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Offline jb

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Re: When the Chase is over
« Reply #25 on: February 20, 2007, 08:28:05 PM »
The joke is:

 AJ picked out an ugly puppy, but got a pretty wife.... It's an old joke between us. AJ knows I think his wife is special,,, she has to be special to put up with his crap 24/7 anyway.  She hates the way he earns a living, yet she is there to put the bandages on every night.  A real wife... What more can I say

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Re: When the Chase is over
« Reply #26 on: February 20, 2007, 08:47:31 PM »
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anyone who knows me, knows i am painfully honest on these forums,, too much so at times actually.

Amen, brother.

Likewise, I don't lie to the brothers either.  Sometimes they get it,,, sometimes they don't.  We are all brothers here, if you do well, we will cheer you on, if you screw up, we will slap you around.  If you cannot become a part of the brotherhood, get lost, we don't need you.

Adios.

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Re: When the Chase is over
« Reply #27 on: February 20, 2007, 09:02:25 PM »
to have an affair is a cop out to NOT fixing your own relationship, or not having the courage to simply end it.
and also a way to  hedge your bets and have something to fall back on, for people who need to have a safety net .
 

And.............how true is this...!!!  Monkeys who swing from branch to branch never being game to let go of one before they grab the next.  Pisses me off severely.

I admit to being rather keen on a "Cute Butt" and my fiancee is well aware or this, in fact it is now something of a joke between us as she quite often points one out in the street.  We were together in the street a few months back and a good butt walked past, she pointed it out and I rolled my eyes a bit.  She laughed and said, "You can look, mine is better", and IT IS too. ;D But then came her killer line and it will not be forgotten.  She remarked thus, "I not worry, you not the thinking man to go another women".  She was deadly serious and not fishing in any way, and I gotta admit it was one of the nicest things to have that expression of confidence from  your partner.  It's a hell of an honor to be thought of in that way and if I ever needed a reason to remain focused, that would be good enough for me......and some..!!!

JB  Brotherhood...gotta watch for that third knuckle handshake. ;)  Wonder who'll make to the 33rd degree. ::) ::)

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Re: When the Chase is over
« Reply #29 on: February 21, 2007, 10:15:34 PM »
Nice pic's AJ but which one is your wife, the blond or the brunette. ;D   Either way they are both beautiful

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Re: When the Chase is over
« Reply #30 on: February 22, 2007, 12:57:12 AM »
If someone is going to the FSU to chase women for the thrill of the hunt, they have something wrong with their head.  Finding a woman this way is a royal pain in the a$$!  I look forward to the day I can post on here complaining about married life and never having to chase down a RW again...

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Re: When the Chase is over
« Reply #31 on: February 22, 2007, 03:37:25 AM »
Chasing women can be a pain anywhere in the world and many would say that the real pain only starts when the chase is over successfully :)
At the same time it can also be fun anywhere in the world,it all depends on how you look at it.

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Re: When the Chase is over
« Reply #32 on: February 22, 2007, 07:47:03 AM »
If someone is going to the FSU to chase women for the thrill of the hunt, they have something wrong with their head.  Finding a woman this way is a royal pain in the a$$!  I look forward to the day I can post on here complaining about married life and never having to chase down a RW again...

DKMM's absolutely right. If you think you can employ coy games and "hunt" a woman who is 5000 miles away--let alone enjoy such antics--you're in for a rude awakening. Ask any guy who's phoned his FSU girlfriend on a Saturday night and found she's not home nor answering her mobile and had visions of Ivan buttering his bread.

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Re: When the Chase is over
« Reply #33 on: February 22, 2007, 11:35:06 PM »
Since it's a man's thing , you know , the "Chase " .
How will you feel when it's all over ?
Run like hell  ?  :D

Do you find yourself  being difficult , settling on one lady , out of fear  the chase  could end  and you'll be committed  ?
You know , there could be a better one around the corner !!
What is more fun ,,,, the "Chase "  or settling  down  with the "Catch" ??
Or "Prize "  , define how you wish ???

Is it too much fun , the trips to FSU   and the  experiences   gained from it ??

Is the  "Chase"  is the most effort  you have put into anything
you've ever done ?

Just some thoughts .

No need to respond  .

Rock

   I was wondering why none of us guys mentioned that this is a boost to one's ego.
  Am I the only one ? And the rest are in denial ?
 While I do /did find it easier to meet women over there than back home,it was fun to meet women who you simply picked out of a profile on the PC. I wasn't there to play games with these girls and lead them on,I was there to find the one for me.
 
 At times the chase was exciting,and sometimes it was something I dreaded. I was there once for 4 months. I don't plan on settling for just any girl, and one can always think he can do better,but there comes a time when you have to stand back and  realise the chase may be over for the better. Because the woman you have is the best for you.

 I have asked some guys I met over there now that they have a FSU woman, "Do you miss the hunt?"  Both say "no ,not at all,glad it's over"
 
 For me personally it has made me a better man,gave me more confidence in meeting women on blind dates,I would of never been able to pull it off prior to going there.
 The chase has dwindled for me and now I'm focused on 2 girls. While I don't enjoy being in this position, I do plan on following my heart,and pursuing the right one for me.

 I'm tired of the chase, I want to reap the reward for once  ! :)







 

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Re: When the Chase is over
« Reply #34 on: February 22, 2007, 11:48:11 PM »
I contacted a gal on Elena's Models  who spoke English  fluently , almost ,
just wanted to hire her   to  get to  know the place a little .
We hit it off and traveled to Madrid Paris  and Lisbon  , back in Sept .
I saw her again  3 weeks ago , in Jan .
She will be here March 3 ,   my chase barely got started .
So far ,  she is a very nice  47  year old  lady with a  great body and  VERY health conscience .
She just got a 5 year multi visa  so , we have 5 years to see if it works out  ;D

I  still contact women  , just in case  this does not work out.
I'd hate to spend  too much time  with her and have it be wasted  .
I need a  back up plan .
The only thing wrong with Elena's Models is , she can see if I am still active there , I can't hid  it , that sucks

 

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