Update. Not Good.

[Boethius]

As far as I remember Lonedrake mentioned his future wife called Marta.
I see curious parallel. Lonedrake told his phone heated talk with ex gf during the search of a wife in Ukraine. It was revealing talk in some aspects, interesting from point of woman mindset.  We discussed the talk here at the forum.
  Now it seems the same ex has communicated with Marta if I understood right her flow of words.

I don't recall lonedrake's American ex.  However, it could be that lonedrake was not cheating on her, the ex just wanted to break their relationship.   


Not all women have the same mindset, Belvis.

[Marta7]

I don't recall lonedrake's American ex.  However, it could be that lonedrake was not cheating on her, the ex just wanted to break their relationship.   


Not all women have the same mindset, Belvis.

I love my Lonendrake

[Marta7]

Sorry to hear.

I love you my Lonendrake

[jone]

Marta,

In earlier posts, you have stated that he is cheating on you with another woman.  Now it appears that you want reconciliation. 

Has Lone Drake stated that he cheated on you?  Or is that something that you suspect?  Please respond in Russian.

[Marta7]

Sorry to hear.

I love you my Lonendrake

[LiveFromUkraine]

Marta, I suggest you contact your lawyer and have them ask if there is a possibility of counseling. 

[Boethius]

That's only going to work if lonedrake is open to counselling.

[LiveFromUkraine]

That's only going to work if lonedrake is open to counselling.

Right, who knows if lonedrake would even want to try.  I still think it's better to do it privately and not on a public forum.

[Boethius]

Yes, I agree with that.

[ML]

Holy Sheeeeeeeeeeeet !!

We haven't had a he said/ she said on here for quite some time.

Who was the earlier couple a few years back where the guy told his story and then his ex came on and disputed some of his story ??

But, there is not supposed to be posting here on the main forum in anything other than English.

Why don't some of you that are able to translate, start a conversation with Marta elsewhere and then post the English version here.

[Faux Pas]

Right, who knows if lonedrake would even want to try.  I still think it's better to do it privately and not on a public forum.

Certainly Lonedrake can speak for himself but IIRC, he stated in this thread he still loved her but (pharphrasing)  she may have burnt some bridges

[Gator]

Nothing good will come from posting "his" and "her" versions.  I sense much pain on both sides.  I suggest we keep our noses out of this.  Lonedrake and Marta need to speak to a marriage counselor and listen carefully to what the counselor advises.    RWD is not their counselor. 

[dragonkid]

I suggest we keep our noses out of this.

  Your marriage problems are  private and they should not be discussed here.   

But him posting about her mental health, ridiculing her for not choosing an American psychologist, and painting a picture that she was all the blame because she was bat crazy is fine? Where was everyone then? Posting their opinions on how terrible she was for wanting a piece of the house. i think we should hear her version, it sounds like a lot went down that we weren't told , not the first that people have bent the truth on here.

[dragonkid]

No way in hell you should give her $3000 a month. I'm guessing she'll probably hook up with some snapperhead a little later on.

Yes, go to fsu, bring a girl back with all hopes and dreams, when you don't like the marriage, throw her to the side, and pay nothing.  If you can't handle the financial repercussions, just don't get married, simple as that. The main difference between marriage and a relationship, is one is legally binding. If you can't handle the legally binding part, DON'T GET MARRIED. If it was that easy, we would all go abroad, get hitched in less than a week of meeting someone. I think people should get a prenup, even after a divorce you pay a little something for the other party to accept it, which i think is fair.

[Gator]

But him posting about her mental health, ridiculing her for not choosing an American psychologist, and painting a picture that she was all the blame because she was bat crazy is fine? Where was everyone then? Posting their opinions on how terrible she was for wanting a piece of the house. i think we should hear her version, it sounds like a lot went down that we weren't told , not the first that people have bent the truth on here.

Well Sigmund, if you feel you can help,  why don't you contact Marta via PM.  I hope you don't because you are very immature yourself.   

Some things are already very apparent just by connecting the dots and filling in the blanks. 

[Boethius]

Well Sigmund, if you feel you can help,  why don't you contact Marta via PM.  I hope you don't because you are very immature yourself.   

Some things are already very apparent just by connecting the dots and filling in the blanks.

He's not immature.  He's just young.

[dragonkid]

Well Sigmund, if you feel you can help,  why don't you contact Marta via PM.

But why is it an issue now? People were getting on their knees and thanking LD for posting his side, now we have her side and you don't want to hear it? It wasn't private a few weeks ago, now it is?

[Faux Pas]

But why is it an issue now? People were getting on their knees and thanking LD for posting his side, now we have her side and you don't want to hear it? It wasn't private a few weeks ago, now it is?

90% of the time we never hear the other side of the story. We haven't heard it here yet either. In fact we haven't heard either side of the story if you want to get down to the brass tacks. Lonedrake did not speak badly about Marta and he gave few details. He answered a few questions and offering very little. You were sucking in his sparse story about as fast as anyone, why is it now a problem for you?

Gator is right. These two apparently still have some feeling for each other and it would be best to not try and encourage bad feelings or a choosing of sides between them. It would be a good time to shut the fvck up and see if something can be worked out between the two of them without any incendiary remarks to fuel more argument and ill will.

There is a time to run your mouth and there is a time to keep it closed. It's up to you to decide which

[dragonkid]

You were sucking in his sparse story about as fast as anyone, why is it now a problem for you?

It doesn't sound like a good idea to have this thread on here.

If i was her, i would be looking at your profile on here, she will be keeping tabs on you to use anything against you.

 I posted this after him giving explicit details of her state of mind.

I said this previously but it may have been taken down, you are disclosing all of her mental health on here for people to sympathise with you. If someone leaks this to your ex wife, you will be ruined in court. I hope the sex was good, because you will be paying for it very soon

I couldn't care less about her side,it is none of my business,i didn't ask her to post anything. i felt bad for her at the start.

[Marta7]

I posted this after him giving explicit details of her state of mind.

I couldn't care less about her side,it is none of my business,i didn't ask her to post anything. i felt bad for her at the start.

Good evening to all. I don't want what you were fighting of our family situation. I just want to ask, imagine you live in a foreign country , you started your life below zero , namely the washing of tractors, chopping wood, cleaning houses, school, farm work, cleaning garages. And I did it all because I loved him and wanted our family. Now, you all do the job, knowing that you are building your family's future . And calls you and writes to a mistress or lover and tells a story. That husband bought you as a slave, that they have not sex, but love that her husband is cheating. And you alone in that foreign country . What you will do ???

[AkMike]

Keep in mind that there are 3 sides to every story.

 There's your side.

 There's my side.

 And there's the right side!

[Marta7]

Keep in mind that there are 3 sides to every story.

 There's your side.

 There's my side.

 And there's the right side!

Thank you
Thank you all for your excitement

[AkMike]

Marta, I'm sorry for your problems. Hopefully it'll get better with time. 

[Marta7]

Marta, I'm sorry for your problems. Hopefully it'll get better with time.

Thank you. Everything will be as it should be .

[jone]

I was one who advocated up thread that we be very careful in what is said on here regarding such a relationship.  However, hearing of infidelity, again and again, I am curious to know, from Marta, what evidence she has that LoneDrake has been unfaithful. 

Because if someone is going on the internet to spread such accusations, there better be some hard evidence behind such claims. 

Otherwise, I would prefer not to hear them.

So, Marta, this is your big chance:  What evidence do you have that your husband is cheating?