I am New here but I am here to Help

[irina]

Hello!
I would like to introduce myself. My name is Irina. I am from a beautiful resort Russian town, Sochi. I am the owner of a matchmaking personalized service agency AmazingLoves.com
Let me tell me a little about myself. I have been in matchmaking for about 7 years but I started my own business a year ago. I have a degree in Linguistics and Psychology. Probably that is why I am so interested in doing this kind of service.

 We specialize in one on one service with our male clients and our lady clients.  All the women who are on our site we know personally for a long time, we know their background and their serious attitude and strong desire to find a husband and love of their life. With all that said it makes us not an agency for everyone. We do reject some men as clients who we find are not serious or in other ways unsuitable.


We can only work with people who are marriage minded. It is very important to us as we take our job as a great responsibility because the motivation of our lady clients is a happy marriage. We believe in honest and open communication with both men and women clients, provide individual approach to each client’s needs and desires, which helps to match people together and create happy families. We give psychological portraits of women and provide psychological counseling for those who wants it. We keep interests of our clients at heart.
 

All of the women in our agency are waiting to meet a man of their dreams to fall in love with, start a family and make the marriage work. 

May be one of them is waiting for you.
Thank you.
 
Irina D.

[KenC]

Welcome Irina,
Are you the lady that helped Don from Arizona hook up with his beautiful wife Yulia?  You know they are both currently in Sochi right now.
KenC

[TexasBoar]

Welcome~!

Interesting site, but you should know you misspelled your profile link.  Left out the second "a" in "amazing." 

~Boar

[vwrw]

Welcome to RWD.
From Irina:
All the women who are on our site we know personally for a long time,…

For a long time?... Do the women have problems if they could not cause men’s serious intentions for a long time? Just wondering.

[IAmZon]

Welcome.

The representations that your site makes are well balanced, stressing selectivity and psychological wellness (most of the common representations certainly stress the opposite).

There are many newbies, like me, that are more than curious, but still searching for a handle.  Your perspective and remarks may provide something that others lack.

(JB, AJ, et all:  I am not tripping over myself to welcome another RW:)  I am just desiring new perspectives.  Even one's that have a possible built-in conflict of interest are worth a try to me)

[irina]

Thank you both for your nice warm welcomes, it makes me feel very good to be on this site. Very good beginning to get replies from two guys within 5 minutes of being here! That will make me want to go on this site more often than I expected.

Oh, TexasBoar, thank you so much for pointing out my little mistake. I think you are a doll for helping me

Irina D.

[Louie]

Irina, do you have to join and pay just to look at the profiles?

[irina]

Welcome to RWD.

For a long time?... Do the women have problems if they could not cause men’s serious intentions for a long time? Just wondering.

No I would not say they have a problem except finding the right man. As you may know there are so many single women in Russia who have a hard time finding the right man to love. Not there aren’t many good men here in Russia , because there are many but unfortunately most are married. The Ladies of our agency are waiting and hoping for the right kind of man be he in Russia or someplace else. They do not want to settle for less than what their hearts desire. Why should anyone.

Thank You,

Irina D.

[irina]

Irina, do you have to join and pay just to look at the profiles?

Hello Louie and thank you for your question.

No, men do not need to join or to pay to browse the profiles, but we do ask men to fill out a profile sheet so that we can get to know them. We want to make sure as best we can, that they are serious minded guys and not keyboard Romeos. We want to protect our Ladies from being deceived by those types of men.

If you or any other man wants to browse the profiles we ask you to fill out the profile sheet. The link to it is listed at the bottom.  I will review the profile and I will then send you personal access information for the full catalog. Please disregard the payment information.  That is only for men who wish to be trial members. We do not accept full members until after they are trial members. This step is very important! We wish to establish a two way trust during the trial period and to make sure the men are serious and I hope you do not mind me saying this but we need to try as best we can to be certain that they are stable and serious. As you may imagine there are some men who have problems that we find unsuitable to be involved in our agency. We take this very seriously and yes- we have rejected several men so far.

Let me say something else. I do not believe any man should join mine or any other agency unless a lady or ladies profiles match his requirements for a life partner. Lets face this is not a game. This search is all about the heart and our deepest emotions.

A man and a woman for that matter should look anywhere and everywhere for  the love of their life.

Link to profile page

http://www.amazingloves.com/index.php?go=Page&id=8


Again thank you and best of Luck to you Louie in finding your own lady to love forever 

Irina D.

[Rvrwind]

As you may imagine there are some men who have problems that we find unsuitable to be involved in our agency. We take this very seriously and yes- we have rejected several men so far.

I certainly agree with that. In fact more fall into this caragory than I care to admit.
Welcome aboard Irina, nice to get to know the compitition albeit distant competition. I have heard some good things about you & your company, keep up the good work & I wish you much success.

[vwrw]

From Irina:
As you may know there are so many single women in Russia who have a hard time finding the right man to love. Not there aren’t many good men here in Russia, because there are many but unfortunately most are married.

Irina, thank you for your explanation.
Many women are single… many men are married…Interesting…Are men getting married each other in Russia? 

[viking]

http://www.amazingloves.com/index.php?go=News&in=view&id=15

Small problem. That is Daknack in the photo. He is a member here. And he is not engaged, as far as I know.

[viking]

Irina

Sorry. I did an oops. Mitch is engaged, not Matt. I did not read down one more line. My apology. But not a bad picture of him. Looks like he was having a good time.

[Rvrwind]

Irina, thank you for your explanation.
Many women are single… many men are married…Interesting…Are men getting married each other in Russia?

vwrw - not sure why you throwing digs at Irina, territorial woman thing maybe?
But the obvious answer is there are more women than men & on top of that the demographics are skewed.
Lots of older men, over 40, very little below that because they get drafted & killed off in all these stupid little wars that Russia keeps insisting on getting involved in. Not so much nowadays but past history is catching up.
Also if you look at the demographic you will find that the largest age group of women looking is 30 to 45, where most of the men are looking for 20 - 30. So the 30 - 45 can be at an agency for a long time & even longer if they are fussy. I know women that have been listed at agencies for over 5 years, some a lot over, so it ain't unusual if like I said if she is picky about the man she wants.
My wife was in the agency for six years, before we met she had only met 2 other foreign men. The demographic is what tells the story.
Most men miss all the good ones because they concentrate on the top 20 - 100 in any agency, when some of the best ladies are no where near that group. Those are the ones I personally avoid. Gold doesn't float on the surface but is usually found beneath.

[Gator]

Fool's gold does not float either, but it is lighter than gold nuggets.

There are many gold nuggets over 30 if one takes the time to look for them.  And while not starved for attention, they are very appreciative of men's attention.  The best part - they know what they want.

Please tell me about the men.   Did you read Kuna's thread in Odds and Ends about Western men?  How many resemble what he described?

Irina is asleep now, and I guess Richard you are up early or working really late.  I think Irina was saying that the many GOOD Russian men are already married.  Those not married do not have the means to support a woman or they are not interested in marriage (or indeed they are "bad" men).

[William3rd]

On the flip-side, ALOT of good american women are also married-and stay married. When you have a diamond, you dont let it go.

Seems that most of the available american women are damaged or carrying a lot of baggage as we get older.

Notice that I am not referring to the looks department-only the personalities.

[El Rock]

They  charge you $150  for the firsrt month , if you qualify , it's  $1,500  a year 

Imagine , for every man that signs up , pays $150  for the   "wait and see if we like you period "   .
If  20 men  give them $150 ,  that's $3,000  just   so they can spent a month deicde if they like you ot not .
If they like you , then you get to pay an additional $15  hundred 
for the   year .

They make very good money  no matter what !!

Smart ladies

[Daknack]

I will vouch not only for Ira, but her agency and its methods.

There is one other agency I would have worked with and that is Richard's (Rvrwind) agency.  BTW, for those that are looking I recommend looking at the ladies he has as well as Ira's... theres several that are stunning (One that made me do a few double and triple takes too).

Viking... Trust me I am handsome in every picture!

As for the issue of the man vs woman ratio thing.  I will say in Moscow, I think there was about 50-50 ratio among all age groups (from what I saw).  In Sochi, I would say the ratio was perhaps 60-40 favoring women (which can you really say its favoring women when that means men have more choice?).  In addition to that, I would no say that I think the men in Russia (either in Moscow or Sochi) are of poor quality.  The ones that I came to know were first rate and I very much enjoyed thier company (although I admit of those only two were single).  I would say overall I found the russian men to be better company and more sociable than many of my Amercian counterparts.

As for how Ira and everyone comes to know each other the answer is really so simple I feel kinda silly saying it.  They know each other because for the most part most of them have been friends for years.  They have fun with each other talk on the phone have meals, go to the gym.  In short they know thier personalities from personal association.  I met several of the women on thier site and I would say they are all pretty top quality people for the most part.  I believe Maxx said somewhere something like "the good run with the good, and the bad run with the bad".  Take this as the good running with the good IMO.

As for the fees, I can admit, they can be pretty steep compaired to some of the other agencies, however, when compared both to the service I got, and I think the dependability of the quality of people in thier network I think I would have been foolish to try a "cheap" way out.  Im a pretty crusty and fussy guy about trust issues and I would say that Ira, and Richard are the tops in terms of trust.  When looking for a mate and life partner thats a quality that is priceless (at any cost).

[DonAz]

I happen to know Irina very well and I’ve known her for several years. I consider her to be a friend. A friend, who has been both helpful and informative to both my Wife Yulia, and I

As Irina mentions, her agency is not for everyone nor should it be. Irina stated that a man should not join any agency, including hers unless they read a profile and think that Lady maybe someone they would be interested in meeting and forming a relationship. I concur with that statement. There are many different avenues to go down in the search for a lady to share your life with. They all have there merits.

IMO if a man did find a Lady on amzazingloves.com that thy are interested in then I can tell you, without any reservations, that as a member you will get incredible personal service that is well worth the fee. But don't join any agency just for the heck of it or write to any woman anywhere just for the heck of it. Do it for all the right reasons.

I think we all may know some guys who do not want to spend the money or do not like agencies and do things on there own. That is fine of course but do we not know some guys who went to the FSU several times and because they wanted to do things on the cheap, then  came back  here with horror stories of every kind?

I know one guy who told me that he would never spend that kind of money for an agency. I told him well that’s fine with me, I don’t really care, if it works for you more power to ya. Well this guy has been to the FSU 4 times, spent a fortune and is still lonely. I mention him because he sticks out in my mind as a know it all, he can not be told anything and he will not listen and possibly learn something that may benefit him.

As the wise man said “ Only a fool knows everything”!

I noticed that on this thread there are some who may be cynical. That’s cool, there is room for that as long as it is meant to be constructive and not disruptive or just plain bad faith baiting. I don’t think Irina would answer the disruptive and baiting folks. Knowing Irina as I do she I will let them stand alone unobserved by her and without rising to the bait. She has too much class for that and prefers to let them think what they want. It is unimportant to her I’m sure.

I am not the kind of person to pin my reputation and credibility to anyone or any entity unless I know that they possess 100% integrity and are congruent in person, and business ( congruent= thinking , saying and doing exactly the same thing at all times ).

Having said that I can and do vouch for Irina's  integrity and honesty!

I state this and vouch for them in the hope that some guys will find a Lady to fulfill their dreams and live a life they Love… Just like I have… and life is soooo good ..

Thank you Dear God !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

As a disclaimer ---“ I do not have any interest financial or otherwise in this or any other agency!!!”


Nor would I!! Way to much of a pain in the butt dealing with all the emotions involved in dealing with the affairs of the heart of other people. Ain't got the patience or desire to do it!... Besides that there ain't enough money in it ( just ask Richard )  to make me wanna work--my own business is easy, very  profitable and requires less then 10 hours of my time every week and it sure beats real work…especially owning an agency ....

Like I said above life is soo good Sooooo good indeed

DonAz

[vwrw]

They  charge you $150  for the firsrt month , if you qualify , it's  $1,500  a year 

Imagine , for every man that signs up , pays $150  for the   "wait and see if we like you period "   .
If  20 men  give them $150 ,  that's $3,000  just   so they can spent a month deicde if they like you ot not .
If they like you , then you get to pay an additional $15  hundred 
for the   year .

They make very good money  no matter what !!

Smart ladies

Now I have not anymore questions. I understood why FOR A LONG TIME you personally know ALL the women who are on your site.

[jb]

Frankly, I rather like Irina's approach to the match making.  What she say's makes a lot of sense to me.

It goes without saying, there are some men, and women, who are just not cut out for it.

[El Rock]

There is a big sea of fish out there  and they have a spoon full of water .
Amazing loves
http://www.amazingloves.com/

I am looking for a lady over 40 , and they have only 6 .

Amazing Loves  will not work with black men .

Still , I believe they are a quality  agency  , as DonAz  does .

[TexasBoar]

Amazing Loves  will not work with black men .

I didn't see this indicated anywhere on their site, Rock . . . do you know of a black AM personally who was turned down by them, on the basis of his race?

It's not that unusual for the FSU, from what I hear, and, well, not a policy I object to, frankly, although they're far too pricey for it to matter.

~Boar

[DonAz]

Frankly, I rather like Irina's approach to the match making.  What she say's makes a lot of sense to me.

It goes without saying, there are some men, and women, who are just not cut out for it.

Jb~ I had to smile as I read your post. I have to tell you and Kenc for that matter, a thought I had several months ago, but first some background. During my previous  trip here to Sochi I was with Irina while she was on the phone with a guy from the States. This guy was in his early 60's and looking for a Lady around 25. he thought that because he is very wealthy he can have any woman he wants.

Well I'd like to tell ya she spoke to him in a way that kind of reminded me of the both of you. She didn't use a clue bat though, she used a war club, ya know the ones that may resemble a bat but with a bunch stones imbedded in it. She gave it to this guy but good. She called him everything but a gentleman. Needless to say he was rejected on the spot!!

As any of is us who are  married to Russian Women can attest ~ there ain’t no wrath like a Russian woman who is  pissed off!

I actually winced while listening to her barrage and almost felt bad for the guy.

The thought I had is  that Irina seemed to me to be a female version of both you and my very dear friend Kenc. She does not broker any nonsense or B/S from anyone!!

She tells it like she sees it, without a flowery language!
 


DonAz

[DonAz]

There is a big sea of fish out there  and they have a spoon full of water .
Amazing loves
http://www.amazingloves.com/

I am looking for a lady over 40 , and they have only 6 .

Amazing Loves  will not work with black men .

Still , I believe they are a quality  agency  , as DonAz  does .

IIRC there are about 15 or so Ladies over the age of 40 on the website. You may want to e-mail Irina and get free access to the whole catalog of profiles.

I was very surprised when we told me that she does not accept  black men as clients and I wanted to why- she told me flat out that none of the Ladies are interested in black men so why mislead anyone, better to let it be known right up front and not waste her time or that of the men.

Nothing like blunt Russian women..eh?

DonAz