Rape
« Reply #6 on: April 26, 2013, 04:13:46 PM »
lordtiberius, ever heard of these a$$holes?

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Re: You Deserve Rape
« Reply #7 on: April 26, 2013, 04:46:41 PM »
Should we start the "If you act and talk like an idiot, you deserve to be lobotomized" campaign?  :welcome:
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Re: You Deserve Rape
« Reply #8 on: April 27, 2013, 12:21:49 AM »
Given LT's previous nutty behaviour, I'm guessing that he holds certain sympathies with the nut job in the link.

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Re: You Deserve Rape
« Reply #9 on: April 27, 2013, 12:41:29 AM »
What a lazy way to try and start a discussion.

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Re: You Deserve Rape
« Reply #10 on: April 27, 2013, 01:15:19 AM »
Should we start the "If you act and talk like an idiot, you deserve to be lobotomized" campaign?  :welcome:
Why destroy a new and completely unused brain?  >:D
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Re: You Deserve Rape
« Reply #11 on: April 27, 2013, 04:11:49 PM »
I assume LT wanted to engender a discussion on the issue.  Am I correct James?

The attitude may be more extreme than most, but women in many parts of North America are far more prone to harassment on the streets based on how they are dressed than women in Ukraine. 

A Toronto police officer once commented that if women wanted to avoid being raped, they "should stop dressing like sluts".  This guy just takes it one step further.

I know Brother Dean quote well and consider him a friend.  I admire what he has done.  He has taken a stand on principle and he lives a life of chastity that I still struggle with to this day and I am twice his age.  He preaches a radical view of Christianity in that Christians should live their Christianity.  If they did so, then he would not have to hold a sign.

When he says, you deserve rape, its worth pointing out that we, humanity deserve punishment, damnation or rape.  That is our destiny.  It is the consequence of our sins.

Whether his methodology works, we will see.  I just remember when I was his age that no one helped me.  So I admit I have taken an interest in him and pray for his continued success.

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Re: You Deserve Rape
« Reply #12 on: April 27, 2013, 04:36:02 PM »
When he says, you deserve rape, its worth pointing out that we, humanity deserve punishment, damnation or rape.  That is our destiny.  It is the consequence of our sins.


Humanity deserves rape?!? Even the "hell-and-brimstone" Christians generally expect that the judgement will come after death. It is one thing to say that you will be judged for your sins in the hereafter than to hold up a sign saying that you deserve to be raped which implies in the here-and-now because of the way a woman is presumably dressed....

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Re: You Deserve Rape
« Reply #13 on: April 27, 2013, 04:38:27 PM »
In my life I've witnessed nutjobs come and go many times. His approach smacks of a cult in waiting, thriving on those souls thirsty for an outspoken attention-seeking "leader".
 
Marshall Applewhite. Jim Jones. David Koresh. Whatever hook serves the agenda.
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Re: You Deserve Rape
« Reply #14 on: April 27, 2013, 04:40:10 PM »
He preaches a radical view of Christianity in that Christians should live their Christianity.

For Christians, that's definitely radical!

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Re: You Deserve Rape
« Reply #15 on: April 27, 2013, 04:50:35 PM »
I assume LT wanted to engender a discussion on the issue.  Am I correct James?

The attitude may be more extreme than most, but women in many parts of North America are far more prone to harassment on the streets based on how they are dressed than women in Ukraine. 

A Toronto police officer once commented that if women wanted to avoid being raped, they "should stop dressing like sluts".  This guy just takes it one step further.


Beo-
Has any study proved rape is more likel;y if a victim is dressed seductively ?
(even though that is open to interpretation and culture as well)

Its an open ending question,  have no idea.

Its just I thought the general view was that rape was basically an act of violence ,
the sexual side of it much a side bar merely to assert authoriry/dominance/pain?

Is there generally any link at all to what a woman is wearing? her age? her looks?

Is there and studies that would remotely justify the Torontos officers line?

I'm sure i could find a Chicago policeman with the same attitude,
 while thousands of other officers would not share it?
It seems countries with the highest incidence of rape ,arn't particularly known for suggestive clothing?

LT-
You seem to admire this friend since he gained international headlines for a cause, any cause.

Is that really something you aspire to?


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Re: You Deserve Rape
« Reply #16 on: April 27, 2013, 04:58:28 PM »
Is there and studies that would remotely justify the Torontos officers line?


Sadly, because of the attitude of police officers like these, rape cases are not always investigated with the attention they deserve...
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Re: You Deserve Rape
« Reply #17 on: April 27, 2013, 05:02:37 PM »
...I know Brother Dean quote well and consider him a friend.  I admire what he has done.  He has taken a stand on principle and he lives a life of chastity that I still struggle with to this day and I am twice his age.  He preaches a radical view of Christianity in that Christians should live their Christianity.  If they did so, then he would not have to hold a sign.

When he says, you deserve rape, its worth pointing out that we, humanity deserve punishment, damnation or rape.  That is our destiny.  It is the consequence of our sins.

Whether his methodology works, we will see.  I just remember when I was his age that no one helped me.  So I admit I have taken an interest in him and pray for his continued success.

Then Brother Dean ought to do his deed in the Vatican cause last I checked there's a whole lot of children getting raped by Christianity's disciples and the top dawg simple re-appoints those disciple into other districts to start the silly campaign all over again soon as their angels fall silently into the nights.

Do you and bro dean-o believe those children deserve getting raped, too?
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Re: You Deserve Rape
« Reply #18 on: April 27, 2013, 05:44:12 PM »
I know Brother Dean quote well and consider him a friend.  I admire what he has done.  He has taken a stand on principle and he lives a life of chastity that I still struggle with to this day and I am twice his age.  He preaches a radical view of Christianity in that Christians should live their Christianity.  If they did so, then he would not have to hold a sign.

When he says, you deserve rape, its worth pointing out that we, humanity deserve punishment, damnation or rape.  That is our destiny.  It is the consequence of our sins.

Whether his methodology works, we will see.  I just remember when I was his age that no one helped me.  So I admit I have taken an interest in him and pray for his continued success.

Same general character as Tsarnaev brothers. Should be watched by FBI very closely.
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Re: You Deserve Rape
« Reply #19 on: April 27, 2013, 05:50:45 PM »

Beo-
Has any study proved rape is more likel;y if a victim is dressed seductively ?
(even though that is open to interpretation and culture as well)

Its an open ending question,  have no idea.

Its just I thought the general view was that rape was basically an act of violence ,
the sexual side of it much a side bar merely to assert authoriry/dominance/pain?

Is there generally any link at all to what a woman is wearing? her age? her looks?

Is there and studies that would remotely justify the Torontos officers line?

I'm sure i could find a Chicago policeman with the same attitude,
 while thousands of other officers would not share it?
It seems countries with the highest incidence of rape ,arn't particularly known for suggestive clothing?

I haven't read any, and I disavow any link between how a woman dresses and rape.  Toronto feminists organized a "slut walk" in response to the comments, and those walks were carried out in many countries. 


LT, I think your friend is off the mark, in terms of Christianity.  He shouldn't be telling people what they deserve, but rather, how Christianity can help make them better.

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Re: You Deserve Rape
« Reply #20 on: April 27, 2013, 08:03:43 PM »
I haven't read any, and I disavow any link between how a woman dresses and rape.  Toronto feminists organized a "slut walk" in response to the comments, and those walks were carried out in many countries. 


LT, I think your friend is off the mark, in terms of Christianity.  He shouldn't be telling people what they deserve, but rather, how Christianity can help make them better.

Why does it not surprise me that feminists would organize such an absurd affair?

Christianity is about following Christ.  Dean Saxton is following Christ.  He is speaking out against the things that separate us from God.  Sin separates us from God.  We use to say, don't hate the sinner, hate the sin.  We don't even say hate the sin anymore and he has exposed this weakness in our culture, no?

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Re: You Deserve Rape
« Reply #21 on: April 27, 2013, 08:21:29 PM »
Why does it not surprise me that feminists would organize such an absurd affair?

Christianity is about following Christ.  Dean Saxton is following Christ.  He is speaking out against the things that separate us from God.  Sin separates us from God.  We use to say, don't hate the sinner, hate the sin.  We don't even say hate the sin anymore and he has exposed this weakness in our culture, no?
No. He is just another mindless religious fundamentalist nut job. Mostly probably with mental issues. Can fly off the handle and do what Tsarnaevs did as easily. Dont see why we should even discuss this piece of sh.t here. Who cares about this whacko?
And what kind of person would be friends with this thing?
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Re: You Deserve Rape
« Reply #22 on: April 27, 2013, 08:28:02 PM »
I give Dean five years or less before he begins to fancy himself a prophet.

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Re: You Deserve Rape
« Reply #23 on: April 27, 2013, 08:31:07 PM »


Its just I thought the general view was that rape was basically an act of violence, the sexual side of it much a side bar merely to assert authoriry/dominance/pain?


This idea that rape was for dominance rather than sexual pleasure came along or was greatly enhanced with the feminist movement.

I have never had any inclination toward rape; but all sex I have is for pleasure, not dominance.

Thus I think this idea of rape for dominance is hoky.  But the idea is repeated so much that it has gained quite a bit of credence.
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Re: You Deserve Rape
« Reply #24 on: April 27, 2013, 08:39:40 PM »
Rape often is about dominance.

Why does it not surprise me that feminists would organize such an absurd affair?


Why is it absurd?  Why in Ukraine do women walk around dressed more provocatively than most women in North America, yet rape is not as prevalent in their society?

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Christianity is about following Christ.  Dean Saxton is following Christ.  He is speaking out against the things that separate us from God.  Sin separates us from God.  We use to say, don't hate the sinner, hate the sin.  We don't even say hate the sin anymore and he has exposed this weakness in our culture, no?


Christ also said:

And whosoever will not receive you, when ye go out of that city, shake off the very dust from your feet for a testimony against them - Luke 9:5


It appears to me that Dean Saxton is ignoring Christ's words.  He does so either:

a)  based on a poor/faulty understanding of Christ; or
b)  for his own purposes, not for glorifying Christ.

In either case, while I will not judge whether or not he is a good Christian (that is for God to decide, not me), his actions are not without fault.
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