What the Other Half Wants

[SANDRO43]

And yes, BB, I knew what "rimming" was.  It costs extra on Guam.

Of course it does, if you have to go all the way there to get it . No local practitioners ?

[TexasBoar]

Actually, I think you are talking about setting your sights lower,,, say in the 25-35 y.o. range if you specifically want much younger children.  Frankly, I think that's doable.

Your choice, Kemo Sabe.

Heh. Well put.

Actually, I've been looking basically at profiles of women between 27 and 37, with 29-33 being my 'target zone' . . . roughly 5 to 10 years younger than the AW I date, and of course a few dress sizes smaller.  

~Boar

[Gator]

JB,

Shhhh.  You are telling everyone about my favorite "new" fishing spot.

Actually, Richard (Rvrwind) first gave it away a while ago in another thread:

Rvrwind wrote, There are a lot of educated & intelligent women here & that is a fact. But most of them are over 30 & some single or divorced with a munchkin. Not exactly the group that most of the guys that come here are looking at, much to the dismay of the ladies.

Since you and Richard could not remain silent about where the gold is hidden, I will elaborate (hopefully, I have locked up enough supply that I need not dip into the well again).

RW believe that they are old at 30.  Why?  RM tell them that.  Not only are they fabulous looking, unlike their spoiled younger sisters, they are very appreciative and more forgiving.  Most important, they know what they want.  Also, I like the fact that I do not feel odd when introducing them to my friends.   Imagine what the great looking young 40s women are like.  

Men there is a heart of gold out there.  Why waste your time with someone who probably could never understand who you are?

JB, I think our words will be lost to someone who rates women based on their fondness of rimming.  Why do I try to help?

[jb]

Gator,

Once again you are preaching to the choir. 

[TexasBoar]

Of course it does, if you have to go all the way there to get it . No local practitioners ?

You are a dirty, dirty man, Sandro.  

Guam was the last time it cost, that's all.  

~Boar

[TexasBoar]

JB, I think our words will be lost to someone who rates women based on their fondness of rimming.

Heh heh heh.  I have boardroom humor, break room humor, church picnic humor and locker room humor in my repertoire, Gator.  Today you get the locker room stuff, but in my defense . . . BillyB started it! 

~Boar

[SANDRO43]

You are a dirty, dirty man, Sandro.

I am NOT, and I'll have y'all know that I SING in a choir (http://www.coroban.it), so there .

[jb]

roughly 5 to 10 years younger than the AW I date, and of course a few dress sizes smaller.

I often frequent Wal-Mart at 5 Points.

The good looking girls there are under 15...

Over 25 they have 6 kids and are dress size 16+.

I know what you are talking about.

[TexasBoar]

I am NOT, and I'll have y'all know that I SING in a choir (http://www.coroban.it), so there .

You DO know what "choir practice" means in American slang, don't you, Sandro?  (HINT: read some Joseph Wambaugh).

That said, I think you're one of the more interesting people I've met online.  Full of surprises, you are, full of surprises.

~Boar

[jb]

Well, adios for the night.  I have to get up early in the morning, (I heard the fish are biting).

[SANDRO43]

You DO know what "choir practice" means in American slang, don't you, Sandro?  (HINT: read some Joseph Wambaugh)

Well, imagine MY surprise when our choirmaster ... but that's another story, maybe I'll tell it to some appreciative RBride girl .

[Vaughn]

"choir practice"

Roscoe Rules - one of Wambaugh's celebrated characters. With the sun setting at the scene of a terrible LA accident in which a woman had been decapitated, an elderly Ohio couple pulled up close in their Suburban and asked the officer, "Sir, was anyone hurt?" Roscoe never flinched - he reached inside the front seat, and firmly holding the victim's head by her hair, raised it high and answered "This one got banged up a little!" Geez, I loved that book...

JB,

Shhhh.  You are telling everyone about my favorite "new" fishing spot......
   Imagine what the great looking young 40s women are like.

Gator, I don't have to imagine any more. But for the past few years I've watched men overlook the most luscious section of the vineyard season after season.

[Michelangelo]

Boar,

Frankly, I also think she's hot. 

That's not the problem as I see it.  There are a million gals in Russia that are just as hot, I'd rather see you meet them under other circumstances.  I think that, at your age, if you concentrated on women around 35-40 you might easily find a fine,,, no,,, make that a great woman, to be a mate.  If you do not exclude women with a child, your odds go up exponentially.  The natural national tendency of RMs is to not want to raise another man's kid, consequently a woman with a kid is basically out of luck for finding a husband.  Over 35 she is destined to be an old single mom with no hope of a lasting second marriage.  If she's good looking she can always find a lover for awhile, but there is little likelihood of a permanent relationship. 

If you put yourself out there as a man willing to be considerate of children from a previous encounter of the third kind, (RW/RM) you might be surprised at the reaction you'll get.  There are many true beauties over the age of 35 out there with great educations and enormous potential. 

Just a small suggestion; you've said you will be ready to actually travel early next summer after schools out, in your shoes I might wait till mid-winter, say Jan/Feb/Mar, and place an ad with one of the better MOB agencies.  Get some good professionally done photos of yourself to go in the advertisement, and see what response you get.  If you write a profile stressing those same family values you seems to like, I'll bet you get a good response from some really great women.  If a woman answers your ad you already know she's interested, so after that it should be a cake walk.

Boar, JB has given you some great advice.  You can even find a great and beautiful woman age 25-35 with child .  They will be crazy about you.

I'll also add to JB's professional pictures idea by pointing out that most FSU women don't like facial hair.  Or tattoos :-)   Get a haircut and hide the tattoos :-)

Good luck!

[groovlstk]

Recently we had several threads and posts discussing what FSUW look for in WM, and why. I think it may be interesting to read THEIR point of view (for instance, what they write in their MOB profiles).

Here's a first case :
Age: 35
Height: 167 cm ~ 5ft 5"
Weight: 59 kg ~ 130 lb
Eye color: Blue
Hair color: Ashen
Build body: slim
Education: college
Profession: manager
Occupation: manager
Smokes: No
Zodiac: Pisces
Marital status: divorced
Number of children: 1 child
Child 1 Name: Konstantin
Child 1 age: 17
Child 1 sex: Male
In own words: I am cheerful and active, with various hobbies. I like sport, good music, theaters, walks in the woods. I am sensual, sociable, curious, kind and affectionate. I find an interest in everything new. I enjoy taking care of my relatives. I am a good housewife, friend and lover.
Seeks Partner: I appreciate the reliable, decent and generous men. What do I like about men from abroad? They are family-oriented and ready to bear responsibility for a family; considerate towards women, wives, kind with children; lead a healthy lifestyle. So I made my mind to meet a man from abroad. I have no experience but I trust to luck.
Seeks Partner: 35 - 57 years old
Her location: Moscow, Russia

I find nearly all agency profiles to be terribly bland and general, and perhaps that's the intent so that more men will respond. Here's an example of a REAL profile of a Russian woman, taken from the Russian dating site I used to frequent and translated with Babelfish. Even with the obvious translation problems, it's a million times more genuine and discerning than what you'll find in a typical agency profile. And this profile is no different from the thousands of others on the site, except for specific details:

woman barely for thirty... IT IS HAPPY, CONTENTED BY ITSELF and DOES NOT BURN WITH THE DESIRE to hang family yoke to the neck! : -) Me it is desirable to meet the man, with whom I to smog to feel itself by weak woman...:-) I is demanding to others, but - not more than itself I can propose...) Solving on the site their sexual problems, opportunists, unlucky wretches, obizhennykh by life, pessimists, who suffer the absence of intellect, the Alphonses, "I do not know - that I want", "guess me mysterious", not knowing about the "strong man arm", enormous request - not to disturb! "individuals", who send to me your genitalia, with the proposals to study sex - from what you took, that for the woman happiness - to see you without the pants, moreover in all senses?! But for the finders of "convenient woman" - not with the address, not into that form they glanced! : -) And still - cease in me to ask, 4 itself I do not contradict! Family and family yoke - different things! Or for someone this one and also? : -) -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Acquaintances I will be introduced: with the man at the age of 31-40 years Whom I want to find: MAN, friend and only... and not one of many... Ready to present and honest relations... and not afraid of them... Purpose of the acquaintance: Love, relation give to me the possibility to take off - I will believe you... if this it occurs, I please you - do not break to me wings...:-)

[vwrw]

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 I am a good housewife, friend and lover.
Seeks Partner: I appreciate the reliable, decent and generous men. What do I like about men from abroad? They are family-oriented and ready to bear responsibility for a family; considerate towards women, wives, kind with children; lead a healthy lifestyle. So I made my mind to meet a man from abroad. I have no experience but I trust to luck.
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It sounds to me illogical. To like or to not like something about foreign men woman needs to have an experience of communication with them. She said she have no experience. Then where from she knows what she likes about men from abroad? And woman needs to have met a lot of men to state that many of them are… in other case her words are not based. Ungrounded compliments are flattery (lie).  Flattery and promises cost nothing for the person who says it but usually they cost a lot for who listen to it.     
Obviously, the other half wants to seduce a man.

[SANDRO43]

Obviously, the other half wants to seduce a man.

Don't they all ?

[vwrw]

Don't they all ?

Maybe it only seems to you?

[SANDRO43]

Maybe it only seems to you?

I certainly HOPE so, it only happened to me once so far . And you should have your new avatar see a dentist, it's missing the 1st upper right premolar .

[Bruce]

What the other half wants..............................Rocky Aoki (Benihanna founder) said it best,

" Money isn't everything, its just 99%."   

[jb]