Am I to young?

[Bruno]

I do have a stable job...on my way to buying a house now...

Perfect, you seem to be marriage material...

So, in your introduction letter to lady don't forget to inform about these elements...

Maybe a young girl is seeking a men around 30 year old... but she ask this because she seek stability for build a family... if she can find a young men who afford enough stability, she will choose these young men...

About buy a new house, when the time will come, you can ask advice to some old timer here... not for the house, but more for explain was is "mortgage" and other financial thing to your RW... Russia is a cash country and "mortgage" can be something difficult for them to understand... it is your house but until all is pay, it is the house of the bank...

OK, to much for now, you are just at the start point... but you need to know that the way to foreign marriage is long and complex... sometime difficult... but the reward IN CASE OF SUCCESS compensate enough !

[poseidon84]

I am very happy that I found this place, because now I have some people I can ask my questions to

[Darth Vader]

Me too.  But I have been reading for an hour and it looks like some people here don't know what the hell they are doing!

And some are more experienced and seem to have learned from their experiences.

But to answer the question that started this discussion, I would say YES! 

You are to young to get hitched to a Russian girl!  Instead, go and date them and have fun.  You are too young to be serious.
David

[PeeWee]

For anyone I have always thought 30 years was a minimum age. I said before if you begin now at 22 years old and if your search consumes 6 years, as it has for many of us, then when you finally do marry her you will be 28 or so. So start looking now because you will not marry someone that you meet today, tomorrow.

Peevee

[PeeWee]

For anyone I have always thought 30 years was a minimum age. I said before if you begin now at 22 years old and if your search consumes 6 years, as it has for many of us, then when you finally do marry her you will be 28 or so. So start looking now because you will not marry someone that you meet today, tomorrow.

In a nutshell. Yes, you are too young to be married at 22 but, no, you are not too young to begin looking for a wife.

Peevee

[poseidon84]

I have no plans on marrying a girl tomorrow

I was just thinking if I am to young to start dating these girls

[Bruno]

I have no plans on marrying a girl tomorrow

I was just thinking if I am to young to start dating these girls

Hmmmm....

These FSU women who post advert on the internet plan to marry "tomorrow"... do you think that it is a good behaviour that date these women only for the fun of date, without real intention of marry...

If you wish only date, make it home... why date in FSU, at several thounsand kilometer of your own home and at a high expense...

[happyguy]

Hmmmm....

These FSU women who post advert on the internet plan to marry "tomorrow"...

Bruno

Not every girl wants to get married "tomorrow" that advertise on the internet.A lot of the younger girls i met when i was in my search had no plans of being married till after they were done University.I don't see posiedon going after older women.So i don't think he will have a problem finding a girl who doesn't want to marry right away.

I myself am in a relationship with a girls who wants to finish her education before she get married.I knew this from the beginning. But we both love each other and are ready to put the work in.

I guess what i am trying to say is poseidon should have now problem find the kind of girl he is looking for.If he is willing to put the work in.

[Julia G]

I myself am in a relationship with a girls who wants to finish her education before she get married.I knew this from the beginning. But we both love each other and are ready to put the work in.

Girls, plural?
Speaking seriously I really would relocate not before I finish my uni and one year internship as MD (it will be not before summer 2011). To marry itself is not problem even before finishing education, but normal family life begins not when people sign papers but when they begin to live together.  I think long (at least 2 years) pre-family building a relationship is a good way to get finally sure that you have serious love not short-time emotional feeling. And young couples in that sense have big plus - they can afford not to be in a hurry, they feel they have enough time to decide. So the author of topic chose very good time. Good luck

[Julia G]

Hmmmm....

These FSU women who post advert on the internet plan to marry "tomorrow"... do you think that it is a good behaviour that date these women only for the fun of date, without real intention of marry...

If you wish only date, make it home... why date in FSU, at several thounsand kilometer of your own home and at a high expense...

  Poseidon, he just wants to get rid of a young competitor. (I`m kidding)
  Yes, many girls in net want to get marry tomorrow, especially after 24yo. At 24yo ( if I remember it exactly, I`ll check it better) number of unmarried marriageable girls gets more than such of men. I read that`s because in men there`s in general more deviant variants - more brilliantly intelligent and more mentally disabled than in women (women are closer to average point in all, bad and good - so the best and the worst things in the world we owe to men), more criminals and alcoholics, men more often than women get traumas and die at dangerous and harmful jobs. So from point 24 there appears lack of male marriage material. At small towns and villages the lack appears even earlier - better guys move to bigger cities and girls do it more seldom. Many girls from small towns try to get education not for education itself but to get to study at bigger city and find a husband maybe also from small town or village, but it`s possible not for every girl. 24 may seem young for the west, but here pressure from relatives at girls to get married often begins even earlier than from age of 24. So many girls after 24 want to get married almost tomorrow...
  If Poseidon tries to date girls under 24 they`ll not be in a hurry and there`ll be less possibility to find a girl who`ll marry anyone who asks her. Also women in a hurry are more likely to play double-triple and so on game just because they want to get married soon and feel they have not much time and want more warranty. And dating for fun - if a guy says from the very beginning he isn`t going to marry tomorrow and wants to take his time, there won`t be any crime, I suppose, Bruno.

[poseidon84]

I am talking now to a 21 year old girl for example. And I will go and visit her soon if our communication continues. But it doesnt mean I will be married to her before christmas

The thing I mean is that I will not tyr to find a girl as quickly as possible to marry. But I rather spend my time trying to find the right girl. And when she appears then I can marry, maybe it is next summer or in 9 years. You never know!
The only thing you can do is to keep on meeting girls

[TexasBoar]

The only thing you can do is to keep on meeting girls

Aaaah . . . where's the fun in that?  ???

Oh yeah. Right. 

Carry on. 

~Boar

[Bruno]

The thing I mean is that I will not tyr to find a girl as quickly as possible to marry. But I rather spend my time trying to find the right girl. And when she appears then I can marry, maybe it is next summer or in 9 years. You never know!

Ok, seem good...

My previous post was due to the two major complain from RW seeking a husband... the keyboard Romeo and the sex tourist... Using time for find the right women is not wrong... but fuck!ng so much RW it is possible for the fun of sex is something other...

[Bruno]

  Poseidon, he just wants to get rid of a young competitor. (I`m kidding)

At 38 year old, i have no interest in post pubert FSU girls who spend the week-end night in noisy disco... Poseidon and me hunt different type of women... and for information, i have already find my beloved... She is coming in January 2007, marriage planned for 14 february 2007 ( i am a greedy Belgium man... two special occassion in one, valentin & marriage... cheaper and i will not forget the date    kidding ) 

[poseidon84]

I do not think we hunt different girls.

I am not interested in discotype girls and I am not interested in sex. hmm that sounded wrong
Of course it is interesting but if I am only looking for some physical activities I can find them here in sweden and I do not have to pay alot of money to travel to FSU for it.

The reason I search in FSU is because I enjoy the culture there. It is a bit like it used to be here in Sweden

And also the reason I search in FSU is that I do not like all the disco girls here acting like they are 14 years old

[Bruno]

Sweden  They have the more hot sexy police women there  This is a other old story 

[SANDRO43]

Sweden  They have the more hot sexy police women there

Bruno, are you suggesting that Poseidon should embark on a binge of double-parking, crossing intersections with a red light,  going up one-way streets in the wrong direction, etc. in order to have encounters with hot, sexy but non disco-type girls ?

A trip to the FSU might be cheaper in the end .

[Bruno]

Bruno, are you suggesting that Poseidon should embark on a binge of double-parking, crossing intersections with a red light,  going up one-way streets in the wrong direction, etc. in order to have encounters with hot, sexy but non disco-type girls ?

A trip to the FSU might be cheaper in the end .

Nope... Simply, when i was young sailor, i have too much drink in Sweden... a police woman have stop me and say that she will bring me to the police station for the night...

She have take me in her police car... and the day after, i have weak-up in her bed... and it was cheap... food, bed, woman for free during one week-end... and for the first time of my live, a real blond...

During the 9 year in the Navy, i have live at 500%... and i have know a lot of little story  I was young, sexy and CRAZY !

[Nando]

Bruno

what is the % of non disco girls in Odessa?
I am soon going to find out but just curious.
 

Poseidon having so many hot blonds in your country i really admire you for looking so far for a woman, I thought only old gits like Bruno and me (39) would go to FSU as a resource of marriage minded woman, but not fat and ugly by the way
 

To find a good woman can take 2 or 3 years so just go

[poseidon84]

I am so sorry if my youth maybe attracts some of "your" girls in FSU 
I guess that there are girls in FSU that is the same as the girls here. But form what I have seen many girls in FSU has a different culture then the girls here.

[Julia G]

At 38 year old, i have no interest in post pubert FSU girls who spend the week-end night in noisy disco... Poseidon and me hunt different type of women... and for information, i have already find my beloved... She is coming in January 2007, marriage planned for 14 february 2007 ( i am a greedy Belgium man... two special occassion in one, valentin & marriage... cheaper and i will not forget the date    kidding ) 

 Yes, good idea about double-occasion day I wish all the best to you and your lady
 I can`t agree with idea that girls of poseidon`s age range from FSU all are discotype girls. It depends...Also many girls here go to disco not to enjoy music and dancing but to meet somebody and wouldn`t go there if they had a partner already. Lots depends on whether a woman is student or not, and what education she gets - higher or not. More than half of my female groupmates in university don`t like discos and near 25%  go there very seldom (once a month) in hope to get acquainted with a guy.

[catzenmouse]

 Early on in my correspondence I was writing with a girl from a small town outside of Minsk. She was a studying classical piano and was interested in literature and art. Had no interest in disco's or a party lifestyle. Would have been a wonderful match for someone. I just couldn't get past the age difference. She was 21 at the time. She is an example of some of the women that would make a good match for a younger man.

 By the way, I do agree with those who say don't even think about marriage right now. Just go, date, enjoy, and get a feel for the FSU.

Ken

[2tallbill]

I am interested in FSU girls. The reasons?
They seem more mature then swdish girls, they usually attract me more then blonde swedish girls. And I also love the russian language and the accents it gives on other languages.

But I am "only" 22 years old, am I to young to find a girl?
Alot of the girls you see on the sites are 18-23 years old. But they are looking for 30+ guys :S
Shall I wait until I am 30 or is it okay for me to date girls in FSU?

I think I can attract ladies because I am healthy, hard working and a nice man that is romantic. And the people I have met in Belarus has also said that they consider me to be a good man because I am th person I am.

What do you say guys, am I to young?

Yes, unless you are going to live in the country for a year or two. If you are going to study at
a FSU University, then see if you meet someone, that could be a plan. There are still a zillion
local girls that are still excellent candidates, unless you live in seals breath Alaska or Moose
Fart Canada. Go after the local girls first. If you can't find a local girl who is interested in you
then traveling to the FSU is far more dangerous/difficult to navigate.

These girls are not for entry level daters.

[ML]

Agree with Big Bill.

This searching for a foreign gal is ideal for 'older' guys who are wanting a gal that they cannot achieve in their home country.

They can use their economic advantage to 'trade-up' in some foreign lands.

But guys under age 35 or so can achieve the gal they want right in their own country without the bother and cost of looking overseas.

[2tallbill]

But guys under age 35 or so can achieve the gal they want right in their own country without the bother and cost of looking overseas.

If they can't get a local gal then they need to look at improving themselves until they can.
Hit the gym, lay off the carbs, improve your financial situation. Put some money in the bank.
Straighten/whiten your teeth. Make yourself a catch and a good local girl who be available if
you keep your eyes open. 

If you are too shy, low level of social skills, a recluse, have difficulty talking to women, etc. Fix that.
There are experts, therapists, toast masters etc. Always fix yourself, become the best version of
yourself that you can BEFORE going overseas. What you will find is that when you fix yourself, 
Sally the cute music teacher at the local school will want you to pursue her, marry her and make
babies together.

FSUW are for guys who will either live in the FSU or for guys who went are seeking an excellent
wife after getting divorced.