Re: What is A MOB'r, Round II

[GQBlues]

Ok GQ , Let's go through the motions one more time.
Actually I expect you, or any person whom I  generally respect their opinions ,
to respond in kind, without the childish crap you've spewed in this thread.  
What is causing THAT, man?     

I asked you, what castigating MOBers   here lately, might accomplish.
Simple enough,  and I see you finally  answered it was to troll. .


So  you spent a lot of words on your perceptions of my personal short comings, to admit all along you simply enjoy trolling here.Got it.

Yeah... I love you, too man!

 

[fathertime]

 


As for social reject thing, I personally don't see it that way.  It may be more of a matter of some of these guys rejecting society compared to society rejecting them.   


People that go against the norms of society will have to deal with the consequences.  What is the worst thing that will happen?  People will make judgmental statements about you.  Let them, who cares?   

Yep, I am a social outcast and love every minute of it.  I wouldn't have it any other way man.

I have to agree that doing things a little different can lead to people looking at you a little weird.  No problem though, I have also found that over a little time usually people can 'get it' and become very trusting.  With so many crazy stories of horrible things happening to children, i don't blame parents or other adults to have more caution around anybody/anything initially perceived as a little different. 


Fathertime! 

[Daveman]

Why take it so personal?  He has a point.  There are a lot of misfits in this area of interest.  You got guys who complain about fat women when they are fat themselves.

Is that a social reject or a hypocrite? 

Some of these guys think they are doing these women a favor by helping them out of their shitty lives.  You don't think there is something wrong with that line of thinking?

Is that a social reject or an idiotic dickhead?

Interesting distinctions...

Maybe a little of both? 

Probably, with varying degrees.


What would be interesting to me is the statistically sound results measuring ratios of specific characteristics/traits within the groups, e.g.,  Dickheadedness within the group of those who actively seek/pursue a 'foreign' relationship compared to those fitting into accepted societal norms for relationships. 

As for social reject thing, I personally don't see it that way.  It may be more of a matter of some of these guys rejecting society compared to society rejecting them.   


People that go against the norms of society will have to deal with the consequences.  What is the worst thing that will happen?  People will make judgmental statements about you.  Let them, who cares?  ...

I tend to agree here.  As for the first segment, the reasons for the rejection of societal normality are most likely rather varied.  As for the consequences of such.. ah, human nature at work..

Shoot, a lot of things about me is probably considered strange...

Can't argue with you there.. 

[BillyB]

Can you freakin' imagine getting a note from a stranger you do not know telling you to cheer-up? BS BillyB and you know it.

When someone is in serious condition in the hospital, it's better they receive a lot of support instead of too little. If your wife ever goes to the hospital, I hope you take the extra steps to improve her condition instead of thinking those extra steps are silly and BS.

I would also say that if someone is so insecure that GQ's words have such a profound effect on him, he will have a heck of a time IRL. 

I'll remember to say that when someone doesn't like or wants to moderate my posts.

southern racist dude who calls himself *Gator*.

Where did that attack come from? There was a day you were more respected on the forums and you and Gator had a drink together. He didn't turn you down because of your skin color. Someone once said a racist thing about me and Gator defended me. Stop making stuff up.

Actually I expect you, or any person whom I  generally respect their opinions ,
to respond in kind, without the childish crap you've spewed in this thread.  
What is causing THAT, man?     

What is causing GQ to go off with all kinds of off topic attacks? I would also say that if GQ is so insecure that someone's words have a profound  effect on him, he will have a heck of a time IRL. Thanks for those words Boethius. It can be used both ways.

He has a point.  There are a lot of misfits in this area of interest.

There are a lot of misfits in the Army. There are a lot of misfits in the government. There are a lot of misfits in high school. There are a lot of misfits at work. There are a lot of misfits in America...and so on.


I not only have a point, I'm right. But..... if I go on the appropriate forums and remind people there are misfits in their area and repeat myself hundreds of times, people would rightfully point me out as being a misfit. GQ should not get defensive about that and begin off topic attacks on those who disagree.


One chooses their path and we can see everything negatively, positively or somewhere in between. I can easily say half the guys in my Army unit would have been in jail if it weren't for the Army cleaning up their act. I don't have a negative view of the Army because truth is most of those guys would give their lives to save others, even if those others don't have the guts to save anybody but themselves.


If I really wanted to find something wrong with everybody, I can but what does that do to my perception of the people around me and how I view the world? Not healthy and people will start to reject those who can't find any good in anybody. That is what is happening here.

[Boethius]

I'll remember to say that when someone doesn't like or wants to moderate my posts.

Don't take potshots at other posters' marriages, or their spouses, or call them pedophiles, and you won't be moderated.  You can continue doing this, though -

[Faux Pas]

Don't take potshots at other posters' marriages, or their spouses, or call them pedophiles, and you won't be moderated.  You can continue doing this, though -

 

[BillyB]

Don't take potshots at other posters' marriages, or their spouses, or call them pedophiles, and you won't be moderated.

You got it backwards. Those things happen to me. Boe, you've earned your biased reputation as a moderator here. I don't have a reputation for initiating attacks but as long as you allow it, I will retaliate against your favorite posters. If they act like 4th graders, I will talk down to them as if they're 4th graders. Every time you move my posts to the junk pile without moving theirs, you will continue to earn your reputation. What was that again about not handling people's and my posts?

[Faux Pas]

You got it backwards. Those things happen to me. Boe, you've earned your biased reputation as a moderator here. I don't have a reputation for initiating attacks but as long as you allow it, I will retaliate against your favorite posters. If they act like 4th graders, I will talk down to them as if they're 4th graders. Every time you move my posts to the junk pile without moving theirs, you will continue to earn your reputation. What was that again about not handling people's and my posts?

[Boethius]

LOL, FP.

No, Billy.  You play victimhood to the "nth" degree, and whine about it.  No other poster has been given as much latitude as you have been in attacking others, particularly their marriages.

This very topic was split off from another thread by me.  One of GQ's posts was modified by me, and that is something I rarely do.  But neither Jumper nor GQ, who are both real men, complained.  So continue to cry us a river.

If you don't like my moderation, take it up with Dan.

[BillyB]

  You play victimhood to the "nth" degree, and whine about it. 

I've never complained to the management here about anybody. I've talked to Dan on the phone but it's not to bad mouth anybody. I and others have noticed my posts get altered, moved, or disappears alot by your hands. It's you who's whining a lot about my posting. I've never talked bad about you in the back channels but I'm sure you've talked bad about me behind my back a lot.
 
If you weren't so biased and pessimistic you may have been on this list. If you think I write crap, people prefer to read my crap more than your crap.
 
http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?topic=16024.msg332078;topicseen#msg332078

[Gator]

 

Don't take potshots at other posters' marriages, or their spouses, or call them pedophiles, and you won't be moderated.  You can continue doing this, though -

BillyB should have exercised have followed Dave's request; however, it was not helpful to call BillyB a crybaby.
 
You use the word potshot.  Definition of potshot - "a shot aimed unexpectedly or at random at someone or something with no chance of self-defense."
 
IMO there is nothing unexpected nor random about BillyB's remarks.   They came  not  out of the blue but in an escalating exchange with a critic, the critic having dropped the first bomb, and both BillyB and his critic edge closer to the red line not to be crossed.   And when he crosses the line, he is usually the only one chastised. 
 
And the matter of self-defense:  I believe one or maybe two of his critics just enjoy playing BillyB, hoping to get a reaction. 
 

   No other poster has been given as much latitude as you have been in attacking others' marriages. 

   
 
Not my perception.  Could it be because the "latitude" is really about frequency and not substance, as "no other poster" has been attacked as much as BillyB?

[Boethius]

Reread my post.  I am referring to very specific points.

1.  No derogatory comment about another poster's spouse. 

2.  No derogatory comment about another poster's family.

3.  No comment suggesting another poster is engaging in criminal activity.

Other posters have been moderated for counts 1 and 2.  Only one other poster, besides Billy, in my time here, has, to my recollection, accused another poster of of criminal activity, and that poster, like Billy, was moderated.  The former never complained.  The latter has carried it on, with the vocal support of a surrogate, for two years.

[LiveFromUkraine]

I thought Billy had his own thread. 

[GQBlues]

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LOL!

Now of course just because I found that pretty funny, some creepy crawley is going to jet out of a dark closet, screaming...

"YOU SEE, YOU SEE! EVIL GQBLUES, EVIL GQBLUES!!!! HOW CAN HE BE SO CRUEL TO BE LAUGHING AT A PICTURE OF A CRYING CHILD!!! EVIL GQBLUES! EVIL GQBLUES! HE SHOULD BE BANNED!!"

It's little wonder they call today 'Labored Day'.

[BillyB]

  I believe one or maybe two of his critics just enjoy playing BillyB, hoping to get a reaction. 
 

Sometimes I ignore them, other times I'll remind them of who they are.


Those guys need to take a good look at Larry's poll I linked in my last post. Some people have busy lives and make valuable posts but they don't post enough to get noticed. A poll like that can be misleading in that sense. Among the prolific posters who get noticed most often, some will get votes and others won't. Some posters post valuable information about the FSU, portray themselves as helpful, and entertaining among other things but to get votes from peers, one thing is certain, a poster must be liked. None of the posters who have a hard on for me are liked well enough to be anybody's favorite. They really need to wake up and look in the mirror.


Back to being on topic. MOB losers and winners are better judged based on how the community views them, not by any single individual. Around family, co workers, fellow students, and online communities, everyone will be judged and some people will be considered valuable and others worthless. If a person wants to be part of this community on a regular basis and be considered a winner, they should figure out how to make enough quality and helpful posts to be on the list that was linked. Unless of course they like pissing people off.

"no other poster" has been attacked as much as BillyB?

It's just a few people upset about a thread I started 3 years ago who are making the most noise. I don't know why I brought so much pain into their lives. Most people appreciate when I share my dating experiences, conversations with RW and life with RW. As long as I feel I'm helping the majority, I don't care if the minority doesn't like reading my posts.

Other posters have been moderated for counts 1 and 2.  Blah blah blah...

Boethius. People don't have a problem with the other management here and the way they moderate. It's just you. Think, think, think, on why that is.

[Boethius]

LOL!

Now of course just because I found that pretty funny, some creepy crawley is going to jet out of a dark closet, screaming...

"YOU SEE, YOU SEE! EVIL GQBLUES, EVIL GQBLUES!!!! HOW CAN HE BE SO CRUEL TO BE LAUGHING AT A PICTURE OF A CRYING CHILD!!! EVIL GQBLUES! EVIL GQBLUES! HE SHOULD BE BANNED!!"

It's little wonder they call today 'Labored Day'.

Was your name on the poll?  Because that apparently is the measure of your worth as a poster.

Of course you're evil, if only because I like you.

[GQBlues]

Those guys need to take a good look at Larry's poll I linked in my last post. Some people have busy lives and make valuable posts but they don't post enough to get noticed. A poll like that can be misleading in that sense. Among the prolific posters who get noticed most often, some will get votes and others won't. Some posters post valuable information about the FSU, portray themselves as helpful, and entertaining among other things but to get votes from peers, one thing is certain, a poster must be liked. None of the posters who have a hard on for me are liked well enough to be anybody's favorite. They really need to wake up and look in the mirror...

LOL. You sent your GF to a hospital with a nervous breakdown and you're still delusional about yourself?

You haven't yet told us what was in those documents, man? Speculation would have it, it isn't too good.

Since that time, there were a few suspicious things you've posted that more than raise a curious brow with me. Your stubborn opposition to IMBRA. Your *ideas* about what is and isn't domestic/spousal abuse - degrees of beating, etc...

Now I'm certain you obviously isn't willing to be sharing these juicy little secrets on an open forum, but like Sgt. Shultz often said...."...Hhhhmmm, veeerrry interesting!..."

[LiveFromUkraine]

LOL. You sent your GF to a hospital with a nervous breakdown and you're still delusional about yourself?

You haven't yet told us what was in those documents, man? Speculation would have it, it isn't too good.

Since that time, there were a few suspicious things you've posted that more than raise a curious brow with me. Your stubborn opposition to IMBRA. Your *ideas* about what is and isn't domestic/spousal abuse - degrees of beating, etc...

Now I'm certain you obviously isn't willing to be sharing these juicy little secrets on an open forum, but like Sgt. Shultz often said...."...Hhhhmmm, veeerrry interesting!..."

It may have not been a good idea to have the college student he put through college in exchange for meeting his manly needs to write up a character reference.

[GQBlues]

Was your name on the poll?  Because that apparently is the measure of your worth as a poster.

Of course you're evil, if only because I like you.

Was it the poll Larry created to solicit old men's opinion about anything nubile? Or was it the poll about who caught the most attention in the message boards because it's really an earth-shattering significance to people's lives around these parts?

Gawd, I hope I wasn't in either of them.

[Boethius]

The latter.  Yup, you didn't make the grade either.  It must be that negative aura.

[GQBlues]

It may have not been a good idea to have the college student he put through college in exchange for meeting his manly needs to write up a character reference.

Actually, that's another thing that causes a pause...these types of visa can definitely circumvent the usual protocol with IMBRA-regulated visas.

Who knows....I hope when board members ask BillyB to meet up with those AM/RW phany fart-together parties, he won't be giving excuses like he's busy, etc...

 

Way too many questions needing answers...inquiry minds want to know.

[GQBlues]

The latter.  Yup, you didn't make the grade either.  It must be that negative aura.

Aw' my gawdly apocalyptic world is about the end this very minute!!!

I didn't pass the RWD popularity contest?!? OMG!!!! How will I survive!!!

::::picture of the funny crying baby here:::::

[LiveFromUkraine]

Actually, that's another thing that causes a pause...these types of visa can definitely circumvent the usual protocol with IMBRA-regulated visas.

Eh, it would be quicker to have them fly into Mexico and run across the border. 


I just worry those high heels will get stuck in the treacherous terrain.  Remembering some of the sidewalks, in Ukraine, I think they have a 50 - 50 shot at getting across with all pairs of shoes.

[GQBlues]

...No, Billy.  You play victimhood to the "nth" degree, and whine about it.  No other poster has been given as much latitude as you have been in attacking others, particularly their marriages.

This very topic was split off from another thread by me.  One of GQ's posts was modified by me, and that is something I rarely do.  But neither Jumper nor GQ, who are both real men, complained.  So continue to cry us a river....

How funny! I didn't even noticed the thread was split. LOL.

Poor AJ. I'm giving him a lump saying to read Reply #s 195/197 and all the while the thread was split. LOL. My bad, dawg! No wonder he didn't seem to understand.

You're such an evil moderator Boethius!

[Boethius]

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