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Offline Elen

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« Reply #450 on: September 02, 2005, 12:32:55 AM »
Ah! males could think only about one thing even on their deathbed:X:D
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« Reply #451 on: September 02, 2005, 02:37:36 AM »
Ah. well, both boys made it home safe and sound. mom can sleep again.

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Now really i wonder who would boys who were born in Russia prefer for their  - how do you put there - soulmates? Would they have the same "problems" with american women like many of you had and prefer to seek for girls in Russia or they don't scare by american femimists


I don't think there are too many women who can scare them.  They aren't ready to marry so they are wearing the most provocative cologne of all, "aire of indifference to the charmes of women".  Very few women can stand being treated so casually by a man, as a result I don't think either of them are suffering too much from celibacy.  They send home picture of their latest "conquests" from time to time, and they date some to the hottest girls in town.

Having said all that, they both have very recent college experience and they know all the tricks for getting a foreigner a student visa.  If they choose to marry a girl from "home" they will no doubt go that route since with only a green card that's the easiest way to get their g/fs into the country.    
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« Reply #452 on: September 02, 2005, 03:07:07 AM »
so young Anerican girls are the same to Russian  Wonder WHEN do they turn into those awful american females I heard at american board:D
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« Reply #453 on: September 02, 2005, 03:17:55 AM »
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so young Anerican girls are the same to Russian  Wonder WHEN do they turn into those awful american females I heard at american board:D
Same as the time Russian women turn in to awful creatures.......right after marriage :P
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« Reply #454 on: September 02, 2005, 03:31:28 AM »
Hey you, Shadow  :D Did your bride get her visa? And how much time you have now before she would turn into that "creature" ? :D
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« Reply #455 on: September 02, 2005, 07:31:43 AM »
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so young Anerican girls are the same to Russian  Wonder WHEN do they turn into those awful american females I heard at american board


Yes, there is an American food that turns AW into b!tches and deprived them of all desire for sexual activity... It's called "Wedding Cake".

Joke: Why does the bride always have such a big smile on her face as she walks down the aisle?  Because she knows she has given her last BJ...




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« Reply #456 on: September 02, 2005, 08:36:37 AM »
JB I think you are drunk if you started to tell anecdotes here about BJ :D
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« Reply #457 on: September 02, 2005, 08:49:10 AM »
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I think you are drunk

Not yet, my dear, not quite yet......
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« Reply #458 on: September 02, 2005, 08:57:06 AM »
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Hey you, Shadow  :D Did your bride get her visa? And how much time you have now before she would turn into that "creature" ? :D

 

She got her visa but not for being or having to become my bride :P 

MY country does not have a time limit on marrying, living together is enough and while it may cause some delay even the partner could be changed:?

In fact if she could take a look at my place right now I am not sure she would come at all :shock:

 
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« Reply #459 on: September 02, 2005, 10:38:07 AM »
I'll translate you? Shadow what I asked:D - When do you visit Moscow ?
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« Reply #460 on: September 02, 2005, 10:54:10 AM »
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I'll translate you? Shadow what I asked:D - When do you visit Moscow ?

Some interest Elen ??? :shock::shock::shock:...;)
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« Reply #461 on: September 02, 2005, 11:57:47 AM »
Yes! mercantile one:? He promiced me a slice of cheese and now he don't want to tell me when I should meet him in Domodedovo
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« Reply #462 on: September 02, 2005, 12:20:26 PM »
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Yes! mercantile one:? He promiced me a slice of cheese and now he don't want to tell me when I should meet him in Domodedovo

I hope that the greedy hollander don't give you some holland "Gouda", the more usual cheap cheese that can exist :shock: ...

Maybe i can send you some French camenbert by post... more slow is the post, better it will be... it will be perfect when the cheese go out of the pack from itself and when you are able to smell him from your home when he is coming in airport :D:D...

Don't worry, he need to go in Moscow for pick-up his export product ( his future wife )... soon of later, he will be coming ;)

 
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« Reply #463 on: September 02, 2005, 10:45:15 PM »
I am not saying anything until I get my passport back from the Russian Embassy :P

But the tickets are booked and confirmed.:dude:
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« Reply #464 on: September 03, 2005, 01:53:23 AM »
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But the tickets are booked and confirmed
and money for my cheese are built:cool:
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« Reply #465 on: September 03, 2005, 03:46:40 AM »
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But the tickets are booked and confirmed
and money for my cheese are built:cool:[/quote]
That is if I can get the cheese past the customs. That big white machine seems to pick out goods that are not allowed to import. So far my chocolate and candy passed fine. But the big jar of pickles that Indian family was carrying probably is still somewhere in the depot.:shock:
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« Reply #466 on: September 06, 2005, 06:01:00 AM »
I'm down to two girls--one in the US and one FSU girl.  I'm not sure of either one, so I am "looking again" at marriage agencies.

Two things I've noticed...

1)  Most of the girls listed are in their 20s;

2)  Those girls over 30 look older than an American girl of the same age.

Maybe life had been tougher and FSU girls age faster in the FSU, as do men?

I'm 47, so I'd rather have a girl over 35, in terms of age difference considerations.

But I do like beauty as well as intelligence and personality, so it looks like I am back to considering girls 25-30...

My first FSU girl friend told me she wanted to get married by age 27--after that you were "old" in the FSU.  Those were her words.  And she wanted a man in his 30s or 40s.

So the reality is, an age difference of 20 years is common.  And in my experience, it's ok.  A girl of 27 from the FSU is more mature than a girl of the same age in the US.
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« Reply #467 on: September 06, 2005, 06:20:52 AM »
There are plenty of good looking women over 30 in the fsu.

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« Reply #468 on: September 06, 2005, 06:32:48 AM »
Yes there are, and for those of you who  know a little about Ukr., most all follow the doctors orders!!
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« Reply #469 on: September 06, 2005, 07:04:04 AM »
I realize there are lots of nice looking women in Ukraine over 30.  

Maybe that is a good reason to visit and look beyond agencies, who mostly capture younger girls?  

Plus, let's admit it--pictures and profiles do not capture the essence of a woman.  That's why it's better to visit than to just window shop... :)

p.s.  It's a slow day at RWD, so I thought we needed something to talk about :)
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« Reply #470 on: September 07, 2005, 01:05:37 AM »
 Without question there are many attractive and even beautiful ladies in the FSU between 30 and 35, the question is are you ready to either accept the child she already has or start a family of your own within the first year together?

 Without question the vast majority of ladies from the FSU in 30 to 35 year old age group who do not yet have a chile will want at least one, so are you ready to be the father of a new born at 48 or 49?

 Sense the majority of ladies in this age group will already have a child (or 2?) are you ready to accept the child (children?) and all of the parental issues that go along with having a step child (children)? Depending on the age of the child (children) your discipline and parenting issues could be a real issue and then their is the costs, do you have the finical resources to support such a family for at least the first year to 18 months without your lady working?

 These are real issues each man needs to answer for himself and though you can find a lady in this age group who is not interested in having a family they are rare and difficult to find.
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« Reply #471 on: September 07, 2005, 02:11:16 AM »
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Without question there are many attractive and even beautiful ladies in the FSU between 30 and 35, the question is are you ready to either accept the child she already has or start a family of your own within the first year together?

Without question the vast majority of ladies from the FSU in 30 to 35 year old age group who do not yet have a chile will want at least one, so are you ready to bethe father of a new bornat 48 or 49?

Sense the majority of ladies in this age group will already have a child (or 2?) are you ready to accept the child (children?) and all of the parental issues that go along with having a step child (children)? Depending on the age of the child (children) your discipline and parenting issues could be a real issue and then their is the costs, do you have the finical resources to support such a family for at least the first year to 18 months without your lady working?

These are real issues each man needs to answer for himself and thought you can find a lady in this age group who is not interested in having a family they are rare and difficult to find.
These are very good points, TigerPaws.

Personally, I am most interested in a woman who wants children--with me.

When I look at an agency profile, I first look at single women without chiildren who want children.  I think having children together will help connect the marriage even more.  But I would not rule out anyone who has children of their own, either.  
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« Reply #472 on: September 07, 2005, 05:28:17 AM »
Michael,

 Initially I was considering a lady who already had a child but only if the child was under 3 years old. Then as time went on I changed my mind and decided that if I was going to raise another child I might as find a lady who has yet to have a child and have one of our own then the parenting issues would hopefully be less of an issue.

 From what you have written you are looking for a somewhat older lady, this brings about other issues. Ladies over 35 are at far greater risk of complications than ladies under 30, so maybe you should consider ladies in the 29 to 33 year old range? What you need to look at is the time issue, figure 6 months to meet the lady and another 6 at best to bring over here. If she is say 32 that would make her 33, then add another 6 months before conception and then 9 months for the delivery by then she is over 34 years old at the time of your childs birth.

 Just some toughts to consider, think in the terms of time it takes to meet, finish the K1 and for your lady to settle in to her new home. If you start ith a lady who is 35 she would be at least 38 by the time she has your child? That well within the high risk age for women and the child.

 

 
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« Reply #473 on: September 07, 2005, 05:54:44 AM »
Yes, TigerPaws, you are correct.  That is why I will have to "live" with the age difference and seek someone under 35.   And quite frankly, a 26 year old girl I met in Ukraine is more mature that many of the ladies I know here that are my age!

When I started this search, my goal was to quickly find a wife.  Now, with experiences both good and bad, I think the goal is to meet and date girls, with the hope that something might develop along the way.  But in the meantime, I've learned to "kick back" and just enjoy myself and the girls I meet and date...
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« Reply #474 on: September 07, 2005, 08:26:05 AM »
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But in the meantime, I've learned to "kick back" and just enjoy myself and the girls I meet and date...
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There are plenty of good looking women over 30 in the fsu.

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Ahmen to that Brother KC!!!:D

I live in a district of Tver that is just over flowin' with plenty of good lookin' ladies over thirty & some real babes between 25 & 30. Anything younger than that is nothin' more than an arm candy toy. The problem with most of these ladies now is very few of them are interested in marrying a foreign man & leaving their home. It is much better livin' here now & even more choice amoung local men so why leave & make your life more difficult.

My favorite hobby is standing on the balcony & watchin' the babes go by. Sometimes my wife joins me & even points them out to me,:), I got a good one.

No shortage of good lookin' mature women here and thats a fact.

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