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Offline Bruce

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Re: Bad news
« Reply #25 on: May 25, 2007, 10:10:58 AM »
Sincere condolences.  Next time will work out fine. 
"A word is dead when it is said, some say.  I say it just begins to live that day."  Emily Dickinson

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Re: Bad news
« Reply #26 on: May 26, 2007, 04:10:05 PM »
Scott,

We don't know each other but this has happened twice to us.  Be prepared for horrible hormonal depression.  Just be supportive each day and when you go to bed at night forget most of what has been said.  Wake up the next morning and do it again.  These things happen for good reason.  The weeks will pass and you will be stronger as a couple.  This was our story. I hope it will be yours. Then try again !!

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Re: Bad news
« Reply #27 on: May 27, 2007, 10:17:50 AM »
Scott ,
 our thoughts and prayers are with you both.

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Re: Bad news
« Reply #28 on: May 28, 2007, 07:41:20 PM »
Scott-

It is difficult to be apart at this time from her.  My thoughts and prayer that God will comfort both of you.  Glad she is resting now.  She knows you are there is spirit and thoughts.-jj

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Re: Bad news
« Reply #29 on: May 29, 2007, 06:29:36 PM »
Scott,I am very sorry and can understand youe wife pretty much. But Leslie right,the things happen for some reason. I ve learned that most of natural abortions happen because of some chromosomal or development defects ,so the organism rejecting it. All what happens-happens for better,always remember that. And your next try will be successful,I wish you that very much :D Never ever give up.

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Re: Bad news
« Reply #30 on: May 29, 2007, 07:38:55 PM »
Very, very, sorry, Scot-

Certainly count on two prayers from me:
1, one for you and your wife in this time of loss
2, one for you and your wife to have a healthy baby together and soon


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Re: Bad news
« Reply #31 on: May 30, 2007, 06:55:24 AM »
Again, thanks to everyone for their kind words.  I went through this experience a couple of times with my first wife so it's not quite as traumatic.  The really difficult part about this one was that I could not be there with my wife when she went through this.  She seems to be taking it pretty well and understands that there was a reason why this happened.  When I was practicing medicine I tried to head off a woman's two biggest worries when they had a miscarriage by telling them that 1) it was not her fault and nothing she did caused the miscarriage and 2) It did not mean that she would have problems having children in the future.

With us, we certainly intent to try again.  We'll give it a little while to let her system get back to normal and as healthy as possible.  At my age, I had better get into pretty good shape as well.  It's not easy keeping up with a kidlet even at a young age!

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Re: Bad news
« Reply #32 on: May 30, 2007, 10:22:27 PM »
Scott,
Sorry to read the bad news Scott.  Our support for the future.

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Re: Bad news
« Reply #33 on: June 13, 2007, 11:18:06 AM »
Scott I am so very sorry to hear this news.  I can't imagine what you and your wife are going through - just reading this fills me with sadness for you, your wife and your lost child. 

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Re: Bad news
« Reply #34 on: June 13, 2007, 11:40:25 AM »
Scott, I also feel for you and your wife.
Try to let her know just a little more at this time how very special she is to you.

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Re: Bad news
« Reply #35 on: June 13, 2007, 11:47:01 AM »
I wanted to offer my thougths and prayers to you.  I know what this can do to a woman and couple.  Please keep the faith and when you guys do have success, it will be ever so sweet.

MM

 

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