She wants to visit....

[Dave24]

Hello everyone!!   Haven't posted a very long time, but now I have a situation which
merits a discussion and/or an opinion. I've talked about my RW  Ekaterina(katya) in
previous posts, we've been talking (e-mailing) back& forth for awhile now.This woman
has fallen for me very hard, and now she's asked if it would be o.k if she came to visit
me.She says that we need to take this step to see if we are right for each other. I
would love to finally meet her, but I'm worried that her expectations of me and what
she may think of me may change once she meets me and sees my life(there are some
problems,such as no job, she knows I live with Mom and brother,doesn't know I live
in a mobilehome park(ugh!) and other things that I'm embarrased about. I never,ever
thought she would come here, I technically haven't lied about myself,I just maybe
gave her the wrong impression. Maybe I'm jumping the gun here; she may not even come, but I'm freaked out to the possibility.   Don't know what else; here's a pic!

[William3rd]

would you be so kind as to post some of these letters? Have you compared the content to the Elena's Models Black List?

If you have gone through the archives for this site, there are comprehensive discussions and checklists about this stuff.

Nothing personal-she's hot and you are not. So, what does that tell you?

What does she say when you tell her you are ready to come to her city?

[Daveman]

Hello everyone!!   Haven't posted a very long time,

I'm now under the impression that you are either mentally retarded or trying to have some fun yanking our chains.  I'll make this last response to you under the assumption of the former.

Not a problem Dave that you haven't posted, Dave, the problem, Dave,is that you haven't read the responses to your posts, Dave. You are in lust/love with a picture and you want to believe a pipe dream.

but now I have a situation which merits a discussion and/or an opinion. I've talked about my RW  Ekaterina(katya) in
previous posts, we've been talking (e-mailing) back& forth for awhile now.This woman
has fallen for me very hard, and now she's asked if it would be o.k if she came to visit
me.

No she hasn't, she's after the money you will send to her to finance her false promise of a visit.  She cannot get a visa to travel to meet you.  Regardless of what she says, she will not be able to pop down to the local travel agent, or embassy and get a travel visa to come visit you. It will not happen.

She says that we need to take this step to see if we are right for each other. I
would love to finally meet her, but I'm worried that her expectations of me and what
she may think of me may change once she meets me and sees my life(there are some
problems,such as no job, she knows I live with Mom and brother,doesn't know I live
in a mobilehome park(ugh!) and other things that I'm embarrased about. I never,ever
thought she would come here, I technically haven't lied about myself,I just maybe
gave her the wrong impression. Maybe I'm jumping the gun here; she may not even come, but I'm freaked out to the possibility.   Don't know what else; here's a pic!

You have nothing to worry about because you will *never* meet her.  Never. 

I say, when she asks you for money, please offer her twice as much, no, three times as much and simply send it to her.. go down to your local airport and wait for her to arrive.  Then she'll show you how much she really loves you.  Give her a kiss from me.

Dave

[Lily]

  what she may think of me may change once she meets me and sees my life(there are some
problems,such as no job, she knows I live with Mom and brother,doesn't know I live
in a mobilehome park(ugh!) and other things that I'm embarrased about. I never,ever
thought she would come here..

Dave24, most likely she will not feel good when seeing all this. IMHO your job problem is the worst thing.

Did you ever thought of improving your situation first before thinking of bringing in a wife from abroad?

[catzenmouse]

I would love to finally meet her, but I'm worried that her expectations of me and what
she may think of me may change once she meets me and sees my life(there are some
problems,such as no job, she knows I live with Mom and brother,doesn't know I live
in a mobilehome park(ugh!) and other things that I'm embarrased about. I never,ever
thought she would come here, I technically haven't lied about myself,I just maybe
gave her the wrong impression.

This alone totally disqualifies you to even look for a FSUW. Find a nice girl from the next row of trailers, have a dozen babies, go on welfare, and continue to live with mama.

 

[catzenmouse]

P. S. I can deal with all the WMVM, OWW, Sex Tourist types but THIS is the type of individual that I would be embarrassed to be associated with. Absolutely un-fricking-believable!

[Kvinna]

(there are some
problems,such as no job, she knows I live with Mom and brother,doesn't know I live
in a mobilehome park(ugh!) and other things that I'm embarrased about.

Why not to write the true? That you have no job, no home, no money, that you cannot buy food for tomorrow, but you really wish to meet her in person, so if she can arrange your meeting you would be happy
and see what happens then

[Wayne B]

Hello everyone!!   Haven't posted a very long time, but now I have a situation which
merits a discussion and/or an opinion. I've talked about my RW  Ekaterina(katya) in
previous posts, we've been talking (e-mailing) back& forth for awhile now.This woman
has fallen for me very hard, and now she's asked if it would be o.k if she came to visit
me.She says that we need to take this step to see if we are right for each other. I
would love to finally meet her, but I'm worried that her expectations of me and what
she may think of me may change once she meets me and sees my life(there are some
problems,such as no job, she knows I live with Mom and brother,doesn't know I live
in a mobilehome park(ugh!) and other things that I'm embarrased about. I never,ever
thought she would come here, I technically haven't lied about myself,I just maybe
gave her the wrong impression. Maybe I'm jumping the gun here; she may not even come, but I'm freaked out to the possibility.   Don't know what else; here's a pic!

Dave, why don't you start...by being honest with Katya...and tell her the truth about your status....No problem with living in a trailer park....but, you have to get a job.....because she will not judge you for living in a trailer park....she will judge you for being  less than sincere....When you get a job....and you come straight with her....then maybe....she can come visit with you, mama and your brother....but, you will have to help her with airfare and her visa and she may also need some new cloths for travel..... Oh...you will also need to put aside some extra money for your Doctors Appointment

[Mir]

Well at least he has no worries about loosing money, he hasn't got any

Daveman you are right, its someone having some fun, no one can be that stupid

[AnastassiaAsh]

Who is scamming who, THAT is the question!

Now, that is when I think that antidate exists for all the right reasons.   

[Gator]

Dave,

Tell her you will help her find a job when she visits you.  Ask if she likes erotic dancing because that pays well at a titty bar not far from your home.  The bar is so close that she could walk there in 30 minutes, and that is good because you have no car until she makes enough money to buy one for you.

These little hurdles should not detract from true love.  Love conquers all.

[Patrick]

Oh My. As a rule I read a lot and post very little. This is just too good to let go by and not tell him what a fool and scam artist in making that he is.

    Dave 24 please go away. Please do not take this post any further. Let it die and just go away. I have seen enough grown men make fools of themselves this week. Please and I am begging you, just go get a job. I would suggest a job as a roofer. That way you can be on top of the world and have your head in the clouds everyday and not post such lofty goals for yourself and others like you here on our site. Listen to me Dave, I am saying this for your own good. I am an old man, listen too me son, please just leave while you still have a soul and an ass to sit on. You will thank me for this later.  Man O Man, Ain't life Grand ?

[Admin]

My hunch is the OP is someone seeking to get a rise out of us.

Let the rope play out a little more . . . .

[MaxxumUSA]

Hello everyone!!   Haven't posted a very long time, but now I have a situation which
merits a discussion and/or an opinion. I've talked about my RW  Ekaterina(katya) in
previous posts, we've been talking (e-mailing) back& forth for awhile now.This woman
has fallen for me very hard, and now she's asked if it would be o.k if she came to visit
me.She says that we need to take this step to see if we are right for each other. I
would love to finally meet her, but I'm worried that her expectations of me and what
she may think of me may change once she meets me and sees my life(there are some
problems,such as no job, she knows I live with Mom and brother,doesn't know I live
in a mobilehome park(ugh!) and other things that I'm embarrased about. I never,ever
thought she would come here, I technically haven't lied about myself,I just maybe
gave her the wrong impression. Maybe I'm jumping the gun here; she may not even come, but I'm freaked out to the possibility.   Don't know what else; here's a pic!

Dude...

I have two things to say about this:

1.  If you are for real.  WAKE up!  Sheesh.  You can't do anything without an income.  What else can I say about that?!!!!!

2.  If you are a fake:  Shoo.  Go away.

'nuff said.

[catzenmouse]

Bio says he's 38 from Mass.

Too good to be true! Ladies! Come one! Come All! We have a 38 Y.O. deadbeat from the good ol' USA! Only one lucky winner will get the GC that comes with this devil may care bachelor!

[William3rd]

Ah dint know that they had trailur parks noth of the Mason Dixon line. 

[catzenmouse]

Ah dint know that they had trailur parks noth of the Mason Dixon line. 

Guess it must be Suthern' Springfield.....

[WmGO]

Ah dint know that they had trailur parks noth of the Mason Dixon line. 

Well I was going to say something along those lines myself and you beat me to it : I didn't think that had trailor parks in Massachusetts.
I learn something new every day. 

And yes I think this one is a troll.........

[Daveman]

This just in.... found this in the Trolling Times Estate Sale section...

[Dave24]

Well I asked for it. I asked for some opinions and I get reamed big time!! At least there were a couple of sincere replies(Thank You Will 3rd,Lilly, Kvinna, Wayne B, Gator, and WmGO!!) The rest of
you act as if you 're too smart to get suckered,well I have some advice for ya; If you were in my
place, you probably  would get sucked in too; my life has been shit for so long,any hint of interest from a woman like that would  trap any red-blooded male I know of.  She may not be real or whatever,but at least I was happy for a while anyways. And who knows, she may still want to come, leave me in my delusion for awhile!!!  If you were so smart ,you wouldn't need a site like this
to validate yourselves....

                        Sorry if I'm a little testy,    Dave24

[catzenmouse]

Dave,

 Perhaps the point was lost in the delivery.

 1) If you had spent ANY time reading through this site you would have easily seen a couple of very clear things.
  1A) You need to have a decent income before you can even consider a FSUW
  1B) It is damned near impossible for ANY young pretty FSUW to get a visa go "visit" you

 2) Scammers are ALWAYS too good to be true - go look up old proverb

 3) As your life has been so bad for so long what could have possibly given you the idea that this too good to be true woman would just fall for you over a few letters?

 4) You didn't lie but you weren't exactly honest - What kind of a relationship would you expect to come out of half truths

 5) (My opinion only) You don't need a woman from anywhere right now. You need a job, you need to move out from under Mama's wing, you need to get your priorities in order.

Good luck to you,
 Ken

[Patrick]

Igor is this you playing a trick on us ? Dave 24 the reaming we give you now is not anything like the reaming you will receive if you get stuck in a relationship that you ill prepared for.  It is like the kid in the candy shop who wants 5 pounds of candy. It looks and sounds good at the moment, however there are a lot of aches and pain afterward. Look in the other threads. See what you are in for.

   All or most of the people that reamed you are long term married people. We know what is involved in meeting and keeping one of these ladies happy in life. We all have jobs. Do you ? We all have places to live. Do you? We all bring something to the table . Do you ? We all made multi trips overseas and did what had to be done to make everyone happy. When our wifes got here we did what we had to do to keep them here. Do you have any idea what I am talking about ?*

  Look in a mirror . Look at the photos that you posted of her. Does something look strange to you? Take a good look and give us a honest answer on what you see. Do you speak any Russian ? Can you read any Russian letters ? You seem to have plenty of time to learn if you don't.

   There are a couple of more men you may want to ask about these things. They will also give you some good advice, if you hang around long enough you will find them. Life is grand ain't it ?

[Dave24]

Patrick, youmade good points; I'm sorry if I was ranting earlier, I guess I didn't like the idea of my
dream girl fantasy being stomped to death, but I think its for the best. I  wrote back and told her
everything about me; everything!  Now I wait with baited breath to see what she says.    Man, if
she responds positively and still wants to come(shut up DaveMan!!!)  then I'll be the happiest guy on Earth,but I'm not hanging my hopes on it!!!


                                              Thanx for responding,

                                                               Dave24

[wxman]

Quite confusing. How can she "fall very hard for you" if you have never met? Think about that. Lovely emails without ever meeting is not going to create that feeling. Women are much more cerebral than men and don't just give their heart up to some person sitting behind a computer screen they have never met. Men on the other hand, get a rise in their pants and picture themselves with the picture. They are the ones that fall hard for the image and the lovey dovey letters.  Scammers know that.  I hate seeing anyone getting hurt or taken. If you wish to write her, go ahead. But don't get any emotional attachment to those photos or letters. If she is real, you go meet her. Simple as that. Waiting for some princess to fly to you and create a lifetime of bliss is delusional. Don't get caught in that trap, or this will repeat itself over and over.

[ecr844]

Well I was going to say something along those lines myself and you beat me to it : I didn't think that had trailor parks in Massachusetts.
I learn something new every day. 

And yes I think this one is a troll.........

There are trailer parks there....sadly, more than 1.
Although they aren't carpetbaggers, they're plastic baggers, or as the case maybe bagless.
Shopping carts are fashionable...

 




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