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Author Topic: Is there anyway to find out if Ukrainian documents issued for my young son ?  (Read 3743 times)

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Offline southernX

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reading the last few posts monkey , im now wondering who has the mental health problem ?

your posts read as  awfully paranoid ?

gifts are part of the travel back home , lots of them , and ime , a wife will often not pack wisely or practically , especially if she is not a seasoned traveller by air etc

kids are the focal point for most fsu women and familys, they hold them dearly as the most important thing and will ime make different priorities on how they are treated compared to the local ''norm ''

example , my wife on arrival to australia wanted to sit in the back seat of the car and put her son in the front passengar seat ..she felt he should have the better view and access to radio /heater, more comfy position , i stopped this immediatly

you talk about her not letting you hug or touch your son after his bath , but you did not say how you where dressed or your state of cleanliness at the time ??

knowing my wife she frowns on me entering the house in yard or work clothes , and expects me to shower and be clean once finished work  and inside for the day , this is a fundamental , and may  apear OCD if your level of behaviour or hygiene is less or more relaxed as it is for many houselholds and men , especially if they have lived on their own for a time

kids under their mums control are kept clean and there are lots of odd somewhat paranoid ideas they will follow that we dont , dont drink cold water, dont have ice in drinks ,, discard orthodox medicnes , but use old home remedies etc etc .. excluding others which again look odd to us

i would not be signing any papers if you go to ukraine with her , you have no need too , so just dont ,

the holiday may well have done you all good , and you imo should open up to it positivly until you have a rock hard reason of fact , to prove other wise

at present your writing is coming across as negative , paranoid and unstable imo

that might be a reaction to your current living conditions , but either way , you must steady up and make decisons based on fact, not suspicion ,

you need to provide her and the child with stability and security , no woman will stay usually if thats not evident in her male partner , she can get plenty of that in ukraine



you cant be constantly reactive to her , you must be the rock and make your own well thought out choices  whatever they may be long term and then hold to them

have you considered how she may be percieving your behaviour ??  often humans start putting their defenses up due to percieved  minor problems and they then quickly escalate into major ones , and spiral out of control

it strikes me you may be the author of your own problems here to a large degree ,

keep us all posted on how it goes

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« Last Edit: June 25, 2019, 11:32:28 PM by southernX »
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my man,

your question comes down to, “should I stay or should I go”
and you don’t want to face this question
because it makes you uncomfortable,
the same way your Russian wife makes you uncomfortable...
my question to guys like you:
how did you EVER THINK a guy like you was going to handle a Russian woman?

seriously?

all you laid back passive types are NOT gonna fare well with a Russian woman...
you and others like you on this board are proof of that...

you gotta know how to treat a Russian woman!!
and being passive is not the FREAKING way!!!!

SEX
you MUST totally dominate her sexually!!!
she has to have frequent orgasms that are based on her “fantasies”
so you have to know what these are
and use it to create a state of arousal in her
then...
you satisfy her...

Domestic
Help Out, do all dirty and heavy tasks
be as neat as possible
dress nicely, wear her favorite cologne
be "Mr Fixit" anything breaks in your house, fix it immediately using only your Swiss Army Knife
wife will be in awe

Money
Find out all the things your wife wants, and get them for her, no matter the price
and make sure she understands this all came to her straight “from your heart”
if it’s a surprise, even better

the more money you make, the happier your wife will be, so make it rain down “he-ah”
I say lord, make it rain down “he-ah”
amen! AMEN!

Russkies all have PTSD!!!
so you have to be a shock absorber, otherwise Russian Nitroglycerin goes “BOOM”
then you have PTSD to!!!!
so keep all upset and “negative vibes” away from your Russian wife for at LEAST the first 5 years
while she learns to adjust to her new life...
otherwise....
KABOOM!!!

Travel
If you’re lucky enough to be self-employed like I am, and can set your own schedule
then schedule 4 weeks of travel time each summer and go somewhere together that’s “romantic”

Build A Nest
Nothing makes a Russian woman feel all warm and cozy like buying a new house and for her to start furnishing it
suddenly she is transformed into a little girl playing in a giant doll house

and then followed by more sex.....

all I can tell you guys is that this has TOTALLY worked for me....
and as a result I have a low stress marriage to a Russian woman..






bottom line, I think passive types should stick with Asian women...
but NOT Central Asia like Kazakhstan, etc or Russian Far East
those women are TEN TIMES CRAZIER than Russian women!!!!!
 




 
« Last Edit: June 26, 2019, 11:29:52 AM by krimster2 »

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Build A Nest
Nothing makes a Russian woman feel all warm and cozy like buying a new house and for her to start furnishing it
suddenly she is transformed into a little girl playing in a giant doll house

and then followed by more sex.....

Actually a married couple planning and building a new house often leads to divorce.

Reason being it is very stressful.
Winston Churchill.  “The best argument against democracy is a five-minute conversation with the average voter.”

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"Actually a married couple planning and building a new house often leads to divorce.
Reason being it is very stressful."


that's something that would be really hard for me to understand...
maybe I'm different from most people
I'm really happy to just let my wife have her preferences in our happy little cottage
my whole focus is on keepin her happy
and THAT'S what makes me happy
I don't care if the dining table is oak or some other material...
but making that choice is what makes my wife happy...

read The Gift of the Magi
to understand the nature of "sacrificial love"

if you do this...
Russian women eat this up like CRAZY!!!!
they will be like cute little puppies eating dog food out of your hand and licking your finger...
WORD!!

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Doesn't matter if wife makes all the decisions about new house construction and furnishment or husband does or if they perfectly agree on everything.

It is still a very stressful process for the two persons and hence the marriage.
Winston Churchill.  “The best argument against democracy is a five-minute conversation with the average voter.”

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wow!

did not know...
had not even one second stress with my wife EVER on this subject!!!
and we've purchased more than one home together that she decorated and that we lived in

never argued over this...
we argue over our children and we USED to argue over her family...
but last year, she kinda got my point about them, so now we just argue about our kids

in her core, my wife thinks like a Russian "robotnik" worker thinks
children must be obedient laborers like their parents
or you'll have "trouble"
but, as I explained to my wife
our children are NEVER gonna work in some savod in Russia for $200/month
so they don't have to think like someone who does
she's starting to get that idea to...
it just takes awhile I have to be patient

best way to provide satisfaction to a Russian woman is through "teasing"
before my wife's birthday, I'll start talking about diamonds
about how much the prices have gone up, how hard it is to get good stones from South Africa now...
and then on her birthday, have a pair of earrings with 1.5 caret princess cut top shelf diamonds in a polished platinum setting...
that costs what a Honda civic costs (and I'm buying at a huge discount)!!!!!
she cried when I did this!!!
cuz she wanted the civic!!!!!
so then I bought her an Accord, and it's ALL good now!!!
Amazing talking car the 2019 Accord, computerized cameras
i'm thinking of getting a Tesla if the auto-pilot gets better!
took a boat ride on an autonomous computer controlled canal boat
last year in Amsterdam, LOVED IT!!!!

autonomous transportation that lets me sleep or read as I go from point A to B
and then
B to A

some day, I'm gonna go all the way to Z man....
with a Neural Network Pattern Recognition System
a machine of loving grace
to watch over me
as I slumber on the freeway
headin' North at 70 MPH





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I keep saying 'building' a new house; not buying an existing home.

Huge difference re stress levels.
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I keep saying 'building' a new house; not buying an existing home.

Huge difference re stress levels.
ML is correct imo
having done both , built several from ground up , and bought existing then just moved in

they are not comparable with stress levels , buying land , planning , then building is way more stressfull if you let it be than buying existing

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bottom line, I think passive types should stick with Asian women...


All the women in my Asian side of the family are the dominant type. Most Asian women are dominant and don't fit the submissive woman stereotype. A passive man that gets ran over by a RW will also get ran over by an Asian woman. If a guy wants his wife to love him, he needs to gain her respect. If he is not respected, he will get ran over by any woman from any culture.
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worse stress level for me personally was remodeling my house in California
but that was with the "system" and not my wife
spent over $35,000 in permits and inspections for a simple remodel of my house
maybe stressed people take it out on their spouse?
but neither one of us does that too each other
my wife mothers me constantly...
I kinda like it actually
cuz' my actual mother never really gave me much attention...
she said I was too ugly as a child, at least, that's what my sister told me!!!



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but that was with the "system" and not my wife

correct ,
 the system is designed to make you jump through hoops , it is inherently stressfull dealing with any fed/state  gov or local building authority if its not your core business or job


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