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VK.com FB of FSU. Are you using it?
« on: August 13, 2013, 08:34:40 AM »
I need some friends... I look lonely on the site. If you're on there, please friend me. I'm at:  http://vk.com/id218441013

If you're not, why not?? It is an amazing resource. If you know a girl's birthday and city, she is pretty easy to find. You can do an end-run around the agency or website to view pics and see more of her personality. Oh, and check on her truthfulness... Found one agency girl who is married.

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Re: VK.com FB of FSU. Are you using it?
« Reply #1 on: August 13, 2013, 09:02:35 AM »
It is an amazing resource.

Chip, do not know on what level is your Russian language but just in case it is poor, here is translation of message made by one of your vk friend.

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УВАЖАЕМЫЕ СПАМЕРЫ.
Прекратите заваливать личку вашим дерьмом!
Добавлять я никого не собираюсь! Если добавлю, то в скором времени удалю, если вы не будете мне писать.
Задавать вопросы незнакомым людям? Вы вообще в своём уме?? Нахера мне знать что-то о человеке о существовании которого я даже не подозревала до момента вашей просьбы задать вопрос? И не спрашивайте что у меня нового, если вы даже не знаете, что у меня было старого. Я НЕ буду лайкать ваши ебнутые авки!Комментирую я только то, что вызывает у меня какие-то эмоции. Ваши картинки с бредовыми вопросами/стишками и прочей хернёй меня не ебёт ни в какое место.
Ну вот вроде и всё. Спасибо за внимание.

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DEAR SPAMMERS.
Stop filling up my PM with your crap!
I do not intend to adding myself! And if I add then in the near future I will remove if you do not write to me.
Asking questions from strangers? Are you out of your mind? What f**k for I need to know something about the person about whose existence I had no idea until your request to ask a question? And do not ask me what is new if you do not even know what was old for me. I will NOT be answering to your f**ing PMs! I only comment on things that is causing me some emotion. Your pictures with delusional questions / rhymes and other garbage do not f**k me in any place.
Well, seems all. Thank you for your attention.

Perhaps this translation will help you understand better how some girls are viewing total strangers trying to make friends with them on vk.   :devil:

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Re: VK.com FB of FSU. Are you using it?
« Reply #2 on: August 13, 2013, 09:26:18 AM »
And What? maybe if you write to 500 girls some will come out for a date? I have met endless girls via Vkontacte! And most have been pretty normal girls who never even thought about meeting any foreign guys 8)

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Re: VK.com FB of FSU. Are you using it?
« Reply #3 on: August 13, 2013, 10:14:57 AM »
I have a VK account but I don't use it to randomly look for women. I use it to keep in touch with current FSU friends. Its a crapshoot trying to randomly find women there especially since most people use it mainly to keep in touch with distant friends and family.....
 
Responses like the one posted by missAmeno to the OP from ladies definitely would not surpise me, LOL.
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Re: VK.com FB of FSU. Are you using it?
« Reply #4 on: August 13, 2013, 10:22:38 AM »
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DEAR SPAMMERS.
Stop filling up my PM with your crap!
I do not intend to adding myself! And if I add then in the near future I will remove if you do not write to me.
Asking questions from strangers? Are you out of your mind? What f**k for I need to know something about the person about whose existence I had no idea until your request to ask a question? And do not ask me what is new if you do not even know what was old for me. I will NOT be answering to your f**ing PMs! I only comment on things that is causing me some emotion. Your pictures with delusional questions / rhymes and other garbage do not f**k me in any place. Well, seems all. Thank you for your attention.


 :P I don't even know what she looks like, but I already like this gal...
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Re: VK.com FB of FSU. Are you using it?
« Reply #5 on: August 13, 2013, 10:48:29 AM »
The aggressive ones are usually the best, if you can be very persistent often you really can meet up with them 8)

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Re: VK.com FB of FSU. Are you using it?
« Reply #6 on: August 13, 2013, 12:30:23 PM »
Chip, do not know on what level is your Russian language but just in case it is poor, here is translation of message made by one of your vk friend.

Perhaps this translation will help you understand better how some girls are viewing total strangers trying to make friends with them on vk.   >:D

LMAO

Hi MissA.

Between you and me, I would never contact a lady (girl?) who expresses herself in that manner, regardless of the country she comes from. I'm pretty sure you know that already.  ;D

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Re: VK.com FB of FSU. Are you using it?
« Reply #7 on: August 13, 2013, 09:43:40 PM »
Its a crapshoot trying to randomly find women there especially since most people use it mainly to keep in touch with distant friends and family.....
Oh, yeah, especially those who have more than 1000 "friends".  ;D
VK is full of crap and false profiles, many people are just having fun there, bragging, showing off...
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Re: VK.com FB of FSU. Are you using it?
« Reply #8 on: August 13, 2013, 11:08:31 PM »

Of course VK is crappy and full of fakes, any idiot knows that! But you really can meet some nice people via VK just by being a crackpot!! I have met most of my friends in person in VK :)



http://vk.com/shendrick

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Re: VK.com FB of FSU. Are you using it?
« Reply #9 on: August 14, 2013, 02:48:17 AM »
Chip, I understand you feel lonely but do you want to add another adjective like desperate to your resume??
Are you trying to be something you are not? Over time you may have friends and develop relationships, let its course run.
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Re: VK.com FB of FSU. Are you using it?
« Reply #10 on: August 14, 2013, 06:05:07 AM »
Of course VK is crappy and full of fakes, any idiot knows that! But you really can meet some nice people via VK just by being a crackpot!! I have met most of my friends in person in VK :)



http://vk.com/shendrick
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Re: VK.com FB of FSU. Are you using it?
« Reply #11 on: August 14, 2013, 06:08:48 AM »
I need some friends... I look lonely on the site. If you're on there, please friend me. I'm at:  http://vk.com/id218441013

If you're not, why not?? It is an amazing resource. If you know a girl's birthday and city, she is pretty easy to find. You can do an end-run around the agency or website to view pics and see more of her personality. Oh, and check on her truthfulness... Found one agency girl who is married.
Nice photos Chip, you are cute.
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Re: VK.com FB of FSU. Are you using it?
« Reply #12 on: August 14, 2013, 07:46:41 AM »
Actually,

I found Chip's inclusion of his VK address refreshing.  And missA, if the lady who wrote that blistering paragraph didn't want Chip as a friend, why did she befriend him?  I don't think it was aimed at a well-meaning Seattle boy.

Chip, you seem to be turning in the right direction.  It is difficult to assume such paranoid premises when you view these beautiful women online.  But if you have the sniff detector on, then you can go to the next step and actually meet some.

Good luck.
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Re: VK.com FB of FSU. Are you using it?
« Reply #13 on: August 14, 2013, 08:50:51 AM »
I need some friends... I look lonely on the site. If you're on there, please friend me. I'm at:  http://vk.com/id218441013

If you're not, why not?? It is an amazing resource. If you know a girl's birthday and city, she is pretty easy to find. You can do an end-run around the agency or website to view pics and see more of her personality. Oh, and check on her truthfulness... Found one agency girl who is married.

Just looked through your VK page Chip. Wow, your birthday is next to mine!
 
What is apparent from your page is your Relationship status where you show right away that you are actively looking. However Chip, VK is not a deting site. People don't join it with a purpose to actively look. I don't have a full VK profile but it is my understanding that this social network is basically used with a purpose of some targeted communication. The target could be different, but probably dating would hardly be the primary purpose. It is just a social network!
 
Your page only show your photos...where is everything else? At this point, I hardly see any groups where you are participating, asking people questions, keeping discussions alive and providing any information to keep people interested. Do you do anything like that on VK?
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Re: VK.com FB of FSU. Are you using it?
« Reply #14 on: August 14, 2013, 09:12:18 AM »
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Chip, do not know on what level is your Russian language but just in case it is poor, here is translation of message made by one of your vk friend.

Along with an anglicized last name, she claims to live in Seattle and went to school in Houston. Around 21 years old and one photo has her snuggled up to a whip with the expression Между удовольствием и болью очень тонкая грань (The line between pleasure and pain is very thin).

Her age, her language and that photo would have me, like Muzh, saying "thanks, but no thanks."

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Re: VK.com FB of FSU. Are you using it?
« Reply #15 on: August 14, 2013, 09:21:57 AM »
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Your page only show your photos...where is everything else? At this point, I hardly see any groups where you are participating, asking people questions, keeping discussions alive and providing any information to keep people interested. Do you do anything like that on VK?

Good advice, Chip.

If you are into music or movies, post some YouTube links. Write some comments in English and see who interacts due to an interest in English.

Think of cities you are interested in such as St. Petersburg, Moscow, Kyiv, etc. Search by the name of the city under "communities" and you'll learn a lot about the region. For example, there is a cool page on Odessa: http://vk.com/odessa.city and you can join those communities.

Today just happened to be the day that honey is celebrated in the FSU. Honey is a part of FSU culture. Honey is sought after by many FSU women for the health benefits. You can buy honey at many churches on Sunday as it is an important part of monastery life and the candles used in worship are made from beeswax. Kiosks sell various varieties of honey depending on the region and type of flowers--honey is a big deal in the FSU whereas in the West it is reduced to sitting on grocery shelves and forgotten.

Post one of the photos below on your vk page and show that you understand something about the local culture.
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Re: VK.com FB of FSU. Are you using it?
« Reply #16 on: August 14, 2013, 09:50:41 AM »
You know Mendy, I was under the impression many FSUW were more attracted to something sweeter than honey ........Sugar Daddies :P
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Re: VK.com FB of FSU. Are you using it?
« Reply #17 on: August 14, 2013, 09:55:59 AM »
I know you're joking, but no more or less than anywhere else.  :)
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Re: VK.com FB of FSU. Are you using it?
« Reply #18 on: August 14, 2013, 11:24:42 AM »
And missA, if the lady who wrote that blistering paragraph didn't want Chip as a friend, why did she befriend him?  I don't think it was aimed at a well-meaning Seattle boy.


And I didn't say it was. The answer to your question is in her blistering comment.
I posted translation for different reasons. First, irony of the situation. Chip is asking strangers to befriend with him while one of his already befriended friends warning strangers not to contact her. Second, if Chip is interested in that girl I think he would benefit from knowing how she expresses herself in her native language.

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Re: VK.com FB of FSU. Are you using it?
« Reply #19 on: August 14, 2013, 03:29:46 PM »
A picture can tell a thousand stories, Lily. In Chip's case, maybe one too many.


Really? Well, in case a picture includes an interesting scenery, background or if it indeed shows a person in some unusual, rare, eye-catching actions or situations, in other words - if and when a picture provokes questions and makes people curious to know more about the person - in such cases I would agree with you. Just for an illustration, if Chip had been pictured while doing some acrobatic figure, that would be something out of the ordinary, and may result in reactions like 'how long did it took you to learn this?' and so on. Hope you got what I meant to say.
 
Chip's photos are simple. They are just the portraits of a man in different view. Good quality shots. That's it.
 
For a specialized dating site, I'd say this would be a bit too little of information.
 
For a social network, even more so.
 
Maybe Chip would like to share with us how many expressions of interest did he already got on VK?
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Re: VK.com FB of FSU. Are you using it?
« Reply #20 on: August 14, 2013, 03:40:40 PM »
..Really? Well, in case a picture includes an interesting scenery, background or if it indeed shows a person in some unusual, rare, eye-catching actions or situations, in other words - if and when a picture provokes questions and makes people curious to know more about the person - in such cases I would agree with you.....
 
For a specialized dating site, I'd say this would be a bit too little of information. For a social network, even more so...

A bit too little information, Lily!?

I would think that it would provoke anywhere from a passing curiosity to a tsunami of damnation to hell.
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« Reply #21 on: August 14, 2013, 03:50:51 PM »
A bit too little information, Lily!?

I would think that it would provoke anywhere from a passing curiosity to a tsunami of damnation to hell.

Yes, there is only his birthday, city of residence, and photos. That's too little, I think.
 
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Re: VK.com FB of FSU. Are you using it?
« Reply #22 on: August 14, 2013, 08:04:09 PM »
Along with an anglicized last name, she claims to live in Seattle and went to school in Houston. Around 21 years old and one photo has her snuggled up to a whip with the expression Между удовольствием и болью очень тонкая грань (The line between pleasure and pain is very thin).

Her age, her language and that photo would have me, like Muzh, saying "thanks, but no thanks."
This is one of those fake profiles on VK anyway: Anastacia Steele is a main character of the E.L. James book, "Fifty Shades of Grey".  :D On pics we can see American actress Alexis Bledel (who is 31 y.o., btw).  :D
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Re: VK.com FB of FSU. Are you using it?
« Reply #23 on: October 25, 2013, 02:54:21 PM »
Chip, do not know on what level is your Russian language but just in case it is poor, here is translation of message made by one of your vk friend.

Perhaps this translation will help you understand better how some girls are viewing total strangers trying to make friends with them on vk.   :devil:

Would love to know how you came to conclusion that I was the one who spammed her and this was her reply to me? This is a girl who asked me to be friends. I never contacted her. The screed (go up to read it) that she writes to spammers is on HER wall, not mine.

And yes, while my Russian is zilch, I was able to read it since Google translates for you.

As for the rest of the comments mocking me for trying to find women this way, please read the original post. I recommended using VK to get information on FSU women. I did not say to use it as a dating site.

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Re: VK.com FB of FSU. Are you using it?
« Reply #24 on: October 25, 2013, 10:37:32 PM »
Nice pics Chip. I don`t see anything wrong with looking on VK too. Why not? I`ve been approached there many times, didn`t kill anybody yet ;D So go for it. People wouldn`t put a single status on their page if they didn`t want to meet somebody. And there is an option to block the profile from strangers. I`m pretty sure that the girl in question was targeting only spummers))
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