I need Advice.

[vwrw]

From J/C:
First of all nobody is teaching here,second  the person asked for Advice, if you are not attentive and please be polite think what are you saying!think before you post anything be so kind:)

I do not remember I asked you an Advice what I should do before posting. Leave your teaching for yourself. 

From J/C:
and here you wrote nonsense " if absence of contacts and safety does not stop him ", why then he is writing here

The first where I said the person is writing here? The second I hope you do not mean asking questions on RWD is the same as a stop in getting goal.

From J/C:
If his mentality is such of a higher level cos he is rich according to your thinking, then am sorry why he writes stupid things about his trip and asks for advice? Believe me money wont add your brains!:)

It was you, not me who connected this author's post with having millions in one expression. As about my thinking, of course, money does not add brains to person BUT having earned money witnesses person has brains.
Why asking for advices and high level of mentality are incompatible?   

From J/C:
Wealthy men will never go and risk their fortune in order of something they never experienced , on the contrary some of them enjoy comfort and stability and Safety(you did not like this word so much ..)

The key word here is some. Other else of wealthy men often have to take risk especially in their business. And some of them get used to it so much that begin to feel UN – alive without the emotions taking risk provides them.
I begin to doubt you are a Master of psychology if you do not understand so elementary things.

I do not like word – stupid according to person’s actions who asks questions and I have nothing against word – Safety. So you have one more wrong conclusion.

[vwrw]

From I/O:
Me thinks someone made an assumtion about who is engaged to who.  Maybe it's time to get Jon in here, then it might be assumed you are engaged to two guys.     Even more confoooooooooosion then. 

I/O, maybe your confoooooooooosion caused by your mistaken thinking that someone made the assumtion

[I/O]

From I/O:
Me thinks someone made an assumtion about who is engaged to who.  Maybe it's time to get Jon in here, then it might be assumed you are engaged to two guys.     Even more confoooooooooosion then. 

I/O, maybe your confoooooooooosion caused by your mistaken thinking that someone made the assumtion

Maybe, but it still doesn't explain my relevance to this discussion at that point in time.   

I/O

[Jazzyclassy]

To Legal and his Olga

     I find it very interesting how a young woman sitting in Moscow can give authoritative advice to American men in American culture.   I would like to know how many men sitting in America are giving advice to Russian woman having never even been to Russia?   

LEGAL           

You know that is amazing that you find it interesting , Why can  you all here  give advices and I can not? where is  equality?
the same question to you here , who are you to give advices , we are all equal here , so do not start your insulting as you think you are talking smart  in here, I never insulted you both , so if you are married a Russian woman and she is married  an American man  that does not give you right to bring people down , plus you are much more older than me and  are on   the same level as me as I can assume right now by all your posts relating  towards my words


 I write what I find necessary  here and it is up to this person if he is reading this or ignoring, do not read my posts if they are irritating  to you so much, you just want another occasion to  scold and to point out how bad I am  , am tired of  such kinda people like you , who only  find lacks of people and try to correct them all the time, Do You know me to tell me anything of what you already said???

you know what's funny this Makking  the author of the topic never told me anything bad and you, who have nothing to do with this topic were already hounding all your dogs on me... so think about it

To this strange lady with wvwww I do not know her name

please just leave your thoughts to yourself , too proud that  you are living somewhere else??? or anything,  so keep it friendly here, I do not understand your English at all , sorry my level is bad can not answer you

[I/O]

it is up to this person if he is reading this or ignoring

Jazz Sometimes we all need to do the ignoring part.  I think it is better, if possible,  to focus on the topic at hand, rather than the people who post. It is after all an internet forum board.

You know Moscow, probably better than anyone here, which is the most prominent example of a large city in the FSU, perhaps some suggestions for a new foreigner when they first arrive?  This board is one, if not, the best sources of info for men travelling to the FSU and we should continue to provide such information.  Let's stay on the topic and leave the static to PM's.

FWIW

I/O

[Mir]

Yes you can meet friendly girls on icq but it can take a lot of time and most FSU girls on icq do not speak much English.I agree that it can be a source to get a free local guide but unlikely to yield a wife/girlfriend.

I don't know why people think that going to FSU is either landing there without a clue or being met by a guide who spoon feeds you everything.There are lots of possibilities in between. One should always book an apartment in advance and airport transfer to the apartment from the same agency.So there will be no problem to get a taxi or getting into the apartment. Most agencies would provide with a map and basic local info and one can make a start.I think if the purpose of this visit is to have a feel of the place and be a tourist this is sufficient and as someone has said safe unless you are looking for trouble.
However I don't think it will be easy finding women this was unless you have excellent social and flirting skills (like Kuna!). Still a trip to the local agency can get you a date or two and you can try your luck.
The main think is to relax and enjoy,even the bad parts of the trip.

[Jazzyclassy]

  Sometimes we all need to do the ignoring part.  I think it is better, if possible,  to focus on the topic at hand, rather than the people who post. It is after all an internet forum board.

                  

Yes I agree , but sometimes it is hard not to answer such people

[Makkin]

Hello JazzyClass,

  Thanks for the suggestions and your opinions about things. I am trying to learn more and more but I think my brain is tired as I have worked for three months or more without a day off..lol I got Christmas day off and I got Thanksgiving day off. I later got a couple of Tuesdays off in a row..lol
  My brain needs a holiday and I hope Ukraine is the answer as I'm sure it will be in many ways. Just imagine getting to wake up when you want to and things like that? Imagine to get to eat the Ukrainian food and try new things. Imagine a nice long dinner with a beautiful woman sitting with you.... Yesss I need the holiday and when I return home I get 11 more days off to paint my home and do all those fun things that rich people do..lol

Your Friend,

Makkin

[Jazzyclassy]

Dear  Makkin

Am glad you  have such attitude sure it is obvious people want to try what they never had and so on this is the matter of curiosity , plus Ukraine is cheap for you so the way to go ,  I have never been to Ukraine but met a lot of different people  from Ukraine and can tell am not positive about them they all made me suffered this or that way  , but that was my personal experience , maybe you will find them stunning hahha

The only advice for you be careful and always be attentive with your documents:)

[LEGAL]

Jazzy,
I'm greeting a youthful ardour and bright - vivid imagination !!!
Where in the  previous posts have you  found  some bad words about you? Why do you - Master of psychology have such low self-appraisal thinking  somebody tries to  offend you? And I again repeat myself - you should be more attentive reading words. (to quote you "such kinda people") I understand sometimes youthful hot temper and imagination blocks good sense   but it is temporary    Please Jazzy explain what "kinda people" we are in your imagination.

Happy Valentine's Day!  



Olga


  


 

[I/O]

I gotta say for a thread that started with a freshman needing advice, he probably doesn't need to read the advice to form his opinions.

The Russian women who have posted in this thread have all earned  respect to some degree or another over time quite seperately, but frankly none of them have crowned themselves or their countrywomen in glory with the content or relevance of their posts in this particular thread.

Olga, Jazz and VWRW, you all have your respective men and don't need to impress anyone, I acknowledge that, but FWIW, you all have much to offer this board, however your collective efforts here are far from your best,  becoming totally irrelevant to the subject and somewhat undignified for women of your calibre.

I/O 

[groovlstk]

Yes you can meet friendly girls on icq but it can take a lot of time and most FSU girls on icq do not speak much English.I agree that it can be a source to get a free local guide but unlikely to yield a wife/girlfriend.

I'll mention this to my wife tonight over Valentine's Day dinner at a local sushi joint, weather permitting

The question asked in the poll you mentioned was "How did you meet your wife or fiancee or serious girlfriend?"
If the poll asked just still married guys, the picture would probably be quite different.  Fiancee's and girlfriends come and go rather quickly around here..

Touche, BC. Maybe this can be the topic of a new poll?

[viking]

Groove

You said " I'll mention this to my wife....." Did your maritial status change recently?

[Mir]

Groove

Note that I wrote unlikely and not impossible

[Pike]

I am very jealous of Legal and Turbo.
Such intelligent women they have found.   
Not too bad looking either, but the brain is most important part.

[Makkin]

Hello,

  Thanks JazzyClass and everyone who posts on this site as it really does help in many ways for someone like myself.

   Maybe it will be the best trip ever and that's what I'm hoping for. Maybe I will sleep and sleep but who knows..lol In all cases it will be fresh and different and loaded with twists that even a fortune teller cannot predict. Just hoping the name plate on my forehead is not in capitalized letters. (DUMBARSE)

Makkin

[vwrw]

I am very jealous of Legal and Turbo.
Such intelligent women they have found.   
Not too bad looking either, but the brain is most important part.

In other words we are looking bad but not TOO …LOL
Pike, thank you for your intention to make compliment. Not too bad one so as the intellect is really the most important part.

[Jazzyclassy]

   Please Jazzy explain what "kinda people" we are in your imagination.
           

this is off top , but you asked about it yourself:P

You are very specific people  and it is not comfortable for me to communicate with you, you provoke very controversial thoughts and provoke to be rude unfortunately, but that is how I see you

To me you are the people with their own complex we all have them,  with very high self esteem and trying to point very hard how old you are and how full of wisdom you are

   I'm greeting a youthful ardour and bright - vivid imagination !!!             

          sometimes youthful hot temper and imagination blocks good sense     

If you had good sense you would never answered my  posts from the start!!!

Let's make a deal you are not provoking me on negative emotions and I am  doing the same:)  Search for another person whom you will correct:)

[vwrw]

From LazyCrazy: (sorry, I am tired to correct myself each time I write her “name”) 
am tired of  such kinda people like you , who only  find lacks of people

Olga, in other words the most people who know her are able to see only her lacks, shortages. I do not believe there are people without virtues at all, probably, her virtues are hidden deeply.

From LazyCrazy:
I have never been to Ukraine but met a lot of different people from Ukraine and can tell am not positive about them they all made me suffered this or that way

I believed not only all of the different people from Ukraine made her suffered but all in all people make her suffered. Obviously, she is very unhappy person.

From LazyCrazy:
You are very specific people and it is not comfortable for me to communicate with you, you provoke very controversial thoughts and provoke to be rude

Here she accuses us she is rude. She does not even realize her behavior is her own choice and that it is she who is responsible for her own behavior and actions. 
I feel a huge pity for her. And I wish her good luck. She needs it.

From Michelangelo:
An old farmer was plowing his field.  A U-Haul pulled over and the driver summoned the farmer over. 

"I'm looking for a good place to live.  How is this place?" said the stranger.

"Well, how was the place you moved from?" asked the old farmer. 

"Terrible!" said the stranger.  "The people were not friendly at all."

"Well," said the old farmer. "You'll find the people here just the same."

So the stranger drove on...

The next week another U-Haul pulled over, and the same conversation ensued.  And that driver drove on, too.

Then next week a third U-Haul came by, and once again, he summoned the old farmer over.

"I'm looking for a good place to live.  How is this place?" said the stranger.

"Well, how was the place you moved from?" asked the old farmer.

"Great!" said the stranger.  "The people there were friendly like you, and the salt of the earth."

"Well," said the old farmer. "You'll find the people here just the same."

So the stranger bought the adjoining farm, and lived there, happy ever after...

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

[Makkin]

wwrw,

  That was a good analogy of life right? It's perception and reality and what you make of your surroundings. I liked that little story.


Makkin

[LEGAL]

Dear Jazzy,

reading the posts you see in the words not what are written but what you want to see. I really can not take you words  seriously   because I understand that your verbal aggression it is just your means of self-defence. But from whom? From us? Oh not, Jazzy, just from yourself  
I'm sorry, Jazzy, that I unintentionally evoked the little Jazzy, who sits inside you and bites your self-respect misunderstanding the words of  perfect strangers and  forcing you to take your stand of self-defence.

Saying "Let's make a deal you are not provoking me on negative emotions and I am  doing the same" you think about your negative emotions of your little Jazzy. I just can guess but I'm sure you are very nice young woman with kind heart of gold.

I'm sorry, Jazzy. I really did not want my words to be a motive for your negative emotions. I'm sorry, Jazzy.
I think it would be better if I will be  more  gentle with you (were my posts too hard for you?) or just to ignore your posts and in that way my words will not hurt your self-respect   Maybe to ignore is better  

I'm subscribing to VWRW's nice words wishing you good luck and to be happy.

Sincerely,  
Olga.

[jb]

Personally, I think this thread has great merit. 

For those men who have bought into the myth that RWs are mild, submissive, and meek women, this thread should disspell any such thoughts.  Russian women are very strong minded and are more than capable and willing to defend their point of view.

Well done girls.

[Makkin]

Hello,

  I agree JB but I also add that most women tend to stay ahead of men in one form or the other. Recent breakthroughs in science show the brain tissue of the female has about seven times the amount of tasking material than a male. The male has three times more logic space matter as I read but who really knows as it gets more complex from that point.
  My opinion without science data is that a woman will be closer to the earth than a man and closer to the feelings of the earth so maybe her priorities are more earthly and that is what I find so appealing and what god has done for us to see the difference.

Makkin

[Jazzyclassy]

     were my posts too hard for you?) or just to ignore your posts and in that way my words will not hurt your self-respect   Maybe to ignore is better               

Thank you that would be perfect:) and yeah  your posts are very hard for me:) sersiously , my level of intellectual resources and of english language  are not that high so am glad that we finally understood each other

All the best to you and good luck as well:)

[I/O]

I wonder if the cats have all finished peeing on the tree.   Not sure which one peed the highest, but it probably doesn't matter.  They all seeeeeeeeeem to be purring happily now.

I/O