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Re: RW's at 40+
« Reply #125 on: December 26, 2006, 09:47:47 AM »
I agree with Ken.  I have respect for both you guys. You each have a lot to offer.

BUT>>>>> This is getting  bit out of hand. Can we go back to RW's at 40+  ??????  Please?
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Re: RW's at 40+
« Reply #126 on: December 26, 2006, 09:56:53 AM »
I already said in my last post that I thought that was a good idea.  Someone post something about older women to get us back on track here. 

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Re: RW's at 40+
« Reply #127 on: December 26, 2006, 10:01:22 AM »
Can we go back to RW's at 40+  ??????  Please?

How's this:


Okay . . . she's got two years to go still.  But still.  :D

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Re: RW's at 40+
« Reply #128 on: December 26, 2006, 10:03:31 AM »
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 Good Answer!! Good Answer!! Way To Go!!  :clapping:
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Re: RW's at 40+
« Reply #129 on: December 26, 2006, 10:27:47 AM »
Just to help keep this on track we have had some discussions about can women be over 40 and still attractive.  I am going to attach a couple of photos of the oldest gal I wrote to.  This gal by the way was 52.   I had tons of photos from her and they were recent. 

I think she is not bad looking at all for her age and if anyone wants her contact info pm me.  I will add also in case anyone is interested her English seems good and she seems like a very nice gal as well. 

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Re: RW's at 40+
« Reply #130 on: December 26, 2006, 10:52:12 AM »
Here's my contribution ...
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Re: RW's at 40+
« Reply #131 on: December 26, 2006, 10:57:18 AM »
Nice examples, although I guess not applicable since I just turned 30 2 months ago :)

Shows that they enjoy keeping fit and upbeat! Not shabby for sure. I think that they make good candidates for my stepfather for sure...  ;)
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Re: RW's at 40+
« Reply #132 on: December 26, 2006, 12:53:58 PM »
Ken,
     Is there anyone that you don't look down on?

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Re: RW's at 40+
« Reply #133 on: December 26, 2006, 01:10:50 PM »
Ken,
     Is there anyone that you don't look down on?

Not sure what I said to make you say that. Can you explain please?

Ken
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Re: RW's at 40+
« Reply #134 on: December 26, 2006, 02:10:34 PM »
I hope we can stay on the subject, but I had the feeling he was refering to KenC,  Ken. 

Lets get back to the older gals.

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Re: RW's at 40+
« Reply #135 on: December 26, 2006, 02:54:46 PM »
Here's my contribution ...
And a very fine contribution they are, too!  Thanks for sharing.
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Re: RW's at 40+
« Reply #136 on: December 26, 2006, 03:09:19 PM »
I don't usually tell people what to do or what to think (as long as they believe in every thing I say!!) just kidding. But I think we should give Turbo and his fine wife to be a break, and the benefit of the doubt, we don't know these people, we only know them thru there words on this forum, and I have seen nothing but respect from T\G. i will give you 2 examples of what Turbo is doing, personally, and how it worked out.
1) Grandfather & Grandmother were introduced and 2 weeks later were married, they spent the next 59 years together, until pops passed away.

2) Mom and Stepfather, worked together for one month, Stepfather quit his job so he could date Mom, dated for about a month, got married, we just celebrated their 30th anniversary 2 weeks ago and he is 19 years older than my Mom.

my point is, how about a little optimism for this couple. I personally think it will work out! and wish them all the luck and happiness in the world! that's my 2 centavos
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Re: RW's at 40+
« Reply #137 on: December 26, 2006, 03:21:20 PM »
Thank you Louie.  I appreciate the nice comments and the optimism.   All I know at this point is that we both have a lot of respect and feeling for the other.  We have a lot in common and really good communication.   We are going into this with our eyes open.  If I did not think it would work out I would not be doing it but life is always a gamble.

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Re: RW's at 40+
« Reply #138 on: December 26, 2006, 03:38:40 PM »
Here's my contribution ...
And a very fine contribution they are, too!  Thanks for sharing.
KenC

I dunno, Ken . . . that second one of Sandro's looks like kinda like she misses her whip!  :o

Them European men have such advanced tastes, sometimes.  :D

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Re: RW's at 40+
« Reply #139 on: December 26, 2006, 06:24:10 PM »
And a very fine contribution they are, too!  Thanks for sharing.
KenC


I dunno, Ken . . . that second one of Sandro's looks like kinda like she misses her whip!  :o

Them European men have such advanced tastes, sometimes.  :D

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Yeah, but maybe I like a woman with a whip!
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Re: RW's at 40+
« Reply #140 on: December 26, 2006, 06:33:34 PM »
You're not a Russ Meyer fan by any chance, are you, Ken?  ;D ;D ;D

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Re: RW's at 40+
« Reply #141 on: December 26, 2006, 07:16:43 PM »
I don't usually tell people what to do or what to think (as long as they believe in every thing I say!!) just kidding. But I think we should give Turbo and his fine wife to be a break, and the benefit of the doubt, we don't know these people, we only know them thru there words on this forum, and I have seen nothing but respect from T\G.
Louie,
Let me be the first to correct you, VWRW is not Turbos's wife, she is his fiancee and they have spent 2 whole weeks together in the last month or so.  This has been a wonderful thread wondering from 40+ RW, to shoes and scotch with a lot of kibitzing and kidding between the guys until VWRW attacked my wife's character by quoting a post from another thread here.  (Which was off topic BTW) I also took exception to Turbo equating two hot weeks in the sack with his babe of the moment to an 8 year relationship I have had with my wife.  And you want me to give them a break? Forgetabout it.

I have continuously been supportive of the possibilities of success to VWRW and Turbo with keeping a watchful eye on my BS meter when something is posted that is not logical or happens to be misleading.  I do think that that is a responsibility that all members of experience have here.  (To keep the information clear for newbies) 

Your two examples are wonderful stories, but not very relevant to Turbo/VWRW.  Divorce was not the norm years ago during your Grandparents time, 19 years difference is half of their 38 years and I assume that there was no cultural or language hurdles to overcome.
Most people would say that they didn't have a snowballs chance in hell of having a long term successful marriage, but I did want to hope for the best.  Now they take a hike.  They deserve what they get.
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Re: RW's at 40+
« Reply #142 on: December 26, 2006, 07:28:47 PM »
I dunno, Ken . . . that second one of Sandro's looks like kinda like she misses her whip!
Sorry, could not find any whip photo for 47 y.o. However, she states Occupation: seller, hairdresser-visagiste, so maybe she has one in her toolkit for hard-skinned clients ;).
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Re: RW's at 40+
« Reply #143 on: December 26, 2006, 08:03:18 PM »
Sandro,
She scares me and yet still attracts me too.  Like a moth to a flame.  Yowser!   :hairraising: :hairraising: :hairraising: :hairraising:
What a way to go!
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Re: RW's at 40+
« Reply #144 on: December 26, 2006, 08:15:20 PM »
Despite my ongoing reservations about the "league" discussions that erupt here from time to time . . . I'm gonna go out on a limb and say she's just flat out of mine, lol.

Me, she just skeeeers.  ::)

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Re: RW's at 40+
« Reply #145 on: December 26, 2006, 08:21:47 PM »
She scares me and yet still attracts me too.  Like a moth to a flame. 
To goad you further :crackthewhip: :
I am a cheerful, understanding lady with a good sense of humor. I like music, psychology books.
About man: Age: 40 - 60
                   I am looking for a kind, provided, generous man.
 

But if you have this hitherto-undisclosed dark side, you should reconsider your next gift to Lena ;).
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Re: RW's at 40+
« Reply #146 on: December 26, 2006, 08:23:53 PM »
Like a moth to flame. Me thinks someone is going to get their butt burned or at least their wings singed.

Boar, I was thinking the same as you. There are some clubs in downtown NYC, where I can see her being the mistress of......something. Then again, she could be the nicest person you would want to meet. ;)
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Re: RW's at 40+
« Reply #147 on: December 26, 2006, 09:01:07 PM »
Despite my ongoing reservations about the "league" discussions that erupt here from time to time . . . I'm gonna go out on a limb and say she's just flat out of mine, lol.

Me, she just skeeeers.  ::)

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What are you talking about?  The lady you posted is a fox!  I actually prefer Sandro's other lady better than this one too.  But still.........there's something there with this one too.
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Re: RW's at 40+
« Reply #148 on: December 26, 2006, 09:10:18 PM »
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The lady you posted is a fox!

She is, isn't she? If I go forward with all this . . . I'd consider myself pretty darn lucky finding someone like that.

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But still.........there's something there with this one too.

I'm gonna take your word for it, lol.  She's pretty, sure, and a hardbody (which at 47 is an amazing accomplishment) but . . . man.  I'm sure she's got a soft side somewhere but it definitely doesn't show up in photographs!  ;)

I like women a bit, uhmm, friendlier looking.  With a bit more "girly" to 'em.

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Re: RW's at 40+
« Reply #149 on: December 26, 2006, 09:17:25 PM »
The nice thing about this world is we all have different ideas of what we find attractive but to be honest most of these strike me as scary. 

 

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